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"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? " A bit of context here would help | |||
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"Flirting is good for the soul! Doesn't mean anything and it can provide a nice happy feeling for those involved." ![]() | |||
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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it" ![]() | |||
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"Yes, it’s a swingers sex site " Agreed don't think I'm cut out for it ![]() | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() Them? People on here you mean? Why would other people's flirty chat piss you off? | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nature of the site mate. Be easy dude " And tell the person who is getting annoyed at you flirting to think about it. ![]() | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() This, beast is quite flirty naturally but if he was aiming all his flirtiness at one person I would want to know why | |||
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"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? " Who's been flirting, sexy boy? xxx ![]() | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() I don't dislike them lol it's just annoys me tbh | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() Dunno it just does piss me off because I thought they fancied me but seems like they don't tbh | |||
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"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? Who's been flirting, sexy boy? xxx ![]() Not you for a start ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() People can fancy more than one person ya know. Is it on fab or in the big bad world? | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() That’s the thing with this site, they might fancy you, but also many others. It could also just be flirty banter. It’s how you deal with it OP | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() Yeah but I just thought they did but now I've seen them flirting with this other person it seems diff so makes me think they don't actually fancy me. It's more my ego annoying me tbh | |||
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"Do you think they’re flirting to make you jealous?" No defo not | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() At least you’re self aware enough to admit it’s your ego | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() I'm not dealing with it anyway really just wanted people's thoughts just gonna leave it at me being pissed off ![]() | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() ![]() Someone has the will power to resist your advances and spurn you for someone else?? ![]() | |||
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"Here is the context. I just constantly see them flirting with another person and it's pissing me off. I ain't doing anything about it ![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly this is my problem I think ![]() | |||
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"If the flirting leads to a meet which leads to more, isn't that why we're all here?" Yes exactly. I'm just annoyed because they prefer someone else over me that's all. Maybe my ego is too big ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No" So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? | |||
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"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? " If it's someone on a swinging site who you've never met/you're not in some sort of exclusive relationship with. Then yeah, I'd say it is. | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? " No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed " That is jealous... ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed " Well done for admitting it however grubby those feelings are. Now comes the fun part of learning to live with it and personal growth. Man. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is it me again ?" No it's me, the monkey | |||
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"Is it wrong to get annoyed at someone else flirting? If it's someone on a swinging site who you've never met/you're not in some sort of exclusive relationship with. Then yeah, I'd say it is." Fair ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed That is jealous... ![]() Really I'm not jealous of the person they're flirting with so please explain ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed " So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. | |||
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"Is it me again ? No it's me, the monkey" You must stop teasing. He's delicate. | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed Well done for admitting it however grubby those feelings are. Now comes the fun part of learning to live with it and personal growth. Man. ![]() ![]() It hasn't really affected me that much just annoying lol don't like being 2nd best | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed That is jealous... ![]() ![]() ![]() Fair enough, it may not be jealous. It is envious though, two sides of the same coin. Doesn't matter if you are annoyed, you want what somebody else has. | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met." I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed That is jealous... ![]() ![]() ![]() Not I'm not envious. I don't want them if I'm not there first choice ![]() | |||
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"I dont understand this thread" Welcome to Fab Sapster ![]() | |||
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"I dont understand this thread" Does it annoy you that you don't understand? Lol | |||
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"I dont understand this thread" What part don't you get ?? | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed That is jealous... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe try tinder, this is a swingers site not dating. Women love the attention as do some of us fellas and on here there are alot more fellas than women sadly. At the end of rhe day she is allowed to do as she pleases, if it makes you feel uncomfortable you are in the wrong place | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that." By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly | |||
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"I dont understand this thread Welcome to Fab Sapster ![]() Thanks Mr Gemini I'm only a little,naive,newbie girly Can you help me please? | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed That is jealous... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I don't feel uncomfortable whatsoever and I'm on tinder -cheers | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly " Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement | |||
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"Yes, it’s a swingers sex site Agreed don't think I'm cut out for it ![]() it eventually moves on from flirting how will you deal with that ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I dont understand this thread Welcome to Fab Sapster ![]() Well first off you let the man put his finger in your belly button (but only if he's wearing rubber gloves) then you watch all the other men get jealous and smile sweetly at them until the next one puts the marigolds on... | |||
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"At least you’re honest enough to admit it OP. V x" ![]() | |||
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"I dont understand this thread Welcome to Fab Sapster ![]() My goodness, yes. They will have to be wearing rubber gloves I dont know where they've been | |||
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" My goodness, yes. They will have to be wearing rubber gloves I dont know where they've been" The rubber glove factory. ![]() | |||
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"I dont understand this thread Welcome to Fab Sapster ![]() Exactly...picking their noses, scratching their bums...could have been anywhere | |||
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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it ![]() I'm one of those annoyers. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement" How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me" What's ridiculous? | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous?" it is ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous?" Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous?" Being annoyed at someone flirting as per your original post | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous?it is ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’d say if it’s making you feel like this before you’ve even met then your feelings will only intensify once you’ve met. The fear that you have of losing them will be the thing that pushes them away. At this stage I would advise you to step back from the situation, try and (discreetly) find a distraction so you’re not focused on them, and then there’ll be a slight shift in the dynamics as they pick up on the fact you’re not completely hung up on them anymore. " Honestly I'm not sitting here constantly thinking about them getting annoyed about how they prefer someone else. Each to there own I don't have strong feelings for them. They can do what they like, my post really should have said would it annoy you this is more what my thread is about not a look at me and feel sorry for me ![]() | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous? Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. " Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? ![]() | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous? Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? ![]() I don't have a gaping hole... ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say" I'm broadcasting my possessiveness ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous? Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? ![]() ![]() Needs work but we will get there! ![]() | |||
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"Why don’t you arrange to meet the person if you like them that much" Don't want to meet them yet | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous? Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? ![]() ![]() have you ever got a hole in one? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() Did we answer wrong? That slag.. she doesn't know what she missing...bitch. teach her a lesson. Flirting little hussy. Wait no. Still don't care. Have a cry wank, you'll be grand. | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() Yes OP it’s human nature. Referring back to your original question, it’s not something that works on this site though | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous? Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Only when the wind blows in the right direction | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() Yes, accept it and move on. You said you thought she fancied you, if she doesn't then no point in being annoyed about it. | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() What doesn't work ? | |||
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"It's a bit ridiculous if you ask me What's ridiculous? Getting jealous of flirting in the ether presumably. Unless some bitch is licking his balls and flashing her gaping hole...we gotta be restrained. Would you lick my balls and flash your gaping hole or would this be classed as unashamedly flirting? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() that'll be the sprouts ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() So it wouldn't annoy you do you not have emotions ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() 57. Now get to bed. You'll be late for school. | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() Wow | |||
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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Human emotion isn’t wrong, it’s how you deal with it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Cares not. One must make ones own amusement ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() shes 35 ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() Come on pickle, I'll tuck you in with a story 'Once upon a time there lived a man who was in love with a princess, the princess loved the stable boy...and so the man burned down the stable. The end' | |||
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"How do you know she prefers them to you?" I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea. It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() Grow up you child | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() No, it wouldn't annoy me. I'd accept it and move on | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() P.s It probably would annoy me, initially. But after being a bit of a twat and letting them know I was annoyed I would get over it. Slowly | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() You'd accept that someone who you thought fancied but clearly fancies someone else more than you wouldn't annoy you? I moved on after about 20 minutes but that initial annoyance was there. It's a simple question you've said no. I would hardly call it ridiculous ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() On fab nothing really is ever fair and that’s whether you’re the chooser or the chosen. If you’re talking to a pool of 5 people one of those will stand out over the rest and that one might be the last person you started speaking to. You don’t want to make anyone feel bad or feel like they’re taking a ticket at the deli to meet you, you can’t exactly say yeah I like you but there’s someone else who I just want to meet that little bit more. Also if you’re one of the chosen and you think things are going well, at any given moment someone else could rise to the top and it becomes a perpetuous cycle of annoyance or hurt feelings. My advise and I’d take it if I were you cos I’m bat shit crazy or was I should say, anyone remember yazoo? I’ve been there when I’ve been jealous or annoyed at people flirting. Just take a step back, get another distraction. Acknowledge that it does hurt your feelings to think someone fancies someone else over you or more than you, do just pull back and they’ll sense that you have and will come back to you to gain your attention again. | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() Honestly it's over and done with I'm over it ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say I'm broadcasting my possessiveness ![]() ![]() ![]() The person in question won't have a clue? Anyone that you have been messaging constantly (your words not mine) would at least suspect you're referring to them. And you can quite easily broadcast possessiveness by posting a forum thread about your annoyance at the fact someone you talk to flirts with others - it really is that simple and no words have been twisted just basic observations based on your posts | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() Oh fucking yazoo was epic..never do that again ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say I'm broadcasting my possessiveness ![]() ![]() ![]() I speak to alot of people constantly, this person on question probably has no idea that I'm even that fussed on them I don't make it clear so your wrong in that aspect. It's not possessiveness either if I told someone I'm annoyed that they like someone else it's having hurt feelings not possessiveness so maybe chose your words more carefully next time. | |||
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"How do you know she prefers them to you? I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea. It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really" Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath. | |||
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"How do you know she prefers them to you? I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea. It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath." As I've said I'm not jealous I was annoyed. Secondly alot of people on here seem to think it's wrong to have any type of feeling about anything which I have seen from past threads alot. As soon as anyone talks about feelings it suddenly comes tabboo it's abit pathetic really | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() Every time I hear Alison Moyet I think of being crazy! I’d like to think I’ve calmed down a lot since. 2017 was a horrific year for me ![]() | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2017 was a bag of dicks. 2020 will be better, it's the year of mad-dog | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What happened in 2017 ? | |||
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"You think it's ridiculous that I'm annoyed because she prefers someone else to me???? I wouldn't call that ridiculous surely that's human nature ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ooooh that takes me back, strawberry mad dog 20/20 and some hooch please! | |||
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"How do you know she prefers them to you? I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea. It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath. As I've said I'm not jealous I was annoyed. Secondly alot of people on here seem to think it's wrong to have any type of feeling about anything which I have seen from past threads alot. As soon as anyone talks about feelings it suddenly comes tabboo it's abit pathetic really" Cam I ask a question? How would you cope if soneone you meet then meets someone else? | |||
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"How do you know she prefers them to you? I just know, it is what it is I'm not even that annoyed about it there's plenty more fish in the sea. It's some of the people on this thread who are annoying me 10x as they all seem to be sociopaths. It's as if because your on fab you shouldn't have feelings it's quite sad really Personally I don't think not being jealous because someone you've PM'd on a swinging site and have never met is flirting with someone else on the forums makes someone devoid of feelings and certainly doesn't make them a sociopath. As I've said I'm not jealous I was annoyed. Secondly alot of people on here seem to think it's wrong to have any type of feeling about anything which I have seen from past threads alot. As soon as anyone talks about feelings it suddenly comes tabboo it's abit pathetic really Cam I ask a question? How would you cope if soneone you meet then meets someone else? " Depends how I felt about them | |||
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"Did I miss understand something. She was flirting with both of you and now because you think she looked more interested in the other guy you are stepping back. Did you ask whether she was still interested in seeing her? She may be wondering why you suddenly stop messaging. Waiting for your email. " No I'm just carrying on as normal it is what it is. They don't know any different and I'm gonna keep it that way. I can tell they prefer this person so that's their choice | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say I'm broadcasting my possessiveness ![]() ![]() ![]() You say po-tar-to I'll say po-tay-to ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm curious, is this someone you've met? No So you're jealous that someone on a swinging site that you haven't even met is not giving you the attention you want? No giving someone else the attention I want. Not jealous just annoyed So less jealous and more possessive is how you see it? And it's someone you've not met. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. How is it possessive to get annoyed that someone prefers someone else to me??, I haven't told them and I am not showing them that I'm annoyed and just leaving it at that. By posting a thread about it you're doing exactly that albeit indirectly Oh dear god what an absolute ridiculous statement How is it ridiculous? You're broadcasting your annoyance and possessiveness across the forums to all and sundry that read them (including possibly the person in question) - I wouldn't think that makes my suggestion as ridiculous as you say I'm broadcasting my possessiveness ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Emotional responses are natural but as humans we don't have to be controlled by them, as we're endowed with rational thinking abilities and some self-control. When we know our objectives for our life, we can live so that we get closer to our fulfillment of them. " I can control them I was asking a question and people have taken it out of proportion. Standard fab | |||
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"I'm trying to add kik and for the life of me I can't get past the robot safety thing " Oh | |||
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"I'm trying to add kik and for the life of me I can't get past the robot safety thing Oh" ![]() ![]() | |||
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