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"For a guy on here? I wasn’t single for a while last year, well up until new year’s day really but I managed to fuck that up. I called time on it to salvage the fact that we were friends for many years prior to hooking up. I know where I went wrong and I managed to put off someone that was basically infatuated with me since they were a teen but without going into detail there and just concentrating on the main point I’m asking which is, is it really worth sticking around here to see if anyone pops up? I know I can try conventional dating sites but I do want a guy with a decent amount of kink who’s open minded so here’s a good a place as any I suppose " No reason why you cant make something work with a guy from here. Best of luck op | |||
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"For a guy on here? I wasn’t single for a while last year, well up until new year’s day really but I managed to fuck that up. I called time on it to salvage the fact that we were friends for many years prior to hooking up. I know where I went wrong and I managed to put off someone that was basically infatuated with me since they were a teen but without going into detail there and just concentrating on the main point I’m asking which is, is it really worth sticking around here to see if anyone pops up? I know I can try conventional dating sites but I do want a guy with a decent amount of kink who’s open minded so here’s a good a place as any I suppose " I met Mr Icebreaker on a swinging site. My advice - if he asks you to masturbate on cam with a cucumber he's a keeper | |||
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"Probably not... you did not get me roaring. With a rocking bod, you just did not make me think that you were really after a great kink experience. When I am out of shape, I talk like you just posted, when I am in shape, I feel like I can take the world.... your talk and photos do not match. You sound like a want add....for a good time at expense.... and more power to you. So... you are hot, advertising that you are up for a good time... it should get you some attention. As for a good time... not likely. I have been on here for a couple years and only have one meeting arranged. I would send you an invite, but I am outside of your age range... on the upper side. That is too bad for you because outside of arms and that redculous 29" wasteline, I meet Arnold Swartznigger measurements and I am pretty easy on the eyes. Still, good luck, but your profile pic is at odds with your story." I don’t fully understand, can you say it again please, in layman’s terms? | |||
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"For a guy on here? I wasn’t single for a while last year, well up until new year’s day really but I managed to fuck that up. I called time on it to salvage the fact that we were friends for many years prior to hooking up. I know where I went wrong and I managed to put off someone that was basically infatuated with me since they were a teen but without going into detail there and just concentrating on the main point I’m asking which is, is it really worth sticking around here to see if anyone pops up? I know I can try conventional dating sites but I do want a guy with a decent amount of kink who’s open minded so here’s a good a place as any I suppose " Out of curiosity I had a look at your profile. It doesn't mentions anything of the things you have said you are looking for You can not expect anyone to "read your mind" put what you want front and center. That will already help x10 more kn Your search | |||
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"For a guy on here? I wasn’t single for a while last year, well up until new year’s day really but I managed to fuck that up. I called time on it to salvage the fact that we were friends for many years prior to hooking up. I know where I went wrong and I managed to put off someone that was basically infatuated with me since they were a teen but without going into detail there and just concentrating on the main point I’m asking which is, is it really worth sticking around here to see if anyone pops up? I know I can try conventional dating sites but I do want a guy with a decent amount of kink who’s open minded so here’s a good a place as any I suppose Out of curiosity I had a look at your profile. It doesn't mentions anything of the things you have said you are looking for You can not expect anyone to "read your mind" put what you want front and center. That will already help x10 more kn Your search " But, youre a mind reader | |||
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"Right we all know I’ve kind of touched upon being stressed through 2016 to 2019. I never went into huge detail cos it was ongoing but it finished in April last year and it went the way I wanted but it took every ounce of strength that I had. When that finished I was at a point where all my friends and family said I needed to look after myself and heal, my gp even said I had PTSD and wanted to prescribe meds but I didn’t want to take anything. I was very fragile, felt like all my strength, confidence, self esteem was all gone so to add dating and relationship stresses I too of what I had just been through the last 3 years was too much for me to handle at once. I reacted at things a normal person would be able to let slide. I know exactly what I did wrong and it changed how he saw me. We could’ve gone on but it was getting to the point where I was making the effort and fuck that. Anyhow I can’t change how I was with him but I can give myself some time now. Know that everyone is safe and everything is dealt with so I can I finally chill. I know I have to be more chilled. " Before looking for anything, look after you first. Always, in everything. I hope you find everything you need OP. | |||
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"For a guy on here? I wasn’t single for a while last year, well up until new year’s day really but I managed to fuck that up. I called time on it to salvage the fact that we were friends for many years prior to hooking up. I know where I went wrong and I managed to put off someone that was basically infatuated with me since they were a teen but without going into detail there and just concentrating on the main point I’m asking which is, is it really worth sticking around here to see if anyone pops up? I know I can try conventional dating sites but I do want a guy with a decent amount of kink who’s open minded so here’s a good a place as any I suppose Out of curiosity I had a look at your profile. It doesn't mentions anything of the things you have said you are looking for You can not expect anyone to "read your mind" put what you want front and center. That will already help x10 more kn Your search But, youre a mind reader " I need to change that name The irony is definitely lost on most people | |||
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"For a guy on here? I wasn’t single for a while last year, well up until new year’s day really but I managed to fuck that up. I called time on it to salvage the fact that we were friends for many years prior to hooking up. I know where I went wrong and I managed to put off someone that was basically infatuated with me since they were a teen but without going into detail there and just concentrating on the main point I’m asking which is, is it really worth sticking around here to see if anyone pops up? I know I can try conventional dating sites but I do want a guy with a decent amount of kink who’s open minded so here’s a good a place as any I suppose Out of curiosity I had a look at your profile. It doesn't mentions anything of the things you have said you are looking for You can not expect anyone to "read your mind" put what you want front and center. That will already help x10 more kn Your search But, youre a mind reader I need to change that name The irony is definitely lost on most people " | |||
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"Probably not... you did not get me roaring. With a rocking bod, you just did not make me think that you were really after a great kink experience. When I am out of shape, I talk like you just posted, when I am in shape, I feel like I can take the world.... your talk and photos do not match. You sound like a want add....for a good time at expense.... and more power to you. So... you are hot, advertising that you are up for a good time... it should get you some attention. As for a good time... not likely. I have been on here for a couple years and only have one meeting arranged. I would send you an invite, but I am outside of your age range... on the upper side. That is too bad for you because outside of arms and that redculous 29" wasteline, I meet Arnold Swartznigger measurements and I am pretty easy on the eyes. Still, good luck, but your profile pic is at odds with your story. I don’t fully understand, can you say it again please, in layman’s terms?" Me either | |||
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"Thanks everyone so far. Yeah I will update my profile but I wanted to explain to the forum people first before they saw my new profile and thought hmm I thought you said you had a boyfriend. I kind of know the tricks to finding genuine single people on here but the problem is *most* guys wouldn’t consider dating a woman from this site, on here what’s good for the gander isn’t good for the goose (that makes sense in my head!) " I dont thinktheir are "tricks" to meeting geniune single people. You can be single and not want a relationship... just sex. How about starting you new profile saying youwant to date with whatever sexual kink you want attached. | |||
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"Thanks everyone so far. Yeah I will update my profile but I wanted to explain to the forum people first before they saw my new profile and thought hmm I thought you said you had a boyfriend. I kind of know the tricks to finding genuine single people on here but the problem is *most* guys wouldn’t consider dating a woman from this site, on here what’s good for the gander isn’t good for the goose (that makes sense in my head!) I dont thinktheir are "tricks" to meeting geniune single people. You can be single and not want a relationship... just sex. How about starting you new profile saying youwant to date with whatever sexual kink you want attached. " Yeah some hints and tips from guys to filter out who just wants sex and who is open to more would be good.... | |||
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"Updated my profile and been messaged by a guy that ticks all my boxes from years ago without me even having to ask for them on my profile!! Years ago I’d state must be extremely good looking, must be over 6 foot, must have big dick, must have dark hair. Now I’m not arsed about height or willy they come through anyway " Your new profile reads really clear now. If anyone contacts with crap like Hey up What you doing Wanna shag That just s them straight out. I think 99% of the issues people have on here are because a lack of communication on both sides | |||
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