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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I’ve been off the market awhile and just wondered how to get into fab and swinging in general.

Is it better to update stalk your preferred partners, go on the forum or just sit back and hope some takes pity on you and sends you an invite.

Genuine question all help appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male, I wouldn't recommend the 'sit back and wait' approach, as you'll be waiting a very long time.

Wouldn't revommend stalking either, but you certainly need to be pro-active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it better to update stalk your preferred partners, go on the forum or just sit back and hope some takes pity on you and sends you an invite."

None of these things

Go to a local social, meet people, etc. Then you have a few veris and maybe meet some people you fancy who also fancy you.

Then just message people you're interested in, and be somewhat interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be positive..read profiles. All the way thru.. don't send dick pictures.. . Always have a face pic on your profile but also leave some good ones on your friends only . If they like you they will want to see more of you.. sell your self on your profile .. trust me it works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys much appreciated

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Join in the forums, attend a few socials and generally just get yourself known. That won't necessarily guarantee a night of passion with the victim of your choice, but it's a step in the right direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jion in the forums.

Attend social events.

Read profiles and on message those you think you fit.

Don't overthink it or take rejection personally.

Good luck OP.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Jion in the forums.

Attend social events.

Read profiles and on message those you think you fit.

Don't overthink it or take rejection personally.

Good luck OP. "

Also send her cock pics it works

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

One recommendation from me - be nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am good at that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jion in the forums.

Attend social events.

Read profiles and on message those you think you fit.

Don't overthink it or take rejection personally.

Good luck OP.

Also send her cock pics it works "

Sod off you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One recommendation from me - be nice. "

You are lovely. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jion in the forums.

Attend social events.

Read profiles and on message those you think you fit.

Don't overthink it or take rejection personally.

Good luck OP. "

Thanks

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"One recommendation from me - be nice.

You are lovely. X"

I know.

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By *idan31Man
over a year ago

ashby

I’m no expert ...

be proactive. Read people’s profiles, understand what they’re looking for. But be polite, friendly and patient.

I’ve met some lovely people on fab, but it doesn’t happen overnight...

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