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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone." Its a genuine fear, or at least can cause high anxiety. It can also be the sign of a catfish too. | |||
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"Probably more reluctant to divulge their number rather than a fear of speaking " Also another reason! | |||
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"Probably the numbers thing. Giving out your number to strangers x " and yet they want to get intimate with "strangers" | |||
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"Because they dont want to be exposed for Not being who they say they before they’ve collected a few pics or exchanged wank fodder messages. Or could be they’re on fab incognito and a phone convo would raise questions from a spouse? " Or they genuinely don't like talking on the phone and/or giving their number out. I refuse to talk on the phone before meeting simply because I don't want people having my number, if they don't like that, tough, we won't be meeting. | |||
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"Probably the numbers thing. Giving out your number to strangers x and yet they want to get intimate with "strangers"" So? I might want to shag them but don't want them ringing me or adding me on facebook. | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. " I'm the same, it's a real phobia Relieved to know I'm not the only one | |||
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"Probably the numbers thing. Giving out your number to strangers x and yet they want to get intimate with "strangers"" Who would then potentially have access to our other social media. No thanks. We wouldn't give our phone numbers out. If it's a deal breaker, then so be it, but it doesn't make us catfish | |||
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"Probably the numbers thing. Giving out your number to strangers x and yet they want to get intimate with "strangers" So? I might want to shag them but don't want them ringing me or adding me on facebook. " Exactly this | |||
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"Because they dont want to be exposed for Not being who they say they before they’ve collected a few pics or exchanged wank fodder messages. Or could be they’re on fab incognito and a phone convo would raise questions from a spouse? " I'm none of the above. I worked in a call centre for 8 year's yet the thought of chatting to people on the phone literally make my tummy flip. I can't tell you why. I used to actively participate in phone sex regularly (not in the call centre ) but all of a sudden talking to someone on here just makes me really anxious. | |||
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"Probably more reluctant to divulge their number rather than a fear of speaking Also another reason! " | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone." I'm not scared of a phone call but there is no way I'd do a call for a meet x | |||
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"Probably the numbers thing. Giving out your number to strangers x and yet they want to get intimate with "strangers" So? I might want to shag them but don't want them ringing me or adding me on facebook. " | |||
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"Strange thing although I know some fear it. But if they cant talk on a phone I wonder how they manage meeting face to face.... You know that old fashioned way that friends used to share time thoughts dreams and life together..... " | |||
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"We have a seperate play phone, no excuse to not have one. A cheap pay as u go will do." Actually I've got a great excuse. I don't want one. | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone." more about number i agree you can tell whether they have a personality by speaking on phone though | |||
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"We have a seperate play phone, no excuse to not have one. A cheap pay as u go will do. Actually I've got a great excuse. I don't want one." nor me | |||
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"I hate speaking on the phone too. I have very occasionally chatted before a meet (withholding my number) but if someone pushes me to call, I’ll look elsewhere " | |||
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"The problem here is that people think that their way is the only way, if you like a phone call before a meet, that's fine, but you should accept that some people don't want to, that doesn't mean they are fake, lying, catfishing etc. " | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone." Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. | |||
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"Strange thing although I know some fear it. But if they cant talk on a phone I wonder how they manage meeting face to face.... You know that old fashioned way that friends used to share time thoughts dreams and life together..... " I manage very well face to face. I’m a confident, sociable person. I just prefer to look someone in the eye when I’m talking to them. I love that personal interaction. A picture paints a thousand words ( or something like that) | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone. Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. " There's loads of us who won't do it and we aren't dodgy. Just accept that some people don't want to without accusing them of stuff. | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone. Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. " | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone. Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. " | |||
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"The problem here is that people think that their way is the only way, if you like a phone call before a meet, that's fine, but you should accept that some people don't want to, that doesn't mean they are fake, lying, catfishing etc. " spot on | |||
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"The problem here is that people think that their way is the only way, if you like a phone call before a meet, that's fine, but you should accept that some people don't want to, that doesn't mean they are fake, lying, catfishing etc. " Yet again keely has the hammer the nail and she hits it right on the head!!! T | |||
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"The problem here is that people think that their way is the only way, if you like a phone call before a meet, that's fine, but you should accept that some people don't want to, that doesn't mean they are fake, lying, catfishing etc. Yet again keely has the hammer the nail and she hits it right on the head!!! T" I do like my trusty hammer lol | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone." The key in all that is "early phone contact" - I wouldn't give my number out to a random person on the internet who I've exchanged a couple of messages with - I'll happily do so to someone I have established a connection with and intend meeting though. Yes there is the PAYG option but being honest, why should I go to the effort of running two phones one for here, and one for everyday use? Especially as I am perfectly happy with how I choose to approach Fab and giving out my number. If others don't accept that is how I run my Fab time then frankly we're not on the same page and they wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet. Once again this all just comes across to me as a pointless exercise in worrying about how others choose to run their profiles when their way differs from your own. Yes there *are* those that will have shady reasons for not wanting to give out their number, but there are also plenty who have very genuine and valid reasons too | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone. Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. " This is so far from the truth it’s actually laughable. I have nothing to hide from anyone. Not a catfish. Not a guy. I defo meet. I’m defo genuine. I just wanna keep my real life and my fab life separate and I don’t even speak to my own mother on the phone so I’m certainly not gonna do it with a stranger to prove a point. | |||
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"We have a seperate play phone, no excuse to not have one. A cheap pay as u go will do. Actually I've got a great excuse. I don't want one." Exactly I have one phone I don't want another one. I don't talk before meets on the phone no one I have ever met has had an issue either with that. If they do then I don't meet them. Only 2 people on here have my number and that is because I trust them. | |||
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"Strange thing although I know some fear it. But if they cant talk on a phone I wonder how they manage meeting face to face.... You know that old fashioned way that friends used to share time thoughts dreams and life together..... I manage very well face to face. I’m a confident, sociable person. I just prefer to look someone in the eye when I’m talking to them. I love that personal interaction. A picture paints a thousand words ( or something like that) " Quite agree. Face to face is always better. All those non verbal signals make up a huge part of all communication that can never be replicated by txt alone. Even the tone of voice adds subtlety and nuance that txt alone can never achieve so voices have an important place in all communication. Hearing anothers voice can add so much to any conversation. Yet it's up to each to choose if or how they want to interact with another... | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone. Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. " I dont want to have a phone call... I'm not dodgy. Just not how I do things. I accept that many people wont want to meet me how I meet.. it's not a problem.. I just accept everyone had their own way of doing things x | |||
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"I actually prefer to talk to someone, even better video chat. There's a few ways to do it without giving your number out. Text can be interpretated wrongly quite easily. " Loooool ring me | |||
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"I love fo chit chat on the phone. That’s because I’m a chatterbox " Only menus xx and recipes | |||
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"I love fo chit chat on the phone. That’s because I’m a chatterbox " . And you're drop dead gorgeous xx | |||
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"Strange thing although I know some fear it. But if they cant talk on a phone I wonder how they manage meeting face to face.... You know that old fashioned way that friends used to share time thoughts dreams and life together..... I manage very well face to face. I’m a confident, sociable person. I just prefer to look someone in the eye when I’m talking to them. I love that personal interaction. A picture paints a thousand words ( or something like that) Quite agree. Face to face is always better. All those non verbal signals make up a huge part of all communication that can never be replicated by txt alone. Even the tone of voice adds subtlety and nuance that txt alone can never achieve so voices have an important place in all communication. Hearing anothers voice can add so much to any conversation. Yet it's up to each to choose if or how they want to interact with another..." I don’t like the sound of my voice! Maybe that’s why I don’t like the phone Couldn’t agree more that we should all be free to choose how we communicate x | |||
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"I ask to do this and always say that if they don't want me to know their number then to just withhold it and i'll still answer; it's still surprising how many won't do that which only leads me to one conclusion." Another one who thinks you must swing their way or you're *insert attempted insult here* | |||
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"I ask to do this and always say that if they don't want me to know their number then to just withhold it and i'll still answer; it's still surprising how many won't do that which only leads me to one conclusion." That they don't like to talk on the phone? | |||
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"And another one that jumps to the wrong conclusions without even asking" Funny that since you said in your post that you get led to a conclusion, which most likely us wrong. Pot, kettle much? | |||
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"And another one that jumps to the wrong conclusions without even asking" I have to ask What conclusion were you led to in your post previous to this? | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. I'm the same, it's a real phobia Relieved to know I'm not the only one " Me too!! I have to prepare myself, write everything down, practise breathing even to pick up the phone. I'm ok with my kids or parents, anyone else is awful. I've had certain men on here give me abuse because I wouldn't phone chat with them. All that did was convince me I'd swerved a bullet. Showed themselves up for the nasty people they are! | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. I'm the same, it's a real phobia Relieved to know I'm not the only one Me too!! I have to prepare myself, write everything down, practise breathing even to pick up the phone. I'm ok with my kids or parents, anyone else is awful. I've had certain men on here give me abuse because I wouldn't phone chat with them. All that did was convince me I'd swerved a bullet. Showed themselves up for the nasty people they are!" That's exactly what this thread is doing for me. | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. I'm the same, it's a real phobia Relieved to know I'm not the only one Me too!! I have to prepare myself, write everything down, practise breathing even to pick up the phone. I'm ok with my kids or parents, anyone else is awful. I've had certain men on here give me abuse because I wouldn't phone chat with them. All that did was convince me I'd swerved a bullet. Showed themselves up for the nasty people they are! That's exactly what this thread is doing for me." This! | |||
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"As a guy, if I refuse to talk on the phone, does that make me a catfish? " Apparently yes | |||
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"As a guy, if I refuse to talk on the phone, does that make me a catfish? Apparently yes" | |||
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"As a guy, if I refuse to talk on the phone, does that make me a catfish? Apparently yes " | |||
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"I will only chat on the phone if I intend on meeting them" Damn. And I wanted you to hear my sexy voice. | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. " Same here with me, always have been. I rather text someone. But yes I will answer and speak on the phone if needs be | |||
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"I wouldn’t talk to someone on the phone if they demanded it to prove I’m real. The conversation would be too stunted and forced. But if you’ve been messaging a lot and have a lot to say I’ll call, because then it will be a nice natural flow of conversation. As I’ve said, I’m a chatterbox so the problem is getting me off the phone " Sorry, what did you say? | |||
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"I wouldn’t talk to someone on the phone if they demanded it to prove I’m real. The conversation would be too stunted and forced. But if you’ve been messaging a lot and have a lot to say I’ll call, because then it will be a nice natural flow of conversation. As I’ve said, I’m a chatterbox so the problem is getting me off the phone Sorry, what did you say? " | |||
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"They've not managed to perfect the art of having a second SIM for sex contacts yet, for various reasons. Maybe they got a bit close to being caught out trying to cheat before, when their partner checked browsing, call and texting history before. For many, their sexual repertoire relates to tugging, whilst someone supplies them with suitable materials only. " | |||
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"I wouldn’t talk to someone on the phone if they demanded it to prove I’m real. The conversation would be too stunted and forced. But if you’ve been messaging a lot and have a lot to say I’ll call, because then it will be a nice natural flow of conversation. As I’ve said, I’m a chatterbox so the problem is getting me off the phone Sorry, what did you say? " You know I'd listen to your voice anytime. | |||
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"I wouldn’t talk to someone on the phone if they demanded it to prove I’m real. The conversation would be too stunted and forced. But if you’ve been messaging a lot and have a lot to say I’ll call, because then it will be a nice natural flow of conversation. As I’ve said, I’m a chatterbox so the problem is getting me off the phone Sorry, what did you say? You know I'd listen to your voice anytime. " I dunno. I’m southern, I know my accent is like nails on a chalk board to anyone north of Watford | |||
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"I have a fab phone and only a few people have the number. " Giz it | |||
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"I have a fab phone and only a few people have the number. Giz it " You'll have to message me first. I'm not that easy..... OK maybe I am. | |||
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"Probably more reluctant to divulge their number rather than a fear of speaking " Don’t need a number of using kik I no longer have a mobile so I don’t chat to anyone unless we meet in person | |||
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"Because they dont want to be exposed for Not being who they say they before they’ve collected a few pics or exchanged wank fodder messages. Or could be they’re on fab incognito and a phone convo would raise questions from a spouse? " What she said its crazy ppl give so many excuses not to speak but then will have "phone sex"under their Interests | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. " I'm the same. Much happier texting or emailing (better still messaging!!!) | |||
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"Strange thing although I know some fear it. But if they cant talk on a phone I wonder how they manage meeting face to face.... You know that old fashioned way that friends used to share time thoughts dreams and life together..... " Face to Face I'm fine. Just the phone makes feel panicked. | |||
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"Don't meet people with mental health problems." Who was that aimed at? | |||
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"Don't meet people with mental health problems." Hate to break it to you, but odds are you have a mental health problem of some form yourself. It would be extremely rare if you didn't. Since you are a couple, even more rare that you both don't. Have a nice day! | |||
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"Probably more reluctant to divulge their number rather than a fear of speaking " Yes, I've had occasion in the past to regret giving someone my number. It is very rare nowadays that I part company with it. | |||
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"Don't meet people with mental health problems." Statistically at least 1 in 4 people have some kind of mental health issue. In reality, I suspect it is even higher than that. Many people hide their issues well, because of the stigma. So what I am saying is... chances are, you already have. | |||
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"I struggle having a phone conversation before a face to face meeting and that has a lot to do with being very aware of how dependant I am on facial expressions and body language. It is only when I know someone well enough that I can imagine their expressions as they talk that I feel really comfortable chatting to them on the phone." Here here ..couldn’t explain it better | |||
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"I hate chatting on the phone, just like webchat and stuff. It’s not because i’m a catfish. It’s because i’m shy. The ability to chat to someone i don’t know for longer than a minute, without getting a mental block and turning into a self concious wreck is not a skill i possess. And it usually ends up with them getting a bit sexual which makes the phone chat awkward. It’s not something i look to. If someone wants me to prove who i am i am happy to send a vid saying a pre disclosed comment or something, but that’s it. And i wouldn’t be doing it with my tits out either. " oh speak to me cmon dont be shy | |||
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"I hate with a passion speaking on the phone even with friends and family. I just get really anxious. I'm the same, it's a real phobia Relieved to know I'm not the only one " I'm OK with friends and family, but struggle with a new person. Not quite a phobia or anxiety.... just a thing... no explanation.. | |||
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"Don't meet people with mental health problems." Noted and blocked | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone." I hate the sound of my voice | |||
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"Why are so many so scared to speak on the phone? We prefer early phone contact, yet most all on here are reluctant to speak on the phone. Usually because they are not who they say they are. There are so many bullshit excuses about not giving numbers out but everyone has an old phone these days payg sims are free so there is no excuse for not talking on a swing phone there really isn't. If someone won't have a phone conversation when interest has been expressed then there is something dodgy going on. " I have an old phone. It's the reason I got a new phone. Half the screen is black on it, the battery lasts about an hour so I'm not really sure why I kept it. PAYG sims may be free but surely you'd need to top it up to be able to actually use it or activate it? There's this other thing you can do which isn't entirely foolproof but does go some way in checking people are real. Read their veris. If myself and B lived together a fab phone is something I'd definitely consider, but even then with him working away most of the time it would be very one sided so that wouldn't be fair. P | |||
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