FabSwingers.com forum: Who knows that you swing?

By *utton Simon OP Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Survey 1 2020: Other than those you meet via here or at clubs, Do any of your neighbours, friends, work colleagues or even family ( other than your partner) know that you swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of friends do

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nope

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The people I meet for sex or socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We are very open and honest with regards to our life. If people don’t approve, that’s their problem. Granted we don’t tell every single person, but we’d have no issue if those we hadn’t discovered it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If people ask, I tell them, same as my sexuality, but I don't go shouting about it from the rooftops

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

A few close friends of both genders know, in varying amounts of detail, but the family live in blissful ignorance & long may thay continue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my family do, my friends do and all my work colleagues do. Basically everyone around me knows. I felt being open about my trans self, social life etc made me feel better instead of hiding it. I've had no issues with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I know. Including my parents I think.

Don’t want my boss knowing tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

nope and plan on keeping it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of my friends do

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Lots of people, Friends,family, people i've worked with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one yet but then we don’t know many people and live in the middle of nowhere but have nothing to be ashamed of yet!!!!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

My family & older children know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2 best mates

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Our friends do, work do.

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By *ndiscloseddesiresWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham

I am in the education sector... At a religious school. So can't be as open as I'd hope to be. It would be a bit of a scandal if it got out at work

Two friends know, as well as my hubby. That is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am ugly to most so I don't give a fuck who knows I am on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife and a couple of friends know, but that’s it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closest friends at work and our older son and daughter...we like to be honest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest daughter knows.

She was on here before me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those I meet.

Others have no need to know.

Perhaps one day it may change, but only for a proper real relationship. If that happens I wouldn't be here anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone lol dont have to worry looking over my shoulder for people whos opinions dont mean anything to me xxxx

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

One good friend and work colleague

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

Some family and friends know some of it but never use the word. I am open if they want to talk about my life they know little about anyone else who is in it though, Chelle x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I technically don't swing, but my closest friends who I trust 100% know I'm on here.

They don't really care to be honest

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

No one knows I’m on Fab, well apart from one woman I met at a social recently.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

We are quite open about our lifestyle! We find people to be inquisitive more than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t swing

So ... no one

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"We are quite open about our lifestyle! We find people to be inquisitive more than anything else "

Same here. Our family, friends, work colleagues etc generally know. Family members don't ask, but others do. We've found that being open and honest about our lifestyle helps people understand what we do and why, which makes them less likely to judge us our jump to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a Soul... apart from everyone here now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"We are quite open about our lifestyle! We find people to be inquisitive more than anything else "

When I worked on a particular building site, one young lad would always ask me on Monday morning break, "Have you done any swinging this weekend Rich?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Survey 1 2020: Other than those you meet via here or at clubs, Do any of your neighbours, friends, work colleagues or even family ( other than your partner) know that you swing? "

Family and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one apart from those I know on here

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over a year ago

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

"I am ugly to most so I don't give a fuck who knows I am on here "

Please don’t be so hard on yourself; there’s always someone who has interests in all types.

Wee suggestion; update your profile and keep the poem for the short stories/poems thread? Also do more socials; helps you meet folk that you can build up long term (as you’ve said that’s your preferred way)

Millie x

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