FabSwingers.com forum: How do you flirt?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m in the play park with my boys, a regular thing (obviously before you get on, not everyone wants to flirt / have sex). Chatting with people becomes common and easy. I always find myself checking ring fingers and flirting.

My question is, how do you flirt?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tbh as am really shit at the whole flirting thing and never know when guys/girls flirt with me that's how bad it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outrageously... lots of mischievious eye contact and banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Outrageously... lots of mischievious eye contact and banter"

Yep....that’ll do it

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Female here don't know how to lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I’m just terrible at it, then say something stupid and feel awkward and then... yeah success rate, zero.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No idea how to. Be friendly and hope they approach

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I like to stare without blinking until they become uncomfortable and walk away, and then I like to follow at no great distance.

It doesn't have the highest success rate if I'm completely honest, but one day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just kind of happens, I don't think I've ever made the decision consciously to flirt with anyone.

For me it's a 2 way thing, we bounce off each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to stare without blinking until they become uncomfortable and walk away, and then I like to follow at no great distance.

It doesn't have the highest success rate if I'm completely honest, but one day..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’m such a flirt. Eyes, words, body language are my weapons of choice

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) I have no idea how to flirt and have no idea if anyone is flirting with me

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Eye contact, laughter, being tactile - I suppose I can do it subtly, but i'm usually really obvious

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Oh I’m such a flirt. Eyes, words, body language are my weapons of choice

You're a flirt? Since when?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to stare without blinking until they become uncomfortable and walk away, and then I like to follow at no great distance.

It doesn't have the highest success rate if I'm completely honest, but one day..."

Hahaha I’m pretty sure that’s some form of stalking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and go with the mood and who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a year of avoiding flirting im not sure i remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am terrible... I don't really identify it. And in the real wotld guys will think I am flirting when I am in fact just chatting.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m great at flirting when I think it’s just all for laughs, but bloody awful at it when I think they might be serious, I just get all goofy and tongue tied

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"(Lou) I have no idea how to flirt and have no idea if anyone is flirting with me

Don't I know it

To be fair I'm the same because I'm very chatty and outgoing I just think others are the same and that's it !

Part of my profession I have to read people and work with their triggers/buying signals but that's easy because it's detached and clinical, where emotions of affection and lust are concerned I'm about as good at reading signals as Hippo on roller skates !!!

Ray

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

When I try flirting it turns out creepy so I don’t even try anymore

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I can be an outrageous flirt at times, and very demur at others.

It all starts with the eyes

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"I can be an outrageous flirt at times, and very demur at others.

It all starts with the eyes

Only 7% of communication is verbal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t go anywhere to flirt with anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m great at flirting when I think it’s just all for laughs, but bloody awful at it when I think they might be serious, I just get all goofy and tongue tied

I can relate to this.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

I am ask them silly questions on the "get to know you" thread....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Badly I presume nobody would want to flirt with me so I'm just friendly with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward "

I’m much the same. I can’t flirt to save my life , I wouldn’t know if someone fancied me unless they directly told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Badly I presume nobody would want to flirt with me so I'm just friendly with everyone. "

Same , everyone in work say I’m a big flirt but I just talk to anyone and I talk a lot ! And I’m really friendly and outgoing to everyone I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dreadfully

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Dreadfully

I don’t know - rubbing your norks in my face was pretty effective

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I like to dry hump their leg and pant heavily whilst winking.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I like to dry hump their leg and pant heavily whilst winking."

And what about when you really really like someone?

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I just shuffle from foot to foot and mumble incomprehensible gibberish. Bit like on the forums really....

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

I throw money over them

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

As a man , overly confident and a bit cheeky .

As "Chloe" in clubs, big smiles and very touchy with loads of eye contact . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beast is a big flirt. He will deny it but he's naturally flirtatious

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

I am rubbish at flirting, absolutely zero skills in that area and have never been able to tell if someone was flirting with me, I need someone to be pretty blatent!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward

I’m much the same. I can’t flirt to save my life , I wouldn’t know if someone fancied me unless they directly told me.

I can chat along all day to any one. But I’m always the last to know that some one is flirting with me. I just assume they’re being friendly back

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I don’t really, I become sheepish and awkward

I’m much the same. I can’t flirt to save my life , I wouldn’t know if someone fancied me unless they directly told me.

I can chat along all day to any one. But I’m always the last to know that some one is flirting with me. I just assume they’re being friendly back "

Reading the replies it seems most of us are like this

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Badly

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

I ask them for directions and then point while flexing my biceps

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

Terribly

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I use my sillyness to my advantage

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Badly.. I’m more a slap on the back everyone’s a mate kinda girl..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt in a skirt

my name is bert

I love a bit of dirt

am on sex alert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Badly

I came here to say this, but you beat me to it.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Badly.. I’m more a slap on the back everyone’s a mate kinda girl.. "

Ohhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oi oi you looking for me, well my mirror in my knickers just did

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't know if I do. I tend to geek out and waffle about any and every (very much every) thing. Or just adjust my top a couple of times and that's me sorted.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Quite awkwardly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come here and just kiss me

shut up and kiss me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my sillyness to my advantage

come here and say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am terrible at flirting

useless even

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I don't think I do

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

Look them deep in the eyes and then tell them I'm not interested

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

I’m either useless at it or brilliant and completely unaware of it, so never see it through.

I suspect the former is true.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Pathetically

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By *ssexhamptonMan
over a year ago

Rayleigh

Get yer coat you've pulled.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Flirting is a fine art .... it doesn’t go hand in hand with ‘letching’ which is where a considerable number of men end up!! It’s not a desirable place to be

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm crap at flirting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm crap at flirting. "
try me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirting is a fine art .... it doesn’t go hand in hand with ‘letching’ which is where a considerable number of men end up!! It’s not a desirable place to be

I don’t think one can try and flirt. It’s like being sexy you can’t try and be sexy. You either are or you’re not. If you try at these things I don’t think it works.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"So I’m in the play park with my boys, a regular thing (obviously before you get on, not everyone wants to flirt / have sex). Chatting with people becomes common and easy. I always find myself checking ring fingers and flirting.

My question is, how do you flirt?! "

I ask lots of questions, you’ll quickly know if they’re interested or not! Try the supermarket checkout you have such a limited time window, and much more of a challenge!

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

submissive land

Oh god I'm a terrible flirt

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I am rubbish at flirting, absolutely zero skills in that area and have never been able to tell if someone was flirting with me, I need someone to be pretty blatent!!

FAF?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Flirting is a fine art .... it doesn’t go hand in hand with ‘letching’ which is where a considerable number of men end up!! It’s not a desirable place to be

I don’t think one can try and flirt. It’s like being sexy you can’t try and be sexy. You either are or you’re not. If you try at these things I don’t think it works. "

Exactly

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm pretty crap at it but usually you can pick up from eye contact and those little smiles and the way you both are around each other if there's an attraction, then it just kinda happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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i dont i just tend to go red and mumble

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Badly & we don’t recognise it from others either a lot of the time

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

With my eyes and my smile.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I’m such a flirt. Eyes, words, body language are my weapons of choice

Teach us. Im a massive flirt but im not always confident if i really like them all my flirt drys me up and am like...hi....nice weather aint it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite tactile, I like sitting very close teasing with my fingers and love to see a woman’s pupils dilate when I flirt with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just smile a lot and get a tad excited and talk for ages about history .

Am I doing something wrong ?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I don’t think I’m any good at it, I just smile a lot and get tongue tied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m any good at it, I just smile a lot and get tongue tied"

I find that’s the perfect moment to lean in for a little kiss..

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Flirting is one of life's pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love flirting but gets me into trouble

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