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"I don't think in terms of "success" when it comes to messages, and haven't sent a "cold" message in a long time - in fact I know precisely how many of that type of message I've sent in my three years here...six...and of those I got five replies none of which led to anything more than a chat but they all included a little about me, why I was writing, why I liked their profile and inviting them to take a look at mine and get back to me if they felt so inclined...they were all respectful, considerate and didn't include any mention of sex" 5 replies out of 6, teach me your ways! | |||
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"about the numbers game that works... Could very well be that those who are successful in cold messaging don't ever vernture into the forums but let see. What has been your most successful cold message? FAF? Meet now? Horny? Hey? All other vacuous variants wanted. The threads about this are usually negative and derisory. I'd like to hear success stories and why you think you got a woman's attention with it? " I doubt that people who put that little effort into a message are likely to provide an erudite forum post about their positive experiences. I don't think many of them could honestly say that reading and writing was their forté. | |||
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"about the numbers game that works... Could very well be that those who are successful in cold messaging don't ever vernture into the forums but let see. What has been your most successful cold message? FAF? Meet now? Horny? Hey? All other vacuous variants wanted. The threads about this are usually negative and derisory. I'd like to hear success stories and why you think you got a woman's attention with it? I doubt that people who put that little effort into a message are likely to provide an erudite forum post about their positive experiences. I don't think many of them could honestly say that reading and writing was their forté. " Seemingly flawless logic but I'm still hoping for some gems | |||
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"I don't think in terms of "success" when it comes to messages, and haven't sent a "cold" message in a long time - in fact I know precisely how many of that type of message I've sent in my three years here...six...and of those I got five replies none of which led to anything more than a chat but they all included a little about me, why I was writing, why I liked their profile and inviting them to take a look at mine and get back to me if they felt so inclined...they were all respectful, considerate and didn't include any mention of sex 5 replies out of 6, teach me your ways! " I've given you all you need in my earlier response | |||
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"about the numbers game that works... Could very well be that those who are successful in cold messaging don't ever vernture into the forums but let see. What has been your most successful cold message? FAF? Meet now? Horny? Hey? All other vacuous variants wanted. The threads about this are usually negative and derisory. I'd like to hear success stories and why you think you got a woman's attention with it? are you like one of these comedians who gets people to tell jokes and you use them yourself on stage, my prized best lines are phenomenal can't just give them away lol " Shhh don't spill my gig here! Actually just wanted to put a positive spin on the useless and often irritating art of cold messaging | |||
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"After playing a game of dares on here with a friend I was dared to cold message someone from my hotlist who I'd never spoken to before. One humourous sexual poem later and a connection was made You never know who is the next right person for you, so why not take a risk and see what happens and no you cant have my poem " Damn, took the words out of my mouth! Wont tell anyone else... Promise | |||
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"I think my most successful one was You’re handsome Truth ... he was " Good of you to be honest | |||
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"After playing a game of dares on here with a friend I was dared to cold message someone from my hotlist who I'd never spoken to before. One humourous sexual poem later and a connection was made You never know who is the next right person for you, so why not take a risk and see what happens and no you cant have my poem " Reminds me I once wrote a pretty long poem to this girl I really liked the look of. Cringe | |||
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