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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are 2 women on my friends list that I've never spoke to, they've never messaged, nothing.

They friend requested me ages ago, I sent message after message to say hello and thank you and generally be social, but nothing.

They look lovely and don't want to delete them.

So frustrating.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Are you sure they're really women? They probably wanted to see your friends pics.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Are you sure they're really women? They probably wanted to see your friends pics. "

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I never accept a friends request from someone I haven't chatted with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never accept a friends request from someone I haven't chatted with."

This

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) we dont accept friends requests if we have not messaged or spoke to in a club previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Lou) we dont accept friends requests if we have not messaged or spoke to in a club previously "

Ditto.. i did a delete on a load of people on my friends list on newyears dsy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sure they're really women? They probably wanted to see your friends pics. "

Definitely chick, these are genuine. I've had the pic collectors, can tell them a mile away. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you've never spoken, how do you know anything about them?

Personally anyone who sends me a friend request without talking to me I assume something is wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never accept a friends request from someone I haven't chatted with."

I suppose a guy my age is just flattered!!

I'm careful though x

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"(Lou) we dont accept friends requests if we have not messaged or spoke to in a club previously

Ditto.. i did a delete on a load of people on my friends list on newyears dsy "

We only have a few friends on here but would like more, however it seems a lot only want to be friends if there is a chance of a meet, which I get, but sometimes it's nice to have non-sexual chats or just meet up for drinks and a natter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never accept a friends request from someone I haven't chatted with."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you've never spoken, how do you know anything about them?

Personally anyone who sends me a friend request without talking to me I assume something is wrong "

That's just it, I don't know anything about them, but want to.

I know in my gut they're genuine. I've been on here more years than most to spot the fakes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So two “women” send you friend requests and don’t message you or interact with you and you think they’re genuine ladies?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"If you've never spoken, how do you know anything about them?

Personally anyone who sends me a friend request without talking to me I assume something is wrong

That's just it, I don't know anything about them, but want to.

I know in my gut they're genuine. I've been on here more years than most to spot the fakes. X"

So it sounds like they just wanted to see your friends pics then. If they had genuine interest they would have told you so. Some people just like to collect "friends". I would delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they wanted to interact with you, they would reply to your messages.

I imagine they have more guys in their friends list they don't speak to.

Just delete them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So two “women” send you friend requests and don’t message you or interact with you and you think they’re genuine ladies?

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One of them definitely is. I'll delete the other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they wanted to interact with you, they would reply to your messages.

I imagine they have more guys in their friends list they don't speak to.

Just delete them and move on."

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you've never spoken, how do you know anything about them?

Personally anyone who sends me a friend request without talking to me I assume something is wrong

That's just it, I don't know anything about them, but want to.

I know in my gut they're genuine. I've been on here more years than most to spot the fakes. X"

No point flogging a dead horse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you've never spoken, how do you know anything about them?

Personally anyone who sends me a friend request without talking to me I assume something is wrong

That's just it, I don't know anything about them, but want to.

I know in my gut they're genuine. I've been on here more years than most to spot the fakes. X

So it sounds like they just wanted to see your friends pics then. If they had genuine interest they would have told you so. Some people just like to collect "friends". I would delete them. "

Yeah I'm going to chick, make room for others! x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Bloody hell i’m just finishing off drying out my fanny after watching your video.

strewth!!!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"If you've never spoken, how do you know anything about them?

Personally anyone who sends me a friend request without talking to me I assume something is wrong

That's just it, I don't know anything about them, but want to.

I know in my gut they're genuine. I've been on here more years than most to spot the fakes. X

So it sounds like they just wanted to see your friends pics then. If they had genuine interest they would have told you so. Some people just like to collect "friends". I would delete them.

Yeah I'm going to chick, make room for others! x"

Get far too many invites from blank profiles that just want to have a nose at our private pics.

We explain we only accept invites after chatting, suddenly we’re the difficult ones !

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