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"Kick in the dick doesn't hurt anymore than a leg, kick in the balls on the other hand... " Yeah, kinda agree, but it's still nothing like childbirth | |||
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"Just find it a bit rude to have what I went through lessened by some guy who can never understand the pain. You literally feel like your body is being ripped in half and it’s hours and hours of it! " Totally agree with you, broke my coccyx giving birth. I was was in pain for months after. I didn't forget the pain was terrified going into labour a second time | |||
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"Have you ever had kidney stones blocking your entire pluming? Now thats proper pain, can last for 5-10 hours and at some stage you just start asking people around you to do the humane thing and put you down " This I can relate to but with gall stones. When I was suffering with the pain of that, at it’s worst I would rather have given birth again 10 times (and I gave birth oh natural with no pain relief) than experience gall bladder stones again. | |||
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"Also ladies stop being wimps FFS stubbing your toe is probably worse don't get pain relief for that" You're not that far away, happy to come over with a hammer to break your coccyx lol | |||
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"As a man I can’t imagine how much childbirth hurts. From my ex wife she was in agony with our first, but after the fact she forgot about the pain, strange how the mind works. Being kicked in the dick as you put it or balls as the most painful thing a man can remember the pain and would rather not have it done again. To compare the two is not possible." Oh you don't forget the pain, it just becomes unimportant the instant you see the little bugger that caused it all. | |||
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"Also ladies stop being wimps FFS stubbing your toe is probably worse don't get pain relief for that You're not that far away, happy to come over with a hammer to break your coccyx lol" Stop flirting frieda this is a serious convo | |||
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"I wasn't even aware that it was a competition. Pain is a unique experience for everyone and I don't believe comparisons are even possible. " This is actually true tbf, think it's because it's such an emotional time for women too. Giving birth was traumatic for me, I nearly lost my eldest child and I was in an operating theatre for hours after. So I think it's difficult when men are so flippant about it sometimes x | |||
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"Also ladies stop being wimps FFS stubbing your toe is probably worse don't get pain relief for that You're not that far away, happy to come over with a hammer to break your coccyx lol Stop flirting frieda this is a serious convo " Oops you forgot to mention the worst pain though, stepping on an electrical plug! | |||
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"Also ladies stop being wimps FFS stubbing your toe is probably worse don't get pain relief for that You're not that far away, happy to come over with a hammer to break your coccyx lol Stop flirting frieda this is a serious convo Oops you forgot to mention the worst pain though, stepping on an electrical plug! " Or when you're trying to rip something and try to hard and your fingertips wreck | |||
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"Also ladies stop being wimps FFS stubbing your toe is probably worse don't get pain relief for that You're not that far away, happy to come over with a hammer to break your coccyx lol Stop flirting frieda this is a serious convo Oops you forgot to mention the worst pain though, stepping on an electrical plug! Or when you're trying to rip something and try to hard and your fingertips wreck " Told you before to go gently when wanking | |||
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"Depends on the woman. I know one who both her labours were short and she said she'd rather have another baby than a filling. On the other hand I've counselled women who were genuinely traumatised by their childbirth experience and are terrified to ever go through it again. Some women die during childbirth and I know a few who came close." Yes. Before modern medicine it was the way a lot of women died. | |||
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"I think some blokes miss the point that with that great pain and effort comes immense joy and it's not a case of ever forgetting how arduous the process is, but looking forward to the delivery." Hmmmm. I've somehow made that sound like cricket commentary. | |||
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"I think some blokes miss the point that with that great pain and effort comes immense joy and it's not a case of ever forgetting how arduous the process is, but looking forward to the delivery. Hmmmm. I've somehow made that sound like cricket commentary." Well done, that's impressive. I think childbirth (and all types of pain to be frank) are things that you can't really truly understand unless you've been through it. Every person has different pain thresholds, every birth story is different. For some, it's a simple, straightforward delivery, for others far more complicated. There's a sort of myth surrounding it that you can have pain relief on tap but that's very far from the truth. Dismissing the impact it can have on a woman (traumatic delivery, emergency assisted delivery even the complications that can ensue following) is daft. And the poster above who said pain isn't a competition and not comparable? So true. | |||
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"I think some blokes miss the point that with that great pain and effort comes immense joy and it's not a case of ever forgetting how arduous the process is, but looking forward to the delivery. Hmmmm. I've somehow made that sound like cricket commentary." Sounds a lot like a bad case of constipation too | |||
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"Cue some men sending messages requesting kicks, thumps, jumps etc to their bollocks. " Not my thing, to pre empt it. | |||
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"Also ladies stop being wimps FFS stubbing your toe is probably worse don't get pain relief for that" Kneeling on lego is worse!!! | |||
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"Have you ever had kidney stones blocking your entire pluming? Now thats proper pain, can last for 5-10 hours and at some stage you just start asking people around you to do the humane thing and put you down " Yep and I know exactly what you mean. I would have quite happily been put down towards the end. | |||
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"No one told me about feeling like someone was holding a flame underneath me " This is the only bit I really remember the feeling of someone just having set fire to me and my not so polite words to the midwife, I apologised afterwards. | |||
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"No one told me about feeling like someone was holding a flame underneath me This is the only bit I really remember the feeling of someone just having set fire to me and my not so polite words to the midwife, I apologised afterwards. " Awful isn't it? I remember my midwife saying 'you've got to pant through this bit', I didn't have the energy to ask what she meant so it's a good job she showed me, lol. When my hubby started doing it I could've punched him in the face......Or kicked him in the balls | |||
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