FabSwingers.com forum: Compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy Friday !

So when I’m online and not catching up with messages and friends , I like to look at profiles either local / online . If I see the pictures and find a particular one that stands out I like to compliment the profile owner about a certain pic .

Is this wrong or weird to do so ?

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Not at all as it's a nice thing to do, for some people compliments are far and few between so every little one counts in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not at all as it's a nice thing to do, for some people compliments are far and few between so every little one counts in my eyes"

Good to here.

I was hoping they don’t come across wrong or weird lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt anyone would find it weird..but this is fab, do you never know haha.. I do use compliments as a way of making contact but never short crap messages like.. Wow what a great ass etc.. That's just never going to get you anywhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe "compliments" can be a new craze in fab this year, why not; its nice to be nice

hope your thread goes well, good effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends massively on what if anything you expect to happen. If you're fine with someone deleting your compliment without replying then go for it but if you're not then don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I doubt anyone would find it weird..but this is fab, do you never know haha.. I do use compliments as a way of making contact but never short crap messages like.. Wow what a great ass etc.. That's just never going to get you anywhere... "

Not like that no.

Got to have a bit more detail haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we have had some lovely compliments

nikki x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it depends massively on what if anything you expect to happen. If you're fine with someone deleting your compliment without replying then go for it but if you're not then don't. "

I don’t expect a reply but most do get a thank you but your not what I’m looking for etc.

I’m fine with that.

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. But it’s good to compliment and hopefully put a smile on someone face.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I also do this or reply to someone's status.

I think it's a nice thing to do.

This site needs more 'NICE'.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

This very much depends on what the receiver is looking for, all of my meets are at clubs so most of the time I use fab just for a little entertainment .

I'm am attention seeking transvestite so I LOVE Compliments and always thank the sender.

Even people FABBING my pics is taken as a compliment.

It's nice to be nice x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are a number of ladies here who know occasionally I do exactly this. Sometimes there's no response. Sometimes they seem very pleased. I've had some really good conversations off the back of some of the messages.

I always explicitly state it's not a come-on and I'm not looking to meet them or change they are preferences. I consider that the most respectful way of going about it.

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By *amLukeMan
over a year ago

I like this idea

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

There always welcome

Ray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve sent people messages because I’ve seen a Saturday where they feel low or they’ve posted a picture and I think they look amazing. I don’t do it for any gain. People struggle with compliments nowadays, I know I do, I deflect rather than accept them but I think it’s nice for people to hear.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

It’s lovely to receive a compliment on pics. It’s a little pick me up and that’s no bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s great it’s really nice to receive a compliment and you never no you might have made someone’s day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I do the same if I read a nice bio and see some beautiful pictures I’ll tell the lady or couple.

It’s nice to say to someone what you think if it’s a compliment that is.

Carry on being nice ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also do this or reply to someone's status.

I think it's a nice thing to do.

This site needs more 'NICE'. "

Exactly.

The nice guys ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There always welcome

Ray"

Tried to message u regarding your pics , my sex is blocked ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve sent people messages because I’ve seen a Saturday where they feel low or they’ve posted a picture and I think they look amazing. I don’t do it for any gain. People struggle with compliments nowadays, I know I do, I deflect rather than accept them but I think it’s nice for people to hear. "

I just randomly browse profiles on line and look at their profiles and see the pics or statuses and if I feel I like a pic I will message likewise with a status I will try to lift the spirits back up if down.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"There always welcome

Ray

Tried to message u regarding your pics , my sex is blocked ??"

Lou's the only one who plays and she only plays with other lady's sorry pal

Ray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always compliment effort to take a fab photo or an impressive status update. I never anticipate a response. Its just an appreciation of what's gone into the attempt. Nowt wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s lovely to receive a compliment on pics. It’s a little pick me up and that’s no bad thing. "

Is there away to get around not being able to message someone as your not what they are after ?

Lovely pics on yours . Nice lush lips.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There always welcome

Ray

Tried to message u regarding your pics , my sex is blocked ??

Lou's the only one who plays and she only plays with other lady's sorry pal

Ray

That’s fine mate. I understand that.

Love her hair colour though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t you just fab their pic?

I never know how to respond to a message that just says “Nice pics” for example.

I hate messages like that anyway so usually just delete them.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"There always welcome

Ray

Tried to message u regarding your pics , my sex is blocked ??

Lou's the only one who plays and she only plays with other lady's sorry pal

Ray

That’s fine mate. I understand that.

Love her hair colour though. "

She says thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don’t you just fab their pic?

I never know how to respond to a message that just says “Nice pics” for example.

I hate messages like that anyway so usually just delete them."

If I get a message that compliments me I feel better in myself that’s why I do it.

I know it may come across creepy.

Maybe from now on I will fab pics too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There always welcome

Ray

Tried to message u regarding your pics , my sex is blocked ??

Lou's the only one who plays and she only plays with other lady's sorry pal

Ray

That’s fine mate. I understand that.

Love her hair colour though.

She says thank you x"

Your welcome. Have a good weekend.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"There always welcome

Ray

Tried to message u regarding your pics , my sex is blocked ??

Lou's the only one who plays and she only plays with other lady's sorry pal

Ray

That’s fine mate. I understand that.

Love her hair colour though.

She says thank you x

Your welcome. Have a good weekend. "

You too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always compliment effort to take a fab photo or an impressive status update. I never anticipate a response. Its just an appreciation of what's gone into the attempt. Nowt wrong with that "

I don’t do it to get responses. But it’s nice when I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don’t you just fab their pic?

I never know how to respond to a message that just says “Nice pics” for example.

I hate messages like that anyway so usually just delete them.

If I get a message that compliments me I feel better in myself that’s why I do it.

I know it may come across creepy.

Maybe from now on I will fab pics too. "

In real life, I get that a compliment would make someone feel good but I’m afraid on here, I think compliments are given because the person giving them thinks it will lead to them getting sex, not because they actually believe what they’ve said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don’t you just fab their pic?

I never know how to respond to a message that just says “Nice pics” for example.

I hate messages like that anyway so usually just delete them.

If I get a message that compliments me I feel better in myself that’s why I do it.

I know it may come across creepy.

Maybe from now on I will fab pics too.

I suppose so. I message people from al over. I know I won’t get a meet from anyone local anyway . I’m just trying to spread the love haha

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