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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever

Does anyone believe in love at first sight?

So you meet someone and both of you feel there is a very strong connection but you can’t explain it

You don’t want to part ways and you can’t wait to see each other. When you look at each other, you get lost in the others eyes

When you make love, you literally feel like your heart is going to explode out of your chest

Nothing matters except being together

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

No but lust at first sight is pretty fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again "

Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again

Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience."

Exactly.

Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.

I hope your situation is different OP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it when i met my ex husband, we both said the same when we eventually started talking after seeing each other in my parents pub several times. Lasted 8 years and produced 2 gorgeous children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice to think it could happen.. But I'd have to take my blindfold off first

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I met my ex and it was love at first sight and we had two beautiful kids that we both love but not together now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes iv felt it it changed my nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same I’ve felt it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I don't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Well actually yes, I do. There are loads of kinds of love and I think you can probably feel a certain type at first sight

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your both standing naked and laughing at each other its a done deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe "

Great track that

Happy clappers

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I believe that It can happen to some people, but as a poly I am wired differently I need to have relationship love with more than one person

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Lust at first sight, definitely. But not love - how can you love someone that you don't even know?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's feasible that you can assess compatibility fairly quickly but I take love to be a very deep attachment that's formed via trust, understanding and really knowing each other, which is unlikely very quickly. I reserve the right to say yes to marriage within a few minutes though, as I could be very wrong and able to marry you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not experienced love at first sight but I'm sure serendipity is a thing - have observed it first hand a few times with two people introduced to one another who seem to fall in love over a weekend and are still together. Most recent have been together for about a decade and going strong.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Lust at first sight, definitely. But not love - how can you love someone that you don't even know? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lust at first sight, definitely. But not love - how can you love someone that you don't even know? "
i love scarlett Johansson and charlize theron

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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever


"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again

Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.

Exactly.

Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.

I hope your situation is different OP xx"

Unfortunately not - he was married

We both felt the same (so I thought) and he was the one that chased me as I was resisting initially. Then one day he just disappeared, blocked me and decided that he wanted to make a go of his marriage as his wife found out

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No I don't. I've experienced instant attraction and felt immediately drawn to a person on first meeting them but I don't really believe you can love someone until you know them flaws and all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I think love is something that grows. If folks claim to have fallen immediately it's often very short lived and often appears to end with some hurt

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

Hard to say. I've felt incredible attraction etc instantaneously in my youth, but in hindsight..

I really miss it actually. Haven't felt profoundly attracted to anyone in years

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Yep. 12 years and 4 kids later, still going strong

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Love at first sight? My mum and dad are childhood sweethearts! Been married over 60 years. so it can happen!

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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever


"I've not experienced love at first sight but I'm sure serendipity is a thing - have observed it first hand a few times with two people introduced to one another who seem to fall in love over a weekend and are still together. Most recent have been together for about a decade and going strong. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes iv felt it it changed my nature"
shit i just re read that make me sound like iv turned gay

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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever

Interesting responses

I agree that trust plays a huge role in being totally in love as without trust you don’t have anything

But for all of you that have managed to stay with your partners following that initial magical chemistry - well done you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never experienced this but I imagine it happens regularly enough. I think those that have experienced this are lucky folk

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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever


"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again

Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.

Exactly.

Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.

I hope your situation is different OP xx"

Sadly not, totally fell for him but he told me he felt the same. Talked about being together forever and then one day just disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is lust at first sight not love.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again

Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.

Exactly.

Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.

I hope your situation is different OP xx

Sadly not, totally fell for him but he told me he felt the same. Talked about being together forever and then one day just disappeared "

Hope your doing ok OP

It can happen it was just the wrong guy for you at this time.

Hugs and kisses from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't worked for me....YET! I have to keep walking past atleast 100 times before she even notices me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in lust at first sight

Love - no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe in lust at first sight

Love - no

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I felt the lust the min I saw you. Where do we go from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put all my previous relationships into a spreadsheet and made a graph. The graph is named ex-factor and why-factor!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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True love? I think that must be exceptionally rare. I think people often mistake lust for love. It’s a heady feeling when we find someone we are attracted to or connect with but that doesn’t make it love.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Does love at 1st sight count when it's being handed a bacon butty and a cuppa count? She was blindfolded before then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to believe everything the hormones make me believe. Took some time to realise that it's all bullshit. I would prefer knowing a person well before l decide if she is the one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True love? I think that must be exceptionally rare. I think people often mistake lust for love. It’s a heady feeling when we find someone we are attracted to or connect with but that doesn’t make it love. "

Good morning lovely! Hope you slept well.

My true love was a maths professor. She is my X and I am left wondering Y?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"True love? I think that must be exceptionally rare. I think people often mistake lust for love. It’s a heady feeling when we find someone we are attracted to or connect with but that doesn’t make it love.

Good morning lovely! Hope you slept well.

My true love was a maths professor. She is my X and I am left wondering Y? "

good morning lovely.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Met my husband when I was 16 and he was 17 he said within hours of meeting me he knew we would spend the rest of our life’s together..26 years later still very much in love ...

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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever


"I had that last year. Sadly he turned out to be a compulsive liar who broke my heart over and over again.

I won't believe it ever again

Ah if it's too good to be true it usually is. Sorry you had that experience.

Exactly.

Lust and chemistry are great but keeping my heart out of it from now on.

I hope your situation is different OP xx

Sadly not, totally fell for him but he told me he felt the same. Talked about being together forever and then one day just disappeared

Hope your doing ok OP

It can happen it was just the wrong guy for you at this time.

Hugs and kisses from us "

Thank you

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By *rofessJay OP   Woman
over a year ago

wherever


"Met my husband when I was 16 and he was 17 he said within hours of meeting me he knew we would spend the rest of our life’s together..26 years later still very much in love ..."

That’s so lovely

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