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Blah, blah, blah....but how true?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Much discussed topic, but how true?

I've posted numerous social meets requests, truthfully indicating nothing more than a chance to get to know each other over a coffee or a meal but literally have had no responses whatsoever...is it me or the much complained about male/female ratio on here?

Honestly looking for answers and tips!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You’ve met people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve met people? "

Two in two years, both were wonderful ladies, but my pondering was do women have it so much easier on here?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"You’ve met people?

Two in two years, both were wonderful ladies, but my pondering was do women have it so much easier on here?"

Define easier...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You’ve met people?

Two in two years, both were wonderful ladies, but my pondering was do women have it so much easier on here?"

Why did you think? It’s numbers and several thousand years worth of evolution.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have a line on our profile offering the same. I'm the more than a year it's been on there one person has taken us up on it. I don't think people want to meet unless there is at least the hope of taking things further, which is fair enough.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not many women do instant meets

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

We don't have much luck when posting meet requests either so it's not just single guys that struggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve met people?

Two in two years, both were wonderful ladies, but my pondering was do women have it so much easier on here?

Define easier..."

If I posted a social meet as a women would I get no response?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not many women do instant meets"

I've never posted instant meets.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I don’t think the ratio is a thing to be honest mate.

I don’t do too bad and I have a shit profile. I just rely on my pics and a decent message.

I found building a decent network of friends via socials and clubs works well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve met people?

Two in two years, both were wonderful ladies, but my pondering was do women have it so much easier on here?

Define easier..."

How many messages have you received after a meet posting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think the ratio is a thing to be honest mate.

I don’t do too bad and I have a shit profile. I just rely on my pics and a decent message.

I found building a decent network of friends via socials and clubs works well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will mostly only do a social meet locally with people I'm interested in sexually. If I want coffee, I meet my girlfriends. I sometimes meet Forumites for dinner and drinks, but just on a Friendly basis.

All I can think is that people may check out your profile and pics and not fancy you? As has been said, unfortunately we do have such a lot of choice. x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I will mostly only do a social meet locally with people I'm interested in sexually. If I want coffee, I meet my girlfriends. I sometimes meet Forumites for dinner and drinks, but just on a Friendly basis.

All I can think is that people may check out your profile and pics and not fancy you? As has been said, unfortunately we do have such a lot of choice. x"

I’m with Dana on this one ^^

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It puts me right off when I see this. To me it just comes across as anyone will do today or tomorrow etc. Little effort, little reward comes to mind.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally speaking, I never even look at meet listings - I prefer to be able to take my time getting to know someone before meeting for a social to check out the chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not an automatic ticket for a meet.

400 men to 1 woman

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

It's not easy on fab for men or women but in very different ways.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not an automatic ticket for a meet.

400 men to 1 woman

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Really wow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve met people?

Two in two years, both were wonderful ladies, but my pondering was do women have it so much easier on here?

Define easier...

If I posted a social meet as a women would I get no response?"

I would get loads of response but sod all for same day. Yet in initial message there were implications of said day.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd respond to a social meet request but only if I fancied him and thought it might lead to a regular shag.

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