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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe they like to search for men themselves op,so block single men.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Probably another wind up merchant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is weird. I got a friend invite from someone who had me blocked!

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Probably another wind up merchant. "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It is weird. I got a friend invite from someone who had me blocked!"

I've had similar. Crazy people.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!. "

If they wink you can message them.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"It is weird. I got a friend invite from someone who had me blocked!

I've had similar. Crazy people. "

I seem.to remember it does send a friend invite after a block,i have had this before ,must be a glitch in the system i think.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It is weird. I got a friend invite from someone who had me blocked!

I've had similar. Crazy people.

I seem.to remember it does send a friend invite after a block,i have had this before ,must be a glitch in the system i think."

Oh joy.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"It is weird. I got a friend invite from someone who had me blocked!"

There may be an good explanation for this, I have Don's it myself .

A guy sent me a wink so I had a look at his profile, as you do, and hit "friend request" by mistake....fat fingers on my phone...and blocked him right away, my stupidity but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!.

If they wink you can message them."

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"It is weird. I got a friend invite from someone who had me blocked!

I've had similar. Crazy people.

I seem.to remember it does send a friend invite after a block,i have had this before ,must be a glitch in the system i think."

When you block someone, the friend invite they originally sent, for some reason reappears. They haven't re-sent it

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!. "

Yes, the wink was to initiate conversation if you are interested. They have stopped you returning the wink, which they maybe feel is pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!. "

Have you winked at them previously?

If soneone has certain user groups blocked (i.e. filters in place), any interaction they initiate with such users, by wink or message, will disable the filter for that user, so if they have single guys blocked, winking at one will enable him to wink, message or send a friend invite.

The only thing that will prevent you from winking at them under these circumstances would be if you have winked at them within the last month

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!.

If they wink you can message them."
I tried just to say thanks blocked from single guys came up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably to get you to view their profile and fab their pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!.

Have you winked at them previously?

If soneone has certain user groups blocked (i.e. filters in place), any interaction they initiate with such users, by wink or message, will disable the filter for that user, so if they have single guys blocked, winking at one will enable him to wink, message or send a friend invite.

The only thing that will prevent you from winking at them under these circumstances would be if you have winked at them within the last month"
I didn't try to wink them back . I tried to message .

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!.

Have you winked at them previously?

If soneone has certain user groups blocked (i.e. filters in place), any interaction they initiate with such users, by wink or message, will disable the filter for that user, so if they have single guys blocked, winking at one will enable him to wink, message or send a friend invite.

The only thing that will prevent you from winking at them under these circumstances would be if you have winked at them within the last month I didn't try to wink them back . I tried to message . "

After they wink you, it should bypass filters and let you message, unless they blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering why a couple would wink and fab my pic but not allow single guys to return the favour. I thought a wink was an invite to start a conversation!.

Have you winked at them previously?

If soneone has certain user groups blocked (i.e. filters in place), any interaction they initiate with such users, by wink or message, will disable the filter for that user, so if they have single guys blocked, winking at one will enable him to wink, message or send a friend invite.

The only thing that will prevent you from winking at them under these circumstances would be if you have winked at them within the last month I didn't try to wink them back . I tried to message . "

You should have been able to.

Can you still view their profile?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Maybe they like to search for men themselves op,so block single men."

As good a reason as any I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for taking time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they like to search for men themselves op,so block single men.

As good a reason as any I guess"
but like I'm stating I thought the point of a wink and fab was to open dialogue. I was allowed to check their profile but couldn't message do to their filters saying they don't want to hear from single guys.

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