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"Who did we lose last year? This is the roll of honour for those that went unlos or MIA in 2019! " Gorgeous ladboy123 | |||
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"Mystique aka snowwhite and the huntsman and her squeeze lj Welsh word lol there going from strength to strenth for all those who wish to know " LJ Welsh word D. | |||
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"Mystique aka snowwhite and the huntsman and her squeeze lj Welsh word lol there going from strength to strenth for all those who wish to know LJ Welsh word D." | |||
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"Rubidoux" anoyher one that was a happy loss tho | |||
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"And the greatest loss of them all Pull my finger " I can still smell him tho ...... weird that. | |||
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"Ghengispoor old gk " That was a sad loss | |||
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"And the greatest loss of them all Pull my finger I can still smell him tho ...... weird that." legends linger on who ever smelt it delt it | |||
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"Ghengispoor old gk That was a sad loss " Agree | |||
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"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while" Or Roxianne? | |||
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"Ghengispoor old gk That was a sad loss " Oh no what happened to GK? | |||
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"Polly Dan Berks Beefy Length (to the forums at least) B" Dan was the year before I think x | |||
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"Polly Dan Berks Beefy Length (to the forums at least) B Dan was the year before I think x" Nah. Dan was on here last year, just "incognito". Laceyandsam | |||
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"Ghengis" He was offered a reprieve but turned it down and has now left Fab....I have his details should you need it | |||
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"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while Or Roxianne?" Roxianne is just in one of her breaks. She’s not UNLOS. She’ll be back. | |||
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"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while Or Roxianne? Roxianne is just in one of her breaks. She’s not UNLOS. She’ll be back." Ah that’s good x | |||
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"Ghengis He was offered a reprieve but turned it down and has now left Fab....I have his details should you need it " Got them, ta. | |||
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"lame impeza " Lame impala? | |||
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"Dotty " *sighs* | |||
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"Intrigued32 Oh wait, we came back after 3 days D." Very glad you did. Miss Genghis though. | |||
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"All legends " Scratch that, mostly legends | |||
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"Peice of Cake Packet of Jaffas Gone but not forgotten " Legends | |||
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"Nell Gwyn" Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all. | |||
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"Intrigued32 Oh wait, we came back after 3 days D. Very glad you did. Miss Genghis though. " So are we I think Jo misses GK’s pics! I miss his threads as he used to think out of the box with them. D. | |||
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"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly..." Yea I miss her | |||
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"Nell Gwyn Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all." Did Nell and Tame leave together? | |||
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"Vine " I did take a short break but I’m not leaving | |||
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"Vine I did take a short break but I’m not leaving " Oh welcome back | |||
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"Nell Gwyn Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all. Did Nell and Tame leave together? " No. | |||
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"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly..." Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different. Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years. Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift. The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up. Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance. All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010. B | |||
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"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly..." I liked her too. We were also both fans of Adam Lambert so often chatted about gigs and albums. Sadly never got round to having a coffee together. | |||
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"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave . Hope so , he was a prick !!" Was your cousin love | |||
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"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave . Hope so , he was a prick !! Was your cousin love " Nah , he was just a sarcastic twat | |||
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"lame impeza Lame impala? " Tame impala So many passed my eyes been and gone.. Can't remember them all | |||
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"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave . Hope so , he was a prick !! Was your cousin love Nah , he was just a sarcastic twat " Okay if you say so Happy new year | |||
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"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave . Hope so , he was a prick !!" | |||
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"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave . Hope so , he was a prick !! Was your cousin love Nah , he was just a sarcastic twat Okay if you say so Happy new year " Splendiforous New Year to you too kind maiden | |||
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"None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months " I did x | |||
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"None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months " I did | |||
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"Peice of Cake Packet of Jaffas Gone but not forgotten " He came back... again...now Prince of Fabararah, so not sure he counts (sorry PoF). | |||
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"Peice of Cake Packet of Jaffas Gone but not forgotten He came back... again...now Prince of Fabararah, so not sure he counts (sorry PoF)." He counts he's beautiful. | |||
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"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly... Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different. Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years. Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift. The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up. Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance. All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010. B " Well said x | |||
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"Nell Gwyn Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all." We went to a rare breeds farm together. We stroked some owls and giggled at goats and I bought her a stone. She was truly lovely. | |||
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"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while Or Roxianne? Roxianne is just in one of her breaks. She’s not UNLOS. She’ll be back." Great | |||
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"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while" SJ is still here and with G3orgie | |||
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"lame impeza Lame impala? Tame impala So many passed my eyes been and gone.. Can't remember them all " no i was right | |||
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"Mrs Spanish Brunette " Although I think actually she left over a year ago.... But then I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday, so I have no idea what happened when! Don't mind me dear... | |||
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"Insatiable Nymph " She’s still here | |||
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"Mrs Spanish Brunette Although I think actually she left over a year ago.... But then I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday, so I have no idea what happened when! Don't mind me dear... " a shocking loss of craziness all the same | |||
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"Nell Gwynn and Lickety are my main losses. Mavis, so sad too. Ghenghis a rare breed " Lickety unlos? I thought she said she would leave the profile open as she may come back .. | |||
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"Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her " Yeah, she came to mind the other day. Poochiepoo was her last moniker, I think. | |||
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"Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her Yeah, she came to mind the other day. Poochiepoo was her last moniker, I think. " That’s it, that’s her x | |||
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"Meeee ..took a hiatus but back again to start 2020 " Hey sexy | |||
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"Meeee ..took a hiatus but back again to start 2020 Hey sexy" Hello lovely xxx | |||
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"None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months " Lies! | |||
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"Who did we lose last year? This is the roll of honour for those that went unlos or MIA in 2019! Gorgeous ladboy123 " I remember him. Did he have a brother? | |||
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"What's that guy called with a small penis?" Bencumalot? He has a couple of accounts on here | |||
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"What's that guy called with a small penis? Bencumalot? He has a couple of accounts on here " I thought I recognised his cock in another profile | |||
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"Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her Yeah, she came to mind the other day. Poochiepoo was her last moniker, I think. " I think Poochiepoo was her very first profile. She left, came back as Lola and changed it back to Poochiepoo Now UNLOS and loved up. I don't know most of these names though, still a bit fresh in the forums. | |||
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"Nell Gwynn and Lickety are my main losses. Mavis, so sad too. Ghenghis a rare breed " I still get to speak to him ha ha..fucked him a few times in 2017 when I returned to Fab...we still speak as friends off line and I have passed on that he is missed...he has left before but returned so he may return...who knows | |||
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"Kaitlin. V V funny." Kaitlin was the name I was after thankyou. Yes I miss her too | |||
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"Nell Gwyn Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all." I have a few Aspie friends on here. It’s always ok to be you. | |||
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"Taff's dog. " Now that’s a great loss. | |||
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"Taff's dog. Now that’s a great loss." I remember the post. You could read his pain. Sad day. | |||
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"Taff's dog. Now that’s a great loss." Never saw the post, we lost our boy too last year (aged 9) so 100% feel his loss | |||
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"Taff's dog. Now that’s a great loss. I remember the post. You could read his pain. Sad day. " Very sad they were great mates. Had the privilege of meeting both of them. | |||
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"Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit" He got kicked off for leaving a fake verification to someone then posting about it in the forums | |||
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"Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit He got kicked off for leaving a fake verification to someone then posting about it in the forums " Genius. | |||
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"Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit He got kicked off for leaving a fake verification to someone then posting about it in the forums " I remember him offering to do it, oh dear | |||
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""Smashing blouse" I loved her pics. D " Great name too | |||
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"I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate. " Hey!! Hello you! Hope you’re well xxx | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! " Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. " I assumed it wasn’t necessary to have to repeat a post. So no, your assumption is inaccurate. | |||
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"I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate. Hey!! Hello you! Hope you’re well xxx" Yeah I’m good thanks hope you’re well too. Xx | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. " I don’t recognise the name | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. I don’t recognise the name " Maybe she got cured... | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. " She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely | |||
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"I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate. Hey!! Hello you! Hope you’re well xxx Yeah I’m good thanks hope you’re well too. Xx" | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely" I can see the similarity. You are pretty damn hot too in the same ways, if you don't mind my saying so. She had talked about meeting us too. Sadly that will probably not happen now. | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely I can see the similarity. You are pretty damn hot too in the same ways, if you don't mind my saying so. She had talked about meeting us too. Sadly that will probably not happen now. " Thank you. Her boobs were a lot bigger than mine are though...a very nice pair it was She might be back at some point, you never know. I left a few times in my 3 years on the site and here I am again | |||
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"Curveball. I miss Curveball! Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely I can see the similarity. You are pretty damn hot too in the same ways, if you don't mind my saying so. She had talked about meeting us too. Sadly that will probably not happen now. Thank you. Her boobs were a lot bigger than mine are though...a very nice pair it was She might be back at some point, you never know. I left a few times in my 3 years on the site and here I am again" Well indeed she may. Regarding sizes, I'd quite like to compare and contrast, but somehow I imagine that's off the table. | |||
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"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly... Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different. Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years. Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift. The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up. Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance. All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010. B " You have rose coloured glasses on, the rules of 2010 are the same as they are now. No matter how many reports are sent in, unless a person has broken those rules then bans won't be given out. Only the person who has typed something against rules can get themselves banned | |||
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"Ghengis He was offered a reprieve but turned it down He wasn't Never believe everything you hear" Rugby can I ask you a question about this just to clarify forum rules for the benefit of all of us? | |||
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"Ghengis He was offered a reprieve but turned it down He wasn't Never believe everything you hear" Like when you thought that you saw me on London Rd a couple of years ago Missus | |||
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"Ghengis He was offered a reprieve but turned it down He wasn't Never believe everything you hear Like when you thought that you saw me on London Rd a couple of years ago Missus " It was you I tell ya !!! | |||
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"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly... Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different. Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years. Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift. The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up. Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance. All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010. B You have rose coloured glasses on, the rules of 2010 are the same as they are now. No matter how many reports are sent in, unless a person has broken those rules then bans won't be given out. Only the person who has typed something against rules can get themselves banned" As someone that was around in those days I don't think it is just the view of bans in that post that are through rose tinted glasses. I know at one time you could scroll back and see some really old threads and they were far more than they are these days. The forums are far friendlier and far more diverse these days | |||
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"About someones ban? or a general question?" There was a post on here which seems to have disappeared which said that the member under discussion was offered a reprieve but refused to return because of hypocrisy. Doesn't this constitute a criticism of Admin? Or have I misinterpreted the meaning? | |||
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" As someone that was around in those days I don't think it is just the view of bans in that post that are through rose tinted glasses. I know at one time you could scroll back and see some really old threads and they were far more than they are these days. The forums are far friendlier and far more diverse these days " They really were scary at times, you had to read between your fingers | |||
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"About someones ban? or a general question? There was a post on here which seems to have disappeared which said that the member under discussion was offered a reprieve but refused to return because of hypocrisy. Doesn't this constitute a criticism of Admin? Or have I misinterpreted the meaning?" I quoted that post and removed the others that made more accusations on it It isn't fair that Admin have lies said against them. That and peoples bans were being discussed. None of which is allowed on the forum Again, like above, the only time people are banned is if they write or do something that is against rules. If they carry on breaking those rules then they should expect to not being able to post at all. Admin can only give so many chances. | |||
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"I think someone has already said it , but Taffs Pooch was the saddest loss of the year . I felt so sad for him " | |||
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