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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

Who did we lose last year?

This is the roll of honour for those that went unlos or MIA in 2019!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who did we lose last year?

This is the roll of honour for those that went unlos or MIA in 2019! "

Gorgeous ladboy123

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laceyandsam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tame

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Tame?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bananaman

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Intrigued32

Oh wait, we came back after 3 days

D.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Peice of Cake

Packet of Jaffas

Gone but not forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mystique aka snowwhite and the huntsman and her squeeze lj Welsh word lol there going from strength to strenth for all those who wish to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mavis

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Rubidoux

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Mystique aka snowwhite and the huntsman and her squeeze lj Welsh word lol there going from strength to strenth for all those who wish to know "

LJ Welsh word

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the greatest loss of them all

Pull my finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mystique aka snowwhite and the huntsman and her squeeze lj Welsh word lol there going from strength to strenth for all those who wish to know

LJ Welsh word

D."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dotty

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Ghengis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubidoux"
anoyher one that was a happy loss tho

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"And the greatest loss of them all

Pull my finger "

I can still smell him tho ...... weird that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghengis"
poor old gk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghengispoor old gk "

That was a sad loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the greatest loss of them all

Pull my finger

I can still smell him tho ...... weird that."
legends linger on who ever smelt it delt it

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Ghengispoor old gk

That was a sad loss "

Agree

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while"

Or Roxianne?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghengispoor old gk

That was a sad loss "

Oh no what happened to GK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubidoux"

Retweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polly

Dan Berks

Beefy Length (to the forums at least)

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polly

Dan Berks

Beefy Length (to the forums at least)

B"

Dan was the year before I think x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Polly

Dan Berks

Beefy Length (to the forums at least)

B

Dan was the year before I think x"

Nah. Dan was on here last year, just "incognito".

Laceyandsam

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Ghengis"

He was offered a reprieve but turned it down and has now left Fab....I have his details should you need it

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Ghengis, Tame. Two of the people who first really took me on in the forums

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while

Or Roxianne?"

Roxianne is just in one of her breaks. She’s not UNLOS. She’ll be back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lame impeza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while

Or Roxianne?

Roxianne is just in one of her breaks. She’s not UNLOS. She’ll be back."

Ah that’s good x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ghengis

He was offered a reprieve but turned it down and has now left Fab....I have his details should you need it "

Got them, ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite sad really them that went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lame impeza "

Lame impala?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Dotty "

*sighs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dotty

*sighs*"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dotty

*sighs*"
sorry dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All legends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrigued32

Oh wait, we came back after 3 days

D."

Very glad you did.

Miss Genghis though.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All legends "

Scratch that, mostly legends

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Nell Gwyn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peice of Cake

Packet of Jaffas

Gone but not forgotten "

Legends

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Nell Gwyn"

Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Intrigued32

Oh wait, we came back after 3 days

D.

Very glad you did.

Miss Genghis though. "

So are we

I think Jo misses GK’s pics! I miss his threads as he used to think out of the box with them.

D.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly..."

Yea I miss her

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Nell Gwyn

Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all."

Did Nell and Tame leave together?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Vine

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Vine "

I did take a short break but I’m not leaving

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Vine

I did take a short break but I’m not leaving "

Oh welcome back

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Nell Gwyn

Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all.

Did Nell and Tame leave together? "

No.

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

Unicorn princess

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave .

Hope so , he was a prick !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly..."

Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different.

Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years.

Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift.

The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up.

Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance.

All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly..."

I liked her too. We were also both fans of Adam Lambert so often chatted about gigs and albums. Sadly never got round to having a coffee together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave .

Hope so , he was a prick !!"

Was your cousin love

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Apple or Orange x

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

The hypocrisy and attempted bullying now is really quite outstanding....

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave .

Hope so , he was a prick !!

Was your cousin love "
Nah , he was just a sarcastic twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lame impeza

Lame impala? "

Tame impala

So many passed my eyes been and gone.. Can't remember them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave .

Hope so , he was a prick !!

Was your cousin love Nah , he was just a sarcastic twat "

Okay if you say so

Happy new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave .

Hope so , he was a prick !!"

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Did that Swearymcswearface guy leave .

Hope so , he was a prick !!

Was your cousin love Nah , he was just a sarcastic twat

Okay if you say so

Happy new year "

Splendiforous New Year to you too kind maiden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Alot Return.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months "

I did x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months "

I did

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Peice of Cake

Packet of Jaffas

Gone but not forgotten "

He came back... again...now Prince of Fabararah, so not sure he counts (sorry PoF).

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Peice of Cake

Packet of Jaffas

Gone but not forgotten

He came back... again...now Prince of Fabararah, so not sure he counts (sorry PoF)."

He counts he's beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly...

Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different.

Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years.

Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift.

The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up.

Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance.

All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010.

B "

Well said x

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

My memory is awful, had forgotten pretty much all those mentioned and some I've met

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Nell Gwyn

Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all."

We went to a rare breeds farm together. We stroked some owls and giggled at goats and I bought her a stone. She was truly lovely.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while

Or Roxianne?

Roxianne is just in one of her breaks. She’s not UNLOS. She’ll be back."

Great

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nell Gwynn and Lickety are my main losses. Mavis, so sad too. Ghenghis a rare breed

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've not seen Hatter around, lovely bloke

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I haven’t seen Miss SJ for a while"

SJ is still here and with G3orgie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lame impeza

Lame impala?

Tame impala

So many passed my eyes been and gone.. Can't remember them all "
no i was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insatiable Nymph

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By *issminxymooWoman
over a year ago

Button Moon

Mrs Spanish Brunette

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By *issminxymooWoman
over a year ago

Button Moon


"Mrs Spanish Brunette "

Although I think actually she left over a year ago.... But then I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday, so I have no idea what happened when! Don't mind me dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dish Dash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Insatiable Nymph "

She’s still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs Spanish Brunette

Although I think actually she left over a year ago.... But then I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday, so I have no idea what happened when! Don't mind me dear... "
a shocking loss of craziness all the same

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Taff's dog.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here


"Nell Gwynn and Lickety are my main losses. Mavis, so sad too. Ghenghis a rare breed "

Lickety unlos?

I thought she said she would leave the profile open as she may come back ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THE ALPHA, MR DANBERKS

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London


"Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her "

Yeah, she came to mind the other day. Poochiepoo was her last moniker, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her

Yeah, she came to mind the other day. Poochiepoo was her last moniker, I think. "

That’s it, that’s her x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Meeee ..took a hiatus but back again to start 2020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeee ..took a hiatus but back again to start 2020 "

Hey sexy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I liked Nell Gwynn

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Meeee ..took a hiatus but back again to start 2020

Hey sexy"

Hello lovely xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"None of ya’ll missed me when I disappeared for three and a half months "

Lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who did we lose last year?

This is the roll of honour for those that went unlos or MIA in 2019!

Gorgeous ladboy123 "

I remember him. Did he have a brother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's that guy called with a small penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's that guy called with a small penis?"

Bencumalot? He has a couple of accounts on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's that guy called with a small penis?

Bencumalot? He has a couple of accounts on here "

I thought I recognised his cock in another profile

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"Lola (something fringe she was called before that). Loved her

Yeah, she came to mind the other day. Poochiepoo was her last moniker, I think. "

I think Poochiepoo was her very first profile.

She left, came back as Lola and changed it back to Poochiepoo

Now UNLOS and loved up.

I don't know most of these names though, still a bit fresh in the forums.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Nell Gwynn and Lickety are my main losses. Mavis, so sad too. Ghenghis a rare breed "

I still get to speak to him ha ha..fucked him a few times in 2017 when I returned to Fab...we still speak as friends off line and I have passed on that he is missed...he has left before but returned so he may return...who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than a handful

Belle-Issima

But I'm still here just with my

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We lost Riprock and Lickety?! I was gone for six months. Six months and now we’ve lost two of the best off the forums. Devastated.

GK, I talk to outside of here, and the same with Fevertree.

I miss Jaeger, too.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I think someone has already said it , but Taffs Pooch was the saddest loss of the year .

I felt so sad for him

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

Kaitlin.

V V funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kaitlin.

V V funny."

Kaitlin was the name I was after thankyou. Yes I miss her too

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Nell Gwyn

Nell. The woman who taught me it was okay to be me, Aspie and all."

I have a few Aspie friends on here. It’s always ok to be you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Autumn76...but she boomeranged

Ohhh...Humbersiders just came to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe no one gives a fuck about gorgeousladboy123

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That Yvaine person.

And DirrtyPrettyThings.

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

A complex fellow, GK. I liked him here.

Too many that make a puddle look like Lake Baikal.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Wow

So many of the so called elite

No wonder the smoke has cleared

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"Taff's dog. "

Now that’s a great loss.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Taff's dog.

Now that’s a great loss."

I remember the post. You could read his pain.

Sad day.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Taff's dog.

Now that’s a great loss."

Never saw the post, we lost our boy too last year (aged 9) so 100% feel his loss

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"Taff's dog.

Now that’s a great loss.

I remember the post. You could read his pain.

Sad day.

"

Very sad they were great mates. Had the privilege of meeting both of them.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit"

He got kicked off for leaving a fake verification to someone then posting about it in the forums

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit

He got kicked off for leaving a fake verification to someone then posting about it in the forums "

Genius.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

"Smashing blouse" I loved her pics. D

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Not seen Mr Ambassador for a while, loved his Irish wit

He got kicked off for leaving a fake verification to someone then posting about it in the forums "

I remember him offering to do it, oh dear

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Dash "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's as well to remember that although people may have left the site they don't need to be members to read the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehm... me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


""Smashing blouse" I loved her pics. D "

Great name too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be unlos soon,

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate. "

Hey!! Hello you! Hope you’re well xxx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball! "

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. "

I assumed it wasn’t necessary to have to repeat a post. So no, your assumption is inaccurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate.

Hey!! Hello you! Hope you’re well xxx"

Yeah I’m good thanks hope you’re well too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. "

I don’t recognise the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing.

I don’t recognise the name "

Maybe she got cured...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing. "

She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had curve ball. But it sounds very painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, I quite miss Doughnut and Danish

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I left for 9 months, be going again soon but not deleting my profile this time. Too much hassle making a new one in case I want to browse the forums one day and participate.

Hey!! Hello you! Hope you’re well xxx

Yeah I’m good thanks hope you’re well too. Xx"

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing.

She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely"

I can see the similarity. You are pretty damn hot too in the same ways, if you don't mind my saying so.

She had talked about meeting us too. Sadly that will probably not happen now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing.

She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely

I can see the similarity. You are pretty damn hot too in the same ways, if you don't mind my saying so.

She had talked about meeting us too. Sadly that will probably not happen now. "

Thank you. Her boobs were a lot bigger than mine are though...a very nice pair it was

She might be back at some point, you never know. I left a few times in my 3 years on the site and here I am again

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

[Removed by poster at 04/01/20 21:19:35]

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Curveball.

I miss Curveball!

Are we really the only ones who miss Curveball? She was so lovely on here and looked amazing.

She was my twin...I looked forward to meeting her at MLS and then she went UNLOS before it happened she was lovely

I can see the similarity. You are pretty damn hot too in the same ways, if you don't mind my saying so.

She had talked about meeting us too. Sadly that will probably not happen now.

Thank you. Her boobs were a lot bigger than mine are though...a very nice pair it was

She might be back at some point, you never know. I left a few times in my 3 years on the site and here I am again"

Well indeed she may.

Regarding sizes, I'd quite like to compare and contrast, but somehow I imagine that's off the table.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ghengis

He was offered a reprieve but turned it down

"

He wasn't

Never believe everything you hear

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly...

Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different.

Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years.

Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift.

The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up.

Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance.

All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010.

B "

You have rose coloured glasses on, the rules of 2010 are the same as they are now. No matter how many reports are sent in, unless a person has broken those rules then bans won't be given out. Only the person who has typed something against rules can get themselves banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghengis

He was offered a reprieve but turned it down

He wasn't

Never believe everything you hear"

Rugby can I ask you a question about this just to clarify forum rules for the benefit of all of us?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

About someones ban? or a general question?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Ghengis

He was offered a reprieve but turned it down

He wasn't

Never believe everything you hear"

Like when you thought that you saw me on London Rd a couple of years ago Missus

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ghengis

He was offered a reprieve but turned it down

He wasn't

Never believe everything you hear

Like when you thought that you saw me on London Rd a couple of years ago Missus "

It was you I tell ya !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Steelheels/doris/mavis - i think she sometimes acted as devil's advocate to stir threads up a bit, but she was very fair and unprejudiced. I imagine her to be sitting on the sidelines now, watching us quietly, going to pop up again unexpectedly...

Tbf it's easy to see why she did that. To those who have been on here years, 95% of the forum chat is the rehashed format, circumstances, subjects and debate that has all been done before many times in the last decade or more. Only the usernames are different.

Also comparing the forums now to that of a decade ago the big difference is that posters then spoke more freely and off the top of their heads without worrying too much about half a dozen snowflake reports going in against them and the inevitable ban, as the way the mods enforce forum rules has had to tighten up a lot to accommodate the much more sensitive and easily offended users that have joined Fab in recent years.

Not talking about blatantly offensive subjects such as out and out racism, etc, but the day to day disagreements that get a little heated. The forums of 2010 would generally police themselves with most of these issues as there were fewer users who knew each others' foibles a lot more in depth and generally they were used to sorting out their differences between each other like responsible adults and either one would apologise to the other after a period of rowing and calming down or they'd agree to disagree in the main. There were a few users who this wasn't possible for, but they'd tend to leave Fab as most other forum users would give them short shrift.

The number of trolls were far far less than now too, even proportionately, as Fab was a site unheard of in the maistream so not many thought of joining it purely to wind up.

Mods would only intervene on the forums as a last resort, whereas now I imagine they have to face a constant stream of knee-jerk reactions in case the more sensitive souls get offended in number even over things that would have seemed trivial ten years ago. And the more offended mindset of today is less used to having to deal with their disagreements personally and rationally, nor making allowances for others, so they will instead tend to get on their soapbox, stamp their feet and fire off a report in the first instance.

All of this was all too apparent to Mavis bless her, so she did what she could to try and start and steer forum threads in different directions to the ones that had became mundane to her and a few other long-standing members. Obviously the more sensitive souls found this incomprehensible. It's also one reason the PM game and Secret Service threads are so successful as they offer a degree of more freedom in posting, which was tantamount to what the regular posts were a lot more like in 2010.

B

You have rose coloured glasses on, the rules of 2010 are the same as they are now. No matter how many reports are sent in, unless a person has broken those rules then bans won't be given out. Only the person who has typed something against rules can get themselves banned"

As someone that was around in those days I don't think it is just the view of bans in that post that are through rose tinted glasses.

I know at one time you could scroll back and see some really old threads and they were far more than they are these days. The forums are far friendlier and far more diverse these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About someones ban? or a general question?"

There was a post on here which seems to have disappeared which said that the member under discussion was offered a reprieve but refused to return because of hypocrisy.

Doesn't this constitute a criticism of Admin?

Or have I misinterpreted the meaning?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

As someone that was around in those days I don't think it is just the view of bans in that post that are through rose tinted glasses.

I know at one time you could scroll back and see some really old threads and they were far more than they are these days. The forums are far friendlier and far more diverse these days "

They really were scary at times, you had to read between your fingers

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"About someones ban? or a general question?

There was a post on here which seems to have disappeared which said that the member under discussion was offered a reprieve but refused to return because of hypocrisy.

Doesn't this constitute a criticism of Admin?

Or have I misinterpreted the meaning?"

I quoted that post and removed the others that made more accusations on it

It isn't fair that Admin have lies said against them. That and peoples bans were being discussed. None of which is allowed on the forum

Again, like above, the only time people are banned is if they write or do something that is against rules. If they carry on breaking those rules then they should expect to not being able to post at all. Admin can only give so many chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think someone has already said it , but Taffs Pooch was the saddest loss of the year .

I felt so sad for him "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe time to leave it there now as I am having to remove more posts

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