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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone have any?

Just recently found out about Jenni Lee and Hannah Hays. Both of their stories are pretty heart breaking.

Jenni is a gambling addict who got hooked on crystal meth and lives in the Las Vegas storm drains.

Hannah has a learning disability and it turns out she had it before she joined the industry. She was involved in a car crash when she was 16 and got into the industry at 18 (I think). I'm guessing the crash is why she has a learning disability.

I feel bad for both of them, but especially Hannah since it's hard to know if she really knew what she was getting herself into. I hope she did and I hope she loves what she does, but I feel uncomfortable knowing that her agents got her jobs despite knowing that she has a learning disability. It just feels like she was a vulnerable young girl being exploited and I really hope that wasn't the case.

I don't think I could watch their videos anymore now that I know more about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....You can’t watch someone being fucked because they have a learning disability?

Is her story sad because she has a learning disability, because she was in a car crash, or both?

Why would you assume she has a learning disability because of the crash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the learning disability? Not all learning disability automatically makes someone vulnerable

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

John Holmes is probably the most tragic one cost him his life

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"What is the learning disability? Not all learning disability automatically makes someone vulnerable"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are going to stop watching porn based on the fact stars may have been exploited by an industry that undoubtedly exploits people you'll be watching a lot less porn

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have any?

Just recently found out about Jenni Lee and Hannah Hays. Both of their stories are pretty heart breaking.

Jenni is a gambling addict who got hooked on crystal meth and lives in the Las Vegas storm drains.

Hannah has a learning disability and it turns out she had it before she joined the industry. She was involved in a car crash when she was 16 and got into the industry at 18 (I think). I'm guessing the crash is why she has a learning disability.

I feel bad for both of them, but especially Hannah since it's hard to know if she really knew what she was getting herself into. I hope she did and I hope she loves what she does, but I feel uncomfortable knowing that her agents got her jobs despite knowing that she has a learning disability. It just feels like she was a vulnerable young girl being exploited and I really hope that wasn't the case.

I don't think I could watch their videos anymore now that I know more about them."

Exploitation of the vulnerable and those who feel they have little choice are common in the porn industry. That's why my husband and I don't watch it.

If there's a chance that the people in the video have been coerced in some way then I don't want any part of that.

(I'm not interested in having a debate with anyone over this, it's just my personal view)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have any?

Just recently found out about Jenni Lee and Hannah Hays. Both of their stories are pretty heart breaking.

Jenni is a gambling addict who got hooked on crystal meth and lives in the Las Vegas storm drains.

Hannah has a learning disability and it turns out she had it before she joined the industry. She was involved in a car crash when she was 16 and got into the industry at 18 (I think). I'm guessing the crash is why she has a learning disability.

I feel bad for both of them, but especially Hannah since it's hard to know if she really knew what she was getting herself into. I hope she did and I hope she loves what she does, but I feel uncomfortable knowing that her agents got her jobs despite knowing that she has a learning disability. It just feels like she was a vulnerable young girl being exploited and I really hope that wasn't the case.

I don't think I could watch their videos anymore now that I know more about them."

do you think porn stars enjoy their work then lol its a job once youve been doing it a while like any job it becomes monotonous, routine, mundane

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story. "

I was thinking the same.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story.

I was thinking the same."

Why? This is an open forum...

some Men can be “name nerds”......whether it be the names of sports men, actors/actresses even in vanilla movies....so why not porn stars....just means they watch it enough to remember the names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never heard of either

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

There was a mainstream film made about Linda Lovelace and how she ended up in the industry.

Eye opening stuff.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story.

I was thinking the same.

Why? This is an open forum...

some Men can be “name nerds”......whether it be the names of sports men, actors/actresses even in vanilla movies....so why not porn stars....just means they watch it enough to remember the names "

Did we say it shouldn't have been posted?! Nope, don't think we did. We just expressed our opinion as we are entitled to do on an open forum

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story.

I was thinking the same.

Why? This is an open forum...

some Men can be “name nerds”......whether it be the names of sports men, actors/actresses even in vanilla movies....so why not porn stars....just means they watch it enough to remember the names

Did we say it shouldn't have been posted?! Nope, don't think we did. We just expressed our opinion as we are entitled to do on an open forum "

What I think is even stranger is the fact that you seemed to get upset by a comment that was just a fact...#touchy

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

Jon Ronson has done some interesting pieces on porn stars and the industry in general.

Check out his Butterfly Effect podcast.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"Does anyone have any?

Just recently found out about Jenni Lee and Hannah Hays. Both of their stories are pretty heart breaking.

Jenni is a gambling addict who got hooked on crystal meth and lives in the Las Vegas storm drains.

Hannah has a learning disability and it turns out she had it before she joined the industry. She was involved in a car crash when she was 16 and got into the industry at 18 (I think). I'm guessing the crash is why she has a learning disability.

I feel bad for both of them, but especially Hannah since it's hard to know if she really knew what she was getting herself into. I hope she did and I hope she loves what she does, but I feel uncomfortable knowing that her agents got her jobs despite knowing that she has a learning disability. It just feels like she was a vulnerable young girl being exploited and I really hope that wasn't the case.

I don't think I could watch their videos anymore now that I know more about them."

Ooh yeah, this makes me a bit uncomfortable too

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Jon Ronson has done some interesting pieces on porn stars and the industry in general.

Check out his Butterfly Effect podcast. "

Victoria Coren-Mitchell tried to make a porn film without exploiting anyone (behind the camera, sadly), and wrote a book "once more, with feeling" about her experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have any?

Just recently found out about Jenni Lee and Hannah Hays. Both of their stories are pretty heart breaking.

Jenni is a gambling addict who got hooked on crystal meth and lives in the Las Vegas storm drains.

Hannah has a learning disability and it turns out she had it before she joined the industry. She was involved in a car crash when she was 16 and got into the industry at 18 (I think). I'm guessing the crash is why she has a learning disability.

I feel bad for both of them, but especially Hannah since it's hard to know if she really knew what she was getting herself into. I hope she did and I hope she loves what she does, but I feel uncomfortable knowing that her agents got her jobs despite knowing that she has a learning disability. It just feels like she was a vulnerable young girl being exploited and I really hope that wasn't the case.

I don't think I could watch their videos anymore now that I know more about them.

Exploitation of the vulnerable and those who feel they have little choice are common in the porn industry. That's why my husband and I don't watch it.

If there's a chance that the people in the video have been coerced in some way then I don't want any part of that.

(I'm not interested in having a debate with anyone over this, it's just my personal view)"

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

Hot Girls Wanted is an interesting documentary about the exploitation of young wannabe porn stars in the amateur porn industry.

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

John Dough springs to mind who committed suicide. He was featured in one of the Louis Theroux documentaries about the US porn industry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"John Dough springs to mind who committed suicide. He was featured in one of the Louis Theroux documentaries about the US porn industry."

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"John Dough springs to mind who committed suicide. He was featured in one of the Louis Theroux documentaries about the US porn industry."

That was very sad.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story.

I was thinking the same.

Why? This is an open forum...

some Men can be “name nerds”......whether it be the names of sports men, actors/actresses even in vanilla movies....so why not porn stars....just means they watch it enough to remember the names

Did we say it shouldn't have been posted?! Nope, don't think we did. We just expressed our opinion as we are entitled to do on an open forum

What I think is even stranger is the fact that you seemed to get upset by a comment that was just a fact...#touchy"

Awww you're funny

Which bit was a fact? You're assumption that he was a name nerd (bit rude go call him a nerd but hey, who am I to judge?) Or you're assumption that i care enough about your opinion to get upset about it?

Little secret....none of this is real, it's all just online blustering. I big enough and ugly enough to not get so invested.

You asked a question of me and _iss_tress after we stated we thought it was a weird thread (in an open forum as you helpfully pointed out) so I answered using some of your helpful information to back it up. Not a sign of upset involved.

People are so quick to accuse those who have different views as bring 'upset' or 'touchy' when in fact we just don't agree with them and are able to defend our position with words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theirs 3 or 4 adult actors / actresses over the years that have taken their own life though been in the business, And people think it all money and fame and fortune what about mental health its a job at the end of the day for male and female actors, Been in that industry must play with your head as your a actor at the end of the day but to commit suicide makes you think !

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

As much as no-one likes to hear about exploitation of individuals, in a generic way, why merely pick on the porn industry. The music industry is littered with exploitation and abuse, as is the film industry itself (how about Harvey Weinstein as a modern example) and no-one says they don't watch film or listen to music due to exploitation. The comic industry is rife with exploitation of talent.

In terms of porn no-one talks about the talent in the industry who have their bills paid by doing the work.

Is not the issue with porn is that some of it reflects the sexism and misogyny within society rather than being evil of itself.

These days in porn with pay clips people are in control of their own movies.

Too many people just respond on the basis of their own prejudices. Personally I think the exploitation of staff by Philip Green and John Ashley are equally relevant which is why I no longer shop at Sports Direct or shops owned by Philip Green.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"This is a weird thread. J don't know any porn stars names let alone their back story.

I was thinking the same.

Why? This is an open forum...

some Men can be “name nerds”......whether it be the names of sports men, actors/actresses even in vanilla movies....so why not porn stars....just means they watch it enough to remember the names

Did we say it shouldn't have been posted?! Nope, don't think we did. We just expressed our opinion as we are entitled to do on an open forum

What I think is even stranger is the fact that you seemed to get upset by a comment that was just a fact...#touchy

Awww you're funny

Which bit was a fact? You're assumption that he was a name nerd (bit rude go call him a nerd but hey, who am I to judge?) Or you're assumption that i care enough about your opinion to get upset about it?

Little secret....none of this is real, it's all just online blustering. I big enough and ugly enough to not get so invested.

You asked a question of me and _iss_tress after we stated we thought it was a weird thread (in an open forum as you helpfully pointed out) so I answered using some of your helpful information to back it up. Not a sign of upset involved.

People are so quick to accuse those who have different views as bring 'upset' or 'touchy' when in fact we just don't agree with them and are able to defend our position with words. "

And there you go again....

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"As much as no-one likes to hear about exploitation of individuals, in a generic way, why merely pick on the porn industry. The music industry is littered with exploitation and abuse, as is the film industry itself (how about Harvey Weinstein as a modern example) and no-one says they don't watch film or listen to music due to exploitation. The comic industry is rife with exploitation of talent.

In terms of porn no-one talks about the talent in the industry who have their bills paid by doing the work.

Is not the issue with porn is that some of it reflects the sexism and misogyny within society rather than being evil of itself.

These days in porn with pay clips people are in control of their own movies.

Too many people just respond on the basis of their own prejudices. Personally I think the exploitation of staff by Philip Green and John Ashley are equally relevant which is why I no longer shop at Sports Direct or shops owned by Philip Green. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as no-one likes to hear about exploitation of individuals, in a generic way, why merely pick on the porn industry. The music industry is littered with exploitation and abuse, as is the film industry itself (how about Harvey Weinstein as a modern example) and no-one says they don't watch film or listen to music due to exploitation. The comic industry is rife with exploitation of talent.

In terms of porn no-one talks about the talent in the industry who have their bills paid by doing the work.

Is not the issue with porn is that some of it reflects the sexism and misogyny within society rather than being evil of itself.

These days in porn with pay clips people are in control of their own movies.

Too many people just respond on the basis of their own prejudices. Personally I think the exploitation of staff by Philip Green and John Ashley are equally relevant which is why I no longer shop at Sports Direct or shops owned by Philip Green. "

I couldn’t agree more - having ”dabbled” in the sex industry, there is much more exploitation going on in big business on a much larger scale then there is in the porn industry. An example: an elected MP recently said that people with learning difficulties should not get as much benefits because don’t understand the concept of money.

Exploitation exists where ever people can take advantage of others. It is talked about in porn because porn is a ’sexy/interesting’ subject to talk about, not because it is more prevalent or widespread.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t bother with the names

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

The Mary Millington story is a sad one, ultimately ending in her death. Connection with a lot of well known people in the UK. There is a film about it.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

The real question is why do you give a flying fuck about pornstars when there are people in much worse situations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t even name a porn star!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"The real question is why do you give a flying fuck about pornstars when there are people in much worse situations...

"

It's an interesting discussion? There's always someone worse off, so using that logic we'd never discuss any bad situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirt Queen Cytherea

Really sweet girl pornstar unfortunately aped in front of her husband and kids in Vegas. Don’t think she’s in the industry anymore but her vids are still on PH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

John Holmes had a 14 inch cock . I’m sure it would be hard to learn with such a big dick , every time he got a hard on the blood would rush from his brain . Be hard to learn .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The real question is why do you give a flying fuck about pornstars when there are people in much worse situations...

"

Their real people too, Somebody might say the same about you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(how about Harvey Weinstein as a modern example).

"

Nonce

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