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Your decade in sex

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What have you learned from the past decade that's helping you in to the next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt that I hardly ever had sex in the last decade and the new decade will be different.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's rapidly accelerated.

I've learned that I have a lot to offer, that I'm attractive, and I shouldn't settle. That I have more power than I know. And that it's OK to use it.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

That I must to please my own desires . And that I won't lower my standards to please others.If I don't meet smokers ! I don't care how hot they look!

Be true to my self and don't give a f.... about what strangers think of me .I know me that's good enough for me.Happy New year xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not just sex... It's OK to value myself. In fact I must, no one else is going to.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've learnt that I am definitely bisexual and a lot more of an exhibitionist than I realised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just sex... It's OK to value myself. In fact I must, no one else is going to. "

Absobloodylutely!

Ive learnt more about myself in the last five years than the rest of my life put together.

Mostly that the using, disrespectful cunts can do one

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

That sex doesn't have to be a distant memory once you've got married and had children. You will one day have the energy and feel attractive again.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence and my bisexuality..both only occurred in last 3 years....didn't t know I was bi and confidence wise stayed clear of sex rather than risk being a flop

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not just sex... It's OK to value myself. In fact I must, no one else is going to.

Absobloodylutely!

Ive learnt more about myself in the last five years than the rest of my life put together.

Mostly that the using, disrespectful cunts can do one"

Hell yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although frequency is exponentially increased compared to 2010 (thanks, Fab), I've learned that great sex is meaningful sex. One night stands were a brief but steep learning curve.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've learned that great sex is meaningful sex. One night stands were a brief but steep learning curve. "

A lot of yes to this. I've learned that feelings are more than okay to have and not something to bottle up in fear. That true honest and open communication really does lead to incredible moments to share.

And sexually, I'm actually not too shabby. I am sexually attractive and quite good fun and should remember that.

The most important thing I've learned this decade (after a few years of full on lesbianism) is men and their cocks and their forearms and their Vs and their voices and their shovel hands are an utter delight. Fricking love men now.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

That i'm adept at reading a woman's reactions during sex and adapting accordingly. I really wasn't aware of this capacity before becoming active on fab in 2017. It's made for some epic, olympian bed sports.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

That my last decade was crap very little sex but hopefully this one will be a lot more fun. And that having certain kinks is great and not weird or out of the ordinary. And that sex should be pleasurable for everyone involved. And having toys etc is all part of that fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that sex is not a commodity its a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow never mind decade last 3 years where to begin

Im attractive to women after all these years seems im like wine get better with age

Women can come 100s of times in 1 day

Squirting is a real thing not just a porn thing

Bisexual is a real thing too not just a porn thing

Love at first sight is a real thing and that i am actually capable of having that emotion

All those years of olympic gold as a teen have turned me into a fingering legend

I enjoy rough animalistic raw sex most who knew

I hate group sex im too competitive

My loyalty is undefeatable

And most importantly of all i am the greatest gift to sex this universe has ever or will ever know

And many many many more things

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Wow never mind decade last 3 years where to begin

Im attractive to women after all these years seems im like wine get better with age

Women can come 100s of times in 1 day

Squirting is a real thing not just a porn thing

Bisexual is a real thing too not just a porn thing

Love at first sight is a real thing and that i am actually capable of having that emotion

All those years of olympic gold as a teen have turned me into a fingering legend

I enjoy rough animalistic raw sex most who knew

I hate group sex im too competitive

My loyalty is undefeatable

And most importantly of all i am the greatest gift to sex this universe has ever or will ever know

And many many many more things "

You forgot no one can have your penis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow never mind decade last 3 years where to begin

Im attractive to women after all these years seems im like wine get better with age

Women can come 100s of times in 1 day

Squirting is a real thing not just a porn thing

Bisexual is a real thing too not just a porn thing

Love at first sight is a real thing and that i am actually capable of having that emotion

All those years of olympic gold as a teen have turned me into a fingering legend

I enjoy rough animalistic raw sex most who knew

I hate group sex im too competitive

My loyalty is undefeatable

And most importantly of all i am the greatest gift to sex this universe has ever or will ever know

And many many many more things

You forgot no one can have your penis! "

Ah but thats where your wrong my penis is available like a fully armed and operational battlestation

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By *apiensWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I have learnt that I hardly ever had sex in the last decade and the new decade will be different. "

Samesies. Met husband in 2010; divorced 2019.

I’ve started making up for it but there’s a way to go yet.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

That having a cock up your bum isn't nearly as unpleasant as the nuns would have you believe

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Wow never mind decade last 3 years where to begin

Im attractive to women after all these years seems im like wine get better with age

Women can come 100s of times in 1 day

Squirting is a real thing not just a porn thing

Bisexual is a real thing too not just a porn thing

Love at first sight is a real thing and that i am actually capable of having that emotion

All those years of olympic gold as a teen have turned me into a fingering legend

I enjoy rough animalistic raw sex most who knew

I hate group sex im too competitive

My loyalty is undefeatable

And most importantly of all i am the greatest gift to sex this universe has ever or will ever know

And many many many more things

You forgot no one can have your penis!

Ah but thats where your wrong my penis is available like a fully armed and operational battlestation "

Ladies, look out! He's back

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I've learned that my lack of sexual confidence had a lot to do with the partner I was with and I'm more open and kinky than I thought.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Ah but thats where your wrong my penis is available like a fully armed and operational battlestation

Ladies, look out! He's back "

Yaaay! We can have His Penis! I thought the day would never come.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"That i'm adept at reading a woman's reactions during sex and adapting accordingly. I really wasn't aware of this capacity before becoming active on fab in 2017. It's made for some epic, olympian bed sports. "

Is this just a New Year fabvert?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but thats where your wrong my penis is available like a fully armed and operational battlestation

Ladies, look out! He's back

Yaaay! We can have His Penis! I thought the day would never come."

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By *ems17Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Walsall

I learnt that I am 100% lesbian and I love women

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"That i'm adept at reading a woman's reactions during sex and adapting accordingly. I really wasn't aware of this capacity before becoming active on fab in 2017. It's made for some epic, olympian bed sports.

Is this just a New Year fabvert?

Mrs TMN x"

Never even thought of it like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of fantasies aren't quite the same in reality.

Happiness is the biggest aphrodisiac.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds


"That having a cock up your bum isn't nearly as unpleasant as the nuns would have you believe "

Only in the last decade did I participate in this but I haven't looked back since (you need a big mirror to do that)...

A whole new ballgame (so to speak). I am certainly looking forward to carrying this on into the next decade

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh, I've just thought of some more!

Trying to arrange a group of guys to fuck you is reeeeeeeeally difficult.

You can be an adonis, but if we don't have a laugh during sex, it's not happening for me.

Even after fifteen years with my other half, we are still discovering new and exciting things to do

Mrs TMN x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I'd say more evolved than learnt as i've transitioned from being part of a swinging couple to being a single woman during the past decade - it's completely different, but I think i've now found what suits me, and some amazing people and experiences have shown me that. I have learnt how to navigate this crazy world better, and to use the site to get what I want out of it.

More recently, i've discovered that I can actually have a vaginal orgasm...that came as a bit of a surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must do better, but I only have myself to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can and do enjoy sex. That I’m more attractive than I was ever told. And I’m capable of having an orgasm, in fact multiple orgasms. And wanting oral isn’t something I should be ashamed of asking for x

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

That the body and skin change drastically but that the desire for sex and adventure doesn’t

So guess you have to just accept yourself as you are to live you’re fullest life

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Learned a lot about myself my likes and dislikes. Had a good few firsts this decade too. Pretty good one for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm better than I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting prostate orgasm's while imagining Ryan gosling is gay

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Life after divorce....

That I actually enjoy sex!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Life after divorce....

That I actually enjoy sex! "

My enjoyment of sex has gone up monumentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life after divorce....

That I actually enjoy sex! "

Amen to that. X

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

First 6 years ... arid

Last 4 years ... build an ark it's a flood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rediscovered sex after many wilderness years. I've learnt more about myself and what pleasure is about.

I've also learnt much about women, the power of slow sensual sex and connection. I've met wonderful women and some who really know how to handle my mind and body.

And there is so much more to explore and discover ...

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Ive had more orgasms than i thought i could do ,intense ones at that ,never thought i could share myself with another let alone share him too ,BUT its been the best thing for us ,life lasts but a fleeting second ,no regrets or what ifs ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started the decade in a vanilla marriage, then we split and i became a lifestyle sub, then was in and out of relationships, some good sex some bad, then 1.5yrs agi discovered swinging.

I have learnt alot, my self confidence grew 10 fold, I finally feel free to be me, take control of my own pleasure, and not answer to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good some bad some memorable some not so...., but sexual awakening and pleasure mostly and it’s not wrong to enjoy

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By *apiensWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"What have you learned from the past decade that's helping you in to the next? "

Don’t get married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to retire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sex just gets better as you get older. My confidence as grown. That i feel confident with my body. That i can now get out there and enjoy. But only with the help of my hubby??

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

First part of my decade was virtually sex less. Things have certainly improved on that front in the past year or so!

K

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"It's rapidly accelerated.

I've learned that I have a lot to offer, that I'm attractive, and I shouldn't settle. That I have more power than I know. And that it's OK to use it. "

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Dryer than I would of liked

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

That watching my wife with another man is one of the most erotic things I have ever seen.

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

I've learnt to always play safe and tie her to the bed so she doesn't fall off

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