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Have you ever fallen for your first meet ?

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley

When I first ventured into this field I thought it was simply you meet and complete each other’s desires and you left .

My first meet threw me a-bit to say the least , it was intense and emotional on all levels but I forgot to leave my emotions at the door .

When you was new to fab did you come across this fence ? Did you fall or take the leap ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Nah, i got cylmadyia.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Nah, i got cylmadyia. "

Hahaha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Nah, i got cylmadyia. "

chlamydia even.

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"Nah, i got cylmadyia. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwwwwwww. I will always love Dan Berks!! Bless Dan

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Nah, i got cylmadyia.

chlamydia even. "

Still, it's like chicken pox isn't it, you can only catch it once. Right. Right?!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Do you remember the first time?

I can't remember a worst time,

But we've changed so much since then,

We've grown.....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Ewwwwww no, the dirty pig slurped his froffie coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the first but I have been caught up in a wave of infatuation. But infatuation is exactly what it was, but it too a while to see that.

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"Do you remember the first time?

I can't remember a worst time,

But we've changed so much since then,

We've grown....."

The first time I was well nervous as to are they genuine are they for real and so on .

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ewwwwww no, the dirty pig slurped his froffie coffee."

How dare he. What a neanderthal. Tut tut. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

"

You can't half pick 'em.

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

"

There’s a lot of that on this site you’ve just got to be wary X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

You can't half pick 'em. "

That's makes it sound like there's been loads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

You can't half pick 'em.

Lol

That's makes it sound like there's been loads! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

There’s a lot of that on this site you’ve just got to be wary X"

Think I'll quit while I'm ahead then!

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Ewwwwww no, the dirty pig slurped his froffie coffee."

Grrrrrr I hate excessively noisy eaters and drinkers, especially those who loudly chomp on food whimsy trying to talk. Or suck boiled sweets and lollipops with slurping noises. Funnily enough though, when sucking my "lollipop" the noise doesn't bother me at all....

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

There’s a lot of that on this site you’ve just got to be wary X

Think I'll quit while I'm ahead then! "

Dam I’ve just DM’d you lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She wasn’t my first meet , but I am still in love with her , it’s tough to mix it up sometimes , but we all know the rules !

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By *ussylouWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pretty infatuated with one guy and annoyed at myself for it!

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Our first meet ,was a great introduction and we wont repeat or forget it .Thanks J you gave us a great start on here shame there are not more like you ...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"No but I've had someone say they'd fallen for me and wanted me in their life forever.

Not what I expected at all!!

But he was fucking someone else the whole time

You can't half pick 'em.

That's makes it sound like there's been loads! "

I didn't mean it like that. Sorry. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cringe warning!

My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall at the first indirect forum comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fallen over the fact he was nothing like his photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I have done with one person in the past when we started swinging. I saw them a few more times than I should have.

Lesson learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fall at the first indirect forum comment"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cringe warning!

My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP"

Same. But it was my second. He’s one of my bestest friends in the world and we love each other to bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings! "

We're all different.

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He fell at first hurdle

No attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!

We're all different.

Each to their own. "

Oh yes. I know. Didn’t mean it was wrong to not have. I already know I’m not the norm on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fallen in luvvv

Fuck that shit

Most of them were at sex hardly going to fall in more fall out

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!

We're all different.

Each to their own.

Oh yes. I know. Didn’t mean it was wrong to not have. I already know I’m not the norm on this site "

I know you didn't.

'norm' on this site - sod that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I prefer it. I know I’ll only ever want a FWB situation, and with only one person. I don’t want anything else and never will. I make that very clear from the start. Don’t know how people can have a regular thing long term with people without some sort of feelings!

We're all different.

Each to their own.

Oh yes. I know. Didn’t mean it was wrong to not have. I already know I’m not the norm on this site

I know you didn't.

'norm' on this site - sod that. "

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be able to control my emotions never loved any... Thank fuck.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

My first will always be special and we are still in contact years later

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change."

How did you know ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. From before our first meet we knew this was just sex with friendly people.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nah, i got cylmadyia. "

Don't think they do Antibiotics for Dyslexia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change."

Remember I fell over... a bar stool when we first met

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Spent over a year with my first meet and I still think the world of him. We stopped at a good time and I have no regrets. Had the greatest time but it wasn’t meant to be anything more than it was for either of us. The key is communication and knowing when it’s time to step it up or make a change.

How did you know ? "

Just felt like something needed to change... it had run its course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off. "

But I loves ya chick. Don’t leave me!!!

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

My third meet turned into a stalker. It wasn't nice and won't go into details here. I've also had others that want me to become "regular", I've had over 30 years of that and not what I'm looking for now from swinging.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I was G’s first meet, we saw each other a lot in the space of a few weeks. We soon realised it was more than sex. We’ve now been living together for 18 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cringe warning!

My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP

Same. But it was my second. He’s one of my bestest friends in the world and we love each other to bits. "

This wasn't you about you Nora. Keep out of my pants please

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"My third meet turned into a stalker. It wasn't nice and won't go into details here. I've also had others that want me to become "regular", I've had over 30 years of that and not what I'm looking for now from swinging. "

Hope your well and called the police x

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off.

But I loves ya chick. Don’t leave me!!!"

Haha Nora, you daft bat, I’m not going anywhere.... friends love is way different

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"My third meet turned into a stalker. It wasn't nice and won't go into details here. I've also had others that want me to become "regular", I've had over 30 years of that and not what I'm looking for now from swinging.

Hope your well and called the police x"

I didn't have to because I knew where he worked so threatened him with that. But I would have done. Thanks for message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feelings apart from friendship don’t come into it. I’m clear from the start how I am and I have intention of any feelings either way (except friendship) materialise. If I get a hint of anything more than that, I’m off.

But I loves ya chick. Don’t leave me!!!

Haha Nora, you daft bat, I’m not going anywhere.... friends love is way different "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cringe warning!

My first meet became one of my best friends and I do love her. But probably not in the sense you mean in the OP

Same. But it was my second. He’s one of my bestest friends in the world and we love each other to bits.

This wasn't you about you Nora. Keep out of my pants please "

Hahahaha. Yes sir

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Friends will be friends

When you're in need of love

They give you care and attention.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.

This was 2 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.

This was 2 years ago "

If you ever change your mind, I'd do you

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.

This was 2 years ago "

It’s a rough ride , pardon the pun all the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.

This was 2 years ago

If you ever change your mind, I'd do you"

Ha reassuring to know!

It really can be OP, right when you least expect it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, strictly NSA, no feelings involved. Always upfront about this as we're married. I'm very fond of ppl I've / we've met previously. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve fallen in the past, and to be honest I think that sparked the end of this lifestyle for me. It turned into a regular thing for several months... and I only wanted him. I haven’t met anyone since.

This was 2 years ago

If you ever change your mind, I'd do you

Ha reassuring to know!

It really can be OP, right when you least expect it too!"

I dont like to talk about it much, but I did recently win some awards that might impress you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

"

Remind me to never meet you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first ventured into this field I thought it was simply you meet and complete each other’s desires and you left .

My first meet threw me a-bit to say the least , it was intense and emotional on all levels but I forgot to leave my emotions at the door .

When you was new to fab did you come across this fence ? Did you fall or take the leap ?"

No she asked me for anal and cover my cock I’m s*it lol though I met my partner on fab

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By *arkSuedeMan
over a year ago

London


"Nah, i got cylmadyia. "

Damnnn you! I just spat out my drink

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Bloody hell I would like to meet someone first

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

Remind me to never meet you then "

I'm devastated ,not sure I'm gonna get over it.

Might as well delete my account...

Get over yourself love

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By *arkSuedeMan
over a year ago

London


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

Remind me to never meet you then

I'm devastated ,not sure I'm gonna get over it.

Might as well delete my account...

Get over yourself love "

Perfect response. You answered the question truthfully from your perspective. I don’t see why somebody else would take offence to it and get in a strut. Everyone is entitled to their preference of arrangements. Some prefer the long-engagements, others, on-demand NSA. One isn’t better than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was pretty amazing and I decided not to see him again as it would only bring trouble! Lovely memories though x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My first meet should've been a social but turned into much more. She showed me some of the pitfalls of fab and to this day we're friends

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The first two guys I met have been mentors and remain friends, one I'm very close to. But no, I didn't fall for them.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

Remind me to never meet you then "

Would you rather people got emotionally attached to you after every meet?!

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

I dont fall for anyone. I have a malfunction when it comes to feelings and emotion. Yes i feel the chemistry but nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

"

Good doing what's best for business everyone.

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

yes, hubby and i met on another site 11 years ago! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I developed some feelings for one guy a couple of years ago. He was my regular fabber and so far best sex I had. But over the time he became an asshole and eventually I had to block him and forget about him.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not my first meet on here but fell for one guy the first time we met. There was definitely a spark on both sides. We even had a couple profile for a while. Lasted about a year or so. It was great while it lasted.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Nah, i got cylmadyia. "

Omg I burst out laughing at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

Remind me to never meet you then

I'm devastated ,not sure I'm gonna get over it.

Might as well delete my account...

Get over yourself love "

It’s New Years! Untwist you’re panties and lighten up. Jeeze. It’s simply I’m not a fuck and chuck type, I have had many fwb that I have seen regular and others I see on the odd occasion, we’re not all bunny boilers- honest! L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah you have to do whats best for business,

Fuck em and chuck em, then you can't get too attached

Remind me to never meet you then

Would you rather people got emotionally attached to you after every meet?! "

Of course not. But as long as everyone is on the same level there’s no reason it can’t be regular or a friendship too! I have a different type of relationship for everyone one of my ‘friends!’ L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was a bloody disaster, couldn't wait to leave.

Thank goodness the second was 100% better.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not with the first but I spend a lot of my life straddling that fence. Not neccessarily falling for but I've developed strong affections. A lot of things in life turn out to be temporary, you just enjoy it in the moment. That's kind of how I approach my intimate interactions. As long as we're good and honest to each other, if it comes to an end I'll be grateful for the good times and wish them all the best in the future.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Not with the first but I spend a lot of my life straddling that fence. Not neccessarily falling for but I've developed strong affections. A lot of things in life turn out to be temporary, you just enjoy it in the moment. That's kind of how I approach my intimate interactions. As long as we're good and honest to each other, if it comes to an end I'll be grateful for the good times and wish them all the best in the future. "

Your posts on this sort of topic always echo and resonate with my thoughts. Beautifully put as ever Lacey.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I can't remember my first meet!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I don't remember my fab first

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I can't remember my first meet! "

Dirty mare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fallen on my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasnt my first meet but was first time i met her yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a meet but defo wWould

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes. Totally did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first ventured into this field I thought it was simply you meet and complete each other’s desires and you left .

My first meet threw me a-bit to say the least , it was intense and emotional on all levels but I forgot to leave my emotions at the door .

When you was new to fab did you come across this fence ? Did you fall or take the leap ?"

No but I've fallen for my latest one. He just has every skill a girl needs sexually and he's a thoroughly nice guy too. Been seeing him for a few months now and not been much interested in anyone else to be honest. Dave is cool with it and says "You can't help who you fall in love with".

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley

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By *ylan11 OP   Man
over a year ago

osterley


"Not with the first but I spend a lot of my life straddling that fence. Not neccessarily falling for but I've developed strong affections. A lot of things in life turn out to be temporary, you just enjoy it in the moment. That's kind of how I approach my intimate interactions. As long as we're good and honest to each other, if it comes to an end I'll be grateful for the good times and wish them all the best in the future.

Your posts on this sort of topic always echo and resonate with my thoughts. Beautifully put as ever Lacey. "

Intriguing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my first ever meets - from a different site not here I have been friends with for around 13 years. He's met my family, went to my wedding but I've never felt more for him than really good friendship.

Beast and I fell for each other quite quickly although he said it first while he was d*unk!

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I saw my first for a few months and he taught me a lot, then admitted he had inner conflict and used the L word. He stepped away from me and indeed fab, which I was sad about but it did make even friendship awkward so was the right move.

I'm a very passionate person and have built some amazing friendships on here, but don't confuse that with love, it's not on my agenda.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

I'm a very passionate person and have built some amazing friendships on here, but don't confuse that with love, it's not on my agenda."

Me too.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Not my first meet, but my first fwb back in my Tinder days. He was in the middle of moving out of the country and we fell for each other hard. It was the biggest heartbreak of my life. He’s been back in the UK for a few years and we’re good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I loved all the ones I have met until I met the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ewwwwww no, the dirty pig slurped his froffie coffee."

Ewwwww

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Not from Fab but from a chatroom 20 years ago. Met for the first time for no strings shag and have been together ever since. Bless us!!

T x

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Awwwwwwwww. I will always love Dan Berks!! Bless Dan "

I never met Dan but loved him. Miss him

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