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"No but i've been seen. Once by my postbox looking like death and he messaged me to say he'd seen me Once I was in a car with rellies and never noticed the other bloke..... he too messaged me to tell me he'd seen me. Once again I was in a car and got a message saying .. 'Just seen you.Where do you work?' I've never seen anyone from here. Once saw someone from another site though as he told me where he worked and I happened to have to go there one time ( my friend not me ) . He'd never seen me so I just watched him at work thinking .......fuck this is weird i'm glad it's not the other way around. I never mentioned who I was. " Haha get this all the time on gay app Grindr | |||
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"I saw a lady in costa and recognised her tattoo and as I walked out i said ‘fab tattoo’ and she grinned. Normally, if I saw someone I recognised, I’d not say a word. " What made you say that to her ? | |||
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"Yes they luckily kept on walking by but did text when got to the end of the street to ask if they should come back..., erm no two very separate worlds " Can you imagine actually going back. | |||
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"Such a small world we live in. " Brighton certainly is! | |||
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"Yes they luckily kept on walking by but did text when got to the end of the street to ask if they should come back..., erm no two very separate worlds Can you imagine actually going back." If he’d stopped him I wouldn’t have been amused, but would have covered it up Honestly I was a bit taken aback to see him, seeing as though he was from Scotland and just happened to walk past my local pub near work, which is not on a main street | |||
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"We have been recognised a few times, had a few funny looks when we were in town but generally who ever recognises us sends us a 'ive just seen you' message on here" never had that and I never do it public but will give knowing nod if I can would hate if some one but on the spot in public with my anxiety | |||
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"I got 'outed' on a night out, some young lad recognised me and mentioned it in front of my friends! He then messaged me, he got told and blocked. " Ah, if only they learn to keep their tongues from wagging !! | |||
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"Yes iv met 2 in my taxi (not a fake taxi) lol I just said cheers n goodbye n happy fabbing lol 1 was devastated he never got to do anything in my taxi " I was just gonna say ... what taxis be these you find yourself in ;p | |||
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"A guy delivered to my house then messaged me to say we'd met, when I said we hadn't he said he could prove it and asked me how the takeaway I'd just had was. My response must have scared him sufficiently as I never heard from him again. " What was your response? | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " | |||
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"Yes, I have. It was all polite and no one else would have realised Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " Best way for it. | |||
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"A guy I met on another site recognised me on here and we've met up 2 or 3 times since. He's now turned into a creep again threatening to out me to my husband because I didnt reply to his messages. I should have known better than to have gone there again with him but nevermind. I'm prepared to deal with the consequences if he isn't just all talk but I don't think he'll cope too well if my OH went after him!" Wtf. That's just wrong. Bloody childish. | |||
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"When I had public face pics up I used to get recognised. Luckily they never said anything in public, just messaged me on here. It did annoy me though whenever anyone said they saw me in public but would never show themselves to me. Fucking cowards." That would annoy me too. | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " i have met a few met a guy in a pub in Bournemouth was having a beer on my own and it was busy two guys sat at a table outside said i could sit at their table got chatting he showed me a pic on his phone i said " you on fab" and he was and so happy to find me lol i go occasionally to a pole dancing club and one of the dancers was on fab | |||
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"People don't even recognise me at fabs socials that they know I'll be attending " Lol, that body would be very memorable!! Mrs x | |||
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"I was seen once and he text me later saying "...looking good in x outfit" which was spot on. He said he just watched me walk through the shopping centre looking hot! Haha actually turned me on knowing he was stopped in his tracks for those two mins. Mrs x " That would be a turn on. | |||
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"I got recognised by someone whilst on holiday, he didn't approach me at the time but sent a message on here later to tell me. We were in the same place the next three nights and saw each other then as well. Nice guy. " At least he didn't say anything | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " someone from here is a takeaway delivery driver for Chinese( i met him once a long time ago with a male friend ....my eldest orders every few weeks and he stands at the door trying to chat....the kids just Think he fancies me( they dont know im on here) | |||
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"I recognised a lady in town and managed to get her phone number. The funny thing is she called me a minger online and blocked me lol. " How did you get her number ? | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? someone from here is a takeaway delivery driver for Chinese( i met him once a long time ago with a male friend ....my eldest orders every few weeks and he stands at the door trying to chat....the kids just Think he fancies me( they dont know im on here)" Oh awkward | |||
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"I saw 2 sisters from here at the supermarket, I felt it would be better not to approach and offer to carry their bags while throwing in the line are you on fabs line lol " Can you imagine lol | |||
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"I’ve seen a couple of guys from here and they’ve recognised me, I’d rather they didn’t say anything though, different worlds completely x" its the same world unless one of you is an alien | |||
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"I don’t get all this awkwardness of people being civil and polite when meeting others in public, anyone is free to say hi to us, so long as they are discreet and don’t mention fab if we are with others. Some people don’t get discretion sadly!" exactly its more about being polite and mannerable and thoughtful | |||
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"Yep, happened a few times given my face is all over my profile. Mainly train commuters, it seems. I usually get a smile swiftly followed by a message on fab asking if I’m on the train. Had a fair few fun chats out of the blue that way " I only said ‘tickets please’ | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " Many times seen fabswingers on the streets but I walk on by! | |||
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"I've never met anyone from fab in everyday life and if I did, I wouldn't say anything. I wouldn't want them to either, I'd think they were overstepping." Agreed, Thing is the social skills of many here are poor & to think those same poor social skills are any different off of here is a bit daft. Only person ever to approach us both when we had kids with us was a guy & he blatantly approached H directly. She just looked to me at the same time he did. She said if looks could kill he would have burst into flames on the spot. He quickly said "Sorry" & scooted off.. Still don't know who the hell it was though.. S | |||
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"I don’t get all this awkwardness of people being civil and polite when meeting others in public, anyone is free to say hi to us, so long as they are discreet and don’t mention fab if we are with others. Some people don’t get discretion sadly!" A lot don't | |||
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"My butcher is on here Same " Maybe you have the same butcher ? Lol | |||
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"I'm on the flip side of the coin. I play hockey and there is a girl on here who plays for one of the woman's teams of a club I used to play for. Never said anything on here or at the club and I never would. Wouldn't be fair for either of us. " Fair play to you. | |||
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"Been told a few times eve been seen but I've a public job I never say anything except to the cheeky the bus driver we have banter now haha " Easier say nothing. | |||
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"My butcher is on here Same Maybe you have the same butcher ? Lol" Lol possibly | |||
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"My butcher is on here Same Maybe you have the same butcher ? Lol Lol possibly " You never know | |||
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"I’ve seen a couple of guys from here and they’ve recognised me, I’d rather they didn’t say anything though, different worlds completely xits the same world unless one of you is an alien " | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " I saw someone in the town - she didn’t know me but I was100% certain she was on the site Would never dream of mentioning this. I have a friend on here who doesn’t know I know they are on! | |||
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"Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom. He always tries chatting when I’m there now " Not acceptable. Discretion is everything!!!! | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? I saw someone in the town - she didn’t know me but I was100% certain she was on the site Would never dream of mentioning this. I have a friend on here who doesn’t know I know they are on! " At least you don't feel the need to tell them. | |||
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"If it was someone we had been chatting to on here and by some chance they saw us in public an said hello we would be delighted " Even if you were with other company. | |||
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"We wouldn't like it if someone recognised us and mentioned Fab. This is our private life, that we wan't keeping that way. We would hope people would be 100% discrete, just as we would be. " I'd be the same | |||
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"A man messaged me saying he saw me in town and had a hard on following\watching me WTF! Even worse than talking to me I think!" That's a little creepy | |||
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"I've seen a few.....the first time it happened I msgd the girl on here...she was so nice about it and said I should've came over and said hi.. Then for a couple of months I was catching the same bus as a girl that I saw on here...I came on here and msgd her..she went mental .I could clearly see I had upset her and that wasnt what I was trying to do..so as a rule I say nothing now. I can see why it would freak out some people...the girl from the bus is hot as fuck and I was gutted to get blocked by her because all I wanted to do was apologise " Can't blame her either though. | |||
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"Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom. He always tries chatting when I’m there now " What a knob. I had someone verify me on an old profile saying they’d just seen me on the self serve but nothing as bad as what you’ve had. | |||
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"Yeah, a guy who works in Tesco spotted me. Sent me a message to ask if he could chat next time, I said no, I’m anxious as fuck So what does he do? Comes up to me while I’m pregnant and with my two sisters (15 and 11 at the time) and starts chatting about fab. My husband steers my sisters and I away, and I go have a panic attack in the bathroom. He always tries chatting when I’m there now What a knob. I had someone verify me on an old profile saying they’d just seen me on the self serve but nothing as bad as what you’ve had. " That was truly awful | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol " Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself? | |||
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"As per a similar thread we've know two couples that we've recognised from this site, basically because both had face pics on their profiles. We don't know whether they've identified us, we don't have face pics, but we have met at local business events and shared tables at the local business awards. However, the subject of Fab never came up and no 'knowing looks' surfaced do we guess all our secrets are safe! " That great. | |||
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"I spotted someone from another site I’m on at school pick up! Didn’t message her though " I wouldn't have either | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " I've often thought about this. I've spotted quite a few from here whilst out & about but never approached them. Not even messaged them after to say that I've seen them as that seems about stalkery to me. It's a tricky one. | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? I've often thought about this. I've spotted quite a few from here whilst out & about but never approached them. Not even messaged them after to say that I've seen them as that seems about stalkery to me. It's a tricky one." It's a little stalkerish | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself?" no unlike many i read it on your profile lol | |||
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"Have you ever met someone from here while out and about in public ? Did they say anything ? Would it annoy you if they referred to fab? " Seen a few people most of them men with there wives even as there profiles say single | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself?no unlike many i read it on your profile lol " Finally a guy who reads profiles. | |||
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"No idea most tend to cover there axe wounds in public " Can you blame them ? | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself?no unlike many i read it on your profile lol Finally a guy who reads profiles." i know.......... who'd a thought it......... omg | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself?no unlike many i read it on your profile lol Finally a guy who reads profiles.i know.......... who'd a thought it......... omg " It's a rare auld thing | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself?no unlike many i read it on your profile lol Finally a guy who reads profiles.i know.......... who'd a thought it......... omg It's a rare auld thing " its as rare as a vid on this site of safe sex being performed | |||
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" hey Gillette are you the best a man can get lol Thanks. Did you come up with that yourself?no unlike many i read it on your profile lol Finally a guy who reads profiles.i know.......... who'd a thought it......... omg It's a rare auld thing its as rare as a vid on this site of safe sex being performed " | |||
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"Emm got spotted whilst shopping with a family member in a local town last week by a guy who we've chatted to on here, on & of, for some time. Like a true gent he said nothing but messaged, so I knew before she got home. Subsequently, Emm has told him to say hi next time if she's alone" Maybe one day ye will meet again | |||
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" Theres a few members I know on here...but they dont know I know....capiche? Would never say anything, although I'm constantly paranoid they know!" I'd also be paranoid | |||
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"Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh. I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me. " Did her shouting it out not bother you? | |||
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"Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh. I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me. Did her shouting it out not bother you?" No not at all, there was music playing and no one in the immediate vicinity, so I doubt many, if any actually heard her. | |||
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"Someone I've known for years but rarely see or talk to shouted out fabswingers as I walked past her in a pub, it made me laugh. I've multiple times seen someone who I've had a brief chat with on here some time ago, at my place of work, but I've not said anything and she seems to not recognise me. Did her shouting it out not bother you? No not at all, there was music playing and no one in the immediate vicinity, so I doubt many, if any actually heard her. " Not to bad so. | |||
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