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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone you've planned to meet for a social?

Do you quiet so you have things to talk about?

Or don't want to appear to keen?

or do you keep them chatting to keep them interested?

Or do you think that because they've agreed to a social meet you don't need to keep chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk!!

I find texting hard enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you feel comfy with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just try to be natural. If there’s stuff to chat about I chat. With some people the more I chat with them the more there is to chat about.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It varies from person to person, some I will have a constant flow of chat back and forth, others it'll be occasional messages, there really is no set agenda with each person I've met we tend to find what works for us naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-2 hours daily for a month before my first meet

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

25 hours a day for the first year

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm a talker. If I've arranged a social, I'm still a talker. I carry right on talking because if I'm meeting them then I'm clearly interested in them, and I don't worry that we'll run out of things to talk about!

It's not to keep them interested per se, it's because I'm enjoying the conversation and I trust they are too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day it was all about planning building her excitement and expectations so half the seduction was already set in stone

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I like to talk. Ailsa not so much, but it really depends on how much the other person feels like talking back.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I enjoy a good conversation whether it’s on here or face-to-face. It’s nice to have a laugh and a decent fact-finding conversation with someone and of course going with the flow that’s all you need to do

Of course that’s just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat for ages before the suggestion of a meet even comes up. Best way to get a feel for genuine connection and interest..That said I can be spontaneous..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we keep talking afterwards then that's where it gets interesting....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We keep in contact so they know we haven't disappeared and still intend to meet up, but keep the full conversation until we're all together.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Intense chats first for however long it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting I wouldn't even social until I knew I was initially really interested and that would come from talking. Think I chatted to beast for about 6 weeks before meeting him. Then we had 2 socials before he got me in bed and he's barely been able to kick me out of it since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone you've planned to meet for a social?

Do you quiet so you have things to talk about?

Or don't want to appear to keen?

or do you keep them chatting to keep them interested?

Or do you think that because they've agreed to a social meet you don't need to keep chatting? "

It should flow naturally if it don’t it’s false pretences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily messaging. I talk to my current meet every day, pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got a few regular people on here who i chat with every time im on x

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