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How often do men go limp ...

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Im in 40s and it fucks me off when it happens which is virtually everytime . Wtf is going on ffs .

Women ...is this common it happens to you ?

Men are you in same boat ???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Women go limp when they see me. They faint.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse

Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women go limp when they see me. They faint. "

It's not just women.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Yep, sadly it happens. Mood and relaxation make quite a difference....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse

Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse

Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "

Exactly so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit most women are cool and it’s only our own hang ups that stress us. My pet peeve is when women do think we can have them at the click of a finger. As said above go back to foreplay and slow it all back down if needed. We ain’t teens so no need to finish in 5 minutes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I reckon most of us get hard and then limp* at some point(s) in a session. Just part of the normal ups and downs....

* even Jim

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse

Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "

You so wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only after I'm tasered.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"It happens. Easier said than done, but you shouldn’t let it get you down or indeed stress about it, especially at the time as just makes it worse

Take that time to just relax, return to foreplay and close exploration of each other and everything happen naturally again. "

If that fails pop to Sainsburys for viagra connect..

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By *oyo5053Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater


"Im in 40s and it fucks me off when it happens which is virtually everytime . Wtf is going on ffs .

Women ...is this common it happens to you ?

Men are you in same boat ???"

Yes ...for me so much of whether i have (and provide!) good sex happens in my mind and if something happens that throws me off my stroke(pun intended lol!)it does help to go back to sensual foreplay and try not to put pressure on myself

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It happens to all of us at one time or another OP and for any number of reasons (tiredness, stress, alcohol and many more).

The key, as SC said above, is how you deal with it - let it get to you and you only exacerbate the problem, move onto other things and try and relax and ignore it and usually it rights itself again.

It also helps having and understanding partner (which in my experience most women are to be honest) who is just as relaxed about it as you are.

I think one of the easy pitfalls of this site is to get a false perception that other guys all stay rock solid and can go for hours without cumming, and somehow feel inadequate as a result, which couldn't be farther from the truth.

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Women go limp when they see me. They faint. "

Don’t you mean swoon like off of the 1940’s movies? Yeah I get that trouble to

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

[Removed by poster at 26/01/20 18:46:22]

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

The older I get the more I become reliant on lollipop sticks and cello tape

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Women go limp when they see me. They faint.

It's not just women."
change ya name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im in 40s and it fucks me off when it happens which is virtually everytime . Wtf is going on ffs .

Women ...is this common it happens to you ?

Men are you in same boat ???"

I'll bet any money, it starts going limp a little, then you over think it and it goes soft all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm limp 90% of the time

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm limp 90% of the time"

Viagras ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm limp 90% of the time"

Me too, I'm only hard when I'm having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm limp 90% of the time

Me too, I'm only hard when I'm having sex "

Or masturbating, or when I see a nice lady

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Look at your cardiovascular fitness if you’ve just turned 40. It’s only as hard as you can pump it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As hard as Blackpool rock every day of the week. Phew..

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