FabSwingers.com forum: Semi employed and....

By *ibertines OP Couple
over a year ago

Cupar

(/rant mode on)

I'm self employed. With the way the economy is right now, things are quiet. So my time is my own more or less.

By god..... I still find it hard to keep up with the amount of mail we get. I feel quite strongly about replying to all the sensible mail we get (Folk who make an effort but arent our cup of tea get a friendly few lines back, faceless one line twats get blocked..) but it takes bloody ages. Bout 1 1/2 a day if I was gonna keep on top of it.

I just wanted to point this out to the single guys that do make an effort. Just cos you dont get a reply doesnt make the recipient rude in my opinion. It means they have a job, life, perhaps kids, friends and god forbid other interests. I reckon your best bet, if you actually have a decent profile, pics and made an effort, is a polite, brief, reminder about two weeks later.

Getting pissy about the lack of response, what we are missing and then asking when we are free.....is just laughable.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grrr. Yup.eeeeew a growler too hmmm is it bear country up that way ?"

no bears...but we just released beavers back into the wild