FabSwingers.com forum: Stalker Alert!

By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ever had one on here?

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham

"Ever had one on here? "

On the forum? No

Via Fab? Yes

Found out where I lived and online articles about me! I should of been scared, but I wasn’t. He said my Fab pics don’t match up to the ones online lol. No shit!!! Total creep!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ever had one on here?

On the forum? No

Via Fab? Yes

Found out where I lived and online articles about me! I should of been scared, but I wasn’t. He said my Fab pics don’t match up to the ones online lol. No shit!!! Total creep!

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blimey! scary!

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker. "

Yuk - can’t stand clingy.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few... Mostly women that liked talking shit about me tho... Didn't take too much notice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker.

Yuk - can’t stand clingy. "

I blocked as I could see it heading in the stalker direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever had one on here? "

years back I remember some guy making profile after profile calling it whatever it was 1 then 2 then 3 and so on so maybe I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... Met a guy a couple of years ago. A social meet luckily.

Nearly had sex with him until he started sending videos of him having sex with his girlfriend, asked if she knew he was sharing her vids he said no. I blocked and reported

He continues to keep creating profiles, then message me, I block. The cycle continues

And another about 4 years ago, ended up with me deleting my account permanently... He knew my village and would use the who's near to try and find me I had to delete my account after I got messages of

"I'm a quarter of a mile away... Do you still have that big dog"

Then 'role play r**e*

And 'still looking for you'

He knew I had a German Shepherd... and thank god I did... He scared me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beast had a stalker but wasn't through fab.

I had a incident where I gave my number out and he turned weird so I decided not to meet him. he kept ringing me so I would block his number so he would use a different number. Thankfully he eventually gave up as I didn't want to change my number as it was linked with my business at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer calling them groupies

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Some real sick people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushy and stalker are completely different. If alarm bells ring don't risk it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy who was going round the gardens where we live trying to identify us by the pictures. We got rid of him and he hasn’t been online since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a real life stalker before the internet who very nearly killed me and my then boyfriend, it was an incredibly scary accident tbh

It's a very very scary situation and the best advice I can give is get in touch with the police!!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I had a guy from a different site who kept tracking me down on Kik, one of the reasons I don't use it any more.

Trust me to get a Poundland stalker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Knows where I live, work, what I'm wearing, where I'm going. 2 years I tried to work out who he was but I can't do it.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yep!

The worst was someone that followed me round a supermarket without me being aware, and messaged me as I got back to my car to tell me what I was wearing and what I had bought

I didn't take a direct route anywhere for months

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker. "

Same

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker.

Same"

You still trying to shake off Jim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had someone identify me on here from a dating site then contact me. I think that was his hobby, presumably in an attempt to shame people. I don’t think it was personal. Otherwise no. I clearly don’t inspire strong enough emotions in people. Thank goodness. Have enough creepy controlling men to deal with in other aspects of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience. Befriend them and arrange a meet. Then just have a burly bunch of guys to meet them. You won’t here anything again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One girl even googled my mum and dad

she should be a p.i

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

not on here but two in real life. One when i was 17 and one when i was 23

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

I met a guy socially on my own before I met partner and joined the swinging community on another online site. I decided not to take it further, but for the next 6 weeks he would call or text me any time of the day. I never responded and yes, I could have blocked his number, but then, he could of used a different number to get my attention that I may have answered.

He gave up after 6 weeks until one day he changed his profile name and contacted me again online through the site, as if it was the first time. The stupidest thing was I spotted it straightaway, because he used the same text and pictures on his older profile.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Had someone copy my whole profile once (when I was a single lady on Fab) and they messaged everyone on my friends list. Scary, no idea who it was or what the point was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never had one. Hardly surprising though

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Some scary stories on here, please go see the Police if not in immediate danger and call 101 the non emergency number for advice.

I have only had persistent messages from a few guys on here, so the block button has been a godsend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had someone copy my whole profile once (when I was a single lady on Fab) and they messaged everyone on my friends list. Scary, no idea who it was or what the point was! "

I had that too

copied my photos

and profile

some really sick people out there

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yep!

The worst was someone that followed me round a supermarket without me being aware, and messaged me as I got back to my car to tell me what I was wearing and what I had bought

I didn't take a direct route anywhere for months "

I've had some messages like that, but fortunately for me they've never been me yet.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"From experience. Befriend them and arrange a meet. Then just have a burly bunch of guys to meet them. You won’t here anything again. "

H did similar, knew the guys car so put a photo in an envelope of her with her older brother & a few of his mates.

Her brother is in the HA. Didn’t hear from the guy again..

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

There was one fella who used to follow single ladies home from a NW club. Be careful what info you give out and where you park ladies.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Ever had one on here? "

Only you Steve...

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Both male and female (not connected) but only to the extent of excessive messaging from the guy and wanting more than sex and attending the same events and also the female wherever we put our name down to attend she followed after not having not one of the best meets we had experienced lol which was a worry and a bit awkward but both didn’t know where we live, thankfully

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ever had one on here?

Only you Steve...

I’m quite open about licking your photos

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Ever had one on here?

Only you Steve...

I’m quite open about licking your photos

We know.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a stalker through fab but have had a few from tinder

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Had someone copy my whole profile once (when I was a single lady on Fab) and they messaged everyone on my friends list. Scary, no idea who it was or what the point was!

I had that too

copied my photos

and profile

some really sick people out there "

Yep spooked me for a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site is full of nutters, can't say i'm surprised by some stories.. stay safe

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ever had one on here?

Only you Steve...

I’m quite open about licking your photos

We know..... "

Haha! Winked And Fabbed - that’s a WAF

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If anyone feels they have someone on here they don’t want contact with, block them and report them to admin.

In real life - keep a diary and report to police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago yes.

Slightly amusing at first with messages, but then comments about work incidents, what I did etc started becoming awkward and uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone feels they have someone on here they don’t want contact with, block them and report them to admin.

In real life - keep a diary and report to police."

True, but when you're trying to keep this life very quiet its difficult.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If anyone feels they have someone on here they don’t want contact with, block them and report them to admin.

In real life - keep a diary and report to police."

Absolutely. But sometimes it helps to talk about it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

when i first had the internet i had a guy set up a yahoo account with a full naked picture and my telephone number to contact me. I learnt my lesson early

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If anyone feels they have someone on here they don’t want contact with, block them and report them to admin.

In real life - keep a diary and report to police.

Absolutely. But sometimes it helps to talk about it. "
yes, definitely

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

On here, but it was a clique member, so it turned out to be my fault.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Not on here but on another site. We chatted for a while but then he started asking way too many questions about where I was etc & it set off alarm bells so I blocked him. He created a couple of new accounts and messaged pretending to be other people but pretty quickly I realised it was him. He then found me on Facebook & messaged so I had to block him there too.

Very glad I never revealed exactly where I lived as I am pretty sure he'd have tracked me down in person.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If anyone feels they have someone on here they don’t want contact with, block them and report them to admin.

In real life - keep a diary and report to police.

True, but when you're trying to keep this life very quiet its difficult. "
true.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

[Removed by poster at 29/12/19 18:17:39]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right i'm off to turn my location off

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"[Removed by poster at 29/12/19 18:17:39]"

That wasn’t suspicious

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not a stalker as such but an old lover that I used to meet with regularly (last meet was in 2015) that I met on a different site keeps contacting me on KIK when I block by deleting his account and creating new ones and looks for my profile on here by deleting his account and creating new ones. Although I’m not actually sure how he discovered me on here...

I think he’s just very keen for another shag than being a full on stalker. I don’t feel threatened by him anyway. He asks to meet, I say no and he deletes and then contacts me again in a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right i'm off to turn my location off

I never have mine on at home, it's a small community.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Ever had one on here?

Only you Steve...

I’m quite open about licking your photos

We know.....

Haha! Winked And Fabbed - that’s a WAF

And all those years I was thinking you meant something else, oh hum.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker.

Same"

Same.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

It wasnt on here and was a good 12-13 years ago. A woman took a bit of a shine to me and would randomly turn up everywhere I went. She even knew where I worked and kept leaving notes with my workmates to pass on to me.... It only ended when I moved home and job over 30 miles away....

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ever had one on here?

Only you Steve...

I’m quite open about licking your photos

We know.....

Haha! Winked And Fabbed - that’s a WAF

And all those years I was thinking you meant something else, oh hum."
it’s got various meanings depending on how sexualised your imagination is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, he knew me as was local though I didn’t know him. He messaged and at first I thought he was harmless until he started saying I was sending him messages that I wanted him as I must have smiled at him in the street. Then he was sitting in his car at the top of my road. Blocked him then. X

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Only my ex. Blocked and reported every time but he keeps coming back!

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s mostly men

No fucking idea at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's quite frightening Angiebu

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

An ex a few years ago. It's part of why I'm incredibly guarded and rarely tell people things other than the usual basic info.

Mostly I've just known people to get quite to incredibly fixated on others.

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By *ephyr66Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yes. Knows where I live, work, what I'm wearing, where I'm going. 2 years I tried to work out who he was but I can't do it.

Seems an inppropriate forum topic to ask you on.....but are you actually the famous burlesque performer of the same name?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Had a couple of online stalkers but also one in real life but he was from a site years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange that people have to try and find out who you are on social media and contact you even though you wanted no contact with them on fab

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"On here, but it was a clique member, so it turned out to be my fault.

Your married, isn’t everything your fault anyway?

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Knows where I live, work, what I'm wearing, where I'm going. 2 years I tried to work out who he was but I can't do it.

Seems an inppropriate forum topic to ask you on.....but are you actually the famous burlesque performer of the same name?"

Just had to Google her, I wish!!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep was horrendous

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"On here, but it was a clique member, so it turned out to be my fault.

I'm sorry Clem. Have changed my ways now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here (yet) but 3 years ago I had one who kept messaging me on another site , saying he saw me in the street . Shops gym etc he didn't have a photo , I would block him but he would set up another one , he must of followed me as he wrote I know where you work and named the place . I went to the police who said he hasn't committed a crime and to ignore him , this went on for months , he would tell me what clothes I was wearing at the gym etc , so I moved to another one , all went quiet then it started again bug got more serious as he got hold of my phone number ( some stupid woman at work fell for he's lies and give it to him outside work whist I was on holiday ) I would get call after call for weeks so got 02 to change my number again police wouldn't do anything , final one was a note put threw my door just saying hello miss you , I knew it was him , it freaked me out as I have never met or so

Chatted to this bloke , I knew what he looked like and the car he drove from the works cctv , I had a neighbour tell me someone was looking threw my windows and letterbox he approached the man who said he was my brother ( I don't have one ) and he was concerned for me as I didn't answer my phone he thought I had an accident in my home , I soon moved out and changed jobs the freak must of moved onto someone else . There's lots of nutters out there

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

When I first joined the scene I had a social with a guy during the day he was quite pushy, said he knew some of the people that gave me Veris was slagging them off, saying they were bad news! Which so wasn’t true as never of them had heard of him ha! I smelt a rat in him and decided to calmly leave and said I would be in contact!

I blocked him and he contacted a couple of the people that I had met socially through my Veris.... ask them to pass messages on to contact him and then as I didn’t message him set up numerous new profiles to get hold of me!

Doesn’t sound too bad now..... however scared me in the beginning for sure!

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

Yes checking profile every day 8 or more

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Kind of and when they see this I may get a shitty message.

I bet you think this comments about you don’t you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely careful and only give personal info that is absolutely necessary... which is barely any. It's worked so far for me. Any sign of weirdness and they're blocked on here and they'd have no other way of finding me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an online stalker but real life one I’ve had. I moved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of and when they see this I may get a shitty message.

I bet you think this comments about you don’t you?

Yes

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Not an online stalker but real life one I’ve had. I moved

Yeh thankyou for telling me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not an online stalker but real life one I’ve had. I moved

Yeh thankyou for telling me.....

Oh god you found me

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Not an online stalker but real life one I’ve had. I moved

Yeh thankyou for telling me.....

Oh god you found me

I always find you......

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"On here, but it was a clique member, so it turned out to be my fault.

Your married, isn’t everything your fault anyway?

;-)

True, true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever had one on here? "

Yep on Fabs and Fabs/real life

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Yes, a couple of men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here, but it was a clique member, so it turned out to be my fault.

Your married, isn’t everything your fault anyway?

;-)

True, true.

Who was it clem? I'll get em...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's quite frightening Angiebu "

It was, especially as my boys are very vulnerable x

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not a stalker, but an ex gf (after we’d split up) left a note about meeting up on my car which was parked in a road near where I worked at the time. We didn’t have a car park at work so had to try and park close to work so never in the same place twice, meaning she’d had to look for it.

(This was about 20 years ago so well before social media).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am stalking I am just a curious guy not bi curious though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am stalking I am just a curious guy not bi curious though "

But send me cock pics anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not stalking I am just a curious guy not bi curious though

But send me cock pics anyway "

Not* bloody Freudian slip !!

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I am not stalking I am just a curious guy not bi curious though

But send me cock pics anyway

Not* bloody Freudian slip !! "

Is that what he wore Saturday nights?

I’ve just blocked one.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Can't think of any reason at all why someone would want to stalk me...other than desperation.

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Yep we have just encountered something upsetting. Its why weve hidden most pics now xx

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"I've had some get a bit possessive but not full on stalker.

Yuk - can’t stand clingy.

I blocked as I could see it heading in the stalker direction. "

Had a few like that, luckily I can give them a wide berth at the club & there's plenty of people around that I can chat to or play with on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not full on outside my flat stalker, but 1 found my real name and found me on facebook.

Another was just looking at my profile about 4 times an hour every day for months, whenever I went into a chatroom he appeared, so I blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not full on outside my flat stalker, but 1 found my real name and found me on facebook.

Another was just looking at my profile about 4 times an hour every day for months, whenever I went into a chatroom he appeared, so I blocked."

That's why I perve incognito

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not full on outside my flat stalker, but 1 found my real name and found me on facebook.

Another was just looking at my profile about 4 times an hour every day for months, whenever I went into a chatroom he appeared, so I blocked.

That's why I perve incognito

Haha it is not creepy if you dont know right

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