FabSwingers.com forum: No success

By *oll30 OP Man
over a year ago

Maghull

Hi,

I've had no success since starting nearly a year ago.I'm not really the sort of person going to bars/clubs, so... Any ideas? Please feel free to look at my profile to criticise.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Get to a group social, good way to interact with people and pick up a few veris

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The first couple of things on your profile are negative comments about yourself, and you have one very unclear picture. That's what I would change.

And try a few clubs and socials if you're confident enough

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You’re a bit of a Negative Norman.

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By *oll30 OP Man
over a year ago

Maghull

Wow! such quick replies. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing enticing about your profile, nothing makes you stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always puts me off when profiles say they’re looking for someone to show them the ropes.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It really seems like you have deliberately created a profile that is as negative as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly there are so many red flags on your profile I'm not sure where to begin. But rightly or wrongly I'm guessing you are in a relationship, bored and having hit 30 desperately want to make up for what you feel was a wasted youth.

The no sc#t and no dr#gs is a bit weird and unnecessary. The bit about having being verified by mistake even more so.

Would you respond to your own profile?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your picture is blury, you come across as negative and give no no clues on what your looking for.

Go to an organised social, get noticed on the forums.

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By *oll30 OP Man
over a year ago

Maghull

I'm single.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

you sound like a virgin

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm single."

You cannot accommodate, which could be for any number of reasons, but rightly or wrongly some people will assume it means you're attached. Not much you can do about that though, and it's your choice if you want to accommodate or not

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Honestly there are so many red flags on your profile I'm not sure where to begin. But rightly or wrongly I'm guessing you are in a relationship, bored and having hit 30 desperately want to make up for what you feel was a wasted youth.

The no sc#t and no dr#gs is a bit weird and unnecessary. The bit about having being verified by mistake even more so.

Would you respond to your own profile? "

this... this... this....

would you honestly answer your own profile?

also... if the verification is a mistake, then you are also circumventing the "green tick" rules.........

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm single."
yes....

Ok, why the reference to ‘sc*t’? Do you think swingers are really into it? Literally? It makes you look as though you think people are and I imagine very very few are. I’d lose that bit for starters.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

At least you’re listening to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you fab straight, OP?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 29/12/19 17:15:17]

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi,

I've had no success since starting nearly a year ago.I'm not really the sort of person going to bars/clubs, so... Any ideas? Please feel free to look at my profile to criticise. "

You are competing against thousands of fit as fuck single men who have been around the block a couple of times who have fantastic photos and a quick wit.

With that in mind you'll begin to appreciate how much of an up hill task you have. People are here for their own hedonistic pleasure, no one has time to show you the ropes.

Upload a clearer picture, write something positive about you...blow your own trumpet - sans hyperbole - join in the forums and good luck!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hi,

I've had no success since starting nearly a year ago.I'm not really the sort of person going to bars/clubs, so... Any ideas? Please feel free to look at my profile to criticise.

You are competing against thousands of fit as fuck single men who have been around the block a couple of times who have fantastic photos and a quick wit.

With that in mind you'll begin to appreciate how much of an up hill task you have. People are here for their own hedonistic pleasure, no one has time to show you the ropes.

Upload a clearer picture, write something positive about you...blow your own trumpet - sans hyperbole - join in the forums and good luck!

YOU CAN SAY THAT AGAIN!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"[Removed by poster at 29/12/19 17:15:17]"
ha!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It really seems like you have deliberately created a profile that is as negative as possible. "

Profile looks much better now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"[Removed by poster at 29/12/19 17:15:17] ha!

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By *oll30 OP Man
over a year ago

Maghull

Thank you for the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really liverpool is the hotbed of most of my sex

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By *oll30 OP Man
over a year ago

Maghull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, it's really confusing to me that your profile says straight, but you're looking to meets TS/TVs. You should maybe change that to bi.

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