FabSwingers.com forum: Should I repay?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So... When we 1st started talking about swinging etc Emma said she was bi and I told her that I was slightly curious myself, we have had meets with couples with bi fems and she has had fun exploring with fems and I have enjoyed watching but she now says its time I started to explore my "bi side" as it's her fantasy to see me being sucked off by a guy, but I'm not 100% sure how I would feel about it.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

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"So... When we 1st started talking about swinging etc Emma said she was bi and I told her that I was slightly curious myself, we have had meets with couples with bi fems and she has had fun exploring with fems and I have enjoyed watching but she now says its time I started to explore my "bi side" as it's her fantasy to see me being sucked off by a guy, but I'm not 100% sure how I would feel about it. "
Well you have communicated with each other, if she knows you arent sure /nervous etc....maybe let prospective meets know the score

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are comfortable doing something... Do it...

If not dont...;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for advice, will see how it goes after a few JD's

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Cheers for advice, will see how it goes after a few JD's

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good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? Well you would feel like you have been sucked off by a guy!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Do something when you're ready, rather than under pressure. Whilst excitement and nerves can often get blurred, and so can make it feel that you're not 'confident', take the time to get to know how you really feel about this, deep down.

There are lots of options - if it was at a club, then you can quickly move on, whereas if it's at home, then it could be slightly more awkward, if it doesn't go right: you'll know where you stand etc.

Gut instincts are so important to us, that we are wise to really hone in on our own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do something when you're ready, rather than under pressure. Whilst excitement and nerves can often get blurred, and so can make it feel that you're not 'confident', take the time to get to know how you really feel about this, deep down.

Gut instincts are so important to us, that we are wise to really hone in on our own."

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If & only if you think you will cope.

Maybe let her decide when & be blindfolded on the meets, let yourself be touched not knowing who is touching you..be pleasured and just feel...maybe it would work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a feckin big step from curiosity to reality - sometimes ya need a ladder and a leg up !

Take your time, don't think about it too much, don't feel pressured into a situation.

If you build too much of an issue about it in your head, you will always find a reason for it not to happen.

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