FabSwingers.com forum: Bi Ladies. I’m doing an audit.

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A new, young couple have mailed asking for advice of how to get a woman to meet them both.

I’m at a loss for what to even say... I CAN’T EVEN GET ONE FOR MYSELF never mind a single F to share with a man.

Now I’m not an mff fan but pretend you have to meet a couples profile with an option of both of them or just her. What would you pick?

I’m saying ‘just her’.

Just curious what’s most popular is all xx

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

There was a very good thread the other day about exactly that.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm only meeting ladies, so "just her".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just her

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"There was a very good thread the other day about exactly that. "

Yes "How to find a unicorn", I think.

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"There was a very good thread the other day about exactly that.

Yes "How to find a unicorn", I think."

I will take a look xx

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We struggle to find a girl just for Lou !!!!

But half the fun is trying to meet one x

Ray

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just her.

Although often couples present themselves in ways which put me off tbh.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Depends on my mood at the time. Right now I'm in my cockcentric phase so both of them. Give it a few months and probably just her.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

It varies, depending on mood and attraction. If they're both attractive, then yes , both of them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"There was a very good thread the other day about exactly that. "

I completely misread your OP!

Dont mind me!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Maybe they'd have more luck going to a club or social & meeting people socially face to face?

As a single female I'd certainly be looking at social meets first, with both of them there, to establish if there is an initial connection & physical attraction & also to be sure that both of them are genuinely up for more.

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Maybe they'd have more luck going to a club or social & meeting people socially face to face?

I said this too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a lesbican if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I’ve met mf couples in the past and majority of them you can tell the females are not really up for it and only doing it to please her man I’m not suggesting that’s every case but I use to make my excuses and leave

in other cases I’ve had the best time with just the females and the males watching taking pics etc

I’m more into either sharing the female with her other half and him not Fuck me but we both fuck her or I’m into just the female half for myself (greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly I’ve met mf couples in the past and majority of them you can tell the females are not really up for it and only doing it to please her man I’m not suggesting that’s every case but I use to make my excuses and leave

in other cases I’ve had the best time with just the females and the males watching taking pics etc

I’m more into either sharing the female with her other half and him not Fuck me but we both fuck her or I’m into just the female half for myself (greedy

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But I started preferring to meet at clubs also

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

in other cases I’ve had the best time with just the females and the males watching taking pics etc

I’m more into either sharing the female with her other half and him not Fuck me but we both fuck her or I’m into just the female half for myself (greedy

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You just like it all then eh? Don’t blame you

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

So bare with me as my answer is a bit long winded. As the bi female half of a couple

So it depends on the couple as to my answer!! I rarely meet couples on my own even though I will mostly this is because of the below answer.

If a couple are just looking for a female as experiment whilst he watches but is not involved I'd decline this. Even more so if shes never played with a woman before.

If it's a three way thing I would possibly consider it. Again depends on the reasoning really.

As a couple we prefer to swap as well me play with the female. Not a watching type scenario so I would opt to meet the female one on one over meeting another couple who dont swap.

That said 99.9% of the couples we see looking to meet a bi female dont meet alone so mostly I would I decline. As mentioned above a lot of the time the female doesn't actually want to do it!! For me (and I could be wrong here it's an opinion) this becomes a little more apparent if hes happy to have sex with someone elses wife or another woman but she doesn't have sex with other men. To me then it feels it's all about the fellas wants.

As a couple where I am bi it's difficult. Because a lot of single women dont want to meet us for fear of some of these things mentioned above. This is very much not the case with us. I enjoy playing with women and I love watching C have sex with other women also.

We try to meet full swap couples where the lady likes bi play too... but this is becoming hard to find!! We like to find regular play mates as it's much more fun that way!!

We dont have any clubs all that near but do try to get to some. Alas sadly our 2 actual club experiences were that barely anyone spoke and barely anyone played with anyone but their own partner. We have a local regular massive house party nearby which we have more success at.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think L is according to our verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just her

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm definitely, in principle, open to meeting couples. But struggle to make it work.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here as a single girl I would prefer just her. I only met with couples who I had established friendships with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just her, definitely.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?"

Fair one. The latter. Shall wait for my invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully bi woman here. I wouldn't meet a straight woman for a threesome - I'd sort of feel like the one left out of the fun? I'd need the interaction from both her and him to make it work for me. I think... But could be persuaded under the right circumstances.

xx Niki

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?

Fair one. The latter. Shall wait for my invite

But you're not straight!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Just her. I’ve had some cracking meets with couples but they’re outweighed by the number of bad meets with couples who have too many rules and are not up front about it.

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?

Fair one. The latter. Shall wait for my invite

But you're not straight!

Ffs. Homophobe

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If we are all a good match I'd say both but my interest lays more with the woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just her

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?

Fair one. The latter. Shall wait for my invite

But you're not straight!

Ffs. Homophobe

I just don't want to feel left out while you fuck my missus

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?

Fair one. The latter. Shall wait for my invite

But you're not straight!

Ffs. Homophobe

I just don't want to feel left out while you fuck my missus

You'll be the one talking about cake and shopping!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"What about the couples who want to meet a straight woman, we are fabs forgotten

Well the straight woman wouldn’t meet the woman alone would she so that would have been a bit of a short thread

Fair point, but would a straight woman rather meet a straight man or a straight couple where she could fuck the man but talk about shopping and cakes with the woman?

Fair one. The latter. Shall wait for my invite

But you're not straight!

Ffs. Homophobe

I just don't want to feel left out while you fuck my missus

You'll be the one talking about cake and shopping!"

I love cake and shopping!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

This may be a bit of a tangent but please don't shoot me.

I (Luke) see a lot of comments (not just on this thread) about how often women will have MFFs to please their male OH, rather than because she wants it herself. It makes me wonder if there is another different dynamic going on too.

The amount of "just her" responses here (combined with the frequent desires expressed by women to find other women without men being involved) makes me a bit disheartened. It makes me wonder if the main reason for some single ladies get involved with couples is because they see it as a way of having intimacy with a woman, but since the man comes in tow so they put up with that rather than it being what they want. I'm not saying that is the case. I hope it isn't. I'm just asking the question.

We would like to experience an MFF with the right person at the right time. I would never ever want Hannah to do that "for me". It should be because she wants it too (which she genuinely does). That would also apply to any woman who joins us. I would much rather a lady told us she wanted to be with Hannah alone if that's what she wanted rather than me and Hannah. I would be fine with that if it's done respectfully. I don't feel the need to muscle in on two women who want to experience each other sexually just because one is my life partner.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Just her but I do meet couples too! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. Don't meet couples or either half.

Straight. Wouldn't have a ffm either to please a guy.

Here for my own agenda, sod anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the couple and the dynamic but I look for couples where the woman does most of the messaging. I don’t need to worry that anything is ‘lost in translation’ then. And I know that she will be an active participant at least, in control and making me do all sorts of filth to her at best.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Depends on the couple and the dynamic but I look for couples where the woman does most of the messaging. I don’t need to worry that anything is ‘lost in translation’ then. And I know that she will be an active participant at least, in control and making me do all sorts of filth to her at best.

I have various chats with Fabbers on PM. As soon as a serious possibility of meeting arises I get Hannah to take over as much as possible for exactly those reasons. Hannah would never encourage any kind of meet if it wasn't what she wanted.

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

We don't mind other couples, but out of choice I (Mrs) would say just her xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that.

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that. "

Interesting comment there, why is it so difficult xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I the female do most of the chatting on fab.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that.

Interesting comment there, why is it so difficult xx"

Maybe it's because a lot of these women are in couples and are not seen as available for meeting women on their own. Hannah's free to do that and potentially would but we don't publicise it. I have read on here that there are some women who appear to meet alone who then go on to say that her man has to join in.

Maybe we need a thread so couples can say if they would meet and f without the m being involved.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

What do you mean? As in, one half of of the couple isn't really that into the single female? None will admit that.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that.

Interesting comment there, why is it so difficult xx"

Not really hard to figure out, this is 40 ish posts on the forum, how many of these people are anywhere near each other, or even attracted to one another. Women who want to meet women are still a massive minority on here.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I do 99.9% of the chatting. I hope that people will know that I am a genuine bi lady who loves swinging, and not just here to please my man. My husband would be happy me meeting ladies for 1 on 1 fun, but currently I want to enjoy our sexual adventures together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

What do you mean? As in, one half of of the couple isn't really that into the single female? None will admit that. "

It must of happened thou. Possibly even with both taking one

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By *akemepurrWoman
over a year ago

Fife

As a single bi woman I am open to meeting with couples, or just the female half, but it’s very rare that I fancy both enough to make it to a social. I’m also a bit shy sometimes and don’t like the ‘live p*rn’ aspect. I also find that some couples (like single men) ignore the fact that I say on my profile I always do a social first and try to go straight for a hotel meet or similar. I’ve found that I’m more successful at meeting a couple at a social event rather than via fab itself.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

What do you mean? As in, one half of of the couple isn't really that into the single female? None will admit that. "

A similar question I asked early but it was convoluted was: Are there women who want to be intimate with another woman who accept a man's involvement only because that's easier to achieve than finding a woman who will meet without a man, but don't really want the man there?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

What do you mean? As in, one half of of the couple isn't really that into the single female? None will admit that. "

We would as Miss.Red is 99% straight, in a mff with us it would be just me playing with the lady.

Probably why we will never have one!

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over a year ago

"So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

What do you mean? As in, one half of of the couple isn't really that into the single female? None will admit that.

Well I’m that case I think mr would pick up on that and either 1. Fucks off and makes the tea or 2. Watch

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"So many couples after a unicorn.

How many would admit to maybe taking one for the team(so to speak) to get that mff due to them being so rare

What do you mean? As in, one half of of the couple isn't really that into the single female? None will admit that.

We would as Miss.Red is 99% straight, in a mff with us it would be just me playing with the lady.

Probably why we will never have one!"

That's pretty much exactly what I would want.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Both.

Only if us ladies can have one on one time, while the guy sits in the corner and twiddles his thumbs

Then when we are done he gets two horny women to play with

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently going through this part of my journey.

I'm single female and identify as straight ... although im sure there are at least 175 critics who may say otherwise

I recently started messaging a mf couple following an initial appreciation of each others' photos.

The conversation that followed was effortless and natural thus leading to arranging to meet both to discuss dynamics further in person; a social.

Obviously if they were a mf couple not wanting to meet together it would have been a very different conversation.

I think I'd also always choose to meet both. For me seeing the dynamic of the couple is part of my pleasure and excitement for me.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that. "

There’s not enough quality ladies only events. I run one quarterly in Yorkshire but other months have to travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like most couples would love the elusive unicorn so would say in the scenario of the OP probably just her. We have been lucky to find the occasional single bi female and we both get involved.

Both of us would need to be attracted to them and there isn't any "taking one for the team". Same with couples - Mrs would need to be attracted to both parties and I would need to be attracted to the lady.

We have had instances at parties where you can tell the woman says she's bi but isnt really - happy to kiss and fondle but the idea of going below the waist scares them.

But we chalk it all up to experience.

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over a year ago

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Both

The thing I find hard on here is liking both half’s of the couple and find most men do just want to watch rather than join in to!

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that.

There’s not enough quality ladies only events. I run one quarterly in Yorkshire but other months have to travel. "

Will inbox you about the next York’s one.

To answer the first half of that post. It’s REALLY hard for as many ladies are saying they want 1-on-1 it never transpired to that in inbox chat there’s ALWAYS the ‘I’ve got a man’ twist at the end. I honestly think the majority of women would say 1-on-1 as the reality is they don’t wanna play with someone else’s man but if the opportunity to involve their own arises then they try for that every time

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Both

The thing I find hard on here is liking both half’s of the couple and find most men do just want to watch rather than join in to!"

Then search out the ones who don’t

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"This may be a bit of a tangent but please don't shoot me.

I’ll be open here & say the reason H doesn’t play alone is she doesn’t want me doing the same & whether I do or not her brain/fairness gene whatever says if I wanted to I could & I don’t disagree with that thought.

At present she’s not happy with that idea so she doesn’t play alone on here.

What we have done though is started to work this through having a long term gf, we’ve played together numerous times & H has alone when they went to an event together I wasn’t interested in & she stayed over.

There will be an event at some point that H isn’t into & I will be the one staying over. H is much happier for “It” to happen with someone she already knows, trusts & interacts with.

We actually think there are many ladies on here like H who’s other halves either see FF play as harmless fun so the wife can do it but the wife sees him having MF fun with another as “Not on” so we hear “He doesn’t play” “Not interested” or “Just watches” etc. Couples having joint & single profiles are rare, couples where she has but he hasn’t are less so.

Difference here is that when single H had a FF relationship lasting four years so a bit more than Bi if you see what I mean. Hence why we view FF & MF meets with others the same & not the FF as just a bit of fun.

If I dropped dead today H would hunt for a female not a male as in her words “I can get a Guy whenever I want” & looking on Fab who would disagree.

There are many many reasons why couples play the way they do, this is just ours. For the present anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that.

There’s not enough quality ladies only events. I run one quarterly in Yorkshire but other months have to travel. "

I’ve always said I wish there was one around here. I’d never go to a club but if they did a ladies only event i think I’d go.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I gave up on here some years ago .... now I just sit sighing nonchalantly at Sandy Toksvig.... ( but never sue perkins... ) I'm not a pervert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take whatever i can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My initial reaction would be both but due to some bad experiences, I'd have to say, just the Fem.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Both for me

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm surprised at how many has said female only.

We are very new to all of this and have always wanted a MFF (that new I dont know if the order of those letter mean anything ha)

I'm only down as bi curious as I've never had the opportunity to act on anything else other than kissing when younger.

From what I've been reading that is likely to put off females meeting up with us as I'm not fully bi. (Pretty sure I am but again never had the chance )

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"I'm surprised at how many has said female only.

We are very new to all of this and have always wanted a MFF (that new I dont know if the order of those letter mean anything ha)

I'm only down as bi curious as I've never had the opportunity to act on anything else other than kissing when younger.

From what I've been reading that is likely to put off females meeting up with us as I'm not fully bi. (Pretty sure I am but again never had the chance ) "
Both but only play with female but happy secure in male company

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over a year ago

"I'm surprised at how many has said female only.

We are very new to all of this and have always wanted a MFF (that new I dont know if the order of those letter mean anything ha)

I'm only down as bi curious as I've never had the opportunity to act on anything else other than kissing when younger.

From what I've been reading that is likely to put off females meeting up with us as I'm not fully bi. (Pretty sure I am but again never had the chance ) "

We have met up with bi curious women before (both in and out of couples). The problem can often be that they like the idea of the kissing and fondling but the second it's suggested they go near a vagina they freeze. Luckily Mrs has a way of putting them at ease but it can be daunting. The truth is everyone has a first time for these things so bi curious doesnt really bother us. Bi selfish is another matter.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm surprised at how many has said female only.

We are very new to all of this and have always wanted a MFF (that new I dont know if the order of those letter mean anything ha)

I'm only down as bi curious as I've never had the opportunity to act on anything else other than kissing when younger.

From what I've been reading that is likely to put off females meeting up with us as I'm not fully bi. (Pretty sure I am but again never had the chance )

See that doesn't put me off the idea but again I dont know for 100% as it's never happened. Nice to see some people consider bi curious people then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a lesbican if that counts"

You are not oh lordy

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"All these women who want to be with other women makes me wonder why it's so hard for women to find female playmates on here. It seems like so many women want that.

There’s not enough quality ladies only events. I run one quarterly in Yorkshire but other months have to travel.

I’ve always said I wish there was one around here. I’d never go to a club but if they did a ladies only event i think I’d go. "

I hire a club to do just that! We even have female only bar staff. Just not enough ladies only events so please support those that organisers put on in various parts of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy meeting couples with bi females. I love driving him crazy watching me tease and please his girl. There are women who enjoy meeting couples. Tell them to persevere. Mrs x

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over a year ago

Just putting my 2 pence in. I'm bi and half of a couple. I'm super into girls but to be honest I kinda like the butch ones. I really want to find a girl that both my husband and I can enjoy together. And we are happy to go to any social meet either together or alone. Pleasure is pleasure, no matter the gender x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want a guy to suck my cock

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

"I'm surprised at how many has said female only.

We are very new to all of this and have always wanted a MFF (that new I dont know if the order of those letter mean anything ha)

I'm only down as bi curious as I've never had the opportunity to act on anything else other than kissing when younger.

From what I've been reading that is likely to put off females meeting up with us as I'm not fully bi. (Pretty sure I am but again never had the chance ) "

I'm in a simular situation... I'm inexperienced.. But this doesn't mean I'm not the one choosing to meet other couples or females.. I certainly would not meet anyone for the sole purpose of pleasing my partner... I'm the one who suggested swinging in the first place. I haven't been in a relationship which allowed me to explore this part of myself before hence the bi curious rather than bi.. Although I hope to be able to change that status at some point.

Personally I would prefer to play with both partners of a couple... But I would feel very awkward if I had any inclination that the F was only meeting me or swinging in general to keep partner happy.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Always been all about the ladies for me (mrs). Would love a lovely couple to play with but it's very rare I see a man I'm attracted to. Won't just put on a show so it would be fem fem or full on play for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever happened in a club for us , never once had a single lady contact us to meet up

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Ladies here’s a place to meet a lady all of your own...or many

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/958301

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in other cases I’ve had the best time with just the females and the males watching taking pics etc

I’m more into either sharing the female with her other half and him not Fuck me but we both fuck her or I’m into just the female half for myself (greedy

) "

Exactly this!

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