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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Because they change their mind and don't want to say so or they never had any intention of !meeting in the first place

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Welcome to fab. Lol

Too many fake profiles.

Good luck got future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone arranged with me then blocked me... so I wouldn’t take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many eggs in the basket at the same time by the sounds of it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens all the time to trades folk.

Summat needs fixing, panic attack,ring round everyone in the yellow pages.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

50 times in total, 3 this week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No sorry wasnt meant like that was a exagerration i mean its happend a lot since joining the site

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. "

Oooh I think he meant 3 this week, 50 altogether!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"50 times this week? Is that a typo? I'd say you're spreading yourself too thin if you agreed to meet 50 people in a week, they maybe got that vibe that you were juggling too many people at once. "

I think 50 times, 3 this week ... punctuation would be key

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"50 times in total, 3 this week."

Aye my brain light bulb just went on

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Put a meet ad up a couple days before then the anticipation is stronger

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"50 times in total, 3 this week.

Aye my brain light bulb just went on "

It's Christmas, none of us is at peak concentration lol

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Ambition exceeding ability

Some ppl just get off on the prospect of meeting for sex and no intention to

It's become a bit too real so they back out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just say they would like to meet just to keep you happy and not say no thanks. Less hassle for them.

Then block near the time

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Some just say they would like to meet just to keep you happy and not say no thanks. Less hassle for them.

Then block near the time "

I don't know how people can work fab like that, it would stress me out and I'd feel bad about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've had it happen to us a few times. We laugh and continue on our merry way. It's easier for couples though, we have each other to commiserate with or wonder why, when they seemed so keen they suddenly changed their mind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some just say they would like to meet just to keep you happy and not say no thanks. Less hassle for them.

Then block near the time

I don't know how people can work fab like that, it would stress me out and I'd feel bad about it. "

Anonymity prevents people from acknowledging there's an actual person behind the message

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Just one of the few things guaranteed on Fab. It happens just move on to fluttering your eyelashes at people who are interested in getting face to face and don't be disheartened by the rest.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it! "

Maybe they're having a wee play on your name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it happens a lot

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

There's lots of msg wankers , had one last year , he seemed ok but turned out to be a bit of freak , got very aggressive when I cudnt drop everything for him when it suited him and threw childish tantrums , I dodged a very iffy bullet ,be careful who get chatting to ppl

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Those who shout loudest are usually the ones that ghost on others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it! "

50 potential meets with a picture of your hand? Well done

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

Some people seem to thrive on the chase and somehow get their kicks from doing this sort of thing. Sad but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people seem to thrive on the chase and somehow get their kicks from doing this sort of thing. Sad but true."

This annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can happen at any time, even with someone you have met on several occasions. Some like the chase, others the attention but get bored, or you’re dealing/speaking to just utter trash who need to be scrapped off the bottom of your shoe at the earliest convenience.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Attention seekers.

Fakers.

Fantasists.

Happens in real life too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s happened a few times to me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it! "

Happens all the time, I had a meet arranged recently, we confirmed on the day, by the time it came to meet he had left the site

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it! "

If its happening a lot (if your numbers are true it is) you're the common denominator.

Change your selection process or what you're doing.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If it's happening THAT often ..maybe have a look at your selection process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv no idea what your talking abo....

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"This has happend to me about 50 times 3 this week very frustrating why do people do it!

50 potential meets with a picture of your hand? Well done "
I think some guys are fantasists on here , this just proves it as far I see

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Some people seem to thrive on the chase and somehow get their kicks from doing this sort of thing. Sad but true."
I think you have hit the nail on the head there

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It's happened to me many times. At first, I was too brittle..I took it way too personally, like there was something wrong with me. Now, whilst it's not nice (especially if you're not very self assured like me).. I just accept that I'll never know why someone ghosts me & I just forget them & move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet shop theory I call it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens dont worry about it.

be ruthless as like most say on here.

block and move on

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Arranged meet without cancellation is a no show.

If it's the concept of a meet, without full and final arrangements, then it's conceptual and thus provisional.

Report no shows to Admin.

And expect that most people that you start to discuss potential meets with will not have full compatibility. That's healthy, as we should only want to meet those who are fully compatible. People have preferences that are sacrosanct and availability for no strings meets is lower priority than family, jobs etc and it's often a slow process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatsapped and vid chatted with a guy for 2 weeks, solid meet arranged and future club plans, je had veris, then i got ghosted the day before and still had no response 4 days later.

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens


"Whatsapped and vid chatted with a guy for 2 weeks, solid meet arranged and future club plans, je had veris, then i got ghosted the day before and still had no response 4 days later."

Wow Ivy how someone could do that id never know after all if it was me id be excited and over the moon xx

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