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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find that people are different in forums to DMs?.

Nearly everyone I've spoke to is either really flirty in the forum's the couldn't be less asked when we DM each other.

Then the people who never seem to flirt in the forum's seem genuinely interested in the DMS.

Does anyone else get this or just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people are different in DM’s than in the forums.

I prefer the private person than the forum persona.

I also think flirting on the forums is done more to be noticed by others and doesn’t really mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find people are different in DM’s than in the forums.

I prefer the private person than the forum persona.

I also think flirting on the forums is done more to be noticed by others and doesn’t really mean anything."

Yes definitely get alot of people who flirt with me in forums because of that I reckon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be flirtier in the forums. Im more chatty and friendly via dm

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I flirt and be silly everywhere

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not always. I do find that people are more openly flirting with me in private messages and that sort of makes sense - I'd cringe and feel a bit if they said some of the things to me on here they do in private. I think the forum just gives you a snapshot of a person at that particular moment in time, talking away from it gives you a more rounded view of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not always. I do find that people are more openly flirting with me in private messages and that sort of makes sense - I'd cringe and feel a bit if they said some of the things to me on here they do in private. I think the forum just gives you a snapshot of a person at that particular moment in time, talking away from it gives you a more rounded view of them."

Yea I see what you're saying what I find more confusing is people in forums who flirt with Me then obviously have no interest in me whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I flirt and be silly everywhere "

Ledgr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to be flirtier in the forums. Im more chatty and friendly via dm"

Yeah same

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I tend to be more flity in DM rather in forums, hold something back

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Majority of messages I received have been from guys who just look to see who is online & fire off messages to anyone in the hope of a reply. Most of them don't go near the forums because ultimately they are just after a quick fuck & sadly that is reflected in the quality of the messages.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I tend not to join in the flirty banter on the forum, it just doesn't suit me.

There are people I chat to via DM and there are people I flirt with via DM (badly, because I can't flirt for shit).

The forum flirting doesn't strike me as particularly meaningful, I think it's done more so others can see it than because you're getting lucky OP, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend not to join in the flirty banter on the forum, it just doesn't suit me.

There are people I chat to via DM and there are people I flirt with via DM (badly, because I can't flirt for shit).

The forum flirting doesn't strike me as particularly meaningful, I think it's done more so others can see it than because you're getting lucky OP, sorry!"

Yeah agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same in both.

I find it quite confusing in some ways but I do understand the reasoning behind it why people flirt "behind closed doors" or openly

*to alleviate the cringe factor

*because some people like to get involved in/meddle with/cock or minge or friendship block if they see open forum flirting

*because people want to give off a vibe in front of a crowd when they're not actually like that at all

*to come across as popular or "hot totty"

Many reasons, some we may never understand or give a flying fuck about.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm the same on the forum and in DM (but its rare that i DM)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm exactly the same in both.

I find it quite confusing in some ways but I do understand the reasoning behind it why people flirt "behind closed doors" or openly

*to alleviate the cringe factor

*because some people like to get involved in/meddle with/cock or minge or friendship block if they see open forum flirting

*because people want to give off a vibe in front of a crowd when they're not actually like that at all

*to come across as popular or "hot totty"

Many reasons, some we may never understand or give a flying fuck about.

P"

Yeah it is weird why people do it I just constantly flirt with people who I fancy simple as that DMS or forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'm the same on the forum and in DM (but its rare that i DM) "

When you DM'd me you were flirty as fuck never flirt with me on forums though

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

Not sure if am the same or not as I rarely DM anyone. I like the banter nad laughs of the forums though

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think I'm the same in both threads and DM's. I only join in on the flirty threads in the forum though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'm the same in both threads and DM's. I only join in on the flirty threads in the forum though x"

You flirt in DMS too ? X

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think I'm the same in both threads and DM's. I only join in on the flirty threads in the forum though x

You flirt in DMS too ? X"

Dunno. I'll have to ask someone I've DM'd x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'm the same in both threads and DM's. I only join in on the flirty threads in the forum though x

You flirt in DMS too ? X

Dunno. I'll have to ask someone I've DM'd x"

Mine are open x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life I'm a complete flirt, more a personality thing and doesn't matter if you're young, old, male, female or anything in between but never am online ... think because it has loads more to do with body language if it's sexual flirting as opposed to verbal everyday flirting

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