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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored " i dont flirt | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up..." Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs* | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*" yeah that guy used to do it a lot | |||
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"I do the odd comment,but a lot of people know my views on public flirting.I'm not a fan of it and I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up or without any care or thought for other people" I think this is true. | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*yeah that guy used to do it a lot " There are a few both men and women who are quite skilled at the typing things with dual meanings so they can feign innocence thing - don't think they realise how transparent they are sometimes | |||
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"Hmmmm.... Do I flirt is the question? I'm never really sure when I am flirting or just being nice when replying on the forums I think it's often how forum interaction is perceived by others and not by the participants themselves that decides whether it's flirtatious or not. I've had people get quite cross with me for 'flirting' with people I know and have met socially on the forums, when I've only actually been friendly... One lady got so annoyed that she cancelled a meet with a guy I know because of our forum interactions... It comes to a point where you wonder should you even say hello or will it be perceived as clocking your leg on someone's proverbial lamppost? " I really don't understand this. It's a swingers site. I'd never expect to never see someone I was meeting flirting with or meeting someone else unless that's what had been explicitly agreed. In fact the rare occasion I have had someone say they'd stopped looking to meet anyone else to concentrate on me it freaked me out a little and I felt guilty as I wasn't doing the same. | |||
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"Anything I post on the forums shouldn't be taken too seriously, for me it's just something to kill time. I definitely would never go out to to intentionally annoy anyone. Also there's flirting and then there's flirting, the rubbish I post on here is just that usually and doesn't mean anything. The kind of flirting with real intent behind it as far as interest in meeting someone goes is very rare for me as being in a couple means few people on here are interested in flirting with me." True. Nobody flirts with me anymore | |||
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"Im just glad i dont flirt anymore at all so this is kind of irrelevant to me but when i used to i never thought once of how it may affect others" You mean you're not flirting with me??? *folds arms, stamps foot and tosses curls before huffily flouncing out of room and slamming door* | |||
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"Im just glad i dont flirt anymore at all so this is kind of irrelevant to me but when i used to i never thought once of how it may affect others You mean you're not flirting with me??? *folds arms, stamps foot and tosses curls before huffily flouncing out of room and slamming door* " nope | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored " Does it matter when most ‘relationships’ are bs anyway? | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored Does it matter when most ‘relationships’ are bs anyway?" Are they? | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored Does it matter when most ‘relationships’ are bs anyway?" not to me in amy way happy outlook you have there | |||
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"The real ones shine through " Are you talking all relationships? Or just on fab | |||
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"The real ones shine through Are you talking all relationships? Or just on fab " Loads on fab. Break up, make up, break up etc. Mad | |||
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"The real ones shine through Are you talking all relationships? Or just on fab Loads on fab. Break up, make up, break up etc. Mad" Some are yes. Mine wouldn’t shine through as I don’t tend to plaster it all over fab. I’m very private but I don’t think they’re all bullshit to be fair. | |||
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"Hmmmm.... Do I flirt is the question? I'm never really sure when I am flirting or just being nice when replying on the forums I think it's often how forum interaction is perceived by others and not by the participants themselves that decides whether it's flirtatious or not. I've had people get quite cross with me for 'flirting' with people I know and have met socially on the forums, when I've only actually been friendly... One lady got so annoyed that she cancelled a meet with a guy I know because of our forum interactions... It comes to a point where you wonder should you even say hello or will it be perceived as clocking your leg on someone's proverbial lamppost? I really don't understand this. It's a swingers site. I'd never expect to never see someone I was meeting flirting with or meeting someone else unless that's what had been explicitly agreed. In fact the rare occasion I have had someone say they'd stopped looking to meet anyone else to concentrate on me it freaked me out a little and I felt guilty as I wasn't doing the same." | |||
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"The real ones shine through Are you talking all relationships? Or just on fab Loads on fab. Break up, make up, break up etc. Mad" I've been with mine for 4 years with no break ups. | |||
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"Im out of touch with who is with who on the forums really so if I flirt, its mostly just fun and because Im feeling cheerful." This for me. | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*yeah that guy used to do it a lot " A certain guy who showed interest in me always did this for attention and it was never the flirting with others that got to me, it was his justifications and avoidance of my questions abd the mindgames and stuff he used to say in PM.... Everyone on the forum thought he was great... I knew otherwise | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*yeah that guy used to do it a lot A certain guy who showed interest in me always did this for attention and it was never the flirting with others that got to me, it was his justifications and avoidance of my questions abd the mindgames and stuff he used to say in PM.... Everyone on the forum thought he was great... I knew otherwise " Sounds like we knew the same guy | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*yeah that guy used to do it a lot A certain guy who showed interest in me always did this for attention and it was never the flirting with others that got to me, it was his justifications and avoidance of my questions abd the mindgames and stuff he used to say in PM.... Everyone on the forum thought he was great... I knew otherwise " I never take any of the public stuff seriously and never assume. Things only happen when they happen privately. | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*yeah that guy used to do it a lot A certain guy who showed interest in me always did this for attention and it was never the flirting with others that got to me, it was his justifications and avoidance of my questions abd the mindgames and stuff he used to say in PM.... Everyone on the forum thought he was great... I knew otherwise " Showed he’s true colours then | |||
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"I flirt with everyone in the hope of getting my end away. I know it prob hurts half of fans feelings but it's the way of too shaggers " Top | |||
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"I flirt with everyone in the hope of getting my end away. I know it prob hurts half of fans feelings but it's the way of too shaggers " Fabs | |||
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"I flirt with everyone in the hope of getting my end away. I know it prob hurts half of fans feelings but it's the way of too shaggers " Cry myself to sleep at night | |||
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"I flirt with everyone in the hope of getting my end away. I know it prob hurts half of fans feelings but it's the way of too shaggers " I can see it’s working | |||
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"I live in Cornwall so any flirting I do on here is like waving at the man in the moon. " Good job I keep my beady eyes on Cornishmen and are no stranger to the A38 | |||
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"I live in Cornwall so any flirting I do on here is like waving at the man in the moon. Good job I keep my beady eyes on Cornishmen and are no stranger to the A38 " Ah and the silvered moon whispers back "hello"....... | |||
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"I flirt with everyone in the hope of getting my end away. I know it prob hurts half of fans feelings but it's the way of too shaggers Cry myself to sleep at night " Sorry stunner | |||
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"I flirt with everyone in the hope of getting my end away. I know it prob hurts half of fans feelings but it's the way of too shaggers I can see it’s working " | |||
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"Can't remember the last time I flirted in forums " Not time like the present | |||
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"Can't remember the last time I flirted in forums Not time like the present " Am I meant to back? | |||
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"Can't remember the last time I flirted in forums FAF " This gets me every time | |||
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"...I think sometimes it's done with the intention to either wind someone up... Yes, I've seen this a fair bit. And then the feigned innocence. *shrugs*yeah that guy used to do it a lot A certain guy who showed interest in me always did this for attention and it was never the flirting with others that got to me, it was his justifications and avoidance of my questions abd the mindgames and stuff he used to say in PM.... Everyone on the forum thought he was great... I knew otherwise Sounds like we knew the same guy " | |||
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"Can't remember the last time I flirted in forums Not time like the present Am I meant to back? " You can do whatever you like my dear | |||
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"Public flirting one day, snidey remarks the next day And no, I don’t flirt on the forums because I don’t fancy anyone on the forums " How rude! | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored " The forums aren't for flirting. Some control freak kill joy has already chastised me for it. | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored The forums aren't for flirting. Some control freak kill joy has already chastised me for it." Shit, it's the only reason I hang around. What now? | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored The forums aren't for flirting. Some control freak kill joy has already chastised me for it." Oh giz a kiss Clem | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored The forums aren't for flirting. Some control freak kill joy has already chastised me for it. Oh giz a kiss Clem " Will you spot for me? | |||
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"I give men who gush/flirt over women publicly a very wide berth. It sets alarm bells ringing. And I’m rarely wrong. To clarify, I’m on about the men who seem to target a lady and set her up as flavour of the month before seemingly dropping them and moving on to someone else. Leaving a trail of stricken women in their wake. Yeah, I got your number sunshine. " Oh yes ..... those | |||
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"It's a swinging site, and i'm fully aware that those I meet also meet other people - why would I be upset that they're flirting with others? I'd be pretty miffed if anyone got upset because I was flirting with others, and I certainly wouldn't be meeting them again. " The crazy world of Fab where people get jealous of flirting....on a swinging site... It does amuse me | |||
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"The crazy world of Fab where people get jealous of flirting....on a swinging site... It does amuse me " there's nowt as queer as folk | |||
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"Or do you flirt with everyone in the hopes of getting laid? Yes im bored The forums aren't for flirting. Some control freak kill joy has already chastised me for it. Oh giz a kiss Clem Will you spurt for me? " Ooh that moved on quickly | |||
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"Oh I’m a terrible flirt. I’ll flirt with anyone to make them smile. Doesn’t mean it’s going further though..." Agreed | |||
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