FabSwingers.com forum: Verified by meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’ve been on here a few weeks now and I’m finding it more and more difficult to get messages back or anywhere at all. I think this is down to my lack of veri’s by meet as this is something I always get questioned on. I’m a site supporter and photo-verified so at this stage there is nothing more I can do. Is verified by meet really that important?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should add that the lack of veto’s by meet is due to the fact I haven’t had any meets yet lol.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Still difficult even with meet veris. The stars have to align.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes it is to some. Can you go to a club or social near you?

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Clubs have helped us to gain veri's and for us it let's us know people are real, not fake profiles I suppose xx

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

You could try adding more pictures of yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always anoys me when women say they won't meet anyone who isn't meet verified.

As if it's easy for men to meet women.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's important to some people, others will use it as a convenient excuse to gently let you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a noose and....

Oh wrong thread

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

"It always anoys me when women say they won't meet anyone who isn't meet verified.

As if it's easy for men to meet women.

Safety comes first, I suppose it makes it a little easier if woman know your a genuine guy, clubs is a great place to meet woman, couples and guys, even if no play happens you can still gain veri's x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have though about this but I want to keep it private I’ve already been recognised on here before and I regularly see people I know on here. I know that doesn’t help but for me privacy is more important.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I'm not sure it's about your lack of verifications that you haven't had a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally most towns and city's have swinging socials regularly.. our advice would be to get along to one, you'll no doubt get a social veri from someone and who knows maybe find some fun..

Also look at fab a tool not the answer.

good luck.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"It always anoys me when women say they won't meet anyone who isn't meet verified.

As if it's easy for men to meet women.

I'm happy to meet people just for a coffee and then to verify that I met them for a coffee

Just ask and lots of us say yes.

I even pay for my own coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been on here a few weeks now and I’m finding it more and more difficult to get messages back or anywhere at all. I think this is down to my lack of veri’s by meet as this is something I always get questioned on. I’m a site supporter and photo-verified so at this stage there is nothing more I can do. Is verified by meet really that important?"
youre young to that puts some off, you dont have any pics or write up, everything counts, veris matter little in the grand scheme of things but being patient also helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope."

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I have though about this but I want to keep it private I’ve already been recognised on here before and I regularly see people I know on here. I know that doesn’t help but for me privacy is more important."
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You may struggle then. Privacy is important to most of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure it's about your lack of verifications that you haven't had a meet

I’m not saying that’s the sole reason, but it’s something that has been commented on multiple times.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement. "

An achievement for you?

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely hit the socials mate. They establish you as a good guy (assuming you are). It's been the catalyst for the success I've had. Good luck and be patient!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement. "

Not all women can squirt. By mentioning it, you're narrowing your field.

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By *ustfulbigboyMan
over a year ago

North Wales

I feel your pain mate, among all the idiots that send 1 sentence messages or "i wanna fuck you" kind of shit it's very hard for women /couples to be able to trust a single man or if see that single don't look at the message or profiles probably thinking its just going to be another waste of time.

You'll get there lad, keep fighting the good fight like I'm trying too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement.

Not all women can squirt. By mentioning it, you're narrowing your field. "

Noted, thank you for the feedback

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement.

Not all women can squirt. By mentioning it, you're narrowing your field. "

And not all women want to squirt

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement.

Not all women can squirt. By mentioning it, you're narrowing your field.

And not all women want to squirt

That too

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Met in person veris are important yup

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement.

Not all women can squirt. By mentioning it, you're narrowing your field.

And not all women want to squirt

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here to judge but at your age I was out with my friends..and not on this type of site.

Perseverance is the key

Good luck

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Everything needs to be the best it can.

Best possible pics.

Best possible profile text.

Best possible status update.

Best possible veris.

You might be awesome but, at the moment, you’re asking people to say to themselves, “well, there’s almost no profile text, hardly any pictures, a status that’s already trying to move the conversation to kik, and no veris”. It’s a lots to ask them to overlook.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You do know that squirting isn't an orgasm?

And that certainly makes me think nope.

Yeah I know this but i just think it’s a good way to end the foreplay before it progresses further. Kind of feels like an achievement.

It's something I have never achieved in 53 years.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

You are one of many single guys on here. There are many single guys who have great, thought out profiles and pics, maybe you could start there.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Can you say why you chose that username?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There is way more going on that a lack of veris that mean you don't get replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some its important OP. To others it doesnt matter that much.

If you think that trip advisor recommendations are important then there are ways go get verified.

If your more interested in the relationships that fab might provide then forget the need for varies. The affirmation of others isnt really worth that much in the scheme of things.

Being true to yourself is far more valuable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chat on webcam to get a verification

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

New single guys struggle to get established as it requires tons of effort.

You can get a veri from others who are friendly, not just from people who you meet sexually. Socials, clubs or friendly people like me will veri people for being who they say they are and decent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It always anoys me when women say they won't meet anyone who isn't meet verified.

As if it's easy for men to meet women.

It annoys me when men can't respect what some women want on here.

FAB isn't all about you.

If a profile says they are looking for meet verified only,don't contact them

You aren't what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use Fab as a back up to going to the clubs, but like most you'll have little luck just on here, but good luck even with a verification.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"chat on webcam to get a verification"

That really means nothing. All it proves is that it's a guy and has any woman faked a single male profile, ever?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Verified by meet is pretty important to some. Photos are one thing, but I guess a meet veri is more like a “character reference”.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Think it’s pretty much all been said.

Plenty of advice to act on..

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hine’s travel website analogy is a good one.

You would not book an AirBnB apartment with a two line description, one photo and no reviews.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Hine’s travel website analogy is a good one.

You would not book an AirBnB apartment with a two line description, one photo and no reviews. "

That's a really great analogy!

You'd think one with great reviews would be inundated though, but not necessarily so.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Hine’s travel website analogy is a good one.

You would not book an AirBnB apartment with a two line description, one photo and no reviews. "

Oh now this is just perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously fella, you need to see how it works for the good ladies of fab and you will understand.

A friend of mine showed me hers when she first joined and it was like a free for all!!

Now I will occasionally message if my fancy is tickled. Otherwise I just come in here and try to build my profile up and see what happens.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

You posted a similar thread a few weeks ago OP, and although many people then (including myself) pointed out that both the squirting and 'looking for older' bit did you no favours, you chose to ignore the advice that was given at the time.... Maybe read back over that thread again....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"It always anoys me when women say they won't meet anyone who isn't meet verified.

As if it's easy for men to meet women.

It annoys me when men can't respect what some women want on here.

FAB isn't all about you.

If a profile says they are looking for meet verified only,don't contact them

You aren't what they are looking for

There are always folk who think they are so bloody amazing that they should be the exception to your rules... Like the 53 guys who have already mailed me so far today saying 'I see you're not meeting, but....'. That kind of arrogance/hubris is far from attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It always anoys me when women say they won't meet anyone who isn't meet verified.

As if it's easy for men to meet women.

It annoys me when men can't respect what some women want on here.

FAB isn't all about you.

If a profile says they are looking for meet verified only,don't contact them

You aren't what they are looking for

But it's not about you, in their eyes,it's all about them

Our block list is overflowing with disrespectful guys on here.

Our view?

If they can respect a few written words on our profile,what chance have we for respect if we were naive enough to meet?

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