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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we use the site as we want, meets, socials.

On another note Sb has a social profile where she organises the lounge social in Manchester.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I imagine sex sites to be places where people pay for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex sites are mainly for pure meet and sex whislt swinging sites usually involve more talking to peoples first as well as couples and profules to get a better feel for people first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a swinger and I use it for my need for occasional sex, and the forums.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray)

It's whatever you want it to be x

That's what makes it an interesting mix of lovely people on here lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?"

Tbh your a woman... you wont need to be sociable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever works for you. That’s what it is

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"What ever works for you. That’s what it is "

Pretty much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?"
its an internet domain with real people seeking different things, some want to meet, some want to chat, some like clubs, some like socials, some like debates and some dont have a clue what they want, we're real people living real lives in the real world, if youre going to label it thats your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to be using this place to meet anyone for the foreseeable so I'm hidden and going to be using it to natter to people I natter to and after my birthday, will be an infrequent lurker inthe forums!

So don't worry about what people tell you it's for, just use it for what you want to! Though I do get what people mean when they refer to a swingers or sex site ... whether it's used as a hook up site or a lifestyle site but each to their own!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"(Ray)

It's whatever you want it to be x

That's what makes it an interesting mix of lovely people on here lol x"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Ray)

It's whatever you want it to be x

That's what makes it an interesting mix of lovely people on here lol x

This! "

Probably the best explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not going to be using this place to meet anyone for the foreseeable so I'm hidden and going to be using it to natter to people I natter to and after my birthday, will be an infrequent lurker inthe forums!

So don't worry about what people tell you it's for, just use it for what you want to! Though I do get what people mean when they refer to a swingers or sex site ... whether it's used as a hook up site or a lifestyle site but each to their own! "

Ooh whens your birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont swing or look for sex on it i just do what i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging. "

You have each other. It’s different for singles and how they view this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging. "

I won’t meet behind Tesco or jump in anyone’s car either. But just because your not a swinger doesn’t make users seedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

I won’t meet behind Tesco or jump in anyone’s car either. But just because your not a swinger doesn’t make users seedy "

Gotta agree on this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging. "

Clearly not doing anything right as never used Tesco or car!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

I won’t meet behind Tesco or jump in anyone’s car either. But just because your not a swinger doesn’t make users seedy "

Never said it did

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People use it how they want.

Most people who tell me "it's a sex site not a swinging site" seem to mean, when pressed, "you're on this site therefore you need to have sex with me." Consent still applies, I don't consent, bugger off and don't think you're entitled to anyone's body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

Clearly not doing anything right as never used Tesco or car!!! "

Don’t worry use it as you wish. Some people or couples take moral high ground, just ignore and do what’s right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

Clearly not doing anything right as never used Tesco or car!!! "

My car ain’t been christened yet

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

I won’t meet behind Tesco or jump in anyone’s car either. But just because your not a swinger doesn’t make users seedy "

There's no way I would arrange to meet a lady behind Tesco.

Waitrose, however, I may consider

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It's a social media site that different people use in different ways. The big difference between here and say facebook, is that people are more likely to put pics of their face on fb, and pics of their fanny on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

I won’t meet behind Tesco or jump in anyone’s car either. But just because your not a swinger doesn’t make users seedy

Never said it did "

No you didn't but perhaps the inference was a little harsh.

I didn't post the question to be provocative just wanting to be better informed.

Thanks to these posts I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not going to be using this place to meet anyone for the foreseeable so I'm hidden and going to be using it to natter to people I natter to and after my birthday, will be an infrequent lurker inthe forums!

So don't worry about what people tell you it's for, just use it for what you want to! Though I do get what people mean when they refer to a swingers or sex site ... whether it's used as a hook up site or a lifestyle site but each to their own!

Ooh whens your birthday"

5th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?"

Fab is what you make it, if you need an ego boost want to see lots of fabs on your pics and don't reply to anyone FabSwingers is you're place.

If you want a sugar daddy, get bought things in return for your company FabSwingers is your place.

If you want to promote your services and exchange for cash turns out FabSwingers is also probably your place.

If you want to chat shit in the forms, and be a generally social person as far as the virtual world in concerned FabSwingers is you're place.

If you wish to strive towards becoming more sexually liberated as a single person or in a couple FabSwingers is you're place.

If you realise you like taking cock in your bum FabSwingers was probably that place.

If you want to see a cock side against the Sky remote FabSwingers you place.

Just pick what the bloody hell you're doing here and go for it create your reality. I could go on and on but my fingers hurt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Fab is what you make it, if you need an ego boost want to see lots of fabs on your pics and don't reply to anyone FabSwingers is you're place.

If you want a sugar daddy, get bought things in return for your company FabSwingers is your place.

If you want to promote your services and exchange for cash turns out FabSwingers is also probably your place.

If you want to chat shit in the forms, and be a generally social person as far as the virtual world in concerned FabSwingers is you're place.

If you wish to strive towards becoming more sexually liberated as a single person or in a couple FabSwingers is you're place.

If you realise you like taking cock in your bum FabSwingers was probably that place.

If you want to see a cock side against the Sky remote FabSwingers you place.

Just pick what the bloody hell you're doing here and go for it create your reality. I could go on and on but my fingers hurt... "

You forgot if you want to meet some genuinely great people Fab is the place!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I see it as a place to meet and chat to people with a similar liberal and adventurous attitude to life. I'm guessing a sex site might be more risky when it comes to my health and my wallet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you want to get or give money/goods for sexual services or images, Fab is not the place for you and you should fuck off.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Tbh your a woman... you wont need to be sociable "

That is such a common preconception. It's not that easy for a woman on here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Tbh your a woman... you wont need to be sociable

That is such a common preconception. It's not that easy for a woman on here either."

It's just difficult in different ways.

And bloody hell, some of us want to be sociable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to get or give money/goods for sexual services or images, Fab is not the place for you and you should fuck off. "

I agree, but you can't change that, and I can't. So no point. It's like the man at the car boot selling the brand new stuff for £30 plus. Fuck off I only brought £20 with me it's a fekkin car boot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Fab is what you make it, if you need an ego boost want to see lots of fabs on your pics and don't reply to anyone FabSwingers is you're place.

If you want a sugar daddy, get bought things in return for your company FabSwingers is your place.

If you want to promote your services and exchange for cash turns out FabSwingers is also probably your place.

If you want to chat shit in the forms, and be a generally social person as far as the virtual world in concerned FabSwingers is you're place.

If you wish to strive towards becoming more sexually liberated as a single person or in a couple FabSwingers is you're place.

If you realise you like taking cock in your bum FabSwingers was probably that place.

If you want to see a cock side against the Sky remote FabSwingers you place.

Just pick what the bloody hell you're doing here and go for it create your reality. I could go on and on but my fingers hurt...

You forgot if you want to meet some genuinely great people Fab is the place! "

Indeed I did, I was just getting to that one when my fingers began too hurt :')

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you want to get or give money/goods for sexual services or images, Fab is not the place for you and you should fuck off.

I agree, but you can't change that, and I can't. So no point. It's like the man at the car boot selling the brand new stuff for £30 plus. Fuck off I only brought £20 with me it's a fekkin car boot. "

I know they can't be eradicated. But it's a bit like vermin in kitchens. Just because they exist, doesn't mean that they belong there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to get or give money/goods for sexual services or images, Fab is not the place for you and you should fuck off.

I agree, but you can't change that, and I can't. So no point. It's like the man at the car boot selling the brand new stuff for £30 plus. Fuck off I only brought £20 with me it's a fekkin car boot.

I know they can't be eradicated. But it's a bit like vermin in kitchens. Just because they exist, doesn't mean that they belong there. "

You smooth criminal you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a single person looking to meet other single people for 1 on 1 meets I'd argue there is no difference

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Tbh your a woman... you wont need to be sociable

That is such a common preconception. It's not that easy for a woman on here either.

It's just difficult in different ways.

And bloody hell, some of us want to be sociable! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to get or give money/goods for sexual services or images, Fab is not the place for you and you should fuck off.

I agree, but you can't change that, and I can't. So no point. It's like the man at the car boot selling the brand new stuff for £30 plus. Fuck off I only brought £20 with me it's a fekkin car boot.

I know they can't be eradicated. But it's a bit like vermin in kitchens. Just because they exist, doesn't mean that they belong there. "

Is this how most people perceive single women on here?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you want to get or give money/goods for sexual services or images, Fab is not the place for you and you should fuck off.

I agree, but you can't change that, and I can't. So no point. It's like the man at the car boot selling the brand new stuff for £30 plus. Fuck off I only brought £20 with me it's a fekkin car boot.

I know they can't be eradicated. But it's a bit like vermin in kitchens. Just because they exist, doesn't mean that they belong there.

Is this how most people perceive single women on here?"

There's a subset of women who are here to offer services for money. They make the lives of other single women more difficult, sometimes.

It's my view of the pros. I don't think it's most people's views on single women, although the views about women, sex, etc, on here are going to be extremely varied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?"

Each to our own

use it as you want

meets can be socials

meets can be FWB

or you here to find your mr right as a lot are I have noticed

mr right in the bedroom

just sex

join a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

I won’t meet behind Tesco or jump in anyone’s car either. But just because your not a swinger doesn’t make users seedy

There's no way I would arrange to meet a lady behind Tesco.

Waitrose, however, I may consider "

you do know that is the queens shop

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

Clearly not doing anything right as never used Tesco or car!!!

My car ain’t been christened yet "

I don't have a car..so Tesco's it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

Clearly not doing anything right as never used Tesco or car!!!

My car ain’t been christened yet

I don't have a car..so Tesco's it is "
ill get a Tesco trolley we can use at the back

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Use it as you want, to achieve exactly what you want OP, and sod anybody that tells you "you're doing it wrong, that's not what this site is for"

Different people use the site in different ways - I use it very differently as a single than I used to as part of a couple. And even in the past few years as a single, my use of it has altered as what I am looking for has changed.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Fab is what you make it, if you need an ego boost want to see lots of fabs on your pics and don't reply to anyone FabSwingers is you're place.

If you want a sugar daddy, get bought things in return for your company FabSwingers is your place.

If you want to promote your services and exchange for cash turns out FabSwingers is also probably your place.

If you want to chat shit in the forms, and be a generally social person as far as the virtual world in concerned FabSwingers is you're place.

If you wish to strive towards becoming more sexually liberated as a single person or in a couple FabSwingers is you're place.

If you realise you like taking cock in your bum FabSwingers was probably that place.

If you want to see a cock side against the Sky remote FabSwingers you place.

Just pick what the bloody hell you're doing here and go for it create your reality. I could go on and on but my fingers hurt...

You forgot if you want to meet some genuinely great people Fab is the place! "

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve uttered this sentence before and I’m in the ‘it’s not a sex site’ tribe because it’s also my social life, for example I have been invited to stay with a friend abroad for a few days - sex might not happen and if not, so what. I’ve friends all over the country who I know I could ring in a crisis and they would meet up with me if I am in that area.

That said, i have been here a lot of years, I did use it as ‘just for sex’ when I started as I wasn’t really aware of how diverse the lifestyle was and the opportunities available. I love it. I can’t imagine ever leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know why people get offended when you call this a sex site, as ultimately that is what the majority do on here, hook up for casual sex.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?

Tbh your a woman... you wont need to be sociable

That is such a common preconception. It's not that easy for a woman on here either.

It's just difficult in different ways.

And bloody hell, some of us want to be sociable! "

If it wasn't sociable i wouldn't be here... hope you had a great Christmas swingdress, look forward to seeing you again at the next event... Polly xx

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"We will never use this as a sex site. We're swingers, so you'll only ever swing with us. We're not the sort of couple who will meet you behind Tesco or jump in to your car. Swinging is getting to know us and then we'll decide if we want to swing with you, anything other than that isn't swinging.

Clearly not doing anything right as never used Tesco or car!!!

My car ain’t been christened yet

I don't have a car..so Tesco's it is "

Meet you in the freezer aisle next to the Black Forest gateaux

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know why people get offended when you call this a sex site, as ultimately that is what the majority do on here, hook up for casual sex."
And get pissed

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I don’t know why people get offended when you call this a sex site, as ultimately that is what the majority do on here, hook up for casual sex.And get pissed

"

I don’t think they do get ‘offended’ really. Well I certainly don’t but I do think (with my view on it that I explained above) I’d be much more keen to meet someone that saw it as a lifestyle rather than ‘a hook up’ but then with that is the threat of being called ‘cliquey’ so you can’t really win x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the swingersnobery does my head in most when they get all judgy about it cos you dont share your toys with them or anyone just cos its a swinger site dont mean i have to join in with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know why people get offended when you call this a sex site, as ultimately that is what the majority do on here, hook up for casual sex.And get pissed

I don’t think they do get ‘offended’ really. Well I certainly don’t but I do think (with my view on it that I explained above) I’d be much more keen to meet someone that saw it as a lifestyle rather than ‘a hook up’ but then with that is the threat of being called ‘cliquey’ so you can’t really win x"

Exactly this, same with us it's our lifestyle and we love it, that's why we'd never see Fab as a sex site. We have some great friends in the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing this is not a sex site but a swinging site.

So for a relative newbie what is the difference?

I see references made to needing to be sociable, if so not to place for me.

Where then?"

It is what you want it to be for you.

Predominantly it's a site set up for those who partake in or are interested in swinging, that is sex with multiple partners with fewer hangups and actual friendships formed as a result.

It is however used also as a site used by mainly singles for everything from more casual hookups to finding a long term relationship.

B

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I use it to find men to service me sexually although finding someone who accommodates and is available when i am, is a bit of a faff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use it to find men to service me sexually although finding someone who accommodates and is available when i am, is a bit of a faff. "

Always good to have a service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get horny, I choose my fab partner and I get sex.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get horny, I choose my fab partner and I get sex.

Simples "

Nice and easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get horny, I choose my fab partner and I get sex.

Simples "

Think we all get horny seeing ladies like yourself on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get horny, I choose my fab partner and I get sex.

Simples

Think we all get horny seeing ladies like yourself on fab "

Looks like everyone is happy then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I use it to explore my bi side and it hasn't been at all difficult I must say

I've been lucky enough to meet some lovely people. It's easy when you know how

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples "
hes gonna blooooooooow run for ya livvvvves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples hes gonna blooooooooow run for ya livvvvves"

That must be the disadvantage of having such a big dick I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples "
you do if you learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples hes gonna blooooooooow run for ya livvvvves

That must be the disadvantage of having such a big dick I reckon."

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We get sex. What's not to like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples "

It is because you are not using a Lynx Africa can for your cock pic

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"What ever works for you. That’s what it is

Pretty much this."

This

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples "
some people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a fun forum site

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's whatever you make of it.

For me it's a place to keep up with what events are going on and to keep in touch with friends I've met by chance in clubs.

An occasional interesting read of the forum and that's my Fabswingers.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples "

Masturbation is still sex

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples

Masturbation is still sex "

But you don't need to be here for that though!!! Do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples

Masturbation is still sex

But you don't need to be here for that though!!! Do you "
some do obviously

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples

Masturbation is still sex

But you don't need to be here for that though!!! Do you "

Only when I’ve stuck all the pages of my magazines together and need something pleasing to look at - said my friend

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples

Masturbation is still sex

But you don't need to be here for that though!!! Do you

Only when I’ve stuck all the pages of my magazines together and need something pleasing to look at - said my friend "

Well there's so many great videos on here...

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"You don't get sex on here that's the diff simples

Masturbation is still sex

But you don't need to be here for that though!!! Do you

Only when I’ve stuck all the pages of my magazines together and need something pleasing to look at - said my friend

Well there's so many great videos on here... "

It takes a bit longer than 30 seconds (sometimes!) Besides I want a plot, 3 acts, start/middle/end

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Ah that age old question....

There's no way to really answer it though. Swinging is in the title, and so it could be said that it is a swinging site, but purists would then argue that singles should not be allowed because 'only couples are swingers' and everyone else is just having sex... But then the couples want unicorns and/or bulls from time to time or need some pretty young things on their party guestlist in order to attract more people to attend, and have to bite their tongues and say that actually singles do have a place in swinging (even though it kills some of them to say so)...

And then there are people who don't use the site to meet at all... Ever! It's just somewhere to cam or chat or swap a few filthy pics and salacious stories.... So how do they fit in?

And what about the ones who don't do any of the above, but regularly post pics and ask to be fabbed?

If you're not meeting or having sex through the site, is it even a sex site?

It's all too confusing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its really quite simple its an internet domain with a subtitle swingers site but doesn't mean we are all swingers, doesn't mean we all meet, doesn't mean its a sex site and it doesn't mean everyone can read, you may get a date here, you may find a partner, you may see very explicit pics but its all things to all people, some people have been here so long they feel they are part of the script

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"its really quite simple its an internet domain with a subtitle swingers site but doesn't mean we are all swingers, doesn't mean we all meet, doesn't mean its a sex site and it doesn't mean everyone can read, you may get a date here, you may find a partner, you may see very explicit pics but its all things to all people, some people have been here so long they feel they are part of the script "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its really quite simple its an internet domain with a subtitle swingers site but doesn't mean we are all swingers, doesn't mean we all meet, doesn't mean its a sex site and it doesn't mean everyone can read, you may get a date here, you may find a partner, you may see very explicit pics but its all things to all people, some people have been here so long they feel they are part of the script "

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people who have been on and off of fab for a few years and have both been active swingers it's always been odd that people are struggling with the concept of what a swinger is?

"sex and friendship with multiple partners" would probably cover it and applies to both single people and one's in some form of a relationship.

Fab swingers has been around for several years and was created for swingers to "interact" with swingers and not necessarily always in a sexual tense.

mind it's changed dramatically in those years, it's become more of a household name and since it's attracted alot more varied members

We can see as this has happened the environment here has shifted with it. Swingers tend to be friendly and open minded with an "it's not just about the sex" ethic

Fab swingers isn't a positive, nice, warm and friendly environment for swingers as it used to be and we can see that "this is a Fuck site" isn't going to fall well in the ears of the majority of the swing community that come here.

What ever label fits we don't seem to think is important just remember that everyone's here for a nice experience in a good environment

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