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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people not bother to message, how can I change this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message them first?

Or do you mean they wont message back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Either...I do get some messages but not as many as I can see who have looked at me.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Just because people look at you doesn't mean they will message you

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray)

It's normal we get a good few views but probably 2-3 messages a month !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either...I do get some messages but not as many as I can see who have looked at me."

Well maybe a bit more on show in your public pics. Once they look at your profile you want them to see something that will convince them to send a message

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Many people look at other peoples profiles, doesn't mean they have to message.

Perhaps you could improve your profile, and get yourself verified, as lots of people won't meet unverified people.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people not bother to message, how can I change this? "
I think this is something that, as a single man, you’ll just have to get used to. Single men are 10 a penny on here.

Having said that, participate in chat in the forums and you might find that you speak up some conversations with people with mutual interests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah, perhaps my expectations are a little too high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because many msy look at your profile intillay and then maybe chose not to message you or not as intwrested as they first thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies of fab get inundated with messages. The best bet is to send a message. Delete it out of you’re sent folder. Then wait. If no reply. It usually means no thanks. Or you’re not lucky and was lost in the stampede

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Ray)

It's normal we get a good few views but probably 2-3 messages a month !

"

I’m really surprised - I always thought couples with plenty of pics and profile information were inundated with messages!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they not?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Some profiles they can have lotes of pictures , otheres lots of interests they are into other's probably even they match your profile at first view , otheres they can repeatedly whatch your profile or even msg you and chat or just wink , but in reality these factors nothing means they are not a signal that something will or not happen .

Theres the factor conection and chemestry and have nothing to do with they are ignore you .

Make this question to yourself

Would you meet anybody here that would msg you ?

I

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You make a very good point, I'm very particular about who and when. And no I wouldn't meet just anyone.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"(Ray)

It's normal we get a good few views but probably 2-3 messages a month !

I’m really surprised - I always thought couples with plenty of pics and profile information were inundated with messages!"

We wish! If only things were that easy eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complaining after 2 weeks already..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could because you dont wash the spunk from your clothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Ray)

It's normal we get a good few views but probably 2-3 messages a month !

I’m really surprised - I always thought couples with plenty of pics and profile information were inundated with messages!

We wish! If only things were that easy eh"

Only going on what I see a lot of couples post on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change the cum stained trousers

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sell yourself well and get to know people in multiple ways, socials, clubs, the forum and be alluring as well as active in targeting the right people.

If you want people to find you physically attractive, let them see good pics of you.

It's competitive here, so work at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just cos I go in a shop doesn't mean I buy anything.

Here are no rules.. Its fab.

I don't reply to many

I delete alot.

And why... Because I can and don't need to give reasons.

Try quirkier messages.. I know "hi" and "how you finding site" are usually instant deletes

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

For fucks sake, have a look at your stupid pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just cos I go in a shop doesn't mean I buy anything.

Here are no rules.. Its fab.

I don't reply to many

I delete alot.

And why... Because I can and don't need to give reasons.

Try quirkier messages.. I know "hi" and "how you finding site" are usually instant deletes "

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