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Is 22 too young to be on this site?

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By *r Cheeky97 OP   Man
over a year ago

Devon

Starting to feel like for a 22yr old man I'm too young, and puts people off? as the advice Iv had has led me to believe so, is this true?

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

Yes. End of thread. Sorry but you really should be out there not staring at a screen. Us old fucker just can't be arsed so we stop here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for others looking for guys your age, no! It's just not as easy as most blokes seem to think it will be, when they join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen lads your age on here with veris from women and couples. You look manly so hopefully some nice ladies can look past your age. Try to get to swingers clubs that is the age old advice on here

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I feel it's a bit young but that's your call.

It might work for some.

I would just use this as a tool for getting to know people, getting involved in the lifestyle, if that's what interests you.

If it's just for sex I'd probably go out there and get some experiences under your belt. Meet people out and about the good old fashioned way...enjoy your youth and have some fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think so OP.

Just dint act like a dick and you will he fine. There are plenty of people here on their 30's and 40' who havent quite managed that.

Just remember that its a swingjbv site not just a hook up site so if the social element isnt for you there might be better apps.

Otherwise get involved and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all OP, be respectful of others age ranges and you’ll be fine but remember that sg are a plenty on here. We wish you well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to feel like for a 22yr old man I'm too young, and puts people off? as the advice Iv had has led me to believe so, is this true? "

Just chill ull be fine. Your not guaranteed sex. Iv been on here since younger then 22. On diffrent accounts come and gone. Good things come too those that wait. I See so many people stressing them selfs out over it.

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By *r Cheeky97 OP   Man
over a year ago

Devon

Also I might add that I've been on this for over 2yrs and still havint got a single message back.. Haha I have alot of experience but no ones gonna find that out as I can't seem to get a reply hahah I do go out and meet people but as a younger guy I do like a girl with abit more experience and more interesting conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also I might add that I've been on this for over 2yrs and still havint got a single message back.. Haha I have alot of experience but no ones gonna find that out as I can't seem to get a reply hahah I do go out and meet people but as a younger guy I do like a girl with abit more experience and more interesting conversation. "

Too be fair that is long time, chap. Get you're self down a club. I went on my own two times. It was decent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the good thing is being your age you can gain experience from the site, have a chance to make good friends for years to come. So Do things the right way and you can have some great years ahead of you.

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)


"Also I might add that I've been on this for over 2yrs and still havint got a single message back.. Haha I have alot of experience but no ones gonna find that out as I can't seem to get a reply hahah I do go out and meet people but as a younger guy I do like a girl with abit more experience and more interesting conversation. "

In that case clubs are your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you’re female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also I might add that I've been on this for over 2yrs and still havint got a single message back.. Haha I have alot of experience but no ones gonna find that out as I can't seem to get a reply hahah I do go out and meet people but as a younger guy I do like a girl with abit more experience and more interesting conversation. "

OP you’re a good looking guy, we’d meet you but the distance would put us off so yeah I’d second the other person that said go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not if you’re female. "

There ya go OP time to transition

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)


"Not if you’re female.

There ya go OP time to transition"

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Not if you’re female. "

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By *r Cheeky97 OP   Man
over a year ago

Devon

Well thank you for your honesty feedback guys really appreciate it, not really much else I can do hahah so il stick to the clubs haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well thank you for your honesty feedback guys really appreciate it, not really much else I can do hahah so il stick to the clubs haha "

Looks like you've got a good girl already in pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the good thing is being your age you can gain experience from the site, have a chance to make good friends for years to come. So Do things the right way and you can have some great years ahead of you. "

This I was introduced to the scene in 94 long before sites like this or any others were even thought up.

Stay respectful no matter how unpleasant others might be, and you will prosper and make lovers and friends beyond your expectations.

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By *r Cheeky97 OP   Man
over a year ago

Devon

Girl on my profile is my fb and we both have a couples profile and we have the same issue. Can't get any replys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girl on my profile is my fb and we both have a couples profile and we have the same issue. Can't get any replys "

Is that what she tells you

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I'm closer to your age than some on here as swinging tends to be for over 30s but personally you're too young for me. But that doesnt mean you wont find someone who's interested. But this isnt as easy as most think it will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girl on my profile is my fb and we both have a couples profile and we have the same issue. Can't get any replys "

The area you live can also hinder your efforts, if there aren't many members there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be worried about meeting someone so young that he'd be put off by my 40 year old bod

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By *r Cheeky97 OP   Man
over a year ago

Devon

Also a guy that goes for older women which in person is alot easyer for me I usually see girls that are in the late 20s to late 30s and I'm happy going higher.

But like I said know ones gonna know this till I talk to them haha maybe something I should mention in my bio or do you not think it would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be worried about meeting someone so young that he'd be put off by my 40 year old bod "

I haven't met any that were put off by my 47 year old one so you should have no problems at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be worried about meeting someone so young that he'd be put off by my 40 year old bod "

This is just the most upsetting thing I've read all year

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Depends on what your looking for xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Also I might add that I've been on this for over 2yrs and still havint got a single message back.. Haha I have alot of experience but no ones gonna find that out as I can't seem to get a reply hahah I do go out and meet people but as a younger guy I do like a girl with abit more experience and more interesting conversation. "

How about staying around the forum, getting to know people and them you. You never know where that could lead to

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By *r Cheeky97 OP   Man
over a year ago

Devon

Yeahhh I'm trying to do more of that. Seems like I get better feed back from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 20, been on here since 18. Although my partner is 11 years older so bumps our average age up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but being called george unless you are of the jungle could prove to be trouble

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. You're fine and I was a similar age. Just focus your attention on people like me who want to meet people of your age. Anyone else will be a waste of time and effort.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I feel it's a bit young but that's your call.

It might work for some.

I would just use this as a tool for getting to know people, getting involved in the lifestyle, if that's what interests you.

If it's just for sex I'd probably go out there and get some experiences under your belt. Meet people out and about the good old fashioned way...enjoy your youth and have some fun x "

Completely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm 18 and I've had luck. So, don't give up dude, just keep persisting and eventually you'll find someone. It took me a bit to get a meet.

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