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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone on here have the opposite of cuming too quickly.... as in... it doesn’t happen at all? Or was I born for porn?

Or should I be taking a trip to the Dr’s?

Disclaimer: Don’t take this too seriously I’m only pissing about, learned to live with it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if i want to wait or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job."

Penetration, handjob, blowjob... yet to cum for any of them, apart from sex actually, think it’s been like 4 times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if i want to wait or not "

Rare talent, built for porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if i want to wait or not

Rare talent, built for porn "
naaaa built for 1

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile."

I feel like just going a little slower doesn’t count towards having control

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job."

Maybe I need the opposite of whatever medication that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job.

Penetration, handjob, blowjob... yet to cum for any of them, apart from sex actually, think it’s been like 4 times "

Do you cum when you wank yourself,just not from other people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job.

Penetration, handjob, blowjob... yet to cum for any of them, apart from sex actually, think it’s been like 4 times

Do you cum when you wank yourself,just not from other people? "

Yeah I can cum no problem with doing it myself. I even tried stopping wanking all together to see if that worked... nothing haha

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile.

I feel like just going a little slower doesn’t count towards having control "

It's nothing to do with speed. It's like flicking a switch, if I decide I'm not cumming it doesn't happen regardless. A lifetime of edging builds that control.

Tantric sex techniques can even allow you to have dry orgasm's but I've not mastered that, not sure I will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile.

I feel like just going a little slower doesn’t count towards having control

It's nothing to do with speed. It's like flicking a switch, if I decide I'm not cumming it doesn't happen regardless. A lifetime of edging builds that control.

Tantric sex techniques can even allow you to have dry orgasm's but I've not mastered that, not sure I will."

Who’d want a dry orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it become more difficult for a man to cum as he gets older?

Asking for a friend of course?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have zero control over when I cum

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Does it become more difficult for a man to cum as he gets older?

Asking for a friend of course?"

Depends how often he has sex and the lady.

Just say g for a friend. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile.

I feel like just going a little slower doesn’t count towards having control

It's nothing to do with speed. It's like flicking a switch, if I decide I'm not cumming it doesn't happen regardless. A lifetime of edging builds that control.

Tantric sex techniques can even allow you to have dry orgasm's but I've not mastered that, not sure I will.

Who’d want a dry orgasm "

You'd be surprised. They are incredibly powerful and intense. A full body experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job.

Penetration, handjob, blowjob... yet to cum for any of them, apart from sex actually, think it’s been like 4 times

Do you cum when you wank yourself,just not from other people?

Yeah I can cum no problem with doing it myself. I even tried stopping wanking all together to see if that worked... nothing haha"

Do you always watch the same stuff, and wank a certain way when you do. Almost like you've trained yourself to only cum under those circumstances. I can only suggest getting more and varied sexual experiences, which Im sure you are working on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Men who last a long time and sex doesn't have to stop long before I'm satiated?

Oh... how awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile.

I feel like just going a little slower doesn’t count towards having control

It's nothing to do with speed. It's like flicking a switch, if I decide I'm not cumming it doesn't happen regardless. A lifetime of edging builds that control.

Tantric sex techniques can even allow you to have dry orgasm's but I've not mastered that, not sure I will.

Who’d want a dry orgasm "
i have them all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll second medication. And it’s no fun at all. . That’s why i like to please and mix things up. I can make myself cum in seconds strangely

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Not really, I can cum quickly if I want to but I also have complete control over not cumming if I decide not to. So sometimes I might not cum until after playing for a few hours, it depends on the situation as other times I'll cum quicker and go again.

I'm like a waffle, versatile.

I feel like just going a little slower doesn’t count towards having control

It's nothing to do with speed. It's like flicking a switch, if I decide I'm not cumming it doesn't happen regardless. A lifetime of edging builds that control.

Tantric sex techniques can even allow you to have dry orgasm's but I've not mastered that, not sure I will.

Who’d want a dry orgasm "

With dry orgasm's they can last a lot lot longer, like 30 minutes! They can also be whole body.

With the control I've built up I can see how they are possible but I've not taken it to that next step.

Also Tantric sex is all about energies and when you cum the idea is you lose energy, energy you need to keep fucking. That's why Tantric sex is known for the long sessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I aged I noticed that prolonged sex feels less exciting and now I rarely cum from penetrative sex. I'm not sure if it is a physical or psychological issue.

It doesn't bother me particularly, but it would be nice to get a surprise occasionally.

I explain to my partner that it's nothing to do with them. Sometimes ladies take it personally, which is not correct.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Does it become more difficult for a man to cum as he gets older?

Asking for a friend of course?"

It certainly has for me (Luke). Sometimes I won't cum during sex (but still feel very satisfied). Most times I do, and in the morning it often doesn't take very long at all. At night when I'm tired it can take a lot longer than it took me 20 years ago.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job.

Penetration, handjob, blowjob... yet to cum for any of them, apart from sex actually, think it’s been like 4 times

Do you cum when you wank yourself,just not from other people?

Yeah I can cum no problem with doing it myself. I even tried stopping wanking all together to see if that worked... nothing haha

Do you always watch the same stuff, and wank a certain way when you do. Almost like you've trained yourself to only cum under those circumstances. I can only suggest getting more and varied sexual experiences, which Im sure you are working on "
this, perfectly some things up, and there's a letting go thing that also plays a part too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on meds atm and its making me take for ever. Its putting me off doing the deed atm also killed my sex drive. Its just one of those things really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes,medication makes it impossible for me to cum from penetrative sex.

Only thing that is guaranteed to work is a hand job.

Penetration, handjob, blowjob... yet to cum for any of them, apart from sex actually, think it’s been like 4 times

Do you cum when you wank yourself,just not from other people?

Yeah I can cum no problem with doing it myself. I even tried stopping wanking all together to see if that worked... nothing haha

Do you always watch the same stuff, and wank a certain way when you do. Almost like you've trained yourself to only cum under those circumstances. I can only suggest getting more and varied sexual experiences, which Im sure you are working on "

When I do wank (which is rare now) I watch various things. But just as said, problem remains with sex etc!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it become more difficult for a man to cum as he gets older?

Asking for a friend of course?

It certainly has for me (Luke). Sometimes I won't cum during sex (but still feel very satisfied). Most times I do, and in the morning it often doesn't take very long at all. At night when I'm tired it can take a lot longer than it took me 20 years ago. "

I would say it’s the same for me, but I’m 25 so doubt she can be the issue yet... else I’m fucked when I’m older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a weird one for me. I’ve been with my partner for over 20 years. Not the best sex life for a long time but reasonably good now. When we fuck she usually wanks me for 20 minutes as I’m licking her pussy before she gets on all fours and makes me fuck her slow and deep doggy style. If I’m lucky I last a minute before I’m cumming inside her but I can carry on fucking her as I stay hard after I’ve cum.

I had an 18 month affair with a woman 16 years younger than me and she was one of the sexiest women I’ve ever seen. Everytime we fucked it lasted ages. I mean as in I could fuck her for up to an hour before cumming!!!!

Can never understand how I cum so quick with my partner yet lasted forever with my beautiful lover!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit of a weird one for me. I’ve been with my partner for over 20 years. Not the best sex life for a long time but reasonably good now. When we fuck she usually wanks me for 20 minutes as I’m licking her pussy before she gets on all fours and makes me fuck her slow and deep doggy style. If I’m lucky I last a minute before I’m cumming inside her but I can carry on fucking her as I stay hard after I’ve cum.

I had an 18 month affair with a woman 16 years younger than me and she was one of the sexiest women I’ve ever seen. Everytime we fucked it lasted ages. I mean as in I could fuck her for up to an hour before cumming!!!!

Can never understand how I cum so quick with my partner yet lasted forever with my beautiful lover!"

What a lovely story

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