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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You only have to look at the number of threads on here about womens dress size or mens cock size. Slimming is a multiple billion pound industry and God only knows what they could charge if they ever developed a genuine grow your cock overnight pill!

My question is are we as a society becoming more 'sizeist' as our society evolves?

Are we more sizeist' than previous generations?

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are...as more and more people strive to be like their favourite celb...and airbrush pictures in Papers ect make people look more perfect (waht ever that is)

Ther is more pressure than ever for people to try to look like them...make-up...slimming...gyms...cosmetic surgery...all...big and booming business models.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think its because we're inundated with images of what is meant to be perfection at this moment in time,with so many offers of instant results to achieve this its no wonder people that are not so comfortable with themselves jump to try and fit what they think everyone else assumes is perfect,when really its mostly an illusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me losing weight looking good is a bi product.. its for me about being healthy and fit..

Something I know at 21stone I wasnt.

Cali

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will go with what hpc said otherwsie i will end up writing an essay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only have to look at the number of threads on here about womens dress size or mens cock size. Slimming is a multiple billion pound industry and God only knows what they could charge if they ever developed a genuine grow your cock overnight pill!

My question is are we as a society becoming more 'sizeist' as our society evolves?

Are we more sizeist' than previous generations?"

Yes we are a a sizeist generation in so many ways. The availability of porn shows large cocks all the time and the huge increase in obesity has highlighted size differences. Is being sizeist good or bad though is for the individual to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its worse for kids

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok, here goes. Siziest is a thing in later years that we have become obsessed by. Just look at all the television programmes to do with size. With junk food and "crap" food being easily obtainable at cheap prices it has enhanced the problem along with games children play. In some schools sport is no longer part of the curriculimum but an out of school activity. Children sit with computer games ect. Adults tend to have less manual jobs than they used to.

However, body issues is certainly not new, we have had anerexia back since the 40's and 50's generally then as far as women went from reading glamour magazines and watching the film stars.

More men get eating disorders now than ever before.

It has been enhanced over the last 20 years but not a new phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have all at some point been suckered in by the looks of celebs and rock stars etc and have tried to dress or look like them in some way.

I think its good when someone different from the norm makes it, like Adele, Johnny Vegas and others that break the mold of the beatiful brigade.

As for the size of male endowment, the grass is always greener and if a woman says size doesn't matter then let's see her reaction if an elephant tries to finger her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me losing weight looking good is a bi product.. its for me about being healthy and fit..

Something I know at 21stone I wasnt.

Cali "

i don't think that everybody that loses weight looks better for it

a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know i'd always much prefer someone with nice curves - nothing worse than the constant fear that the woman beneath you may snap like a twig at any second!

But there has to be middle gound - too skinny or too big - niether is healthy, or IMHO particularly attractive either!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"For me losing weight looking good is a bi product.. its for me about being healthy and fit..

Something I know at 21stone I wasnt.

Cali

i don't think that everybody that loses weight looks better for it

a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others"

When i started loosing weight, it was never ever about vanity, just purely health. However, i know i look better now. But i have more or less set my target weight in my head. Which will make me slightly overweight for my height but im not going to all the trouble f loosing weight to look worse at the end of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me losing weight looking good is a bi product.. its for me about being healthy and fit..

Something I know at 21stone I wasnt.

Cali

i don't think that everybody that loses weight looks better for it

a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others"

All the fat uns say that! (Joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me losing weight looking good is a bi product.. its for me about being healthy and fit..

Something I know at 21stone I wasnt.

Cali

i don't think that everybody that loses weight looks better for it

a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others

All the fat uns say that! (Joke) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it depends alot on the individual person as well. Pre baby i was a size zero and i loved being that size, now i'm a size 10 i'm not happy and i'll be striving to lower that size again.

Its all about being healthy while doing it, i walk 20 miles a week, dance class is increasing to 3 times a week and i'm trying to get to a gym 3 times a week

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"For me losing weight looking good is a bi product.. its for me about being healthy and fit..

Something I know at 21stone I wasnt.

Cali

i don't think that everybody that loses weight looks better for it

a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others

All the fat uns say that! (Joke) "

True, but then the fat ones that loose weight can sit back and laugh at the jokes when they have cured their health issues by loosing weight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

.........a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others"

Lets not kid ourselves, the prime motivation for almost everything is the expectation of others and vanity, never mind weight loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Lets not kid ourselves, the prime motivation for almost everything is the expectation of others and vanity, never mind weight loss. "

Actually I disagree.. for me the looking better part isnt the goal.. it is as I said a bi product.. I used to have a eating disorder that had me very very underweight.. then I went the other way. Now I am just trying to get to a healthy and fit weight so that I can go and be who I want to be.

I dont go much for what society says I should do or be or look like.. I am me.. that is always good enough..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

.........a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others

Lets not kid ourselves, the prime motivation for almost everything is the expectation of others and vanity, never mind weight loss. "

That sounds like a kind of teenage peer pressure.

A lot of us are happy in how we are, and do things purely for the achievement value from self-motivation and self-development, not just to get an approving nod, or acceptance from someone.

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"

Lets not kid ourselves, the prime motivation for almost everything is the expectation of others and vanity, never mind weight loss.

Actually I disagree.. for me the looking better part isnt the goal.. it is as I said a bi product.. I used to have a eating disorder that had me very very underweight.. then I went the other way. Now I am just trying to get to a healthy and fit weight so that I can go and be who I want to be.

I dont go much for what society says I should do or be or look like.. I am me.. that is always good enough..

Cali "

actually i couldnt agree with you more,

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"

.........a better long term health prognosis should be the prime motivation for weight loss, not vanity or the expectations of others

Lets not kid ourselves, the prime motivation for almost everything is the expectation of others and vanity, never mind weight loss.

That sounds like a kind of teenage peer pressure.

A lot of us are happy in how we are, and do things purely for the achievement value from self-motivation and self-development, not just to get an approving nod, or acceptance from someone.

Wolf"

oh and this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know i'd always much prefer someone with nice curves - nothing worse than the constant fear that the woman beneath you may snap like a twig at any second!

But there has to be middle gound - too skinny or too big - niether is healthy, or IMHO particularly attractive either! "

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its because we're inundated with images of what is meant to be perfection at this moment in time,with so many offers of instant results to achieve this its no wonder people that are not so comfortable with themselves jump to try and fit what they think everyone else assumes is perfect,when really its mostly an illusion

"

I agree with you to an extent, it's ridiculous how we get bombarded with 'perfection'.

But.....go back to ancient Egypt and look at all the images in the tombs or the statues that have been found, non of them depict overweight people, the statues from ancient Greece, the paintings on the ceiling of the Sistene Chapel, the artefacts found from the Inca civilisation all slim, ripped and the percieves image of perfection.

Maybe it's not the modern phenomena most of us believe it to be?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I think its because we're inundated with images of what is meant to be perfection at this moment in time,with so many offers of instant results to achieve this its no wonder people that are not so comfortable with themselves jump to try and fit what they think everyone else assumes is perfect,when really its mostly an illusion

I agree with you to an extent, it's ridiculous how we get bombarded with 'perfection'.

But.....go back to ancient Egypt and look at all the images in the tombs or the statues that have been found, non of them depict overweight people, the statues from ancient Greece, the paintings on the ceiling of the Sistene Chapel, the artefacts found from the Inca civilisation all slim, ripped and the percieves image of perfection.

Maybe it's not the modern phenomena most of us believe it to be?"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think its because we're inundated with images of what is meant to be perfection at this moment in time,with so many offers of instant results to achieve this its no wonder people that are not so comfortable with themselves jump to try and fit what they think everyone else assumes is perfect,when really its mostly an illusion

I agree with you to an extent, it's ridiculous how we get bombarded with 'perfection'.

But.....go back to ancient Egypt and look at all the images in the tombs or the statues that have been found, non of them depict overweight people, the statues from ancient Greece, the paintings on the ceiling of the Sistene Chapel, the artefacts found from the Inca civilisation all slim, ripped and the percieves image of perfection.

Maybe it's not the modern phenomena most of us believe it to be?

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments."

and rubens paintings and the fact that in some countries overweight people are percieved as being wealthy and of status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy with mine lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

and rubens paintings and the fact that in some countries overweight people are percieved as being wealthy and of status"

That was the case in this country until The Victorians.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments."

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its because we're inundated with images of what is meant to be perfection at this moment in time,with so many offers of instant results to achieve this its no wonder people that are not so comfortable with themselves jump to try and fit what they think everyone else assumes is perfect,when really its mostly an illusion

I agree with you to an extent, it's ridiculous how we get bombarded with 'perfection'.

But.....go back to ancient Egypt and look at all the images in the tombs or the statues that have been found, non of them depict overweight people, the statues from ancient Greece, the paintings on the ceiling of the Sistene Chapel, the artefacts found from the Inca civilisation all slim, ripped and the percieves image of perfection.

Maybe it's not the modern phenomena most of us believe it to be?

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments."

I model myself on them

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

i only have to look at Ems kids for the answer.

the youngest (10) is starting to think he is fat (6stone), the others pick at food, havent a pick on them, and the 17 year old spends more time in the mirror than i dont know what. even Em, who is a lovely sexy 12-14 started to think she is fat now people keep saying 'oh, well once the fags are out of your system and your metabolism gets back, you will get better'

bastards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat uns thin uns man woman or beast they all need lovin I spose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

"

Exactly,

I am a pin-up poster boy on certain South Pacific Islands !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

Exactly,

I am a pin-up poster boy on certain South Pacific Islands !"

Aww lol didnt recognise ya without the wig n stocking on etc etc. Hmmm thought I had knocked one out before over ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

Exactly,

I am a pin-up poster boy on certain South Pacific Islands !

Aww lol didnt recognise ya without the wig n stocking on etc etc. Hmmm thought I had knocked one out before over ya "

and this post alone should prove that i should be careful what i wish for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

Exactly,

I am a pin-up poster boy on certain South Pacific Islands !

Aww lol didnt recognise ya without the wig n stocking on etc etc. Hmmm thought I had knocked one out before over ya

and this post alone should prove that i should be careful what i wish for "

Busty Brenda I think your name was back then wernt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is everyone wants something different, big ladies want to be slimmer, slim ladies want bigger boobs, guys with small cock wouldnt mind a couple more inch and i know guys with huge cocks who wish they wasnt as big as women turn them down for their size

There would be no such thing as a miracle pill that you could take to look 'perfect' because a couple of weeks after you took it people would start finding new faults with themselves

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins

This obssesional life that celebs lead and beam across our media, only has an effect if the people watching it, let it. The typical British, lazy and "let them eat cake" attitude is still firmly embedded in our way of life and will never change until we learn to love thy neighbour and learn to give instead of take as our ancestors have done for 300 years. Looks and wealth attitude is a poison that was here way before the Americans infested our media with more.

As said, many try to live in the the shadow of some over paid, often complete idiot filmstar or player/sportsman. We dont get to hear have of what goes on in our Royal Family but little chinks have appeared over the latter years which shows just how society is heading to the toilet! Why would we want to wear a shirt cos David Beckham does for instance? The world is money crazy, swinging in Britain has about as much chance of success as Angola have of winning the world cup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

Exactly,

I am a pin-up poster boy on certain South Pacific Islands !

Aww lol didnt recognise ya without the wig n stocking on etc etc. Hmmm thought I had knocked one out before over ya

and this post alone should prove that i should be careful what i wish for

Busty Brenda I think your name was back then wernt it? "

if i can find the wig and dust it off, it could still be big boy

if i can't find it tho, you'll just av to make do with chippy tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i only have to look at Ems kids for the answer.

the youngest (10) is starting to think he is fat (6stone), the others pick at food, havent a pick on them, and the 17 year old spends more time in the mirror than i dont know what. even Em, who is a lovely sexy 12-14 started to think she is fat now people keep saying 'oh, well once the fags are out of your system and your metabolism gets back, you will get better'

bastards!"

I agree with you, it saddens me that we have such a hangup with it and my daughters generation even more so. I just hope that one day we evolve past this infatuation, but I doubt it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

What about those short fat Buddha ornaments.

....and better still the artefacts from Central Africa of big women, not all societies have pushed the 'steroid' type percieved perfection of some.

Exactly,

I am a pin-up poster boy on certain South Pacific Islands !

Aww lol didnt recognise ya without the wig n stocking on etc etc. Hmmm thought I had knocked one out before over ya

and this post alone should prove that i should be careful what i wish for

Busty Brenda I think your name was back then wernt it?

if i can find the wig and dust it off, it could still be big boy

if i can't find it tho, you'll just av to make do with chippy tits "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only have to look at the number of threads on here about womens dress size or mens cock size. Slimming is a multiple billion pound industry and God only knows what they could charge if they ever developed a genuine grow your cock overnight pill!

My question is are we as a society becoming more 'sizeist' as our society evolves?

Are we more sizeist' than previous generations?"
You can only piss with the cock you've got! I wish I had a donkeys cock. Instead of the huge bastard I've got. Haahahahaha

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