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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day " It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. | |||
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"Anyone else have an absolutely terrible Christmas ?" Yes has the most depressing shite Christmas ever on my own...spent the whole of Christmas day and night alone. | |||
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"It's actually a time of year where a lot of marriages break down, domestic crime goes up, etc... We just don't talk about it because people are encouraged to be happy. It's not something you can fake... " However, there is a lot of people who are happy, not something to be put down. | |||
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"It's actually a time of year where a lot of marriages break down, domestic crime goes up, etc... We just don't talk about it because people are encouraged to be happy. It's not something you can fake... However, there is a lot of people who are happy, not something to be put down." Indeed not. But telling people to pretend can backfire horribly. And happy people trying to harangue people into being happy should stop. | |||
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP. We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. " I’m so sorry to hear if you’re up for a chat add my kik no messages left here gerd120 | |||
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP. We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. " So sorry to hear that ![]() | |||
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP. We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. I’m so sorry to hear if you’re up for a chat add my kik no messages left here gerd120" I don't have kik but thank you for the offer xx | |||
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP. We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. So sorry to hear that ![]() Xx | |||
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"Sorry it was a shit one OP. We had a quiet one and tried to make the best of it, lost my dad last month so not a lot of Christmas spirit in our family atm but we tried. I’m so sorry to hear if you’re up for a chat add my kik no messages left here gerd120 I don't have kik but thank you for the offer xx" Wana chat here x | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. " This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. " Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. | |||
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"Awh no u poor thing hope you’re ok x" I’ve gotta be ok, gotta be up in 6 hours for work ![]() | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. " Love this reply, love love love | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love" Love conquers all my dear lady! | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! " Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate " I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() Good job you made that clear, there was sure to be a random cock Pic pop up in you're private messages. But now I know you're not flirting.... Phew ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bet you're mouths watering though..... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No comment as that would be flirting ![]() | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're right! We wouldent want too do that! | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day It's often a lot of pressure and people put a lot of meaning in it. And people who don't get along put themselves together because they feel they have to. It's a pressure cooker. This is soo ture, living up to the image that living has gone and sold you can be tuff, capitalism, materialism hatred and war rules all, empathy, compassion, love, and respect, will falter. Good vs evil. Masculinity, vs femininity, light vs dark, heat vs cold, high vs low, strong vs weak. There is a battle of everything all around us. We all live a life, but completly separate relaitys. Makes yours a happy one. Merry Christmas, make the most out of every opportunity you get. Happiness is a state of mind, you lituraly choose you're own happiness, so long as you're not a product of you're envrioment. Peace love prosper. Love this reply, love love love Love conquers all my dear lady! Unless you're a swinger, In that case. Lust most probley does! Joking just been the Devils advocate I like your vibe, it shines brightly And no I’m not flirting ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nearly got ya though! Kudos. Kudos. | |||
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"Anyone else have an absolutely terrible Christmas ?" Yip, the worst so far. Thankfully all over for another year. | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() Thank you for trying. Hope the some who were genuine appreciated it. I think I only helped one Lady yesterday. She got off on dirty chat and felt better and more relaxed to face the day. Happy swinging in 2020 all. | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() That's a thoughtful thing to do, shame it got spoilt, and the sad thing is maybe some of those who sent the pics could do with something positive going on in their lives. I had a good xmas (although I am accused of being a Griswald at times!) As a kid Christmas was pretty grotty so made an effort to enjoy it more as an adult, I would say see if you can make next Christmas better (if you want to) and think of what changes you can make to achieve it (environment, relationships, health etc.) Theres a bit of time to make good changes. Best wishes all. | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day " No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high. But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() I really hope that it doesn't. Like I said to you yesterday; this sort of thing only spoils it if you allow it to. I started that thread because there are people who needed the support, your offer to help too was a very kind gesture. Irrespective of chancers and idiots, there are always those that need help and I think, they shouldn't miss out for others misdeeds | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high. But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing " I agree. I get very similar conversations. It's amazing how people try to get you to conform to their image of Christmas! | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high. But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing I agree. I get very similar conversations. It's amazing how people try to get you to conform to their image of Christmas! " ![]() | |||
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"Anyone else have an absolutely terrible Christmas ?" Hey OP Don't be sad you are amongst friends on here ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Just getting over 3 weeks of flu and now I'm getting a cold. I've hated all of December. I was too floored with exhaustion to get an xmas tree and set it up for my daughter." Euchinacae excuse spelling Tablets are great | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day " Christmas can be a very wrought time for a lot of people. Christmas for some is stressful. Have a good boxing day | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() No genuine ones ![]() | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() Me and Ray had an amazing Christmas and we just wanted to help others, gonna get my thinking cap on to see how I can help next year | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() It would have been nice to have had at least 1 genuine message but we didnt ![]() | |||
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"Had some bad news today that happened yesterday so not having the best boxing day really. ![]() sorry to hear of your sad news | |||
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"(Lou) we changed our settings for yesterday and posted on another thread for anyone who was alone and wanted a natter to message us, unfortunately all we got were dick pics ![]() ![]() ![]() I only had a couple. Often just knowing the help is there and you're not alone is the key point. | |||
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"Ah good to hear hope you had a good one x ah not to worry just don’t understand why people can’t get on for one day No disrespect intended but I hate this attitude. I haven't spoken to my family for years and the amount of times over Christmas I have to explain that no we dont have some sort of truce and play happy families at Christmas is surprisingly high. But what's upsetting is the amount of people that clearly think putting on a front and pretending everyone is happy is the right thing to do and that keeping up appearances is more important than mental wellbeing " Spot on. Why is there an assumption that you should put differences aside because it’s family? Fuck that. An asshat it an asshat regardless of blood ties. I don’t tolerate asshats. I spent my Christmas alone and it was great. Everything was exactly as I liked it ![]() | |||
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"Had some bad news today that happened yesterday so not having the best boxing day really. ![]() Sorry to hear that *hug* | |||
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"Had some bad news today that happened yesterday so not having the best boxing day really. ![]() Thank you. Just heard the person involved is doing ok at the moment. So that's good news ![]() | |||
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"Had some bad news today that happened yesterday so not having the best boxing day really. ![]() ![]() That's a big positive it's hard in any bad situation to focus on the positives but there's always something if you look, use that to help the person and they can feed off that x Ray | |||
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