FabSwingers.com forum: What do you wink for?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious to know why people use the wink on here?

When you send a wink what are you hoping for in return ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it."

I spent years thinking I was out of most girls league all through my 20s. In my 30s I changed to fuck that. I’m great. I may not be their type but I’m certainly not out of anyone’s league. Neither are you or any other man on here. Be confident and know you the fucking man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'cos I'm needy

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

" Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it.

here..here

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

I hardly ever wink.

If the picture is nice regardless of whether there is something possible from it I do leave a picture like. The Lady went through effort to get the picture right that attracted me.

Happy swinging in 2020

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'cos I'm needy

Then I’ve sent you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'cos I'm needy

Then I’ve sent you one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna wink at everyone on the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hardly ever wink.

If the picture is nice regardless of whether there is something possible from it I do leave a picture like. The Lady went through effort to get the picture right that attracted me.

Happy swinging in 2020"

Yeah I leave a like but believe it or not many woman don’t get nice compliments. Sure they get loads of hey babe or great tits. But if you see something in a photo you like. Let them know what it is. Be classy and charming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm gonna wink at everyone on the thread

I still feel special

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance) "

Ah like a bookmark. Can you search for sent winks though to keep track?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance) "

So if I get a wink I’m to message you or wait on the reserves ?

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

If I like someone's profile but not sure if I am what they are looking for.

It's lazy perhaps,but I prefer to think of it as not intrusive. I don't want to hassle people if they're not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I winked at someone, he’s now my fwb

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Generally if I like a profile but haven't got time to send a proper message or get into a conversation right then (browsing at work for instance)

Ah like a bookmark. Can you search for sent winks though to keep track? "

You can't actually - but I mostly get a message if i've winked at someone. If not, I don't do it often and remember the username to send a message later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away. "

Tuesday i can't wink at you... you've broken my winkety-wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away.

Tuesday i can't wink at you... you've broken my winkety-wink

Same. Leave them a forum wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wank would be nice in return but no one takes notice of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to know why people use the wink on here?

When you send a wink what are you hoping for in return ?"

Its an ice breaker

It says you are interested

Most guys moan about everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wank would be nice in return but no one takes notice of them

Gave ya a wink instead

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

The only time I wink is to return one from a woman or couple. So virtually never. It feels too lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wank would be nice in return but no one takes notice of them

Gave ya a wink instead "

Very kind of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Curious to know why people use the wink on here?

When you send a wink what are you hoping for in return ?

Its an ice breaker

It says you are interested

Most guys moan about everything "

You ain’t moaning about guys moaning are you?

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

"A wank would be nice in return but no one takes notice of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A wank would be nice in return but no one takes notice of them

Gave ya a wink instead

Very kind of you

She’s gonna wink us all off. Merry bloody Christmas

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I wink to show interest as I’m shy & don’t always like messaging first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

Try figuring out women

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Wink to show interest.

We’ve lately had a few profiles wink us then a minute later send friend invites and don’t reply to messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

Ah the game of life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wink to show interest.

We’ve lately had a few profiles wink us then a minute later send friend invites and don’t reply to messages"

Yeah a wink and a friend invite before a conversation is like someone trying to ram their cock through your letter box.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Got a wink from a stunning woman, never wouid have dreamt she'd find me attractive. So yeh, it has its uses

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

"To flirt, I'm a total flirt. Then if they want to message back it is upto them. Some I may see and go oh my god I have got to speak to these now then I will definitely message them straight away.

Tuesday i can't wink at you... you've broken my winkety-wink

Oh I am so sorry hun I think I fixed it for you though I am not very good with these things wink away xxx

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Don’t do much now, but when I do it’s just a bit of fun and to say to someone I’m interested.. cuz I’m crap at writing first messages .. always sound desperate, which I’m not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Because I'm thinking they may be out of my league, so its gauging interest before sending a message. I rarely do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

Ah the game of life "

Messages darlings

Can't be prompt

Or timed

Most people don't even check their profiles

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

Yes I am sorry to the guys my man filter is up. Nothing against you all I am sure you are all wonderful it is just if I take it down I will get a hundred emails in the next fifteen minutes. If we had an inbox that could filter contacts and non contacts it would not be so much of an issue xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I am sorry to the guys my man filter is up. Nothing against you all I am sure you are all wonderful it is just if I take it down I will get a hundred emails in the next fifteen minutes. If we had an inbox that could filter contacts and non contacts it would not be so much of an issue xxx"
cant have you getting swamped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the wink as I’m interested in chatting. I’m hopeless at starting conversations so I find it easier for me.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

I got a new wink this evening and I have enjoyed exploring their profile and sending them a thank you note.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winkety-wink winkey-wink

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Winkety-wink winkey-wink"

Winky wank winky wank

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

We were on the cams once and had the filters open. We literally had thousands of views on the profiles hundreds of winks as well as hundreds of emails. It went crazy. We were only on for a few hours lol. We don't do it very often, it is fun when we do chatting to people but it is one crazy experience

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Used the wink a couple of times when we first came on here. Nothing came of it so dont bother any more lol. If i see someone i like then ill message them.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Just to get them to look at my profile and see if they like what's on offer lol

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Curious to know why people use the wink on here?

When you send a wink what are you hoping for in return ?"

We do it for charity. We get sponsored.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I'm gonna wink at everyone on the thread

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna wink at everyone on the thread

Thank you

My pleasure

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I'm gonna wink at everyone on the thread

Thank you

My pleasure

I done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wink, so, nuffin

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We wink to say we like them (profile/picks) and if they like what they read/see they were open to engaging in conversation

We see it as a polite way to start a conversation

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By *ob longMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Yes

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"We wink to say we like them (profile/picks) and if they like what they read/see they were open to engaging in conversation

We see it as a polite way to start a conversation "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only sent my first wink today as I am getting more confident in the site. Sent a few messages last week and got some read.. I thought that was cool, but I am not great at this stuff so... maybe a few more might help? I hope I get noticed.. but my profile is crap so.. not sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More winkys sent

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"More winkys sent

So much sex appeal in a simple wink

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"More winkys sent

So much sex appeal in a simple wink

I'm always learning

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

"More winkys sent

I thank you for my winky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the wink function. If they wink back I will send a message.

It's simple but a good start

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I like to wink.

I also like it as a conversation starter if someone is too shy to start a one.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

I send a wink in the same way I would send a sultry smile across a crowded room ... it’ll either get welcomed or not

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"I like the wink function. If they wink back I will send a message.

It's simple but a good start "

Exactly this

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

some profiles encourage winks so ill wink to show iv read their profile x

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We wink if we like someone's profile and to show an expresion of interest. Also a wink is always a good way to start a conversation

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

To gauge interest!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I love a nice wink...it’s a good ice breaker xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"To gauge interest!"

I very much doubt that you are short of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be the stardust in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have used the wink, but only in response to forum threads.

I do often fab great pictures I stumble across though.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Same as me , i prefer first wink after read profile , if they wink or msg back fine if not fine also , is simple than send msg , avoid undesired msg's and disturb people

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I don’t normally wink first, but often wink back once winked at

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I have a few just to appreciate

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By *ottpair243Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield/Leeds

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!?

” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...

This is a great post cuz some people say on their profile they just delete winks like it’s a nuisance I guess, which is a shame....We personally wink to gauge interest as mentioned above. We don’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea so if we do wink it’s out of genuine interest based on what we’ve seen on profile and what we’re looking for, with the hope that if it is reciprocated. Its a good icebreaker for conversations that hopefully leads to positive interaction. It’s just another form of (non-verbal) communication that has its benefits I guess; some would disagree and that’s fine too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks are like little SONAR pings you fire 1 off at a profile in the hope that the owner(s) of said profile will return the wink thus giving confidence to spark up something.

But it's late and I'm rambling ha highland park you bad bad tipple!

Happy Christmas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All caught up on my winks..

Think i might have winked some of you more than once... Sorry !

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't wink. I message. Far more effective

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"All caught up on my winks..

Think i might have winked some of you more than once... Sorry ! "

And I thought I was specii. Damn.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"To gauge interest!

I very much doubt that you are short of interest. "

You would be surprised!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"All caught up on my winks..

Think i might have winked some of you more than once... Sorry ! "

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!?

” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...

I agree with you and few times happened to me they send me wink after they fab my pictures they send msg and after they hide their profiles ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All caught up on my winks..

Think i might have winked some of you more than once... Sorry ! "

Winked back, because it felt like the polite thing to do

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By *ottpair243Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield/Leeds

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!?

” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...

I agree with you and few times happened to me they send me wink after they fab my pictures they send msg and after they hide their profiles ?? "

Madness...and the thing we always say is, if you won’t do it in person why do it on a chat room or whatever. It’s just so rude and impolite- but those behaviours are “cool” nowadays I guess. Getting old! #ghostingissoooocool (smh)

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"What I don’t get is when someone winks at you, then you message them, and they ignore you

The most absolute “huh, did I misunderstand something!?

” moment there is on here! Or worse yet, they read and delete the message after winking and fabbing photos Lol...

I agree with you and few times happened to me they send me wink after they fab my pictures they send msg and after they hide their profiles ??

I do agree with you is quite rude even knowing not everyone is everyone's cup tea but

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