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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's rather inescapable that today is Christmas on the forums, between everyone posting their own greetings, well wishes and the Christmas themed threads, it's clear what today is!

Obviously not everyone is where they want to be and not everyone has received a gift today. I just wanted to remind those of you in that situation; you are enough, you are special and although today can be tough, it does pass.

Be gentle with yourself folks.

My inbox is always open to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww that's nice thing to state.

Feastive wishes to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Merry christmas the monkey of the tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Sir.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Well said Sir. "

Thank you

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"

Merry christmas the monkey of the tea "

And to you Mr Gatsby!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Awww that's nice thing to state.

Feastive wishes to all"

I think it's important to remember

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By *ardAndFun321Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Well said tea .... top man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t wait for it all to be over

I have no one and im so lonely and depressed

I hate Xmas

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Well said tea .... top man "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's lovely

Merry Christmas to all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's rather inescapable that today is Christmas on the forums, between everyone posting their own greetings, well wishes and the Christmas themed threads, it's clear what today is!

Obviously not everyone is where they want to be and not everyone has received a gift today. I just wanted to remind those of you in that situation; you are enough, you are special and although today can be tough, it does pass.

Be gentle with yourself folks.

My inbox is always open to anyone. "

Like I said, deep breath and refocus

It is one day

Much love to you and whatever battle good or bad that everyone is facing

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Can’t wait for it all to be over

I have no one and im so lonely and depressed

I hate Xmas "

I try and look at it as just another day, PM me if you want to chat though.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Well said!! Mine was made better by calling a special someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t wait for it all to be over

I have no one and im so lonely and depressed

I hate Xmas "

(Hugs) xx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It's rather inescapable that today is Christmas on the forums, between everyone posting their own greetings, well wishes and the Christmas themed threads, it's clear what today is!

Obviously not everyone is where they want to be and not everyone has received a gift today. I just wanted to remind those of you in that situation; you are enough, you are special and although today can be tough, it does pass.

Be gentle with yourself folks.

My inbox is always open to anyone.

Like I said, deep breath and refocus

It is one day

Much love to you and whatever battle good or bad that everyone is facing "

Very true.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Thank you for posting this message OP, It's truely what Christmas is all about.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Well said!! Mine was made better by calling a special someone "

The child catcher?

Ebay?

Etsy?

The SAS?

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"Can’t wait for it all to be over

I have no one and im so lonely and depressed

I hate Xmas "

You are not alone, there are people thinking of you. There’s support here. Tomorrow is a new day and we’re already half way through this one.

BIG hugs X

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Thank you for posting this message OP, It's truely what Christmas is all about.

"

In previous years, fab folks have got me through hard Christmas periods. I know from experience that it does get better. That's not to detract or dismiss how people feel now but it's good to know that these things do pass.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Can’t wait for it all to be over

I have no one and im so lonely and depressed

I hate Xmas

You are not alone, there are people thinking of you. There’s support here. Tomorrow is a new day and we’re already half way through this one.

BIG hugs X"

Exactly this, well put.

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

Happy Wednesday people, I am one of those not celebrating Christmas as funds nor family allow it.

Today is just a day and for those not celebrating for whatever reason, enjoy your Wednesday and look after yourselves

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Merry Christmas Mr Tea

Lovely thread xx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Happy Wednesday people, I am one of those not celebrating Christmas as funds nor family allow it.

Today is just a day and for those not celebrating for whatever reason, enjoy your Wednesday and look after yourselves "

Perfect!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Merry Christmas Mr Tea

Lovely thread xx"

And you too spidey!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Merry Christmas Op and everyone xxx even if your not in the mood big hugs xxxx

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

This is what Christmas is all about caring for each other and this thread just reinforces it.

Well said OP.

I will be popping in and out allday if anyone wants a chat

Xxxxx

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Well said!! Mine was made better by calling a special someone

The child catcher?

Ebay?

Etsy?

The SAS? "

Still waiting for the SAS, but speaking to you made my morning xxx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Merry Christmas Op and everyone xxx even if your not in the mood big hugs xxxx"

Thanks TG

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Through Fab I met a Lady who is lonely as she is not with Family at Christmas and fairly skint.

So I teased her on a chat app with a Fantasy and she says she came.

At least I distracted her. She says she feels better.

I hope so.

Reaching out for at least 10 seconds to someone who is lonely or hates Christmas is worth it.

Well OP for starting this thread.

Happy Swinging in 2020

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Merry Christmas Op and everyone xxx even if your not in the mood big hugs xxxx

Thanks TG"

Xx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"This is what Christmas is all about caring for each other and this thread just reinforces it.

Well said OP.

I will be popping in and out allday if anyone wants a chat

Xxxxx"

I agree and thank you

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire


"Awww that's nice thing to state.

Feastive wishes to all"

Merry Christmas x

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Well said!! Mine was made better by calling a special someone

The child catcher?

Ebay?

Etsy?

The SAS?

Still waiting for the SAS, but speaking to you made my morning xxx"

And mine. Mind you, I tell you every day what you mean to me

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Through Fab I met a Lady who is lonely as she is not with Family at Christmas and fairly skint.

So I teased her on a chat app with a Fantasy and she says she came.

At least I distracted her. She says she feels better.

I hope so.

Reaching out for at least 10 seconds to someone who is lonely or hates Christmas is worth it.

Well OP for starting this thread.

Happy Swinging in 2020"

Reaching out is always good

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"That's lovely

Merry Christmas to all x"

Thank you

Merry Christmas to you too

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Always so thoughtful Tea.

Sending love, hugs and positive vibes to everyone today.

I hope you have a blessed day.

Jo.Xx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Always so thoughtful Tea.

Sending love, hugs and positive vibes to everyone today.

I hope you have a blessed day.

Jo.Xx "

Love, hugs and positive vibes back to you both too

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely thread, Tea Monkey.

Merry Christmas to all of you. I've just done the family thing and will now spend the rest of the day chilling with Tom. While I can cope with it now, when I first got divorced, I dreaded having to spend Christmas day without my child every other year.

It's all a state of mind.

xx Niki

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x"

There's already quite enough monkeys!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

There's already quite enough monkeys! "

Yeah, but there's only one Tea Monkey! X

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"What a lovely thread, Tea Monkey.

Merry Christmas to all of you. I've just done the family thing and will now spend the rest of the day chilling with Tom. While I can cope with it now, when I first got divorced, I dreaded having to spend Christmas day without my child every other year.

It's all a state of mind.

xx Niki"

I agree with you about it being a state of mind, it's one that you have to learn to a certain degree and almost 'deprogramme' yourself. It's never easy but it's good to see that there are lots of people in the same situation.

Thank you for your post

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

There's already quite enough monkeys!

Yeah, but there's only one Tea Monkey! X"

Thank goodness

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

There's already quite enough monkeys!

Yeah, but there's only one Tea Monkey! X

Thank goodness "

Oh FFS, take a compliment already xx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

There's already quite enough monkeys!

Yeah, but there's only one Tea Monkey! X

Thank goodness

Oh FFS, take a compliment already xx "

OK, OK... Jeez!

Thank you two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx"

Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx"

Oh well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx

Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it! "

I had to double check, but Im sure it is. Im d*unk on sunshine here

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx

Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it!

I had to double check, but Im sure it is. Im d*unk on sunshine here "

Is that a line of prosecco?

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x"

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx

Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it!

I had to double check, but Im sure it is. Im d*unk on sunshine here

Is that a line of prosecco? "

I wish I could bottle it I would be rich..... Rich I tell thee.

(The blazing from the sky, vit D kind)

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Merry Wednesday to one and all. Xx

Oh yes, it is Wednesday isn't it!

I had to double check, but Im sure it is. Im d*unk on sunshine here

Is that a line of prosecco?

I wish I could bottle it I would be rich..... Rich I tell thee.

(The blazing from the sky, vit D kind) "

Sunshine?! It's grey here but sounds amazing!

If you're d*unk on sunshine though, maybe a hat?

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though"

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

There's already quite enough monkeys! "

Yeah, where's Funky when you need him?

Merry Christmas everyone, big Ace (((HUGS))) available to anyone who needs one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x"

Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x"

I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You're a good soul, Mr. T. Monkey. We should all be a bit more monkey

Mrs TMN x

There's already quite enough monkeys!

Yeah, where's Funky when you need him?

Merry Christmas everyone, big Ace (((HUGS))) available to anyone who needs one x "

Funky, Mr, cuddle, bike...

It seems there's a monkey for every need!

Nice one Ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Merry Christmas to everyone, alone or otherwise...

We may not be where we want to be with who we wish to share our time with, yet that time is still precious and our lives they can change if that's what we wish for ourselves or others.

That change only we can make it, no one else can do it for us.

Today I wish you peace and whatever you wish for yourself. If you have a dream, then you can make it real.

Merry Christmas, peace, and love, but mostly love, there is nothing greater to give to another....

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job"

Agreed

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job"

Even if we have never spoke to them before we are here for them

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good"

Exactly

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

Reslly nice of you guys to offer that in my opinion good job

Even if we have never spoke to them before we are here for them"

I'm exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not same when your alone

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Not same when your alone"

No, that's not the point though. Being alone is fine and OK.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Lovely thread Tea x

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Lovely thread Tea x"

Thank you Red

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Post Queen bumping

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good

Exactly"

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good

Exactly

"

(Ray)

So Lou made the kind gesture above and what do we get a fucking message with a dick pick ! There's a reason most couples block single men.

FFS it's Christmas she offers to chat to anyone who's feeling alone and twats turn up !

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If anyone on their own wishes to message us just for a natter then please do, we dont like the thought of anyone being on their own this time of year x

That's lovely. Sometimes being alone is unavoidable, theres no reason to be lonely though

Exactly and we are happy to talk to anyone, even if they just want a moan x

I agree. Moan, laugh, dispair, company... Its all good

Exactly

(Ray)

So Lou made the kind gesture above and what do we get a fucking message with a dick pick ! There's a reason most couples block single men.

FFS it's Christmas she offers to chat to anyone who's feeling alone and twats turn up ! "

Unfortunately some people use any opportunity to try and take advantage. Don't let the idiots get in the way or detract from the good ones.

The offer of helping others was a positive and caring gesture. I'm sure that many appreciate it.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray)

Lou doesn't want to block anyone after her gesture to chat to anyone as she's a big softy lol

I've respected her wishes, just a shame the few spoil it

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Nice gesture Tea

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"(Ray)

Lou doesn't want to block anyone after her gesture to chat to anyone as she's a big softy lol

I've respected her wishes, just a shame the few spoil it "

As with anything in life; there are always idiots. They only spoil it if you let them.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Nice gesture Tea "

Thanks

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