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Wife's who didn't want to swing but you did for husband

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By *rishrover2017 OP   Man
over a year ago

telford

Do u regret it

How was that first time

Have you caught the bug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

Come again?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t think anyone’s gonna admit to that tbf tho

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Taking one for the team.

Been there, never again

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think he means women that swing only to please their husbands...

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Taking one for the team.

Been there, never again "

My husband wouldn't want / expect me too and nor would I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope the ones who’ve done this are now free of anyone who would suggest such a thing knowing that their partner had to be persuaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think he means women that swing only to please their husbands... "

Ah right , I did wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure no woman would ever condone to such things, you either want it or you don't, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do u regret it

How was that first time

Have you caught the bug "

Post should have titled "did you marry a wanker?"

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Do u regret it

How was that first time

Have you caught the bug

Post should have titled "did you marry a wanker?""

“And was he only interested in a MFF”

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Not quite the same thing but we have come across quite a few ladies that say they are bi just to please their man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope the ones who’ve done this are now free of anyone who would suggest such a thing knowing that their partner had to be persuaded. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would want any partner to be free, willing and able....!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "

It's concerning and a situation I avoid as hard as I can.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "

Seen this too, really just don’t understand it. And the d*unk thing at clubs really irks me too; regardless of whether it’s Dutch courage you should make sure you’re always in control.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "

All the negative behaviour I've seen in clubs has been from couples falling out "He's a fooking liar! We agreed about this!".....and cue wife storming out

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "

Nothing as unattractive as a woman too d*unk to walk in her heels.....

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples .."

But is it that simple? What if one of you wants to carry on?

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples ..

But is it that simple? What if one of you wants to carry on? "

Yes it is that simple

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"Id NEVER be on here if i didnt want too and my hubby would never ask ,but the moment one of us isnt into it anymore then we leave together ..simples ..

But is it that simple? What if one of you wants to carry on? "
Then we would have a conversation about it and work it out together hopefully ,till then its good for us both ..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m always interested for couples who thought of swinging first and how they bought it up in conversation.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "

Oh yes....we sit and people watch when we want a break from playing...and it happens a lot more than you think it does...

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I’m always interested for couples who thought of swinging first and how they bought it up in conversation. "

I met my guy on here ...simples

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?

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Is one of you not being pressured in do doing what you do not want to do? ie not playing? Does it not work both ways?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I’m always interested for couples who thought of swinging first and how they bought it up in conversation.

I met my guy on here ...simples "
perfect!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"Seen a few couples over the years at clubs where the female looks miserable and looks like she doesn’t want to be in that situation, sad to see and the odd few really d*unk makes you wonder if they would do it sober. "

I've seen this so many times....I avoid like the plague.

And the d*unk people are the main reason that I avoid clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've suspected it in a meet. Was a social meet and didn't take it further for that reason

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?

Is one of you not being pressured in do doing what you do not want to do? ie not playing? Does it not work both ways?"

No. Not playing is the default.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take one for the team eh hubby would be a huge dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in a million years something we both love doing together all mutual fun x

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"How would you feel about being pressured into something you didn't want to do? Would you feel good after?

Is one of you not being pressured in do doing what you do not want to do? ie not playing? Does it not work both ways?"

Its different relationship dynamics. I'd rather feel my views are respected and he's not desperate enough to have to stay and play when I didn't want to and visa versa. Our relationship takes priority but ultimately it's about communication.

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I decided to swing, and hubby completely understands and would never push me into anything. It's me on here 99 percent of the time, unlike a lot, and will always prove it on the phone fem to fem only. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... personally id have more respect for her than to push her into it... she should never do this just to make you happy. 'Caught the bug'??? Sorry pal but this has utter disaster written all over it.

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