FabSwingers.com forum: Your best achievement of the last decade

By *ouraylovers OP Couple
over a year ago

chesterfield

What are you most proud of ?

What has brought you the most happiness ?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I haven't died

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I haven't died

Are you sure... there's a strange smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fighting the biggest battle of my life and surviving to come and bug you all, all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids

Completing two degrees

Staying relatively alive

Not murdering anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raising my daughter alone

I’m a lone parent, so she’s all down to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i kissed a girl and she li...... iked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Raising my daughter alone

I’m a lone parent, so she’s all down to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I haven't died

Still time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My youngest boy and finally admitting to myself i was completely in love with a woman i know

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I haven't died

Still time

thankyou

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My kids. They are the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Even though they cause me great worry and anxiety 24/7

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I haven't died

I hear you buddy, I hear you

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Completing my first marathon

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My child

And competing in the Black Pudding tossing championships

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Probably not going through with the suicide, it was tough. Although I’m still not sure I made the right choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fighting the biggest battle of my life and surviving to come and bug you all, all over again

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

My daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not going through with the suicide, it was tough. Although I’m still not sure I made the right choice "

I feel for you mate. Reaching that point changes us in ways that it is hard to fathom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son.

He lights up the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting sober. And how I did it, just looking at myself and realising it really wasn't fun anymore (it hadn't been fun for a longtime) and thinking thats it, I'm not drinking or doing other stuff anymore and just stopping the lot. Hardest thing I've ever done. But easily the best.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"My son.

He lights up the world."

Was he born in a manger by any chance?

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

Surviving cancer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son.

He lights up the world.

Was he born in a manger by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son.

He lights up the world.

Was he born in a manger by any chance?

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no a range rover

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Getting Mrs sofa to fall in love with me it’s taken years but finally got there!!

#fourfuckingyearsthentwomore!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Getting through the last decade!

Had a few adventures I’ve been proud of, and a few I’m just glad I survived

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Probably not going through with the suicide, it was tough. Although I’m still not sure I made the right choice "

Of course you made the right choice. And Fab is a more fun and humorous place for having you xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Getting Mrs sofa to fall in love with me it’s taken years but finally got there!!

#fourfuckingyearsthentwomore!

the best things are worth waiting for

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Getting sober. And how I did it, just looking at myself and realising it really wasn't fun anymore (it hadn't been fun for a longtime) and thinking thats it, I'm not drinking or doing other stuff anymore and just stopping the lot. Hardest thing I've ever done. But easily the best."

That takes a lot of inner strength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fighting the biggest battle of my life and surviving to come and bug you all, all over again

xx"

thank u

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Probably not going through with the suicide, it was tough. Although I’m still not sure I made the right choice

Of course you made the right choice. And Fab is a more fun and humorous place for having you xx"

Always the right choice, no matter how it seems at the time.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Probably not going through with the suicide, it was tough. Although I’m still not sure I made the right choice "

You did, x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Seeing my two sons happy and married to wonderful women, and meeting someone who showed me what being loved is all about, shame he is no longer with us but the time we had was the brightest funniest sexiest time of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children and how they love me.. how smart, creative and caring they are outbids to me anything i did or could have done. I had moments when i thought where would have i been if i made different choices? Thats easy to imagine actually. But my kids always are my drive force and inspire me to be a better role model for them in the most unpredictable of ways. Roll on 2020 and a new chapter

i have high hopes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Being open to love and meeting my partner and all that's followed as as a result. He's changed my life for the better.

Achieving my Masters while dating an abusive douchenozzle. I'm proud of having the resilience to see it through and how well I did.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

"Getting Mrs sofa to fall in love with me it’s taken years but finally got there!!

#fourfuckingyearsthentwomore!

the best things are worth waiting for

That’s why I kept waiting and hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son has grown into a fine young man. More to with him and his mum than my contribution though.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Loving reading these. Amazing humans!

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Found each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fighting domestic violence and abuse.. I still survived.. Now helping others... Law degree next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fighting domestic violence and abuse.. I still survived.. Now helping others... Law degree next year"

Love it. Go get them girl. X

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

For me my biggest acheivements ..

My beautiful children.

Choosing and delivering natural unassisted birth of my daughter at home in 2013.

Going from total breakdown to total breakthrough.

Talking my dear friend out of taking her precious life.

Navigating and manifesting a life with so much love and sass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me my biggest acheivements ..

My beautiful children.

Choosing and delivering natural unassisted birth of my daughter at home in 2013.

X "

You are wicked. High 5 fellow HB. Assisted here though. Wonderful doula too!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud."

As well you should be. Biggest set of bollocks on a person I’ve ever met

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"Probably not going through with the suicide, it was tough. Although I’m still not sure I made the right choice "

It's the right choice. Good work, fella. Message me if you ever want to chat, no strings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my sons grow and continue to achieve so much.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

So many amazing achievements, what a fab lot you truly are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surviving a particularly nasty personal experience and transforming my life ready for the next chapter.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Surviving.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

My transition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recovered from a nervous breakdown which saw me institutionalised.

I now have worked at 2 $10bn+ valued companies, have a wonderful woman in my life and have a rich and fulfilling life to look forward to.

Anything is possible.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud.

As well you should be. Biggest set of bollocks on a person I’ve ever met

Thank you mukka!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud."

Stunning .. brave heart warrioress xxx

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"For me my biggest acheivements ..

My beautiful children.

Choosing and delivering natural unassisted birth of my daughter at home in 2013.

You are wicked. High 5 fellow HB. Assisted here though. Wonderful doula too!

YES mama!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

You'll give me "pedant of the week" for this, but there is still one more year of this decade to go.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

You lot are very inspiring. Wow!!

For us, losing a combined total of 8 and a half stone in weight. Culminating this year in D cycling a 100 mile sportive and C climbing Mount Kilimanjaro, raising £7,000 for a local charity at the same time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Taking early retirement, downsizing to a very fun down house, making massive headway into turning run down house into lovely home.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Telford

2 x Children..... They bring me more happiness than anything ever has, and probably ever will

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Telford

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud."

You're an inspirational lady

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud.

You're an inspirational lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll give me "pedant of the week" for this, but there is still one more year of this decade to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Battling every day against powerful bipolar demons and mostly winning...

I've fought hard and kept going.

My beloved, my little family and my lover are precious results of those battles

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"You'll give me "pedant of the week" for this, but there is still one more year of this decade to go.

Yup, it really pissed me off when everyone in the world celebrated the new millennium a year early!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Leaving my partner of 25years which took alot of strength and caused alot of pain but had to be done for me to live again.x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I hope that i helped make a difference, by being me and letting people see me.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud."

You are awesome xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud."

Now that takes true strength

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

My children growing up and achieving their goals.

Completing 2 degrees (I have ‘daily sex’) and starting a third.

Meeting my partner.

More confidence.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’ve been a bit of a twat to be honest.

Not grown up still think I’m in my twenties.

Should have knuckled down at work instead I just coasted.

I’m thinking my lovely house that I’m very proud of and my beautiful doggies are the best thing I’ve done.

I also reconnected with my Mother before losing her. That took some balls.

Professionally I help a lot of people.

I gonna knuckle down for the next decade and when I get to the end of it. I’m going to say I’m no longer a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking control of my life and losing 6 dress sizes.

Surviving and leaving an abusive marriage. Supporting my children through it all.

Being mom to 2 special needs young adults and all the challenges that brings.

Providing some memorable days out for families of disabled children through a charitable group I ran. X

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Joining the army reserve and all the opportunities and challenges that have come with it.

Also changing jobs a couple of times to get myself financially better off, it's made a big difference and enabled me to do the things I felt I was missing out on before like travelling abroad regularly and going to see all my favourite bands perform live etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My daughter"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there was one year where I finished my Xmas shopping before Xmas Eve, damn proud of that!!

Mr. obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Commiting to somebody special.

Sponsoring two very special little people it's an honour.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Apart from friends and family I'd have to say either being part of the military team that stepped in to help ensure the Olympics went ahead as planned, or having the honour (albeit a terrible one) of carrying my friends casket.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Commiting to somebody special.

Sponsoring two very special little people it's an honour."

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Taking control of my life and losing 6 dress sizes.

Surviving and leaving an abusive marriage. Supporting my children through it all.

Being mom to 2 special needs young adults and all the challenges that brings.

Providing some memorable days out for families of disabled children through a charitable group I ran. X

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’ve been a bit of a twat to be honest.

Not grown up still think I’m in my twenties.

Should have knuckled down at work instead I just coasted.

I’m thinking my lovely house that I’m very proud of and my beautiful doggies are the best thing I’ve done.

I also reconnected with my Mother before losing her. That took some balls.

Professionally I help a lot of people.

I gonna knuckle down for the next decade and when I get to the end of it. I’m going to say I’m no longer a twat. "

Bravo for all of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After hitting mid life crisis I need a change in vocation.

So I got trained up to be a Forklift Instructor

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"How do I pick?

Leaving an abusive marriage.

Having my children.

Surviving my child passing away.

Changing my hospitals policy on treatment and aftercare single handed.

I've never been stronger and more proud.

Now that takes true strength

True grit!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Battling every day against powerful bipolar demons and mostly winning...

I've fought hard and kept going.

My beloved, my little family and my lover are precious results of those battles"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped being so nice to people and started putting myself first.

This may sound mean but when you start saying NO to people you become a human being not a human doing.

And them people who you did things for sod off and bother someone else.

Champion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learning acceptance of who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most people on here having two wonderful (some of the time anyway!) kids is my proudest achievement and I guess they make me happy! Nothing can beat the sight of your kids running towards you when you return home from work

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

"Learning acceptance of who I am

^^ This ^^^ and learning not to give a flying fuck what other people think of me

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I stopped being so nice to people and started putting myself first.

This may sound mean but when you start saying NO to people you become a human being not a human doing.

And them people who you did things for sod off and bother someone else.

Champion."

I kinda get that - it takes, strength if you've been a giver, but just keep getting taken from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting my Master's degree, and having a shot at achieving my childhood dream of getting a PhD.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Getting my Master's degree, and having a shot at achieving my childhood dream of getting a PhD."

Strong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most happiness....passing the driving test and meeting the mrs, 2020 is already looking very good with a little surprise on the way or two

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By *ouraylovers OP Couple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"What are you most proud of ?

What has brought you the most happiness ?"

(Lou) Meeting you has brought me the most happiness ever, in more ways than one, you also give me the confidence to be me xxx

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