FabSwingers.com forum: Body vs Face

By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

There are some older people on fab who have amazing body’s and lovely personalities but facially some may think their not attractive (personally I put personality over looks anytime)

Do you solely judge someone on how good looking they are? Or can a nice body win you over? Or is it all down to personality?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to like their face. In fact I need to like it all. Hence hardly meeting anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some older people on fab who have amazing body’s and lovely personalities but facially some may think their not attractive (personally I put personality over looks anytime)

Do you solely judge someone on how good looking they are? Or can a nice body win you over? Or is it all down to personality?

Physically, a face I like is much more important than the body. I have seen some beautiful bodies on people I just don't fancy

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x"

I think this is how most people feel? Initially it’s looks but people can be so ugly inside!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x"

Definitely this too

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I need to like their face. In fact I need to like it all. Hence hardly meeting anyone on here. "

That’s fair enough

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Body makes no odds to me. Never has, never will. I like twinkly eyes or a good smile, and a quirky personality.

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By *D04Couple
over a year ago

Leigh

There has to be a physical attraction initially. Without you wouldn't get that raw 'I want to rip your clothes off' sex.

But personality seals the deal all day everyday.

Just because you look the part and have the right assets doesn't make you great in bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face rather than body for me.. but mind always!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Face and personality, body shape and size isn't really important to me unless it's at either extreme end of the spectrum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be facial attraction for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be physically attracted to someone initially, but some people can become ugly very quickly with their personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face for sure. Eyes and facial expressions tell more than a body ever will, its what you look at when you're talking (unless you're a boob man) to someone.

But the mind and personality is where it all is anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt it a combination of everything hence why it can prove difficult to meet someone?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I have to be physically attracted to someone initially, but some people can become ugly very quickly with their personalities. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some older people on fab who have amazing body’s and lovely personalities but facially some may think their not attractive (personally I put personality over looks anytime)

Do you solely judge someone on how good looking they are? Or can a nice body win you over? Or is it all down to personality?

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it has to be looks first because you can't judge personality in a text

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

I think to some extent you can tell personality by text although sometimes people can portray themselves in a certain incorrect way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't like the face, the body and personality are irrelevant to me. I can't have sex with anybody whose face I'm not attracted to. I can't "fuck" a nice personality with an ugly face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face

Not much more to say

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x"

Yes, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know how this is an age thing? Some people are really humble and don't realise how fit they are. Some most certainly do and are damned ugly on the inside

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Sorry but if it's not the total package I wouldn't allow myself to meet someone. They're getting a good deal with me so nothing wrong in me expecting the same.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"If I don't like the face, the body and personality are irrelevant to me. I can't have sex with anybody whose face I'm not attracted to. I can't "fuck" a nice personality with an ugly face

I have to agree with this but for me the icing on the cake has to be some great sarcasm

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Round our way they used to say

BOBFOC.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am not able to show my face on here but hate being judged on my body alone. To me a face is the most important part of the body as the eyes say so much.x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's always worked for me...

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Don't know how this is an age thing? Some people are really humble and don't realise how fit they are. Some most certainly do and are damned ugly on the inside"

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"It's always worked for me...

The pretty face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer personality and a nice face over a body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think to some extent you can tell personality by text although sometimes people can portray themselves in a certain incorrect way"

I'm afraid i also judge how the meet would be from their messages too. Dull and wanting instant results from no effort, need i say more

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It’s got nothing to do with age. But for me it’s face first - I need attraction or it’s not going anywhere. But after that it’s personality in close second - as others have said, it doesn’t matter how hot you are if you’re a horrible person. Body (and yes guys, dick size) is the least important thing.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

All about the head then haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the face,eyes smile that draw me in but without a personality it ain't going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It starts with a beautiful mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face....eyes and lips are what i look at first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for me before anything

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Personality for me before anything"

I’m with you there, except woman interrupt that as “man with fuck anyone”

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

No hard and fast rules for me.

But top up there is beautiful mind, depth of character, intelligence, kindness, imagination, humour.

Chemistry can occur on different levels but physical attraction alone is not enough for me.

I'm a sucker for a wordsmith or a music lover.

My inbox is full of very beautiful bodies but shit craic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality for me before anything"

Can only know about the personality once talking to someone tho...which usually means finding some1 attractive to you, enough to talk to them

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

Definitely this too"

Me also, plus I have at least one of the two

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"I need to like their face. In fact I need to like it all. Hence hardly meeting anyone on here. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the face that launched a thousand blocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shallow enough to admit I like facial and physical attraction. That said, if we don't click, nothing's happening..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm batting none out of three...

Face like a ruptured spleen

Body like a melted welly

What's a personality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm shallow enough to admit I like facial and physical attraction. That said, if we don't click, nothing's happening.."

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x"

This is definitely how it initially starts and if they have the banter and the personality to match then that's an added bonus but looks alone arent the be all and end all so I try never to judge by that alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's probably a combination of the two.

However, I will admit to looking at two other attributes on a woman that turn me on!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I go for the whole package, it's like the fire triangle, take away one of the elements and it goes out

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

I think this is how most people feel? Initially it’s looks but people can be so ugly inside!"

That usually comes through. No matter how pretty the packaging, if the inside is ugly it shows x

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

In agreement

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I like an interesting face with expressive eyes. Body isn’t something I’m particularly bothered about. Facial attraction is essential though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like an interesting face with expressive eyes. Body isn’t something I’m particularly bothered about. Facial attraction is essential though..."

Amen to that

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

I think this is how most people feel? Initially it’s looks but people can be so ugly inside!

That usually comes through. No matter how pretty the packaging, if the inside is ugly it shows x"

And it can’t be hidden!

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

Banter is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the whole package for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks draw my interest but its personality that keeps me interested x

Banter is good"

Definitely a guy with banter is right up my street

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Chemistry and attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chemistry and attraction

But what one first??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For casual sex I like to be attracted to the face and body. I don't believe that I can possibly know a person's real personality from the brief interactions we have on here but if we get along on a superficial level that's all three of my attraction boxes ticked.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Ive usually had a bit of banter with someone before we swap face pics and most of the time im still happy and interested in them as the chat was good ,neither hubby or i are spring chickens so if they are all about looks then they are ot for us ,you can get me into bed by good banter and laughs more than being gorgeous ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it all

Thought I'd found it on a couple of occasions but then they show their true colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality all the way for us, looks are not the be all or end all. And far too many of us are hooked on looks, weather it be how they look themselves or they want a play partner with a fit toned body, says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can run my mouth

Get a runny nose and run with my legs so all the same to me

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Personality all the way for us, looks are not the be all or end all. And far too many of us are hooked on looks, weather it be how they look themselves or they want a play partner with a fit toned body, says it all "

So there’s hope for ugly but naughty fuckers like me hahaha

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Face is the initial attraction. If I like that then the body type is irrelevant. I'm a sicker for a pretty face, but it has to be backed up with them being a really nice person and fun to be around, especially if they're caring too. Pretty powerful combination.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Face is the initial attraction. If I like that then the body type is irrelevant. I'm a sicker for a pretty face, but it has to be backed up with them being a really nice person and fun to be around, especially if they're caring too. Pretty powerful combination. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely facial attraction. As soon as I saw beasts smile I was hooked. He had already wowed me with his personality. He's the whole package for me though

Belle

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Absolutely facial attraction. As soon as I saw beasts smile I was hooked. He had already wowed me with his personality. He's the whole package for me though

Belle "

A 10 out of 10 then

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