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Who hates Christmas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Come on, fess up and why? Mine is genuine, my ex won’t let me see my children over the festive period so I volunteer to work the two big days for guys who otherwise would have to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to not mind it but last few including this have been tough to bare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont hate it but that feeling and buzz you used to get has sadly gone

Think it's down to too many people starting it early like shops, media, advertisers and the pillocks who put their decorations up on November.

The feeling has been diluted

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It can be difficult and stressful, which is intensified when things aren't well in close relationships.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I dont hate it but that feeling and buzz you used to get has sadly gone

Think it's down to too many people starting it early like shops, media, advertisers and the pillocks who put their decorations up on November.

The feeling has been diluted "

This for me too, kids are grown and married now too, I don’t hate it per se just not that interested in it anymore

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I do. It reminds me of the guilt I had from the split of my parents. It's never bee the same since.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

Hate it with a passion . Would hide from about 15th Dec till new year if not for the kids and grandkids x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t hate it but don’t celebrate it either.

As usual I’ll probably be home alone with cheese toastie for lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work in retail where Christmas planning started in June

It is now less of a hate and more of a “meh”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on, fess up and why? Mine is genuine, my ex won’t let me see my children over the festive period so I volunteer to work the two big days for guys who otherwise would have to work. "
i love crimbo but on my own this year but will still enjoy it but as op said its a time for children

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I had to go into Boots today (for something not Christmas related! I still have health needs, alas!) and the post Christmas sale has already started.

I'm feeling pretty misanthropic right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lover of Christmas never have been and don't know why just glad to see that back of it x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

It’s New Year i hate. Christmas i find a bit magical because of my kids but i can see why some wouldn’t. It’s an emotive time of year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an atheist so ya know, I don't hate it but don't appreciate it being rammed down my throat... Do enjoy the time off work with family tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling bah humbug this year but trying to fake it for my kids

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I have had some horrible times that always seems to have manifested at Xmas.

I was planning on having a simple on this year but I’m now worried about a friend. So it looks like it will be complicated.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

don't hate it as such, can just live without it now the kids are grown up & gone, tbh, would sooner use the money spent on christmas on a nice holiday or something

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Me ..

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By *V-AliceTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr


"I don’t hate it but don’t celebrate it either.

As usual I’ll probably be home alone with cheese toastie for lunch "

Yep. That's me, too. It's fun for weans and it's a day's rest for most of us.

Cheese, ham and onion on my toastie, though.

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By *ElectricityMan
over a year ago

lancashire

The only good thing about it is time off work....last Christmas day I went to the gym.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I don't hate it per se, but it's a time of year when I feel intensely sad and I struggle sometimes.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Hates no. (Not anymore anyway)

Has it Lost it's magic...

Most definitely.

It Just feels like another day these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh .. it's just another day.

I will work in the morning then have dinner with my family.

There aren't any children in our family so it's just another day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost its sparkle for me too.

Kids are grown up and left home and it just starts far to early. Add to that having to drive around all day as the rest of family expect me to go to them due to having no "kids".

Just a bit crap all round now

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Dont hate it but dont really get it...

Went into a well known store today and watched people behaving like animals, common courtesy had left the building..

Hideous, but capable of detaching from the madness..

On a more positive note, as a sports fan,I love boxing day and delighted one or two stores are closing allowing staff to have 2 yes TWO days off...More please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mr here, cant stand this time of year, ex mrs was danish, and they take this time of year very seriously, so this year my heart isnt in it, dont miss her tho

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont hate it just non plussed by it. 7 years ago today my dad had a heartattck and was in a coma all over the christmas period until we switched of his life support on new years day. Ive also been under a section at christmas with just two days supervised home leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"don't hate it as such, can just live without it now the kids are grown up & gone, tbh, would sooner use the money spent on christmas on a nice holiday or something"

That’s what we do, having said that we were never big Christmas spenders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to a few days I hated Xmas and only entertained it for the kids ... was going to have xmas day on my own ( yeah yeah you can hear the violins)

Moving on it seems like its going to be a very enjoyable Xmas now

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