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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what part of me is wrong then when I'm saying it's opinion that people should read profiles. I know all of you struggle with reading but please tell me where I'm wrong ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry ??

I certainly don’t struggle with reading profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has the right to an opinion, but crucially, that opinion can be roundly ignored and even made fun of, particularly if it is demonstrably nonsense!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong."

In people's opinion. Yeah it ain't hard to understand

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Wasn't this thread closed?

Not a smart move!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its an opinion is it. You either read them or you don't, more like a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's not hard to understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have stated previously that you don't see the point in reading profiles. You have also stated that you don't understand why you have had no meets.

I am speaking from a position of trying to be helpful and not trying to be argumentative. Reading profiles is worthwhile IF you want to have a chance of meeting the writer of said profile. That is just logic.

Others will also read your profile, so putting some effort into the writing if your own will improve your chances of appealing to Fabbers who have the same interests as you. Once again logic.

Posting on the forums in a way that has the potential to come across as petulant or argumentative will not help tour cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys ain’t allowed a opinion on fab

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys ain’t allowed a opinion on fab "

I think everyone is allowed an opinion. Just expect some pushback if that opinion is nonsense or expressed in a ridiculous manner x

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Wasn't this thread closed?

Not a smart move! "

Well, if the caps fits....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys ain’t allowed a opinion on fab

I think everyone is allowed an opinion. Just expect some pushback if that opinion is nonsense or expressed in a ridiculous manner x"

Or if different to everyone else’s opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys ain’t allowed a opinion on fab

I think everyone is allowed an opinion. Just expect some pushback if that opinion is nonsense or expressed in a ridiculous manner x

Or if different to everyone else’s opinion "

Well quite, but if it differs from EVERYONE else, the maybe it's time to revisit the opinion? OP seems to be missing the logic of that.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"OP you have stated previously that you don't see the point in reading profiles. You have also stated that you don't understand why you have had no meets.

I am speaking from a position of trying to be helpful and not trying to be argumentative. Reading profiles is worthwhile IF you want to have a chance of meeting the writer of said profile. That is just logic.

Others will also read your profile, so putting some effort into the writing if your own will improve your chances of appealing to Fabbers who have the same interests as you. Once again logic.

Posting on the forums in a way that has the potential to come across as petulant or argumentative will not help tour cause."

I agree with that

I do think some people are taking a bit too much pleasure in ripping into the OP and getting a bit personal when there's no need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong."

Opinions are just opinions...and everybody is entitled to their own opinion. It's when people confuse opinions with facts...that's when trouble starts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think its an opinion is it. You either read them or you don't, more like a fact"

Suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you have stated previously that you don't see the point in reading profiles. You have also stated that you don't understand why you have had no meets.

I am speaking from a position of trying to be helpful and not trying to be argumentative. Reading profiles is worthwhile IF you want to have a chance of meeting the writer of said profile. That is just logic.

Others will also read your profile, so putting some effort into the writing if your own will improve your chances of appealing to Fabbers who have the same interests as you. Once again logic.

Posting on the forums in a way that has the potential to come across as petulant or argumentative will not help tour cause."

No this is wrong completely. I'm not being argumentative what so ever all I've said is I'm not interested in people who won't reply if I haven't read there profile it's hardly controversial, some people need to get a grip of their life

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We don't care who reads ours or who doesn't and presumably they don't care if we delete and block them

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"So what part of me is wrong then when I'm saying it's opinion that people should read profiles. I know all of you struggle with reading but please tell me where I'm wrong ??"

How you operate on Fabs is your choice

How others operate on here is theirs.

No right, no wrong.

But I'll bet my hat the ones who are doing ok on here, have well written profiles and take the time to read other people's

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"OP you have stated previously that you don't see the point in reading profiles. You have also stated that you don't understand why you have had no meets.

I am speaking from a position of trying to be helpful and not trying to be argumentative. Reading profiles is worthwhile IF you want to have a chance of meeting the writer of said profile. That is just logic.

Others will also read your profile, so putting some effort into the writing if your own will improve your chances of appealing to Fabbers who have the same interests as you. Once again logic.

Posting on the forums in a way that has the potential to come across as petulant or argumentative will not help tour cause.

No this is wrong completely. I'm not being argumentative what so ever all I've said is I'm not interested in people who won't reply if I haven't read there profile it's hardly controversial, some people need to get a grip of their life "

How would you know that they wouldn't reply if you haven't read their profile, and therefore have no interest in them.... unless you have read that in their profile....???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you have stated previously that you don't see the point in reading profiles. You have also stated that you don't understand why you have had no meets.

I am speaking from a position of trying to be helpful and not trying to be argumentative. Reading profiles is worthwhile IF you want to have a chance of meeting the writer of said profile. That is just logic.

Others will also read your profile, so putting some effort into the writing if your own will improve your chances of appealing to Fabbers who have the same interests as you. Once again logic.

Posting on the forums in a way that has the potential to come across as petulant or argumentative will not help tour cause.

No this is wrong completely. I'm not being argumentative what so ever all I've said is I'm not interested in people who won't reply if I haven't read there profile it's hardly controversial, some people need to get a grip of their life "

I’d like to know how people can come to the conclusion that someone is aggressive,argumentative throu words. I’ve had it myself. Text comes across in different ways to actual conversation in person at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to read the profile.

How would you know what the person is like?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Single guys ain’t allowed a opinion on fab "

wrong!!! the ones that talk sense are!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what part of me is wrong then when I'm saying it's opinion that people should read profiles. I know all of you struggle with reading but please tell me where I'm wrong ??

How you operate on Fabs is your choice

How others operate on here is theirs.

No right, no wrong.

But I'll bet my hat the ones who are doing ok on here, have well written profiles and take the time to read other people's "

Yeah exactly and congrats to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drives me mad getting messages where they clearly have not read my profile, I have to ignore so many over this. If they cannot take 1 minute to read a profile are they worth the effort meeting....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you started this thread in the hope that it is 3rd time lucky?

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

People don't have to read them! But then if you are crying into your cornflakes in the morning because nobody replies you only have yourself to blame.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive "

The only thing I don't understand is why you felt the need to start a thread about it? If you have absolutely no interest in the people you're messaging carry on and don't enquire into other people's opinion on it.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive

The only thing I don't understand is why you felt the need to start a thread about it? If you have absolutely no interest in the people you're messaging carry on and don't enquire into other people's opinion on it. "

And this is the third thread he has started on it.... first one maxed out, second one was shut down by a mod....

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I dont think its an opinion is it. You either read them or you don't, more like a fact"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive

The only thing I don't understand is why you felt the need to start a thread about it? If you have absolutely no interest in the people you're messaging carry on and don't enquire into other people's opinion on it. "

I'm not messaging anyone just want to see people's opinions and as per they feel the need to start Getting abusive about an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what part of me is wrong then when I'm saying it's opinion that people should read profiles. I know all of you struggle with reading but please tell me where I'm wrong ??"

And I can read thanks don't need insults

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Please stop this. It's your third thread on this subject yet you say you are not a troll. Just stop. Please could a moderator close this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive

The only thing I don't understand is why you felt the need to start a thread about it? If you have absolutely no interest in the people you're messaging carry on and don't enquire into other people's opinion on it.

I'm not messaging anyone just want to see people's opinions and as per they feel the need to start Getting abusive about an opinion "

Read your message...

I know you all can't read is rude and insulting... Admin or mod get rid of this insulting post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please stop this. It's your third thread on this subject yet you say you are not a troll. Just stop. Please could a moderator close this thread. "

In fact moderator get rid of him he insults us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive

The only thing I don't understand is why you felt the need to start a thread about it? If you have absolutely no interest in the people you're messaging carry on and don't enquire into other people's opinion on it.

I'm not messaging anyone just want to see people's opinions and as per they feel the need to start Getting abusive about an opinion "

Bit you are messaging people... Denyibg it on this thread doesn't mean you aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what part of me is wrong then when I'm saying it's opinion that people should read profiles. I know all of you struggle with reading but please tell me where I'm wrong ??"

Moderator he is wrong to keep insulting us all by telling us we can't read

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Still no answer to this question though OP....?

How would you know that they wouldn't reply if you haven't read their profile, and therefore have no interest in them.... unless you have read that in their profile....???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong.

In people's opinion. Yeah it ain't hard to understand "

No need for insulting comments about us all not being able to read

Its rude and insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op are you gonna go unlos?

Just log off from fab and try again tomorrow.

You’ve had some good entertaining threads in the last 5 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't blame any one for not reading my profile, it's quite long, what makes me laugh is when someone has 10 words on there profile. Half of those words are expressing the need to reply the password so they know you read there profile haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong.

In people's opinion. Yeah it ain't hard to understand

No need for insulting comments about us all not being able to read

Its rude and insulting "

Oh and comments about lack of intellect and being a moron is ok is it? The OP has asked why his opinion is wrong.Not for people to grab their pitchforks and start on him because he hasnt said something the way people like.If you dont like it theres a report button try doing that instead of publicly trying to get a reaction to get him off here

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive "

Oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you have stated previously that you don't see the point in reading profiles. You have also stated that you don't understand why you have had no meets.

I am speaking from a position of trying to be helpful and not trying to be argumentative. Reading profiles is worthwhile IF you want to have a chance of meeting the writer of said profile. That is just logic.

Others will also read your profile, so putting some effort into the writing if your own will improve your chances of appealing to Fabbers who have the same interests as you. Once again logic.

Posting on the forums in a way that has the potential to come across as petulant or argumentative will not help tour cause.

No this is wrong completely. I'm not being argumentative what so ever all I've said is I'm not interested in people who won't reply if I haven't read there profile it's hardly controversial, some people need to get a grip of their life

I’d like to know how people can come to the conclusion that someone is aggressive,argumentative throu words. I’ve had it myself. Text comes across in different ways to actual conversation in person at times. "

This OP and using bad language at us is bang out of order moderator

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please stop this. It's your third thread on this subject yet you say you are not a troll. Just stop. Please could a moderator close this thread. "

no reply ? Shock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please stop this. It's your third thread on this subject yet you say you are not a troll. Just stop. Please could a moderator close this thread.

In fact moderator get rid of him he insults us all "

Diamond just because you don't understand don't say I should be banned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong.

In people's opinion. Yeah it ain't hard to understand

No need for insulting comments about us all not being able to read

Its rude and insulting

Oh and comments about lack of intellect and being a moron is ok is it? The OP has asked why his opinion is wrong.Not for people to grab their pitchforks and start on him because he hasnt said something the way people like.If you dont like it theres a report button try doing that instead of publicly trying to get a reaction to get him off here "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just feel like alot of people are getting very aggressive even though all it is, is my opinion and I don't like them, yet they need to feel to try and abuse me as if I'd give a flying f*CK what they think opinion is opinion stop getting so defensive

Oh the irony! "

Sorry where have I been defensive?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is opinion, you are correct. But some opinions are right and some are wrong.

In people's opinion. Yeah it ain't hard to understand

No need for insulting comments about us all not being able to read

Its rude and insulting

Oh and comments about lack of intellect and being a moron is ok is it? The OP has asked why his opinion is wrong.Not for people to grab their pitchforks and start on him because he hasnt said something the way people like.If you dont like it theres a report button try doing that instead of publicly trying to get a reaction to get him off here "

I was giving my opinion on how he tells us to read

When he insults us all. Is an opinion love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave the kid alone ffs i dont mind a bit of a piss take but its starting to cross the line now

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Your identical thread was closed by a Mod that doesn't mean start a new one.

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