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"I dont care i just hope if they do it puts them off pestering me" Yeah good thinking | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! | |||
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"We don't care because very few do and we've got bigger fish to fry." Exactly seems really petty that you would get brownie points or something for reading a profile  | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! " Exactly this  | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! " Sent you a friend request   | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! " I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." Because a well written profile should inform the reader what that person is looking for, they can then make the decision based on what they’ve read if there’s any point contacting them. That’s the theory, the reality is ,the people who take the time to write an informative profile still get contacted by people who can’t be bothered to read it or who don’t understand the point. I’m going to have a wild guess that you’ve had zero success on here so far? | |||
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"We don't care because very few do and we've got bigger fish to fry. Exactly seems really petty that you would get brownie points or something for reading a profile "Oh I think it's only polite to read it before you send a message but neither of us really care, it's such a minor thing to get het up about. You can miss out on some good conversations and possible meets by being to bothered by certain things | |||
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"The point of a profile is to indicate what you offer and seek, to give the browser an indication of any initial compatibility. If a profile says he gets off on humiliation for example, it tells me personally that there is absolutely no compatibility. So yes, profiles are useful if someone actually writes one, and people read one." Exactly | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. Because a well written profile should inform the reader what that person is looking for, they can then make the decision based on what they’ve read if there’s any point contacting them. That’s the theory, the reality is ,the people who take the time to write an informative profile still get contacted by people who can’t be bothered to read it or who don’t understand the point. I’m going to have a wild guess that you’ve had zero success on here so far?" | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever" It kinda does  | |||
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"The point of a profile is to indicate what you offer and seek, to give the browser an indication of any initial compatibility. If a profile says he gets off on humiliation for example, it tells me personally that there is absolutely no compatibility. So yes, profiles are useful if someone actually writes one, and people read one." What if that's only a small part of him and he doesn't want to impose that on you and you get on like a house on fire and you've completely missed out then | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does "So a profile is how you make connections  | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever" Physical attraction isn't enough - I had a message off a guy this week. Looks absolutely gorgeous in his pictures but upon reading his profile I discovered he was very much a sub. There were hints of this in his initial message but it was his profile that sealed his fate. I can't dom for someone, it's just not me so reading that clearly on his profile saved me time in going through a conversation to find out later on. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections "A profile is what grown ups use to gauge if there is any initial possible compatibility. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." It bugs me when people don’t read them grrr | |||
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"So am I right in saying that most people who've responded on here only want to talk to those who they might have sexual compatibility with?" From a profile reading point of view, yes, by browsing or reading their profile when they have mailed. From the forums I have contacted people and made friendship connections. | |||
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"so reading that clearly on his profile saved me time in going through a conversation to find out later on. " That’s a perfect example of why people write profiles, and why prospective people should read them. I personally spend a long time reading profiles - purely so I don’t waste my time - AND theirs - contacting the ‘wrong’ people. Why would I devote my efforts in the wrong direction? | |||
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"So am I right in saying that most people who've responded on here only want to talk to those who they might have sexual compatibility with? From a profile reading point of view, yes, by browsing or reading their profile when they have mailed. From the forums I have contacted people and made friendship connections." Got ya' . | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. Because a well written profile should inform the reader what that person is looking for, they can then make the decision based on what they’ve read if there’s any point contacting them. That’s the theory, the reality is ,the people who take the time to write an informative profile still get contacted by people who can’t be bothered to read it or who don’t understand the point. I’m going to have a wild guess that you’ve had zero success on here so far?" Well unless there is one specific thing you want surely someone's personality and attractiveness comes before your exact type you want on your profile?. I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. | |||
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" I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever" So if you’re theory is correct, it would be the same when applying for a job? The employer doesn’t bother reading a CV, they just employ a person because they look like they might be able to do the job? | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections "Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today! | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." Reading in Berkshire Oh receding those untruths of wants and saying they are straight but not or single and married and here for fun Or fill it in later With cum cement | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever Physical attraction isn't enough - I had a message off a guy this week. Looks absolutely gorgeous in his pictures but upon reading his profile I discovered he was very much a sub. There were hints of this in his initial message but it was his profile that sealed his fate. I can't dom for someone, it's just not me so reading that clearly on his profile saved me time in going through a conversation to find out later on. " Yeah but you could've got on with him like a house on fire and he didn't want to impose his own fantasies on you and you fobbed him off because of his profile? | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. Because a well written profile should inform the reader what that person is looking for, they can then make the decision based on what they’ve read if there’s any point contacting them. That’s the theory, the reality is ,the people who take the time to write an informative profile still get contacted by people who can’t be bothered to read it or who don’t understand the point. I’m going to have a wild guess that you’ve had zero success on here so far? Well unless there is one specific thing you want surely someone's personality and attractiveness comes before your exact type you want on your profile?. I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me." The point is, you opened a thread asking about it | |||
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"So am I right in saying that most people who've responded on here only want to talk to those who they might have sexual compatibility with?" Not at all.. I've made lots of platonic friends in here. I chat with quite a few people, there's no sexual attraction, but we have other things in common The social, friendly side of things, is more important to me than just hooking up for sex | |||
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" I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever So if you’re theory is correct, it would be the same when applying for a job? The employer doesn’t bother reading a CV, they just employ a person because they look like they might be able to do the job? " Sorry is messaging a woman like applying for a job ? Also I'm sure alot of good candidates didn't get their job because their CV was shit | |||
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"Because if someone doesn't read it and doesn't fit what I'm looking for then they're just wasting both of our time. " Yes but your profile is literally saying you like tall and handsome men and that's for you to decide ?. That's not you disregarding people straight off the bat | |||
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And a few of "oh are you joking at being straight/not liking anal then" | |||
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"So am I right in saying that most people who've responded on here only want to talk to those who they might have sexual compatibility with? Not at all.. I've made lots of platonic friends in here. I chat with quite a few people, there's no sexual attraction, but we have other things in common The social, friendly side of things, is more important to me than just hooking up for sex " Yeah, us too. I understand that it can be frustrating and even disappointing to discover that the people you're messaging are the polar opposites to you sexually and we've all got profiles for a reason but we also really enjoy communicating with people. Someone not reading your profile is the tiniest of first world problems really. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." Its about looks mainly If you slim and showing pussy You get hounded regardless of description | |||
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" I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever So if you’re theory is correct, it would be the same when applying for a job? The employer doesn’t bother reading a CV, they just employ a person because they look like they might be able to do the job? Sorry is messaging a woman like applying for a job ? Also I'm sure alot of good candidates didn't get their job because their CV was shit "It has similar parallels yes. If you message a woman, that means you’re interested? If you’re interested, you’d like to make her interested in you (otherwise what’s the point). To make her interested, you need to convince her. You’re “selling “ yourself, which is what you do when applying for a job. If you’ve made no effort to learn something about the woman (or job), you’ve put yourself on an up hill struggle from the get go. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." If your fab build You get non hounded If I showed my pussy n tits more I get hounded... No fat chance Oi love yer tits are huge is all I get in response  | |||
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"So am I right in saying that most people who've responded on here only want to talk to those who they might have sexual compatibility with? Not at all.. I've made lots of platonic friends in here. I chat with quite a few people, there's no sexual attraction, but we have other things in common The social, friendly side of things, is more important to me than just hooking up for sex Yeah, us too. I understand that it can be frustrating and even disappointing to discover that the people you're messaging are the polar opposites to you sexually and we've all got profiles for a reason but we also really enjoy communicating with people. Someone not reading your profile is the tiniest of first world problems really." I just find it irritating. I do have certain physical preferences, which are clearly stated on my profile. I'm just down the coast from you, get a lot of weekenders, visiters, tourists, hotel goers..I dont do instant meets, again clearly stated in my profile. So it's pretty obvious when someone hasn't read my profile. I just assume they bombarded every female in a 10mile radius, hoping someone will respond | |||
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"So am I right in saying that most people who've responded on here only want to talk to those who they might have sexual compatibility with? Not at all.. I've made lots of platonic friends in here. I chat with quite a few people, there's no sexual attraction, but we have other things in common The social, friendly side of things, is more important to me than just hooking up for sex Yeah, us too. I understand that it can be frustrating and even disappointing to discover that the people you're messaging are the polar opposites to you sexually and we've all got profiles for a reason but we also really enjoy communicating with people. Someone not reading your profile is the tiniest of first world problems really. I just find it irritating. I do have certain physical preferences, which are clearly stated on my profile. I'm just down the coast from you, get a lot of weekenders, visiters, tourists, hotel goers..I dont do instant meets, again clearly stated in my profile. So it's pretty obvious when someone hasn't read my profile. I just assume they bombarded every female in a 10mile radius, hoping someone will respond " As you can imagine we are contacted by a lot of people here on holiday, one couple even suggested that they stayed with us but generously offered to book a hotel if we didn't get on . It is irritating I agree but also quite amusing. | |||
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"If its clear you have not read my profile then i wont answer your message." And that's all there is to it. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! " This and it says another block button call. | |||
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"The point of a profile is to indicate what you offer and seek, to give the browser an indication of any initial compatibility. If a profile says he gets off on humiliation for example, it tells me personally that there is absolutely no compatibility. So yes, profiles are useful if someone actually writes one, and people read one. What if that's only a small part of him and he doesn't want to impose that on you and you get on like a house on fire and you've completely missed out then" Here's a good reason Those who do not read profiles statistically lack the wit and personality I desire to compliment their appearance | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections
Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today! "So you think you know of you could like someone on a personal level simply from there profile? | |||
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" I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever So if you’re theory is correct, it would be the same when applying for a job? The employer doesn’t bother reading a CV, they just employ a person because they look like they might be able to do the job? Sorry is messaging a woman like applying for a job ? Also I'm sure alot of good candidates didn't get their job because their CV was shit
It has similar parallels yes.
If you message a woman, that means you’re interested?
If you’re interested, you’d like to make her interested in you (otherwise what’s the point).
To make her interested, you need to convince her.
You’re “selling “ yourself, which is what you do when applying for a job.
If you’ve made no effort to learn something about the woman (or job), you’ve put yourself on an up hill struggle from the get go."So you need to sell yourself to get along with someone? Is that what happens on a night out and you start speaking to someone you start listing all your interests | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections
Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today!
So you think you know of you could like someone on a personal level simply from there profile?"Considering my interests, which would narrow down potential meets greatly, yes absolutely. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections
Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today!
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Considering my interests, which would narrow down potential meets greatly, yes absolutely. "So you would only meet people who fit exactly what you state on your profile in real life too ? | |||
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"Lads I don't hear much about your experiences with woman not reading your profiles ??? Or is that because you've never received a message from them " i have received 1. And after chatting it was just a ploy to get me to subscribe to some myfans page.  | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me." How’s that working out for you? | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you?" Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections
Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today!
So you think you know of you could like someone on a personal level simply from there profile?
Considering my interests, which would narrow down potential meets greatly, yes absolutely.
So you would only meet people who fit exactly what you state on your profile in real life too ? "In real life.. you mean non fab related? | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever It kinda does
So a profile is how you make connections
Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today!
So you think you know of you could like someone on a personal level simply from there profile?
Considering my interests, which would narrow down potential meets greatly, yes absolutely.
So you would only meet people who fit exactly what you state on your profile in real life too ?
In real life.. you mean non fab related? "Meeting someone in person yes on a night out or something | |||
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So a profile is how you make connections
Ofcourse, attraction isn’t the be all and end all for everyone. Not everyone is that shallow! People looking for a certain something, if it’s stated on their profile and people actually take the time to read it, then they will know if it’s worthwhile messaging or not! Someone who messages me and says they have read my profile will get a response quicker than someone who messages saying you’re hot lets fuck today!
So you think you know of you could like someone on a personal level simply from there profile?
Considering my interests, which would narrow down potential meets greatly, yes absolutely.
So you would only meet people who fit exactly what you state on your profile in real life too ?
In real life.. you mean non fab related?
Meeting someone in person yes on a night out or something"My interest in random vanilla fucks applies to the real world aswell and I’ve no interest in getting into anything serious with anyone outside of fab, my current situation suits me fine. | |||
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How is it petty to think that somebody should consider whether we might get on well before contacting us? Are we just supposed to jump into bed with them, no questions asked? "Is that what I said? I just think it's pathetic that people would think a connection wouldn't happen if someone hasn't read their profile | |||
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"How would I ever know they had read it? And if another contacted me why would I care if they had read it if there was some rapport with that other? It's a few words on a screen, it may attract some repel others. There is I hope far more to all of us than that... " It's interesting isn't it that so many threads insist that personality is what it's all about on fab. | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever Physical attraction isn't enough - I had a message off a guy this week. Looks absolutely gorgeous in his pictures but upon reading his profile I discovered he was very much a sub. There were hints of this in his initial message but it was his profile that sealed his fate. I can't dom for someone, it's just not me so reading that clearly on his profile saved me time in going through a conversation to find out later on. Yeah but you could've got on with him like a house on fire and he didn't want to impose his own fantasies on you and you fobbed him off because of his profile?" That's your assumption I don't connect well with men that are naturally submissive. I know myself well enough thank you and as a sub myself it's a turn off for me simple as that. Also again... It was implied in his message what he wanted so I responded that it's not what I can offer. He was perfectly fine and understanding of that. You know what happens when you assume mate? You make an ass out of u and me | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever Physical attraction isn't enough - I had a message off a guy this week. Looks absolutely gorgeous in his pictures but upon reading his profile I discovered he was very much a sub. There were hints of this in his initial message but it was his profile that sealed his fate. I can't dom for someone, it's just not me so reading that clearly on his profile saved me time in going through a conversation to find out later on. Yeah but you could've got on with him like a house on fire and he didn't want to impose his own fantasies on you and you fobbed him off because of his profile? That's your assumption I don't connect well with men that are naturally submissive. I know myself well enough thank you and as a sub myself it's a turn off for me simple as that. Also again... It was implied in his message what he wanted so I responded that it's not what I can offer. He was perfectly fine and understanding of that. You know what happens when you assume mate? You make an ass out of u and me "I'm not only talking about that particular guy I'm on about anyone. | |||
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"To think you would know if you're compatible with someone from a few words off a profile is one of the silliest things I've ever heard " I don’t think it’s silly at all. If I read a profile that said they were looking for short, petite, blondes then I know there is no point me wasting my time of there’s by messaging them. I know instantly that I’m not what they are looking for, despite the fact that I may be attracted to them it’s clear they would not be attracted to me. My profile states I’m looking for a tall black man, but most of the messages I get are from short white men and they’ve attached a dick pic. It’s not wanted and it’s intrusive and it’s treating me with zero respect. All they had to do was read the profile and move on. | |||
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"We don't care because very few do and we've got bigger fish to fry. Exactly seems really petty that you would get brownie points or something for reading a profile
How is it petty to think that somebody should consider whether we might get on well before contacting us? Are we just supposed to jump into bed with them, no questions asked?
Is that what I said? I just think it's pathetic that people would think a connection wouldn't happen if someone hasn't read their profile "To be honest, yes it does sound like that's what you are saying. We want to meet people we get on with and want similar things to us. We give a bit about us on our profile. It's is the place to start. If somebody can't say why they think we might get on get on then we don't really want to hear from them. People often contact us because they are fairly nearby. If they read our profile they could see whether we might be what each other is looking for. That's what counts. Proximity and looks certainly enter into it but it's not the most important. I didn't say a connection can't happen without reading a profile, but it can give a good indication of whether it's worth trying to build one or not. | |||
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" I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever So if you’re theory is correct, it would be the same when applying for a job? The employer doesn’t bother reading a CV, they just employ a person because they look like they might be able to do the job? Sorry is messaging a woman like applying for a job ? Also I'm sure alot of good candidates didn't get their job because their CV was shit
It has similar parallels yes.
If you message a woman, that means you’re interested?
If you’re interested, you’d like to make her interested in you (otherwise what’s the point).
To make her interested, you need to convince her.
You’re “selling “ yourself, which is what you do when applying for a job.
If you’ve made no effort to learn something about the woman (or job), you’ve put yourself on an up hill struggle from the get go.
So you need to sell yourself to get along with someone? Is that what happens on a night out and you start speaking to someone you start listing all your interests "Yes. It’s human nature to make an assessment of a person within the first few minutes of meeting them. It’s not always the right assessment ofcourse | |||
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How is it petty to think that somebody should consider whether we might get on well before contacting us? Are we just supposed to jump into bed with them, no questions asked?
Is that what I said? I just think it's pathetic that people would think a connection wouldn't happen if someone hasn't read their profile
To be honest, yes it does sound like that's what you are saying.
We want to meet people we get on with and want similar things to us. We give a bit about us on our profile. It's is the place to start. If somebody can't say why they think we might get on get on then we don't really want to hear from them.
People often contact us because they are fairly nearby. If they read our profile they could see whether we might be what each other is looking for. That's what counts. Proximity and looks certainly enter into it but it's not the most important.
I didn't say a connection can't happen without reading a profile, but it can give a good indication of whether it's worth trying to build one or not. "Well you're misunderstanding me clearly. As I said you have your opinion on it I have mine  | |||
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" I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever So if you’re theory is correct, it would be the same when applying for a job? The employer doesn’t bother reading a CV, they just employ a person because they look like they might be able to do the job? Sorry is messaging a woman like applying for a job ? Also I'm sure alot of good candidates didn't get their job because their CV was shit
It has similar parallels yes.
If you message a woman, that means you’re interested?
If you’re interested, you’d like to make her interested in you (otherwise what’s the point).
To make her interested, you need to convince her.
You’re “selling “ yourself, which is what you do when applying for a job.
If you’ve made no effort to learn something about the woman (or job), you’ve put yourself on an up hill struggle from the get go.
So you need to sell yourself to get along with someone? Is that what happens on a night out and you start speaking to someone you start listing all your interests
Yes.
It’s human nature to make an assessment of a person within the first few minutes of meeting them.
It’s not always the right assessment ofcourse "If I started speaking to a woman and she started reeling off what she is good at like on a CV I would honestly just walk away from here | |||
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"Either way everyone's entitled to their own opinion. Mine is if you won't entertain people who haven't read your profile, I find it incredibly cringey and I would be put off of that person no matter how attractive ."I guess it depends what you are looking for from this site. You seem to be arguing that people can be friends without having read profiles, that's grand I have loads of friends from all different backgrounds and places. If, however, you are using this to find someone to engage in sexual activities with then attraction and what they're into become a bigger thing. We know what we're looking for but it's pretty open to attraction too, we don't have a long list of rules but we will only meet together and this is on our profile, if someone hasn't read this or has but ignores it then they are getting shut down not matter how friendly or good looking or whatever | |||
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"Either way everyone's entitled to their own opinion. Mine is if you won't entertain people who haven't read your profile, I find it incredibly cringey and I would be put off of that person no matter how attractive .
I guess it depends what you are looking for from this site. You seem to be arguing that people can be friends without having read profiles, that's grand I have loads of friends from all different backgrounds and places. If, however, you are using this to find someone to engage in sexual activities with then attraction and what they're into become a bigger thing. We know what we're looking for but it's pretty open to attraction too, we don't have a long list of rules but we will only meet together and this is on our profile, if someone hasn't read this or has but ignores it then they are getting shut down not matter how friendly or good looking or whatever"No it's nothing to do with just friends I'm on about sexually too | |||
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"If someone can't be bothered to read our profile to find out what we like / dislike or our rules / limits.. Then why would we bother giving them the time? If people want to join us but don't have enough respect to read and understand the profile then they're not for us. Couldn't care less if that puts certain people off, because they're not the type of people we're interested in. " | |||
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"If someone can't be bothered to read our profile to find out what we like / dislike or our rules / limits.. Then why would we bother giving them the time? If people want to join us but don't have enough respect to read and understand the profile then they're not for us. Couldn't care less if that puts certain people off, because they're not the type of people we're interested in. " Hear hear!! | |||
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that." I’d say it’s 75% that ask for a shag if not higher | |||
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that." Yes it's disrespectful. Because we spent time writing it for people to read.. We won't even consider meeting anyone until we know they've read it. And no. We're not conditioned for anything. We're just not going to sleep with someone who can't be bothered to put the effort into reading our profile. That's our choice. And the majority of men on here are like that, rude and disrespectful first messages, or full of vulgarity. The good ones are fewer, but they stand out thanks to the bad ones. | |||
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that. I’d say it’s 75% that ask for a shag if not higher "Agreed! | |||
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that. Yes it's disrespectful. Because we spent time writing it for people to read.. We won't even consider meeting anyone until we know they've read it. And no. We're not conditioned for anything. We're just not going to sleep with someone who can't be bothered to put the effort into reading our profile. That's our choice. And the majority of men on here are like that, rude and disrespectful first messages, or full of vulgarity. The good ones are fewer, but they stand out thanks to the bad ones. " I just think you take life wayyyyy to seriously | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you? Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking " So, you’re not messaging anyone, and I can absolutely guarantee that that you’re not receiving “loads” of spontaneous messages, so how is that happening? | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone. If a guy cannot spend a few minutes reading about someone..checking out their likes, dislikes etc, then it suggests to be they are lazy and disrespectful. I would hope somebody would contact me because they are interested in meeting me, not just want a shag with someone within 20 miles of where they are. I won't find time to reply, if they can't find time to read my profile ! I disagree surely it should go off attraction. Just because you haven't read someone's profile doesn't mean you're being disrespectful or lazy. Surely the only way you get to know someone and see if you're compayiby is by chatting a profile makes no difference whatsoever" Not reading a profile is utter laziness in my opinion, as many have said it gives a good indication as to whether you would click. You say you find that out by chatting, speaking as someone who is relatively successful on here I can say that ladies do appreciate the fact you've taken the time, you won't get off first base with a generic copy n paste message | |||
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"Why do you care if someone reads your profile or not?. Don't see the point in them and what difference does it actually going to make to your conversation with that person? Seems a cop out of not being asked to reply to someone." If say a submissive man reads my profile he will know it is not going to happen. Means he saves time not writing a message, means I don't ignore a higher number in my inbox, means one less "she hasn't read my message or dropped onto her back" post on the forum
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that. Yes it's disrespectful. Because we spent time writing it for people to read.. We won't even consider meeting anyone until we know they've read it. And no. We're not conditioned for anything. We're just not going to sleep with someone who can't be bothered to put the effort into reading our profile. That's our choice. And the majority of men on here are like that, rude and disrespectful first messages, or full of vulgarity. The good ones are fewer, but they stand out thanks to the bad ones. I just think you take life wayyyyy to seriously" Because we don't want to have sex with just anyone? Because we have standards?
We get far more messages of random comments such as
Wanna meet
Wanna fuck
Free now
Can we dp her
Does she fuck other guys
What an asshole she has
Yummy pussy
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you? Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking So, you’re not messaging anyone, and I can absolutely guarantee that that you’re not receiving “loads” of spontaneous messages, so how is that happening?" Forums mate | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you? Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking So, you’re not messaging anyone, and I can absolutely guarantee that that you’re not receiving “loads” of spontaneous messages, so how is that happening? Forums mate "You've met loads of people, and have no verifications. | |||
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that. Yes it's disrespectful. Because we spent time writing it for people to read.. We won't even consider meeting anyone until we know they've read it. And no. We're not conditioned for anything. We're just not going to sleep with someone who can't be bothered to put the effort into reading our profile. That's our choice. And the majority of men on here are like that, rude and disrespectful first messages, or full of vulgarity. The good ones are fewer, but they stand out thanks to the bad ones. I just think you take life wayyyyy to seriously Because we don't want to have sex with just anyone? Because we have standards?
We get far more messages of random comments such as
Wanna meet
Wanna fuck
Free now
Can we dp her
Does she fuck other guys
What an asshole she has
Yummy pussy
Etc
Than anything else. Single women will tell you, they get it worse.
So no.. we don't want to meet those people. They aren't the type of people we're interested in."Is that what I said. Just because someone hasn't read your profile doesn't mean you won't be compatible. I just think people who completely disregard someone because they haven't read their profile need to lighten up and stop being so prissy | |||
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"How would I ever know they had read it? And if another contacted me why would I care if they had read it if there was some rapport with that other? It's a few words on a screen, it may attract some repel others. There is I hope far more to all of us than that... It's interesting isn't it that so many threads insist that personality is what it's all about on fab." So some say. If anyone can discern anothers personality from an advert on a billboard they are far better at this than me.... | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you? Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking So, you’re not messaging anyone, and I can absolutely guarantee that that you’re not receiving “loads” of spontaneous messages, so how is that happening? Forums mate
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"Is it disrespectful not to read a profile? Is it sometimes not better to off instinct? It's like all the woman and couples are conditioned to this shit because you get random blokes asking you for a shag 75% of men on fab are not like that. Yes it's disrespectful. Because we spent time writing it for people to read.. We won't even consider meeting anyone until we know they've read it. And no. We're not conditioned for anything. We're just not going to sleep with someone who can't be bothered to put the effort into reading our profile. That's our choice. And the majority of men on here are like that, rude and disrespectful first messages, or full of vulgarity. The good ones are fewer, but they stand out thanks to the bad ones. I just think you take life wayyyyy to seriously Because we don't want to have sex with just anyone? Because we have standards?
We get far more messages of random comments such as
Wanna meet
Wanna fuck
Free now
Can we dp her
Does she fuck other guys
What an asshole she has
Yummy pussy
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Than anything else. Single women will tell you, they get it worse.
So no.. we don't want to meet those people. They aren't the type of people we're interested in.
Is that what I said. Just because someone hasn't read your profile doesn't mean you won't be compatible.
I just think people who completely disregard someone because they haven't read their profile need to lighten up and stop being so prissy"I just think guys who can't be bothered to read a profile need to show some respect or deal with the fact they're bottom of a very deep barrel. We love sex. With various people in various quantities. Doesn't mean we're gonna fuck people who can't even bothered to read to see if we match / suit / have rules. | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you? Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking So, you’re not messaging anyone, and I can absolutely guarantee that that you’re not receiving “loads” of spontaneous messages, so how is that happening? Forums mate
You've met loads of people, and have no verifications.
I'm on about messaging woman. Thanks for taking interest in my profile though "Yet you've said you've met loads of people. So you haven't. You've met no one.. So.. You don't read profiles. You don't message people. You don't meet. Ok. | |||
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It has similar parallels yes.
If you message a woman, that means you’re interested?
If you’re interested, you’d like to make her interested in you (otherwise what’s the point).
To make her interested, you need to convince her.
You’re “selling “ yourself, which is what you do when applying for a job.
If you’ve made no effort to learn something about the woman (or job), you’ve put yourself on an up hill struggle from the get go.
So you need to sell yourself to get along with someone? Is that what happens on a night out and you start speaking to someone you start listing all your interests
Yes.
It’s human nature to make an assessment of a person within the first few minutes of meeting them.
It’s not always the right assessment ofcourse
If I started speaking to a woman and she started reeling off what she is good at like on a CV I would honestly just walk away from here "You’re taking this literally, it’s a subtle subconscious reaction to a person. The fact is, you can’t possibly tell what someone is like from pictures alone . Reading about them may help someway to learning what they are like, but you have to physically meet a person face to face to really know if there’s an attraction. So back to your initial question,,,,,yes it’s important to read a persons profile, if you don’t, you’re missing out a vital stepping stone to your goal of meeting them face to face. I’ve not looked at your profile op, but I’m guessing you’re part of the internet generation? It’s sad that the internet has killed the art of seduction, and yes it was an art. “Make a woman laugh and you’re half way into her panties “, is a piece of advice I was given as a young buck just starting out on my quest for the fairer sex, and boy was that a gem of knowledge. If you think looking at a picture, sending off a random message without putting in any leg work is going to get you laid, then sir, you are in for a frustrating time on fab. | |||
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" Sorry is messaging a woman like applying for a job ? Also I'm sure alot of good candidates didn't get their job because their CV was shit
It has similar parallels yes.
If you message a woman, that means you’re interested?
If you’re interested, you’d like to make her interested in you (otherwise what’s the point).
To make her interested, you need to convince her.
You’re “selling “ yourself, which is what you do when applying for a job.
If you’ve made no effort to learn something about the woman (or job), you’ve put yourself on an up hill struggle from the get go.
So you need to sell yourself to get along with someone? Is that what happens on a night out and you start speaking to someone you start listing all your interests
Yes.
It’s human nature to make an assessment of a person within the first few minutes of meeting them.
It’s not always the right assessment ofcourse
If I started speaking to a woman and she started reeling off what she is good at like on a CV I would honestly just walk away from here
You’re taking this literally, it’s a subtle subconscious reaction to a person.
The fact is, you can’t possibly tell what someone is like from pictures alone . Reading about them may help someway to learning what they are like, but you have to physically meet a person face to face to really know if there’s an attraction.
So back to your initial question,,,,,yes it’s important to read a persons profile, if you don’t, you’re missing out a vital stepping stone to your goal of meeting them face to face.
I’ve not looked at your profile op, but I’m guessing you’re part of the internet generation?
It’s sad that the internet has killed the art of seduction, and yes it was an art.
“Make a woman laugh and you’re half way into her panties “, is a piece of advice I was given as a young buck just starting out on my quest for the fairer sex, and boy was that a gem of knowledge.
If you think looking at a picture, sending off a random message without putting in any leg work is going to get you laid, then sir, you are in for a frustrating time on fab."That was put so well | |||
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Ok, simple words time.
You're acting like a brat. You've been here 5 weeks, no meets, no veris. Your profile is shit and screams that all you want is to fuck anything that moves.
In short, you come across as a needy child, and that ain't attractive pal! "But he’s gorgeous though so it makes it alright | |||
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A man who gets it! I tip my hat to you, sir. "Why thank you. It is nice to see that some people notice these little things. Of course, this comes from a fair few years experience on here, and from being of the generation before even texting was a thing! The subtle art of woo-ing seems to be waning fast, unfortunately.... | |||
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Ok, simple words time.
You're acting like a brat. You've been here 5 weeks, no meets, no veris. Your profile is shit and screams that all you want is to fuck anything that moves.
In short, you come across as a needy child, and that ain't attractive pal!
But he’s gorgeous though so it makes it alright "Yeah, don't even get me started on that one...! Lol! | |||
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Get over yourself.
You're clearly not here for the right reasons. You're clearly not a swinger or understand swingers.
People aren't guaranteed a shag because they made an account. "Hahaha hahahaha I'm not here for the right reasons because I don't like people who won't reply to people who haven't read their profile? Get over yourself | |||
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As I said I'm not interested in people who's thoughts are that I have to read their profile to be compatible, does that make me wrong yeah
No it doesn't mean you're not compatible with someone. It means you won't get the chance to find out for the most part though."Well exactly and I find people like that pathetic simple as no need to get so defensive | |||
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"You're all writing essays to me I CBA to read them. In my opinion a profile is a minute detail in someone's like and cannot determine if two people could get on or not. I don't think I'm wrong you do. Get over yourselves it ain't a big deal
Get over yourself.
You're clearly not here for the right reasons. You're clearly not a swinger or understand swingers.
People aren't guaranteed a shag because they made an account.
Hahaha hahahaha I'm not here for the right reasons because I don't like people who won't reply to people who haven't read their profile?
Get over yourself"There is a tonne of examples you're not here for the right reasons. You've shown several during this thread and more in others. | |||
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A man who gets it! I tip my hat to you, sir.
Why thank you. It is nice to see that some people notice these little things. Of course, this comes from a fair few years experience on here, and from being of the generation before even texting was a thing! The subtle art of woo-ing seems to be waning fast, unfortunately...."Wooing is waning. It weally weally is. | |||
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As I said I'm not interested in people who's thoughts are that I have to read their profile to be compatible, does that make me wrong yeah
No it doesn't mean you're not compatible with someone. It means you won't get the chance to find out for the most part though.
Well exactly and I find people like that pathetic simple as no need to get so defensive"Yes.. you're definitely the right person to call out people being defensive
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I think what he's saying is he doesn't like reading. He doesn't want to read profiles, he doesn't want to read answers to his question. He wants to look at pictures and message people without finding out anything about them.
He's not much better than a troll. I can't be bothered engaging with him. " get over yourselves | |||
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"You're all writing essays to me I CBA to read them. In my opinion a profile is a minute detail in someone's like and cannot determine if two people could get on or not. I don't think I'm wrong you do. Get over yourselves it ain't a big deal
Get over yourself.
You're clearly not here for the right reasons. You're clearly not a swinger or understand swingers.
People aren't guaranteed a shag because they made an account.
Hahaha hahahaha I'm not here for the right reasons because I don't like people who won't reply to people who haven't read their profile?
Get over yourself
There is a tonne of examples you're not here for the right reasons.
You've shown several during this thread and more in others.
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Get over yourself.
You're clearly not here for the right reasons. You're clearly not a swinger or understand swingers.
People aren't guaranteed a shag because they made an account.
Hahaha hahahaha I'm not here for the right reasons because I don't like people who won't reply to people who haven't read their profile?
Get over yourself
There is a tonne of examples you're not here for the right reasons.
You've shown several during this thread and more in others.
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A man who gets it! I tip my hat to you, sir.
Why thank you. It is nice to see that some people notice these little things. Of course, this comes from a fair few years experience on here, and from being of the generation before even texting was a thing! The subtle art of woo-ing seems to be waning fast, unfortunately....
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A man who gets it! I tip my hat to you, sir.
Why thank you. It is nice to see that some people notice these little things. Of course, this comes from a fair few years experience on here, and from being of the generation before even texting was a thing! The subtle art of woo-ing seems to be waning fast, unfortunately....
Wooing is waning. It weally weally is.
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"You're all writing essays to me I CBA to read them. In my opinion a profile is a minute detail in someone's like and cannot determine if two people could get on or not. I don't think I'm wrong you do. Get over yourselves it ain't a big deal
I think what he's saying is he doesn't like reading. He doesn't want to read profiles, he doesn't want to read answers to his question. He wants to look at pictures and message people without finding out anything about them.
He's not much better than a troll. I can't be bothered engaging with him. "You're suggesting he isn't a troll , I'd suggest the green arrow I'd suggest a fine example of a goat muncher A troll is mainly an idiot who says idiotic things which intelligent people cannot compute they then continue arguing idiotic points hoping some will be fooled into engaging at an illogical level The irony is some trolls think their trolling is intellectually superior and avant guard the reality is they are just dull and tedious just so annoying good people feel compled to engage in verbal slapping x | |||
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"OP - this thread does not show you in a good light. Maybe take a step back and listen to what people are saying... If you see his other threads, this isn't a one off.
I had a look at his profile - that was quite enough for me
Did he ask for you’re opinion on he’s profile
I don't know where to begin with this response *sigh*""Delete" | |||
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"A man who gets it! I tip my hat to you, sir. Why thank you. It is nice to see that some people notice these little things. Of course, this comes from a fair few years experience on here, and from being of the generation before even texting was a thing! The subtle art of woo-ing seems to be waning fast, unfortunately.... Wooing is waning. It weally weally is. Which is weally, weally wong....
There is a wealth of weasons why it's wrong. We won't west until wooing wecovers."The weasons are welevant, but not iwweversible, so wooing will wecover, with the wight wediwection....  | |||
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"OP - this thread does not show you in a good light. Maybe take a step back and listen to what people are saying... If you see his other threads, this isn't a one off.
I had a look at his profile - that was quite enough for me
Did he ask for you’re opinion on he’s profile "No, but it is relevant to the discussion.... Not that it is much of a 'profile' anyway...  | |||
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"The point of a profile is to indicate what you offer and seek, to give the browser an indication of any initial compatibility. If a profile says he gets off on humiliation for example, it tells me personally that there is absolutely no compatibility. So yes, profiles are useful if someone actually writes one, and people read one." Yep. This ^^^ | |||
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"OP - this thread does not show you in a good light. Maybe take a step back and listen to what people are saying... If you see his other threads, this isn't a one off.
I had a look at his profile - that was quite enough for me
Did he ask for you’re opinion on he’s profile
No, but it is relevant to the discussion.... Not that it is much of a 'profile' anyway... "Let him carry on and doing he’s own thing. He’s having lots of fun chats via the forums so it must work for him. | |||
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"OP - this thread does not show you in a good light. Maybe take a step back and listen to what people are saying... If you see his other threads, this isn't a one off.
I had a look at his profile - that was quite enough for me
Did he ask for you’re opinion on he’s profile
No, but it is relevant to the discussion.... Not that it is much of a 'profile' anyway...
Let him carry on and doing he’s own thing. He’s having lots of fun chats via the forums so it must work for him. "Apparently not judging by his other threads!! | |||
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"Some people obviously can't listen to other peoples points and just say they're wrong, quite childish actually" OP. Did you start this thread because you were genuinely interested in others' opinions? Because so far you've mostly been dismissive of those who disagree with you. Or did you just want other people to agree with you? You've been around the forums for a while. You know how it works. People are going to have different points of view. If you're just looking for a fight, then congratulations, you've achieved that. But if you really want a discussion, you might want to look at how you respond to others. Mrs TMN | |||
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"Chill out people, tis the season to be jolly and all that. Don't get so vexed!" Tis sport | |||
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"You're all writing essays to me I CBA to read them. In my opinion a profile is a minute detail in someone's like and cannot determine if two people could get on or not. I don't think I'm wrong you do. Get over yourselves it ain't a big deal
I think what he's saying is he doesn't like reading. He doesn't want to read profiles, he doesn't want to read answers to his question. He wants to look at pictures and message people without finding out anything about them.
He's not much better than a troll. I can't be bothered engaging with him.
You're suggesting he isn't a troll , I'd suggest the green arrow
I'd suggest a fine example of a goat muncher
A troll is mainly an idiot who says idiotic things which intelligent people cannot compute they then continue arguing idiotic points hoping some will be fooled into engaging at an illogical level
The irony is some trolls think their trolling is intellectually superior and avant guard the reality is they are just dull and tedious just so annoying good people feel compled to engage in verbal slapping x"This is why I have stopped engaging with him and moved on to a joke with The Original TT instead. The sooner this thread reaches 175 and disappears the better. | |||
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"You're all writing essays to me I CBA to read them. In my opinion a profile is a minute detail in someone's like and cannot determine if two people could get on or not. I don't think I'm wrong you do. Get over yourselves it ain't a big deal
I think what he's saying is he doesn't like reading. He doesn't want to read profiles, he doesn't want to read answers to his question. He wants to look at pictures and message people without finding out anything about them.
He's not much better than a troll. I can't be bothered engaging with him.
You're suggesting he isn't a troll , I'd suggest the green arrow
I'd suggest a fine example of a goat muncher
A troll is mainly an idiot who says idiotic things which intelligent people cannot compute they then continue arguing idiotic points hoping some will be fooled into engaging at an illogical level
The irony is some trolls think their trolling is intellectually superior and avant guard the reality is they are just dull and tedious just so annoying good people feel compled to engage in verbal slapping x
This is why I have stopped engaging with him and moved on to a joke with The Original TT instead. The sooner this thread reaches 175 and disappears the better. "We're not too far from that now.... I always used to think that the 175 limit was a curse.... am now thinking it could be a blessing in some cases...!! | |||
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"OP - this thread does not show you in a good light. Maybe take a step back and listen to what people are saying... If you see his other threads, this isn't a one off.
I had a look at his profile - that was quite enough for me
Did he ask for you’re opinion on he’s profile
No, but it is relevant to the discussion.... Not that it is much of a 'profile' anyway...
Let him carry on and doing he’s own thing. He’s having lots of fun chats via the forums so it must work for him.
Apparently not judging by his other threads!! "He was top of men’s pictures you know
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"You're all writing essays to me I CBA to read them. In my opinion a profile is a minute detail in someone's like and cannot determine if two people could get on or not. I don't think I'm wrong you do. Get over yourselves it ain't a big deal
I think what he's saying is he doesn't like reading. He doesn't want to read profiles, he doesn't want to read answers to his question. He wants to look at pictures and message people without finding out anything about them.
He's not much better than a troll. I can't be bothered engaging with him.
You're suggesting he isn't a troll , I'd suggest the green arrow
I'd suggest a fine example of a goat muncher
A troll is mainly an idiot who says idiotic things which intelligent people cannot compute they then continue arguing idiotic points hoping some will be fooled into engaging at an illogical level
The irony is some trolls think their trolling is intellectually superior and avant guard the reality is they are just dull and tedious just so annoying good people feel compled to engage in verbal slapping x
This is why I have stopped engaging with him and moved on to a joke with The Original TT instead. The sooner this thread reaches 175 and disappears the better.
We're not too far from that now.... I always used to think that the 175 limit was a curse.... am now thinking it could be a blessing in some cases...!! "It will be here. | |||
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"This is why I have stopped engaging with him and moved on to a joke with The Original TT instead. The sooner this thread reaches 175 and disappears the better. " How | |||
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"Chill out people, tis the season to be jolly and all that. Don't get so vexed!" It’s ok. It’s only a single guy bashing thread. Usually single guys doing the bashing | |||
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"We're not too far from that now.... I always used to think that the 175 limit was a curse.... am now thinking it could be a blessing in some cases...!! "Yes, 175 approaching - then SOME of us can go back to reading profiles | |||
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"This is why I have stopped engaging with him and moved on to a joke with The Original TT instead. The sooner this thread reaches 175 and disappears the better. How quick" He will make a thread part 2  | |||
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"I've never read a profile on here nor have I messaged anyone so pointless asking me. How’s that working out for you? Great I've met loads of nice people on here even though romantically it didn't work, cheers for asking So, you’re not messaging anyone, and I can absolutely guarantee that that you’re not receiving “loads” of spontaneous messages, so how is that happening? Forums mate
You've met loads of people, and have no verifications.
I'm on about messaging woman. Thanks for taking interest in my profile though
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