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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

What is your first thought on my profile picture no filters just your truth of first thought.

I know this might not be a very nice thaught but it will be your truth

I'm intrigued to know if people can be brutally honest

I started this thread so therefore I can't take offence no matter the response

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Why ask this people will be unkind.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Why ask this people will be unkind."

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why ask this people will be unkind.

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it"

Well good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like my mate billy

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Why ask this people will be unkind.

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it

Well good luck."

What is your first thought ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You look like my mate billy"
why?

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming."

Thank you I am not photogenic at all and I do take that pictures I'll try smiling in the future but it always looks fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming."

Yeah smile. It'll make people wonder what you're up to...

That beard was really cool. Miss C would have loved that

Good luck

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I would perhaps put a nice shirt on and smile too fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like my mate billywhy?"
cos thats what billy looks like too

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You look like my mate billywhy?cos thats what billy looks like too"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why ask this people will be unkind.

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it

Well good luck.

What is your first thought ?"

Was undaunted is fit

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford


"You look like my mate billywhy?cos thats what billy looks like too"

I infact think it might be due to his ten foot willy

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming.

Yeah smile. It'll make people wonder what you're up to...

That beard was really cool. Miss C would have loved that

Good luck "

My ex really liked it and everybody that I spoke to just said it made me look old so I chopped it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like my mate billywhy?cos thats what billy looks like too

I infact think it might be due to his ten foot willy "

Must be expensive buying shoes for his willy?

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Why ask this people will be unkind.

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it

Well good luck.

What is your first thought ?

Was undaunted is fit"

Thanks

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"You look like my mate billywhy?cos thats what billy looks like too

I infact think it might be due to his ten foot willy "

A 10-ft willy that's a nightmare

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"I would perhaps put a nice shirt on and smile too fella

"

I'm a big believer in being comfortable in clothes so the only time I would wear a shirt is on Christmas day when I'm working I'm not working this year so I won't be wearing a shirt so do you not think by wearing a shirt that would be deceiving just a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming.

Thank you I am not photogenic at all and I do take that pictures I'll try smiling in the future but it always looks fake"

Fake smiles do indeed usually look fake. The trick is, if you can, to think of something that genuinely makes you smile and then use that moment to take the photo - the hard bit is to stay in the moment until the photo is taken.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Be your self and smile don't be so shy x

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I would perhaps put a nice shirt on and smile too fella

I'm a big believer in being comfortable in clothes so the only time I would wear a shirt is on Christmas day when I'm working I'm not working this year so I won't be wearing a shirt so do you not think by wearing a shirt that would be deceiving just a question?"

Up to you but that would still be my advice

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"I would perhaps put a nice shirt on and smile too fella

I'm a big believer in being comfortable in clothes so the only time I would wear a shirt is on Christmas day when I'm working I'm not working this year so I won't be wearing a shirt so do you not think by wearing a shirt that would be deceiving just a question?

Up to you but that would still be my advice "

I always appreciate advice from people whether it's nice or not and make my own decision I will put a shirt on and take a photo but I would never put it as my profile picture as that would give an unrealistic picture of me that's how I think

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Be your self and smile don't be so shy x"

I am quite shy until I get to know a women when it comes to sex the rest of the time I am confident exactly what is on my mind

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

There is appreciated advice being posted but not really the question being answered answers may include yes no maybe hell yes hel no or just whatever your first thought is? Brutal honesty gotta love it

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"What is your first thought on my profile picture no filters just your truth of first thought.

I know this might not be a very nice thaught but it will be your truth

I'm intrigued to know if people can be brutally honest

I started this thread so therefore I can't take offence no matter the response "

OP..you are frowning, unshaven and look like you are slobbing about. Quite frankly, your picture is unappealing. There are lots of ways to be creative with profile pics. Good luck

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I would perhaps put a nice shirt on and smile too fella

I'm a big believer in being comfortable in clothes so the only time I would wear a shirt is on Christmas day when I'm working I'm not working this year so I won't be wearing a shirt so do you not think by wearing a shirt that would be deceiving just a question?

Up to you but that would still be my advice

I always appreciate advice from people whether it's nice or not and make my own decision I will put a shirt on and take a photo but I would never put it as my profile picture as that would give an unrealistic picture of me that's how I think "

OP..what you need to consider is that men vastly outnumber women here, so you need to stand out from the crowd. Sell yourself.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your pic makes you look like not being the brightest button in the box. Smarten yourself up, change your posture and smile. 3 simple steps will work wonders as im sure you are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why ask this people will be unkind.

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it

Well good luck.

What is your first thought ?

Was undaunted is fit"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why ask this people will be unkind.

At the end of the day that is their opinion I am comfortable with myself to the point where I can ask that question I am who I am at the end of the day if you don't fancy me that is your choice why would I get offended about it

Well good luck.

What is your first thought ?

Was undaunted is fit

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"What is your first thought on my profile picture no filters just your truth of first thought.

I know this might not be a very nice thaught but it will be your truth

I'm intrigued to know if people can be brutally honest

I started this thread so therefore I can't take offence no matter the response

OP..you are frowning, unshaven and look like you are slobbing about. Quite frankly, your picture is unappealing. There are lots of ways to be creative with profile pics. Good luck "

Honstty thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming.

Thank you I am not photogenic at all and I do take that pictures I'll try smiling in the future but it always looks fake"

I find it almost impossible to smile for a selfie. I just end up looking like chandler when he tries to smile.

I’m a beard fan, why did you shave it off?!

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Your pic makes you look like not being the brightest button in the box. Smarten yourself up, change your posture and smile. 3 simple steps will work wonders as im sure you are lovely."

Thank you I will give that a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like my mate billywhy?cos thats what billy looks like too

I infact think it might be due to his ten foot willy

A 10-ft willy that's a nightmare"

If it starts spinning a cocoon its actually a caterpillar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought on your profile picture is that you look like you’ve been caught doing something you shouldn’t

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"My first thought on your profile picture is that you look like you’ve been caught doing something you shouldn’t "

Because I hate photographs being taken of me so I caught myself doing something I don't like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first thought on your profile picture is that you look like you’ve been caught doing something you shouldn’t

Because I hate photographs being taken of me so I caught myself doing something I don't like lol"

I thought it might have been that you’d been caught wanking by your mum

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"As someone who is terrible at taking photos, I am no expert. I would say though, that a smile may appear more welcoming.

Thank you I am not photogenic at all and I do take that pictures I'll try smiling in the future but it always looks fake

The general consensus was it just made me look old so that's the opinion of most people I am going to do better without it don't you think

I find it almost impossible to smile for a selfie. I just end up looking like chandler when he tries to smile.

I’m a beard fan, why did you shave it off?! "

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"My first thought on your profile picture is that you look like you’ve been caught doing something you shouldn’t

Because I hate photographs being taken of me so I caught myself doing something I don't like lol

I thought it might have been that you’d been caught wanking by your mum "

Lol I moved out at 16 that was a long time ago

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"You look like my mate billywhy?cos thats what billy looks like too

I infact think it might be due to his ten foot willy

A 10-ft willy that's a nightmare

If it starts spinning a cocoon its actually a caterpillar."

A furry welly not sure that's a selling point

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A smile would be better. You look too serious.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

I have just tried smiling in a pitcher it not good look lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wish you were into men?

Perhaps you should change something slightly then.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"You wish you were into men?

Perhaps you should change something slightly then."

Like some one said men out number women by a long way 99% of views are men I'm flattered by this but I'm not attracted to men if I was there would be alot more opportunity not Shaw if that answers but I hop so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought is I wonder why he's so miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More Dick pics less words in profile

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

It depends how you want to present yourself.. your photo is natural, no filters, casual.

It doesn't jump out at me if I'm honest. But then I'm a sucker for a bit of art, expression, character or playfulness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how you want to present yourself.. your photo is natural, no filters, casual.

It doesn't jump out at me if I'm honest. But then I'm a sucker for a bit of art, expression, character or playfulness.

"

Are you flirting with me because if the giraffe picture? Very subtle

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"My first thought is I wonder why he's so miserable. "

I'm taking a photograph of myself I hate it probably why I looked miserable noted though I definitely got some work to do for my photographs

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In all honesty; the picture looks like a rushed selfie, like you couldn't be bothered and gave it the 'that'll do' approach. It screams "I couldn't be arsed", whether that was the case or not, that's how it looks and how others will probably view it too

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"In all honesty; the picture looks like a rushed selfie, like you couldn't be bothered and gave it the 'that'll do' approach. It screams "I couldn't be arsed", whether that was the case or not, that's how it looks and how others will probably view it too"

That picture was one of many that's the best of them all I think I need to learn how to pose thanks for telling it how you see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all honesty; the picture looks like a rushed selfie, like you couldn't be bothered and gave it the 'that'll do' approach. It screams "I couldn't be arsed", whether that was the case or not, that's how it looks and how others will probably view it too

That picture was one of many that's the best of them all I think I need to learn how to pose thanks for telling it how you see it"

If you are serious about it there are some photo studios who will do a professional photo shoot with classy pics quite cheaply provided you give up royalties to the images.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having said all that the most popular guy I know on fab has one pic of his shoulder and the rest is his personality. Women aren't as superficial as we think. Not being someone's 'type' has never stopped me.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"In all honesty; the picture looks like a rushed selfie, like you couldn't be bothered and gave it the 'that'll do' approach. It screams "I couldn't be arsed", whether that was the case or not, that's how it looks and how others will probably view it too

That picture was one of many that's the best of them all I think I need to learn how to pose thanks for telling it how you see it

If you are serious about it there are some photo studios who will do a professional photo shoot with classy pics quite cheaply provided you give up royalties to the images."

That's not a bad idea I know you can get them done for free my ex used to to do a bit of topless modelling

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"More Dick pics less words in profile "

Please, whatever you do, do NOT take the advice of this moron.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"More Dick pics less words in profile

Please, whatever you do, do NOT take the advice of this moron. "

To be honest my mum is trying to get me into a photograph studio with the rest of my brothers and siste for many years it's mostly dance with me I don't like my photograph being taken but clearly I've got to do something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More Dick pics less words in profile

Please, whatever you do, do NOT take the advice of this moron. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a face pic!

You look bored shitless.

It does not make me want to look any further.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"More Dick pics less words in profile

Please, whatever you do, do NOT take the advice of this moron. "

Promise I've seen the only people asking for a dick pic as a man unfortunately that's the wrong side of the fence for me

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"It's a face pic!

You look bored shitless.

It does not make me want to look any further. "

I appreciate your honesty thanks

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