FabSwingers.com forum: Please Indulge me :-) Discreetly Discreet about Discretion

By *andyBlax_XL OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

When I first heard of this site I thought

“Discretion is the better part of valor”, certainly this might not be the case for everyone and that’s fine.

All I’m trying to say is the internet is a public platform, what’s posted here (has meta data) in laymen’s terms it’s searchable and can be found. 1st off just to be clear everyone is entitled to their own degree of tolerance or in this case level of discretion. Im not passing judgment on anyone and this only refers to my personal opinion.

Please allow me to explain my point further , So here’s my point. Why would I publicly display my face if I’m not comfortable with the levels of information Discoverability on the internet. Im definitely glad to share information through alternative technology that I feel the level of discoverability is closed loop. I believe this platform is purely for fulfilling sexual lifestyles through a mutually agreed level of discretion.

Is there anyone else that feels the same?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's discreet. ^

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

That gave me a (discreet) headache

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tmi dude

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

It’s only searchable if you are searching for it

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By *andyBlax_XL OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

I like that one

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By *andyBlax_XL OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Didn’t mean to give you any headaches

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Discreet packets like whole numbers? I like that kind of discretion

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure. "

oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That gave me a (discreet) headache

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Yeah me too

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'd be concerned about your discoverability. I'd recognise you anywhere with that big yellow head

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

you're so sexy babe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first heard of this site I thought

“Discretion is the better part of valor”, certainly this might not be the case for everyone and that’s fine.

Is there anyone else that feels the same?????

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no just you, you either want to do this or you dont, if youre worried about getting taken to task because you enjoy sex and meeting people, just about everyone on the planet enjoys sex and meeting people at some point in their lives, if you dont enter into this freely then others wont entertain you, this internet domain is ruled by women your profile and pics have to be the best they can be or you'll get nowhere, hope this helps

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure. "

There is no such thing as totally secure data on the internet. You may be able to get some form of legal redress, if you can afford the legal bills, but never think any legal warning stops anyone from finding, sharing, publicing your data should they wish to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Or you can be completely open. My public pictures are my face. If anyone recognised me in reality they are welcome to say hello. It hasn’t happened yet though. And may we’ll be an anticlimax when it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A secret is only a secret if only 3 people know about it...

And two of them are dead

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd be concerned about your discoverability. I'd recognise you anywhere with that big yellow head

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

No i think She was biting her lip at the time

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

We’re all fucked anyway, so none of it really matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

No i think She was biting her lip at the time"
she'll get ulcers

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Who says you have to show your face on photos added here?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

"Who says you have to show your face on photos added here? "

You don’t n the d to. It’s surprisingly easy to knit it all together

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

* don’t need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let live and all that jazz. Everyone can do and post what they’re comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondering if the OP will turn up to meets in a balaclava for privacy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Wondering if the OP will turn up to meets in a balaclava for privacy "

A clown mask would be more discreet

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" It’s surprisingly easy to knit it all together

Are you knitting a Christmas jumper ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

Someone want to put their tongue in my cheeks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A secret is only a secret if only 3 people know about it...

And two of them are dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure. "

Lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure. "

He hasn't added the Facebook one, so he still has some grey areas as far as discretion

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Wondering if the OP will turn up to meets in a balaclava for privacy

A clown mask would be more discreet"

I saw a fabulous range of discretion assured animal masks in a recent swingers documentary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

Someone want to put their tongue in my cheeks?"
lol

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By *andyBlax_XL OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

I love this forum

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love this forum"

Discreetly

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"OP you have got the legal warning on your profile so your data is totally secure.

He hasn't added the Facebook one, so he still has some grey areas as far as discretion"

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first heard of this site I thought

“Discretion is the better part of valor”, certainly this might not be the case for everyone and that’s fine.

Is there anyone else that feels the same?????

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i don't discretion for me is only needed in terms of manners i understand the internet and this internet domain are not private in fact i understand anything to do with the Internet is not private, so with that in mind Op i do not understand why you are here

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By *andyBlax_XL OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

I love this forum

Discreetly

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By *andyBlax_XL OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

"Wondering if the OP will turn up to meets in a balaclava for privacy

A clown mask would be more discreet

I saw a fabulous range of discretion assured animal masks in a recent swingers documentary"

I’ll just use my yellow head

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