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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Men out there on here from a woman to you all now even on here we wooing anf chatting up in the right way

just to say would you go up to a woman in a pub and say right away about sex you wouldnt so how do you think you going to get far on here saying such stuff

I now i have met many nice men on here who have treated me and others with total respect

Its a shame that fuckwits on dont get it

Now I love this site tell you it leads you some places some good some bad so come folk tell us all what you think?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"just to say would you go up to a woman in a pub and say right away about sex you wouldnt so how do you think you going to get far on here saying such stuff"

The first thing you see with a woman in the pub is that she has a drink. “Can I get you a drink?” seems a good start in that case.

The first thing see with a woman on Fab is a profile picture of her either partially or completely naked. “Can I get you naked?” isn’t a huge leap of the imagination.

I’m far from saying that women deserve it, just that it serves as a handy filter for blokes who can’t think past the very obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid "

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bring up sex as a subject. If a lady likes you and is attracted to you then she will bring it up or at least provide a signal that flirting is ok.

Works for me because I get lots of sex. I'm more interested in the person I'm talking to. If sex happens it's great. If it doesn't I've had a lovely chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid "

Men go to a brothel to get laid. This is not one of those places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?"

Morning Jake Up early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

Morning Jake Up early "

chat ups dont work on me dude im immune you cannot have my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

Morning Jake Up early chat ups dont work on me dude im immune you cannot have my penis "

Gutted Can't blame a guy for trying

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Respect and a good sence of humour goes a long way , politeness always,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

Morning Jake Up early chat ups dont work on me dude im immune you cannot have my penis

Gutted Can't blame a guy for trying "

dude if all these women fail you got no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

Morning Jake Up early chat ups dont work on me dude im immune you cannot have my penis

Gutted Can't blame a guy for trying dude if all these women fail you got no chance "

It's the tragedy of what I am

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I think a percentage of men think women on here don't actually deserve respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you mostly but there are women on here who hate small talk and prefer guys to be straight to the point.

Quite a few women message for sex during the witching hours without so much as a hello, so men's perception can be partly impacted by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

Morning Jake Up early chat ups dont work on me dude im immune you cannot have my penis

Gutted Can't blame a guy for trying dude if all these women fail you got no chance

It's the tragedy of what I am "

darth plagus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you mostly but there are women on here who hate small talk and prefer guys to be straight to the point.

Quite a few women message for sex during the witching hours without so much as a hello, so men's perception can be partly impacted by that."

It's probably better to assume that a woman wants to be treated as a person up front. If she wants to skip the small talk she'll soon let you know.

As a guy I've had booty call messages in the wee hours and reply with a polite no thanks. Cuts both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i say you have a nice camel can i take it for a ride see if the spitting rumours are true?

Morning Jake Up early chat ups dont work on me dude im immune you cannot have my penis

Gutted Can't blame a guy for trying dude if all these women fail you got no chance

It's the tragedy of what I am darth plagus?"

No Darth Plagueis was wise

Family Ties I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men out there on here from a woman to you all now even on here we wooing anf chatting up in the right way

just to say would you go up to a woman in a pub and say right away about sex you wouldnt so how do you think you going to get far on here saying such stuff

I now i have met many nice men on here who have treated me and others with total respect

Its a shame that fuckwits on dont get it

Now I love this site tell you it leads you some places some good some bad so come folk tell us all what you think?"

I understand what you are saying

Some guys start a message with can I fuck you or describe what they will do.

If we sent you same message you would also feel the same if it's a random member.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I've never started a conversation straight about sex, and never would.

Theres more to sex than just the physical act.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I don't bring up sex as a subject. If a lady likes you and is attracted to you then she will bring it up or at least provide a signal that flirting is ok.

Works for me because I get lots of sex. I'm more interested in the person I'm talking to. If sex happens it's great. If it doesn't I've had a lovely chat."

That is such a great attitude to have. Many people on here could learn a thing or 2 from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid

Men go to a brothel to get laid. This is not one of those places. "

Yes it is. People can try and dress it up as much as they want. But I would bet everyone originally joined fab to find potential partners for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid

Men go to a brothel to get laid. This is not one of those places.

Yes it is. People can try and dress it up as much as they want. But I would bet everyone originally joined fab to find potential partners for sex"

I bet you most women here have something in their bedside draw that can give them a better orgasm than any man on fab.

They still want to be respected, appreciated and made to feel sexy. Not like a mail order booty call. Granted sometimes everyone just wants a fuck and go... but that's THEIR choice not ours to make.

Fab is a female oriented concept. Its about the ladies, not about the guys. The sooner a guy understands this the sooner fab gets better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disrespectful guys spoil it for the nice ones, if you're a decent guy you'll get our attention, can't guarantee we'll want to play, but that's not the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid

Men go to a brothel to get laid. This is not one of those places.

Yes it is. People can try and dress it up as much as they want. But I would bet everyone originally joined fab to find potential partners for sex

I bet you most women here have something in their bedside draw that can give them a better orgasm than any man on fab.

They still want to be respected, appreciated and made to feel sexy. Not like a mail order booty call. Granted sometimes everyone just wants a fuck and go... but that's THEIR choice not ours to make.

Fab is a female oriented concept. Its about the ladies, not about the guys. The sooner a guy understands this the sooner fab gets better. "

Not saying they shouldn't be respected

All I'm saying is, people go to the pub and fab for two different reasons and act as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men out there on here from a woman to you all now even on here we wooing anf chatting up in the right way

just to say would you go up to a woman in a pub and say right away about sex you wouldnt so how do you think you going to get far on here saying such stuff

I now i have met many nice men on here who have treated me and others with total respect

Its a shame that fuckwits on dont get it

Now I love this site tell you it leads you some places some good some bad so come folk tell us all what you think?

I understand what you are saying

Some guys start a message with can I fuck you or describe what they will do.

If we sent you same message you would also feel the same if it's a random member.

"

I'm glad someone did. Fuck me it's hard to read without punctuation.

Typical post after a few drinks I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often ask woman for sex off the bat if I'm pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't bring up sex as a subject. If a lady likes you and is attracted to you then she will bring it up or at least provide a signal that flirting is ok.

Works for me because I get lots of sex. I'm more interested in the person I'm talking to. If sex happens it's great. If it doesn't I've had a lovely chat.

That is such a great attitude to have. Many people on here could learn a thing or 2 from you."

Thank you! That's very sweet.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid "

It would be funny if it was the other way round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People go to a pub for a drink

People come on fab to get laid

Men go to a brothel to get laid. This is not one of those places.

Yes it is. People can try and dress it up as much as they want. But I would bet everyone originally joined fab to find potential partners for sex

I bet you most women here have something in their bedside draw that can give them a better orgasm than any man on fab.

They still want to be respected, appreciated and made to feel sexy. Not like a mail order booty call. Granted sometimes everyone just wants a fuck and go... but that's THEIR choice not ours to make.

Fab is a female oriented concept. Its about the ladies, not about the guys. The sooner a guy understands this the sooner fab gets better.

Not saying they shouldn't be respected

All I'm saying is, people go to the pub and fab for two different reasons and act as such"

I go to a lot of clubs, have loads of friends there and consequently lots of sex. As a result of this most of my interaction with people on here is just the normal kind of chat that I would strike up with a person at a supermarket. What's strange about this is that some of these conversations lead to getting to know someone, finding that we click and leading to sex. I get the feeling I'm having more not trying to get it than some people who pursue sex relentlessly.

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