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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

He's being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"He's being a dick. "

He is indeed. He needs to get over himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "
its about the person if he likes/loves her then he should enjoy her for all her faults

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Or, tell her to have some self respect, do what she wants with her body and its natural fat composition, and lose the dead weight (him).

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Have you told him he's being a dick? If he's not happy with her shape, and if it's very important to him, he should leave her for both their sakes.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Certified dick.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

There's nothing you can do about your basic shape, as far as I know.

Sounds like the lady is pear shaped, in which case she will always be "bottom heavy".

I would be questioning how much your friend genuinely cares about the lady he is with.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah. Tell her to leave him. That should shed quite a few stone.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

Okay, he isnt a dick, he is a class A cunt!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

My advice is that she can do better than him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

Takes time to get into shape. If shes already doing everything she can then he'll just have to sit and wait.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's nothing you can do about your basic shape, as far as I know.

Sounds like the lady is pear shaped, in which case she will always be "bottom heavy".

I would be questioning how much your friend genuinely cares about the lady he is with."

Yup. I was bottom heavy as a size 8, a size 24, and everything in between. Anyone who can't accept the way genetics has shaped my body can go fuck themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told him he's being a dick? If he's not happy with her shape, and if it's very important to him, he should leave her for both their sakes. "

I did say dont be a dick. I will just back it up again haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a fault though, it's how her boy is and he should love it... Or leave it.

You don't start a relationship based on how someone might look if only they'd change. You take on that person as they are. All sounds very controlling to me.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"There's nothing you can do about your basic shape, as far as I know.

Sounds like the lady is pear shaped, in which case she will always be "bottom heavy".

I would be questioning how much your friend genuinely cares about the lady he is with.

Yup. I was bottom heavy as a size 8, a size 24, and everything in between. Anyone who can't accept the way genetics has shaped my body can go fuck themselves. "

Looks like you’re never going to get with his mate

Are you sure you’re ok with that?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's nothing you can do about your basic shape, as far as I know.

Sounds like the lady is pear shaped, in which case she will always be "bottom heavy".

I would be questioning how much your friend genuinely cares about the lady he is with.

Yup. I was bottom heavy as a size 8, a size 24, and everything in between. Anyone who can't accept the way genetics has shaped my body can go fuck themselves.

Looks like you’re never going to get with his mate

Are you sure you’re ok with that?"

I'll have to cry myself to sleep at night and curse these hips that don't lie.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

to be honest he is being a dick, beauty is in the eye of the beholder but beauty is below the skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick. Hate that type of man with a passion.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Yeah. Tell her to leave him. That should shed quite a few stone. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "
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He's not in a happy relationship and neither is she.

Talking like this about her to you is so disrespectful. The advice I recommend you give him is to consider whether he will ever be happy with this woman as she actually is and if the answer is no to move on. Getting into a relationship on the basis that one partner changes is never a good idea. You either love them as they are or you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he ain't attracted to her leave her that's what I'd say mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope she dumps him as soon as she realises what a shallow guy he is!!

And when she's done that,I hope she has lots of nawty fun with real men that deserve and appreciate her!!!!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"There's nothing you can do about your basic shape, as far as I know.

Sounds like the lady is pear shaped, in which case she will always be "bottom heavy".

I would be questioning how much your friend genuinely cares about the lady he is with.

Yup. I was bottom heavy as a size 8, a size 24, and everything in between. Anyone who can't accept the way genetics has shaped my body can go fuck themselves.

Looks like you’re never going to get with his mate

Are you sure you’re ok with that?

I'll have to cry myself to sleep at night and curse these hips that don't lie. "

You’re so brave

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

What a total prick he sounds. Hope she dumps him.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) ,

He's not in a happy relationship and neither is she.

Talking like this about her to you is so disrespectful. The advice I recommend you give him is to consider whether he will ever be happy with this woman as she actually is and if the answer is no to move on. Getting into a relationship on the basis that one partner changes is never a good idea. You either love them as they are or you don't."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she wants to lose weight she could always put his idiot ass in the bin.

What a dildo.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "
well if it’s a happy relationship why get involved sometimes people should keep there nose out and concentrate on there own life’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno how he's being a dick if he isn't attracted to her because of her size ? this is coming from the pickiest woman on the internet lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno how he's being a dick if he isn't attracted to her because of her size ? this is coming from the pickiest woman on the internet lads "

Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

Thats a happy relationship?

Really?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Hes only as much a dick as the next average person.

Most relationships start out not on what a person really is, but on who they tell us they want to be.

They put on makeup, their best suit, they take us to a place they generally never eat, and they tell us the best case scenario that they expect from their life.

They try and show you that for a while, you get married and then you figure out that the best case scenario is more of a pipe dream and they are more of a sit on the sofa all day playing computer game type of person.

People have dating all fucked up, They look for sparks like sparks are a sign that its true love, but sparks are the easiest thing in the world to fake.

Anyway hes just realising that she is not for him and you should tell him not to mess her about any more and move onto the next girl. Cause there will be a girl out there with the right body for him, who will like him and him wanting to find her is pretty much as normal as the average person can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes only as much a dick as the next average person.

Most relationships start out not on what a person really is, but on who they tell us they want to be.

They put on makeup, their best suit, they take us to a place they generally never eat, and they tell us the best case scenario that they expect from their life.

They try and show you that for a while, you get married and then you figure out that the best case scenario is more of a pipe dream and they are more of a sit on the sofa all day playing computer game type of person.

People have dating all fucked up, They look for sparks like sparks are a sign that its true love, but sparks are the easiest thing in the world to fake.

Anyway hes just realising that she is not for him and you should tell him not to mess her about any more and move onto the next girl. Cause there will be a girl out there with the right body for him, who will like him and him wanting to find her is pretty much as normal as the average person can be."

Exactly it's always all lovey dovey at the beginning of relationships when you both make 100% effort, it's when you get to know what people are like day to day whether you know if you want to spend the rest of your life with them .

Why you should never rush into relationships

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hes only as much a dick as the next average person.

Most relationships start out not on what a person really is, but on who they tell us they want to be.

They put on makeup, their best suit, they take us to a place they generally never eat, and they tell us the best case scenario that they expect from their life.

They try and show you that for a while, you get married and then you figure out that the best case scenario is more of a pipe dream and they are more of a sit on the sofa all day playing computer game type of person.

People have dating all fucked up, They look for sparks like sparks are a sign that its true love, but sparks are the easiest thing in the world to fake.

Anyway hes just realising that she is not for him and you should tell him not to mess her about any more and move onto the next girl. Cause there will be a girl out there with the right body for him, who will like him and him wanting to find her is pretty much as normal as the average person can be."

You make some very good points there. I suppose there is an element here of her saying she wanted to be something she wasn't at the time. I suppose the question is how much we're prepared to compromise on our ideal if the person initially presented to us turns out not to be quite that person.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

to be honest I hope she dumps his ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's hoping she doesn't have his kids coz her body will change massively and that alone can be something to send a woman into a confidence crisis. Having him not find her attractive or "good enough" after that would crush her after she had given him the biggest gift a woman can give a man

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By *forfun500Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Clearly wants a trophy piece if he loves her he should lovd her for who she is when I got with my mrs she was a size 10 curves in all thr right places but now shes not but I still love every inch of her.

Yer hes s fucking dick bet hes got flaws but fkng admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. She is definitely carrying a lot of useless fat. Him. Tell him this. He needs to grow up or he will be a lonely old man wanking over 'perfect'women.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"What a dick."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hes a pure dick ..... Barbie is in the toy section, she is better without him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a dick. I wouldn't want him as a friend and feel sorry for the poor woman he is seeing. No one should get together with someone because they want to mould them in to something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I wonder how this thread would have gone if the sexes were reversed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone? "

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?

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By *omfilthMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Get her on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone? "

Having a relationship with someone you arent attracted to, isnt a bit dickish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this thread would have gone if the sexes were reversed?

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Exactly

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?"

Plus whining to your mates about how your girlfriend isn't fit enough for you is dickish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't he asking people for advice if about he should finish it or not don't need to abuse him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about offering advice. Soon enough she'll wise up and dump the dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?

Plus whining to your mates about how your girlfriend isn't fit enough for you is dickish. "

Suppose but we've all slagged off our partners to mates at some point in our lives

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"I wonder how this thread would have gone if the sexes were reversed?

Exactly"

If a female friend of mine said the same type of thing, I would tell her straight that she’s acting like a dick!

Not likely though because none of my friends (male or female) would be so shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sounds fit to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this thread would have gone if the sexes were reversed?

Exactly

If a female friend of mine said the same type of thing, I would tell her straight that she’s acting like a dick!

Not likely though because none of my friends (male or female) would be so shallow "

Maybe but I feel like there would be alot more sympathy for the op that shown on here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I wonder how this thread would have gone if the sexes were reversed?

Exactly

If a female friend of mine said the same type of thing, I would tell her straight that she’s acting like a dick!

Not likely though because none of my friends (male or female) would be so shallow

Maybe but I feel like there would be alot more sympathy for the op that shown on here "

It's not the op though it's his mate..... Oh wait a minute

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

What does he want her to look like? A size 10 with an hourglass figure - what’s not to like?

If she lost whatever weight he thinks she should lose and then left him he’d be the sorry one. He should be happy with her and compliment her. Best way to lose someone is to keep having a go at their body shape.

He wants the trophy partner not a girlfriend. She should lose home and find someone that loves her for who she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when they got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape"

I think a lot of people saw red when they got past this point. If they read it again they'll see that his pals interest to the girl was because she was keen on getting into shape. Add to the point he said his friend is in shape. I don't think she liked his pal for his award winning personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?

Plus whining to your mates about how your girlfriend isn't fit enough for you is dickish.

Suppose but we've all slagged off our partners to mates at some point in our lives"

Maybe you have. I haven't. I'm not that disloyal or classless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?

Plus whining to your mates about how your girlfriend isn't fit enough for you is dickish.

Suppose but we've all slagged off our partners to mates at some point in our lives

Maybe you have. I haven't. I'm not that disloyal or classless. "

you just get kicks out of abusing people instead such a classy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when they got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape

I think a lot of people saw red when they got past this point. If they read it again they'll see that his pals interest to the girl was because she was keen on getting into shape. Add to the point he said his friend is in shape. I don't think she liked his pal for his award winning personality.

"

Very astute. I must admit I didn't appreciate that when I first read the post. If he was insisting on it then the comments here would be valid but he's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?

Plus whining to your mates about how your girlfriend isn't fit enough for you is dickish.

Suppose but we've all slagged off our partners to mates at some point in our lives

Maybe you have. I haven't. I'm not that disloyal or classless.

you just get kicks out of abusing people instead such a classy lady "

I don't think I abuse anybody and nor does anyone except you. I'd certainly not liked to be talked about the way you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Because He's in a relationship with her. Why be in it if he doesnt like her?

Plus whining to your mates about how your girlfriend isn't fit enough for you is dickish.

Suppose but we've all slagged off our partners to mates at some point in our lives

Maybe you have. I haven't. I'm not that disloyal or classless.

you just get kicks out of abusing people instead such a classy lady

I don't think I abuse anybody and nor does anyone except you. I'd certainly not liked to be talked about the way you are. "

Keep thinking that sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He just wants arm candy rather than a girlfriend. Tell him to finish with her so she isn't stuck with a dick who she obviously will never be good enough for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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you just get kicks out of abusing people instead such a classy lady

I don't think I abuse anybody and nor does anyone except you. I'd certainly not liked to be talked about the way you are.

Keep thinking that sweetheart "

Thinking isn't what you're famous for is it, pumpkin I hope you get another partner to run down to your friends. I'm about to spend Christmas making mine feel like a king and satisfying his every desire hope you have fun

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

None. Why do you need to give him any advice?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Dunno how he's being a dick if he isn't attracted to her because of her size ? this is coming from the pickiest woman on the internet lads "

You need to read the op again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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you just get kicks out of abusing people instead such a classy lady

I don't think I abuse anybody and nor does anyone except you. I'd certainly not liked to be talked about the way you are.

Keep thinking that sweetheart

Thinking isn't what you're famous for is it, pumpkin I hope you get another partner to run down to your friends. I'm about to spend Christmas making mine feel like a king and satisfying his every desire hope you have fun "

I'm telling you to think not me . I'll be surprised if I'm the only one to ever slag my partner off so be careful what you say about the majority of people lol. Poor guy

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By *appycouple300Couple
over a year ago

North Dorset

What a tool

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"

you just get kicks out of abusing people instead such a classy lady

I don't think I abuse anybody and nor does anyone except you. I'd certainly not liked to be talked about the way you are.

Keep thinking that sweetheart

Thinking isn't what you're famous for is it, pumpkin I hope you get another partner to run down to your friends. I'm about to spend Christmas making mine feel like a king and satisfying his every desire hope you have fun

I'm telling you to think not me . I'll be surprised if I'm the only one to ever slag my partner off so be careful what you say about the majority of people lol. Poor guy "

You could cut the sexual tension here with a knife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye tell her to leave him

What a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope he knows you're on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope he knows you're on here too "

Of course he does. He's the one that brought me here in the first place. I haven't noticed anyone else saying they regularly slag off their partners but your grip on reality is a bit slender so I'll make allowances for you

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Squats and some running will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope he knows you're on here too

Of course he does. He's the one that brought me here in the first place. I haven't noticed anyone else saying they regularly slag off their partners but your grip on reality is a bit slender so I'll make allowances for you "

Your partner said go on fab so you can shag random blokes????? Wow. I hope your not constantly negative with him like you are on the forums Jesus

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Or, tell her to have some self respect, do what she wants with her body and its natural fat composition, and lose the dead weight (him). "

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

Tell him to build a bridge and get over it. He needs to assess himself first before judging her. If it's a case of health related issues maybe he should talk to her but it doesn't seem likely from your post.

Be a friend and tell him he's being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope he knows you're on here too

Of course he does. He's the one that brought me here in the first place. I haven't noticed anyone else saying they regularly slag off their partners but your grip on reality is a bit slender so I'll make allowances for you

Your partner said go on fab so you can shag random blokes????? Wow. I hope your not constantly negative with him like you are on the forums Jesus "

No. We play here together. If you're interested we've been together almost seven years. So are you going to run down my relationship because you don't have a partner of your own to run down? That's cool. I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope he knows you're on here too

Of course he does. He's the one that brought me here in the first place. I haven't noticed anyone else saying they regularly slag off their partners but your grip on reality is a bit slender so I'll make allowances for you

Your partner said go on fab so you can shag random blokes????? Wow. I hope your not constantly negative with him like you are on the forums Jesus

No. We play here together. If you're interested we've been together almost seven years. So are you going to run down my relationship because you don't have a partner of your own to run down? That's cool. I don't mind "

play together ok

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when they got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape

I think a lot of people saw red when they got past this point. If they read it again they'll see that his pals interest to the girl was because she was keen on getting into shape. Add to the point he said his friend is in shape. I don't think she liked his pal for his award winning personality.

"

So it's a superficial relationship built on him being fit and the girl with the potential to be fit...

Just tell them to end it if that's all that ties them together.

Next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope he knows you're on here too

Of course he does. He's the one that brought me here in the first place. I haven't noticed anyone else saying they regularly slag off their partners but your grip on reality is a bit slender so I'll make allowances for you

Your partner said go on fab so you can shag random blokes????? Wow. I hope your not constantly negative with him like you are on the forums Jesus

No. We play here together. If you're interested we've been together almost seven years. So are you going to run down my relationship because you don't have a partner of your own to run down? That's cool. I don't mind

play together ok "

That's right. We've had more than one couples profile here. We've crewed and done demonstrations at spanking parties. We've had lots of amazing adventures together. Maybe one day you'll find someone to explore with. Maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if she thinks he is totally perfect probably not...if you love someone it includes all their'imperfections'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope he knows you're on here too

Of course he does. He's the one that brought me here in the first place. I haven't noticed anyone else saying they regularly slag off their partners but your grip on reality is a bit slender so I'll make allowances for you

Your partner said go on fab so you can shag random blokes????? Wow. I hope your not constantly negative with him like you are on the forums Jesus

No. We play here together. If you're interested we've been together almost seven years. So are you going to run down my relationship because you don't have a partner of your own to run down? That's cool. I don't mind

play together ok

That's right. We've had more than one couples profile here. We've crewed and done demonstrations at spanking parties. We've had lots of amazing adventures together. Maybe one day you'll find someone to explore with. Maybe not. "

Maybe one day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn her upside down, problem solved

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone? "

Its more that he continues to be with her and is critizing her.

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over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Its more that he continues to be with her and is critizing her."

I thought he was just asking for advice

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Its more that he continues to be with her and is critizing her.

I thought he was just asking for advice "

You really really need to read the op again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can he be a dick for not being attracted to someone?

Its more that he continues to be with her and is critizing her.

I thought he was just asking for advice

You really really need to read the op again "

I gen have and still can't make heads or tails of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me what overrides everything else is the arena. If this was a serious, genuine query then wouldn't a training forum be a better place? I realise there are plenty of people here who know loads about training and fitness and some people have suggested things but the majority of the responses haven't. Context is all. Asking a bunch of strangers on a swinging site what your mate can do about the fact his gf doesn't have a perfect size 10 figure just sounds like the result of a visit from the bad idea bears. I just wouldn't do it because of the responses it was likely to elicit as well as worrying that people would question my motive.

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over a year ago


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when they got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape

I think a lot of people saw red when they got past this point. If they read it again they'll see that his pals interest to the girl was because she was keen on getting into shape. Add to the point he said his friend is in shape. I don't think she liked his pal for his award winning personality.

So it's a superficial relationship built on him being fit and the girl with the potential to be fit...

Just tell them to end it if that's all that ties them together.

Next"

Yep, thats it!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"My pals in a happy relationship but says when thy got together his interests were that she was keen on getting into shape. (Hes vein and likes the gym Ava glass size 10 figure) hes says shes doing everything right just a bit bottom heavy on the ass n legs. Av told him beauty is skin deep....but is there anything else you guys can advice (without being the hes a dick etc...) "

Ask him what he'll do when she gets pregnant and ends up double the size...

He's an immature twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a asshat. If he genuinely liked her it would be for her not for what shape she is I hope she dumps him for someone who loves her for how she is

This is coming from someone who is not body confident at all. Beast had a ex playmate who was throwing herself at him and he admitted she at one time would have been his perfect woman. She was the traditional pretty with a perfect figure, it really hit my insecurities hard. But he turned her down. He wants this big arsed jiggling belly dumpling....it took me a little to realise, he fell for me, the whole of me, including my jiggly belly, fat arse and my snores! That's the type of guy that is a real man and who knows what love is. Your friend is a shallow dick who wouldn't know real love If it hit him in the face

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