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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You spend ages reading a profile, devise a few sentences (with spell check) and genuine compliments together and click the Send button.

The Reply is : "lol" or "Hmm". Not even, "Not interested".

Please tell me I'm not the only victim of this?

Or Brains and art of conversing are in Cave man mode?

What are your annoying Replies to your First message?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Welcome to the world of fab - for guys.

It's hard word and you have to grow a thick skin, but there are some amazing lovely people who will be kind and respectful.

Some even send nice messages - honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only put it down to the vast number of messages which women get. I wouldn’t take it personally. I really wouldn’t.

There’s a decent number of women on here who will converse.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"You spend ages reading a profile, devise a few sentences (with spell check) and genuine compliments together and click the Send button.

The Reply is : "lol" or "Hmm". Not even, "Not interested".

Please tell me I'm not the only victim of this?

Or Brains and art of conversing are in Cave man mode?

What are your annoying Replies to your First message? "

Depends if you sent a joke in your message but that is weird reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send first messages. I prefer to send awful replies

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Quite often opening messages are single words or one liners. A small consolation, admittedly...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Quite often opening messages are single words or one liners. A small consolation, admittedly..."

Innit.

(Sorry - couldn't resist).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You spend ages reading a profile, devise a few sentences (with spell check) and genuine compliments together and click the Send button.

The Reply is : "lol" or "Hmm". Not even, "Not interested".

Please tell me I'm not the only victim of this?

Or Brains and art of conversing are in Cave man mode?

What are your annoying Replies to your First message? "

Thanks for this thread OP!

It must be frustrating for first message senders who read the profile and message accordingly but people who do this form a small part of the majority who send one liners, one worders or dont match the person they’re messaging.

Lots of men complain they dont get a reply maybe ‘lol’ and ‘hmmm’ are a way of getting around this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You spend ages reading a profile, devise a few sentences (with spell check) and genuine compliments together and click the Send button.

The Reply is : "lol" or "Hmm". Not even, "Not interested".

Please tell me I'm not the only victim of this?

Or Brains and art of conversing are in Cave man mode?

What are your annoying Replies to your First message?

Thanks for this thread OP!

It must be frustrating for first message senders who read the profile and message accordingly but people who do this form a small part of the majority who send one liners, one worders or dont match the person they’re messaging.

Lots of men complain they dont get a reply maybe ‘lol’ and ‘hmmm’ are a way of getting around this?

"

I get alot if boring replies on here mate. They're not interested

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's not just single men it happens to. We have it happen to us too. Don't let it bother you is our advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the world of fab - for guys.

It's hard word and you have to grow a thick skin, but there are some amazing lovely people who will be kind and respectful.

Some even send nice messages - honest."

Couldn't put it better CG.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

how is "not interested" dumb or annoying? Its honest and stoops people wasting each others time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how is "not interested" dumb or annoying? Its honest and stoops people wasting each others time."

I think he means that they pointlessly reply with crap instead of saying not interested or ignore it. I get the same and I'd definitely prefer a simple not interested or get ignored

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Welcome to Fabs OP....!

This is how it is here, you often have to work at it, with no guarantee of even a reply, and certainly no guarantee of any action!

Of course, anyone good looking and/or with a big cock will tend to do ok, but for the rest of the single men on here it's a numbers game. There's tens of thousands of us, and mere hundreds of single females in relative terms, so they can afford to be picky.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"how is "not interested" dumb or annoying? Its honest and stoops people wasting each others time."

The OP didn’t say those words were dumb, he would rather that than the ‘lol’ or ‘hmmm’ he gets

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"how is "not interested" dumb or annoying? Its honest and stoops people wasting each others time.

The OP didn’t say those words were dumb, he would rather that than the ‘lol’ or ‘hmmm’ he gets

"

Hmmmm. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t send first messages but we do get a lot of lazy hi ,how are you ,what you up to messages and we filtre these out by me (tony) answering all messages and Carol just replying to the ones she wants to answer.

We do this because I have time and don’t mind wasting it on time wasters but Carol is on here for a reason and that reason is to find a playmate or mates and not to chat to one line hero’s.

It’s no surprise that so many men get no where sexually on here.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how is "not interested" dumb or annoying? Its honest and stoops people wasting each others time.

The OP didn’t say those words were dumb, he would rather that than the ‘lol’ or ‘hmmm’ he gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fabs OP....!

This is how it is here, you often have to work at it, with no guarantee of even a reply, and certainly no guarantee of any action!

Of course, anyone good looking and/or with a big cock will tend to do ok, but for the rest of the single men on here it's a numbers game. There's tens of thousands of us, and mere hundreds of single females in relative terms, so they can afford to be picky.

"

Fair enough but No Thanks would be nice.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

“Do you have kik” ....first message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“Do you have kik” ....first message"

"you would look nice on my dick" is another first message to piss someone off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks" - I'm guessing you are just being polite and replying but "thanks, but no thanks" or no reply would be better

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

It’s hard for guys on here just take it on the chin really it happens to us all just accept it and move on from it

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

I use it as filter....

If lol is the only response someone can come up with, I'm not interested in wasting my time meeting them

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Welcome to Fabs OP....!

This is how it is here, you often have to work at it, with no guarantee of even a reply, and certainly no guarantee of any action!

Of course, anyone good looking and/or with a big cock will tend to do ok, but for the rest of the single men on here it's a numbers game. There's tens of thousands of us, and mere hundreds of single females in relative terms, so they can afford to be picky.

Fair enough but No Thanks would be nice. "

It'd be great, but it's rare.

Best just to learn to accept that no reply means no, and move on.

A thick skin and an ability to take rejection well will go a long way on here.

So will being a nice, pleasant guy, chatting in the forums, going to clubs and socials, and generally getting yourself known.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers. "

Hard to get a fuck?

Maybe try adult works? *shrug shoulders*

Obviously though you would have to pay for the fuck then...

Maybe the LOL or hmmmm... replies might be in response to your initial message being something that warranted that response? Just hazarding a guess here OP.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Welcome to Fabs OP....!

This is how it is here, you often have to work at it, with no guarantee of even a reply, and certainly no guarantee of any action!

Of course, anyone good looking and/or with a big cock will tend to do ok, but for the rest of the single men on here it's a numbers game. There's tens of thousands of us, and mere hundreds of single females in relative terms, so they can afford to be picky.

Fair enough but No Thanks would be nice.

It'd be great, but it's rare.

Best just to learn to accept that no reply means no, and move on.

A thick skin and an ability to take rejection well will go a long way on here.

So will being a nice, pleasant guy, chatting in the forums, going to clubs and socials, and generally getting yourself known. "

Agree with all this. Lol or hmm is actually an achievement and should be taken as encouragement. Most guys will not get any sort of reply, simply have their messages deleted unread.

If you're getting any form of reply, you really have potential as someone women like the look of. As has been said, her yourself known in other ways

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers.

Hard to get a fuck?

Maybe try adult works? *shrug shoulders*

Obviously though you would have to pay for the fuck then...

Maybe the LOL or hmmmm... replies might be in response to your initial message being something that warranted that response? Just hazarding a guess here OP.

"

I'm almost sure lol or hmm is ladies expressing interest but being way too bogged down with millions of messages to focus on a meaningful reply. It's a huge step up from no reply at all lol

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers. "

Yes, don't take it personally, but no, it's not "difficult to get a fuck", as you so eloquently put it, from this site. Actually, it's not hard at all to meet people, socially or for sex, if you put in some effort.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers.

Hard to get a fuck?

Maybe try adult works? *shrug shoulders*

Obviously though you would have to pay for the fuck then...

Maybe the LOL or hmmmm... replies might be in response to your initial message being something that warranted that response? Just hazarding a guess here OP.

"

Would you mind messaging me please? Wanted to ask you something...

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

“May I ask a question”? You just have!

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By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

My favourite thing at the moment is adding totally pointless or funny comments on to the cam pages... often in the middle of guys being on the verge of something big. Never rude about the persons on cam but you do find some incredible and bizarre comments...it’s good to have a hobby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“May I ask a question”? You just have!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers.

Hard to get a fuck?

Maybe try adult works? *shrug shoulders*

Obviously though you would have to pay for the fuck then...

Maybe the LOL or hmmmm... replies might be in response to your initial message being something that warranted that response? Just hazarding a guess here OP.

I'm almost sure lol or hmm is ladies expressing interest but being way too bogged down with millions of messages to focus on a meaningful reply. It's a huge step up from no reply at all lol"
.

Point noted.

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the contributions and advise.

I did get a second reply apologizing for her first dumb reply.

Conclusion is not to take it personal but hard to get a fuck from this site ??.

Cheers.

Hard to get a fuck?

Maybe try adult works? *shrug shoulders*

Obviously though you would have to pay for the fuck then...

Maybe the LOL or hmmmm... replies might be in response to your initial message being something that warranted that response? Just hazarding a guess here OP.

"
.

Yeah, what I want ain't there.

Fabs still better. At least u can strike up one or two free friends here.

That one. ADULT Network is purely business

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fabs OP....!

This is how it is here, you often have to work at it, with no guarantee of even a reply, and certainly no guarantee of any action!

Of course, anyone good looking and/or with a big cock will tend to do ok, but for the rest of the single men on here it's a numbers game. There's tens of thousands of us, and mere hundreds of single females in relative terms, so they can afford to be picky.

Fair enough but No Thanks would be nice.

It'd be great, but it's rare.

Best just to learn to accept that no reply means no, and move on.

A thick skin and an ability to take rejection well will go a long way on here.

So will being a nice, pleasant guy, chatting in the forums, going to clubs and socials, and generally getting yourself known. "

I have thick skin for rejection.

Not for "hmm" and "lol" only.

No matter how hot they look.

Puts you off their fine looks.

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