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Am I a swing snob??

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heck no got to stick with what works for you. Also for woman on here you have the time to get to make sure you like contacts. 9 hours is rushing it a tad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

Nah. You’re not snobby. You’re just top tottie in high demand. Go forth and conquer whoever you wish to do so my friend...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It's not you, lass. He's just a sad bloke hoping for a quick fuck, and you knocked him back.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Yr not snobby, there’s to many pricks on here

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Hey nowt wrong with being choosy/fussy.selective ....you can afford to be.... we are the same ....ignore the rude lads they are just desperados ..

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You aren't snobby in the slightest. You are a top notch girl.

You are too good for the idiots who fling abuse your way. Waaayyyy too good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a first time fabber expecting women to fall at his feet from the first dick pic he sends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Christmas spirit it's only fair to do a few good deeds by shagging the hopeless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

Lets put it to the test...

How you doin

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

None . Your vagina isn't a charity. You can decide who gets access to it however you want!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You're not a swing snob. More like royalty i'd say

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

The 9 hours is irrelevant, he could have joined 5 minutes ago and be absolutely perfect.

What's important is that you found out his true type before you've met him and had a lucky escape.

You're gorgeous when he wants to get laid but vile when you politely turn him down, wtf is that all about

Another guy who thinks it's a fuck and go site full of easy women

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

No he's in the wrong here.

Not even related to here but I put a post on Facebook asking for advice on a local service, within a few minutes a weirdo highjacked the post with messages about getting naked and inboxed me with 'I want to love you'

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I've blocked newbies from messaging me. Prefer them to have taken the time to get a feel for the site before messaging me.

You have every right to meet who you like & politely decline.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

It's called having good taste, we are with you 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A swing snob?

Maybe... But given that everything is comparative, you'd probably feel pretty grimey about yourself if you didn't employ some fab armour...

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

You're not a snob at all. Your body, your choice lovely

We only meet in clubs. See so many horror stories on here about time wasters, weirdos etc just couldn't be bothered with the hassle

Michele x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

There’s nothing wrong with being choosy, it’s the main reason I’ve rarely played in clubs

There’s no excuse for abusive messages just because you state you’re not meeting either

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"None . Your vagina isn't a charity. You can decide who gets access to it however you want! "

Haha that's a great saying. Best on here so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are particular. Doesn't equal to being snob.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Personally I don’t allow messages from newbies. One of the reasons is that they have unrealistic expectations and think it’s just an instashag site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you are. You should have thrown yourself onto my penis years ago.......

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Your right to choose who and how you play. I personally block all newbies from messaging

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

The longer you are on here the more picky you get its just natural to gut wise to most of the b/s spouted.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!

Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

Tired of the bullshit is all.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!

Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks."

I wonder what Fab will be like over Christmas? Either totally dead or totally buzzing I guess..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

Stick with what works for you , snobby I don't think so , just selective and for very good reason

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!

Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks.

I wonder what Fab will be like over Christmas? Either totally dead or totally buzzing I guess.."

I wasn’t here last year so no idea what it’s normally like, but the increase in new profiles has a definite link to the lack of quality messages I’m getting.

Ho Ho Ho - block, delete, repeat

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

You don't have to justify your choices to anyone.

Delete block and then forget about the eejits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliquey as fuck that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys come on here thinking it's one giant fuckfest. Some think it's ok to be vile to women when they don't get their own way because 'it's only Fab' - like Fab is some kind of other planet. Just delete and block. You don't need this ignorance in your life. There are so many good parts to this lifestyle. Nobody is 'owed a fuck'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say that's snoby at all. You play with your rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible snob you are. You haven't met me either, so you must be. It's the only conceivable explanation

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Sick of people’s shite, I feel the same.

If only everyone was friendly and nice on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like you managed to find another total tosspot who knows nothing about swinging. Sadly some arsewipes do think that they have the right to demand anything of women.

he's probably gone unlos by now

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey, if a lumberjack. Two lovers and an ornithologist entered a wood (from different directions) how would they see it.

Suspect it it wouldn’t be the same.

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By *allyandJonCouple
over a year ago

manchester

As the saying goes "there's nothing so odd as folk". He is clearly a passive aggressive type, who probably has a strange existence. His resonse is like a child who has had his toys removed. We found people sometimes don't always get it. We have it plastered all over our profile we don't do meets and only play at clubs but people still message asking for meets. We ignore them now. We find clubs a safe environment to play as you can control any poor behaviour and avoid any dick heads.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Make you absolutely right can’t understand how if would worry you thou

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Haha I think I was on here at least a week before I had the bottle to actually send a message!

Christmas boredom has set in already for some folks.

I wonder what Fab will be like over Christmas? Either totally dead or totally buzzing I guess..

I wasn’t here last year so no idea what it’s normally like, but the increase in new profiles has a definite link to the lack of quality messages I’m getting.

Ho Ho Ho - block, delete, repeat

"

I was bored earlier & had a quick look at “New women” to find pages filled with no pic basic short profiles with the odd fake pic profile thrown in for good measure. Took more than three pages before I found a profile I believed might be genuine.

Feel quite sorry for genuine newbies really but they are all blocked by us.

No doubt they still get a zillion messages each though

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say your a snob... id go as far as saying alot of guys and girls on here think being on this site you/we can be used at the drop of a hat. My experience is many on here are much more picky who we sleep with than those in vanilla world. Ive had abuse this week of a woman i didnt want to sleep with, i told her i wasnt meeting but happy to chat and see where it goes... another added to my block list

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Dear dear how could you turn down such an offer.

He's put so much effort into his time on fab and he obviously has the charm to sweep any woman of their feet

All girls should be falling at his feet no matter who we are.

He must have emptied the thousands of messages from the women of fab to concentrate all his effort on attracting you.

(Opps just of now get my tongue out of my cheek lol)

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Cliquey as fuck that is "

I know. Gonna get it written on my forehead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you are a 'snob' it all about choice and wish and that is what swinging to me is all about. Fun, broadening your horizons, improving your sex life. Go forth and fuck who you like gow you like its your perogotive

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By *eletubbyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Ladies should be respected at all times, all you ladies should block this man immediately.

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By *winflamesCouple
over a year ago

Near Surbiton


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

Unfortunately it sounds as if you were in the receiving end of the entitled 'I'm on a swinging site and so deserve sex.

Was totally undeserved as you are completely in the right to chose who you do, and don't meet xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message from someone that had been on the site 9 hours. Asked to meet. I explained I’m not meeting at the moment and the abuse was VILE!

Now I find 1-2-1 meets boring. I’d rather spend my free time with my established connections in a club. I also wouldn’t really jump to meet a newbie from 9 hours ago as A) they obviously have no knowledge of swing etiquette speaking to people like THAT. B) they could be Unlos Tomorrow and I kinda see that as a waste of time and C) I’ve had folk I’ve chatted to YEARS I’d still like to arrange stuff with.

Can’t decide wether I’m cliquey, a snob or just sick of people’s shit!!!!!

And breathe, lass.

"

It’s your time/ body to do with as you please

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