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Sounds like bad night with the wrong couple..!
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 I’m sorry that’s happened to you, it’s not a normal thing to happen?! It’s a shame it’s put you off couples as we would both love to have fun with you x | |||
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"Please dont let this put you off we have had bad meets to but most couples are fine !" | |||
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"Last minute meet. Those 3 words are where it all went wrong. "  | |||
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"Last minute meet. Those 3 words are where it all went wrong. "When I say last minute, I mean 9 hrs. Which is pretty last minute for me | |||
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"Please dont let this put you off we have had bad meets to but most couples are fine !" | |||
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"Was the woman intimidated perhaps by u ? And it caused self doubt and that set it off ? Either way it’s not a reflection on u, it’s their issues " I'm not sure. She said I looked pretty than she expected from my pics. I thought it was just a compliment. Maybe not ... | |||
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"Please dont let this put you off we have had bad meets to but most couples are fine !" | |||
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"Please dont let this put you off we have had bad meets to but most couples are fine !" | |||
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"We agree they should be ashamed, if either felt of them felt jealous or uncomfortable they should have politely stopped the evening going any further. That kind of consideration should be given to anyone you meet couple, guy or girl (but the safety aspect for a single lady does make this situation even worse). The last thing anyone should want to do is cause hurt or upset, to anyone. I hope they have dropped off the site" Well they blocked me this morning
I asked both of them multiple times during the night if they were ok with everything. | |||
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"Oh honey, that sounds like a horrendous night I’m sorry that’s happened to you, it’s not a normal thing to happen?! It’s a shame it’s put you off couples as we would both love to have fun with you x"I agree with Janet hun, it’s a bad experience, we’ve all had them - generally when we’ve not chatted loads to a couple before the meet. Try not to let it put you off this crazy lifestyle...some of us are normal, promise  xx | |||
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"So I agreed to a last minute meet with two couples. Before I even got there one couple had bailed and had stopped responding to our messages. So we decide to have a bit of a night out, which went great apart from being shown pics of their kids every 10 mins and her calling her mum constantly. When we eventually made it back to the hotel, he seemed to get offended by us (FF) playing and stormed out. When he came back the shouting, screaming and swearing started, while I just sat there butt naked wondering if I would be able to get a taxi home at this time. ( I really should have a left at this point!) So everything calmed down and we were started playing together again. Now it was turn her turn to get offended/very jealous and storm out. Now she eventually came back there was more shouting, screaming and swearing. She went down to reception to get us kicked out of the hotel. By this point my clothes were back on and I was trying desperately to get a taxi home. He decided it would be a great idea to lock her out of the room. So she was trying to kick the door down. When I eventually managed to get a taxi, I heard the manager telling the security to kick everyone out of the room. This is why I'm taking a break from meeting couples. I can't be bothered with crazy jealous people, why arrange a meet if you're going to go mad when your partner starts playing with someone else. Worst meet ever!!" Just saw your status and had to nose what happened
This is the problem with fab, Literally anyone can join...including couples who act like kids.
Don't let this put you off, Theres plenty of sound people on fab.
If your worried about safety maybe just try first meets in a club? | |||
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"So I agreed to a last minute meet with two couples. Before I even got there one couple had bailed and had stopped responding to our messages. So we decide to have a bit of a night out, which went great apart from being shown pics of their kids every 10 mins and her calling her mum constantly. When we eventually made it back to the hotel, he seemed to get offended by us (FF) playing and stormed out. When he came back the shouting, screaming and swearing started, while I just sat there butt naked wondering if I would be able to get a taxi home at this time. ( I really should have a left at this point!) So everything calmed down and we were started playing together again. Now it was turn her turn to get offended/very jealous and storm out. Now she eventually came back there was more shouting, screaming and swearing. She went down to reception to get us kicked out of the hotel. By this point my clothes were back on and I was trying desperately to get a taxi home. He decided it would be a great idea to lock her out of the room. So she was trying to kick the door down. When I eventually managed to get a taxi, I heard the manager telling the security to kick everyone out of the room. This is why I'm taking a break from meeting couples. I can't be bothered with crazy jealous people, why arrange a meet if you're going to go mad when your partner starts playing with someone else. Worst meet ever!!" I would never meet after just 9 hours. I like to know who I am meeting. Been talking to someone here for years and never met him. We know each, have spoken and cammed off here. Get to know them first  | |||
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"This sounds absolutely horrific OP!! At least you got out of there in one piece" Hardly think horrific is correct. A couple kicked off so she left early, unharmed and now has a 'worst meet' story to tell. | |||
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"Wonder how supportive and empathetic the comments would have been if a guy had posted details of a meet off here?! Really sorry you had a bad encounter but at least no one was hurt or assaulted etc. You managed to get away fairly easily. " Why does it matter that OP is female? The couple in question behaved appallingly either way... | |||
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"Wonder how supportive and empathetic the comments would have been if a guy had posted details of a meet off here?! Really sorry you had a bad encounter but at least no one was hurt or assaulted etc. You managed to get away fairly easily. Why does it matter that OP is female? The couple in question behaved appallingly either way..." Because if a male posted this he'd have been ripped a new one for complaining. He'd have been told to be grateful he had a meet in the first place. He'd have been lambasted for posting details if a meet with a couple off here without giving them the opportunity to out their side across. The double standards on here for single men and women are blatant. Stick around and you'll see. | |||
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"Last minute meet. Those 3 words are where it all went wrong.
When I say last minute, I mean 9 hrs. Which is pretty last minute for me
"I'm due to meet a couple for a first meet in 2 weeks, booked a week ago and it's only a social lol. To me 9 hours is very last minute. Having said that I do sympathise, sorry to hear you bad such a shit experience! | |||
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"Wonder how supportive and empathetic the comments would have been if a guy had posted details of a meet off here?! Really sorry you had a bad encounter but at least no one was hurt or assaulted etc. You managed to get away fairly easily. Why does it matter that OP is female? The couple in question behaved appallingly either way... Because if a male posted this he'd have been ripped a new one for complaining. He'd have been told to be grateful he had a meet in the first place. He'd have been lambasted for posting details if a meet with a couple off here without giving them the opportunity to out their side across. The double standards on here for single men and women are blatant. Stick around and you'll see. " I get that is the overall picture here however still think the couple are in the wrong rather than OP. As you say there are 2 sides... | |||
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"Wonder how supportive and empathetic the comments would have been if a guy had posted details of a meet off here?! Really sorry you had a bad encounter but at least no one was hurt or assaulted etc. You managed to get away fairly easily. Why does it matter that OP is female? The couple in question behaved appallingly either way... Because if a male posted this he'd have been ripped a new one for complaining. He'd have been told to be grateful he had a meet in the first place. He'd have been lambasted for posting details if a meet with a couple off here without giving them the opportunity to out their side across. The double standards on here for single men and women are blatant. Stick around and you'll see. " I think it's because there's a vulnerability that women have going in to a meet that isn't there as much with a man. So we naturally sympathise with their situation whereas we feel a man can look after himself so we aren't as sensitive to a shit experience he may have had. I know OP wasn't necessarily in any danger but its just our perspective from afar | |||
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"Wonder how supportive and empathetic the comments would have been if a guy had posted details of a meet off here?! Really sorry you had a bad encounter but at least no one was hurt or assaulted etc. You managed to get away fairly easily. Why does it matter that OP is female? The couple in question behaved appallingly either way... Because if a male posted this he'd have been ripped a new one for complaining. He'd have been told to be grateful he had a meet in the first place. He'd have been lambasted for posting details if a meet with a couple off here without giving them the opportunity to out their side across. The double standards on here for single men and women are blatant. Stick around and you'll see. I get that is the overall picture here however still think the couple are in the wrong rather than OP. As you say there are 2 sides..." Oh I've no doubt the couple were in the wrong. I was just pointing out that it wouldn't have gotten to this many supportive replies if a guy would have posted. Not just for the situation but for the fact that they are posting about other site users. It's a bit of a no no. | |||
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"So I agreed to a last minute meet with two couples. Before I even got there one couple had bailed and had stopped responding to our messages. So we decide to have a bit of a night out, which went great apart from being shown pics of their kids every 10 mins and her calling her mum constantly. When we eventually made it back to the hotel, he seemed to get offended by us (FF) playing and stormed out. When he came back the shouting, screaming and swearing started, while I just sat there butt naked wondering if I would be able to get a taxi home at this time. ( I really should have a left at this point!) So everything calmed down and we were started playing together again. Now it was turn her turn to get offended/very jealous and storm out. Now she eventually came back there was more shouting, screaming and swearing. She went down to reception to get us kicked out of the hotel. By this point my clothes were back on and I was trying desperately to get a taxi home. He decided it would be a great idea to lock her out of the room. So she was trying to kick the door down. When I eventually managed to get a taxi, I heard the manager telling the security to kick everyone out of the room. This is why I'm taking a break from meeting couples. I can't be bothered with crazy jealous people, why arrange a meet if you're going to go mad when your partner starts playing with someone else. Worst meet ever!!" Are you sure they weren’t high or d*unk? Or both? Sounds like a hassle and that’s not what you want in this lifestyle | |||
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"Like any good hearty scouser should have just head butted her " | |||
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"So I agreed to a last minute meet with two couples. Before I even got there one couple had bailed and had stopped responding to our messages. So we decide to have a bit of a night out, which went great apart from being shown pics of their kids every 10 mins and her calling her mum constantly. When we eventually made it back to the hotel, he seemed to get offended by us (FF) playing and stormed out. When he came back the shouting, screaming and swearing started, while I just sat there butt naked wondering if I would be able to get a taxi home at this time. ( I really should have a left at this point!) So everything calmed down and we were started playing together again. Now it was turn her turn to get offended/very jealous and storm out. Now she eventually came back there was more shouting, screaming and swearing. She went down to reception to get us kicked out of the hotel. By this point my clothes were back on and I was trying desperately to get a taxi home. He decided it would be a great idea to lock her out of the room. So she was trying to kick the door down. When I eventually managed to get a taxi, I heard the manager telling the security to kick everyone out of the room. This is why I'm taking a break from meeting couples. I can't be bothered with crazy jealous people, why arrange a meet if you're going to go mad when your partner starts playing with someone else. Worst meet ever!!" Sweet Jesus spicyearlgray, what a horrible night for you, showing photos of their kids and calling mum? Not exactly a good start to the evening then to be followed by shouting and swearing, that could`ve turned violent, God love you, well may all your future meets be nothing like that one Merry Christmas to you | |||
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"Last minute meet. Those 3 words are where it all went wrong. " Some of my best meets have been last minute..... | |||
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"Some people are just like that and probably would have behaved in the same way whether they were meeting or not. We don't do drama "Imagine the carnage in their home  | |||
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"Some people are just like that and probably would have behaved in the same way whether they were meeting or not. We don't do drama
Imagine the carnage in their home "They are probably quite church goers in vanilla life..... | |||
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